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"Great place, really freindly and chilled, as others have said play is only in the rest rooms, which makes it ideal as a place to relax without hassle, but if you want fun... you can find it! Lol We were there Sunday night... go try it! " It’s a very well run club. There’s nothing to stop friendly chat in the spa area but the rules do prevent unwanted male attention. Upstairs there are a selection of “rest” rooms where you can have private or public fun. We shall be heading back there this autumn for sure. | |||
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"I live about 5 mins from BGHS and enjoy it, great place to chill out, if you want to play you will find wiling participants! " Lucky you being so close! | |||
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"I live about 5 mins from BGHS and enjoy it, great place to chill out, if you want to play you will find wiling participants! Lucky you being so close! " It is a expensive temptation though | |||
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"Er...it's full of out of shape old dudes trudging around, doing loops, perving and hoping against hope. The venue is pretty nice, though. If it was full of hot couples, you could have an amazing time there. But really, it's not." That’s a pretty bleak view of it, or our experience at all! | |||
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"Er...it's full of out of shape old dudes trudging around, doing loops, perving and hoping against hope. The venue is pretty nice, though. If it was full of hot couples, you could have an amazing time there. But really, it's not." Haha thanks for the confidence boost lol | |||
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"Er...it's full of out of shape old dudes trudging around, doing loops, perving and hoping against hope. " I don't recall meeting you there  | |||
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"Er...it's full of out of shape old dudes trudging around, doing loops, perving and hoping against hope. I don't recall meeting you there " | |||
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"Er...it's full of out of shape old dudes trudging around, doing loops, perving and hoping against hope. The venue is pretty nice, though. If it was full of hot couples, you could have an amazing time there. But really, it's not. That’s a pretty bleak view of it, or our experience at all! " To be fair (and without wanting to sound patronising in any way), that might be his experience and you've been lucky or gone at different times, or simply look at it from a different point of view. I only say that because I've read vastly different reviews for clus I've been to on many occasions. Some resonate with me and at least pretty much articulate how I feel about the place, others make me wonder if it's the same venue being described. | |||
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"Er...it's full of out of shape old dudes trudging around, doing loops, perving and hoping against hope. The venue is pretty nice, though. If it was full of hot couples, you could have an amazing time there. But really, it's not. That’s a pretty bleak view of it, or our experience at all! To be fair (and without wanting to sound patronising in any way), that might be his experience and you've been lucky or gone at different times, or simply look at it from a different point of view. I only say that because I've read vastly different reviews for clus I've been to on many occasions. Some resonate with me and at least pretty much articulate how I feel about the place, others make me wonder if it's the same venue being described." That’s a fair point. We have been half a dozen times on various days and always enjoyed ourselves. But as always, it’s easier as a couple. | |||
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"Is this a place for single guys? I’ve often thought of going I’m actually parked up 1 mile from it now, my fear is going to a empty spare and sitting in a towel for an hour ; ) I’m kinda spoilt because I’ve been to townhouse a few times " If you go there expecting instant sex you will probably be disappointed. If you there to enjoy the spa, maybe meet people, maybe leading to something more then you can enjoy yourself. | |||
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"Is this a place for single guys? I’ve often thought of going I’m actually parked up 1 mile from it now, my fear is going to a empty spare and sitting in a towel for an hour ; ) I’m kinda spoilt because I’ve been to townhouse a few times If you go there expecting instant sex you will probably be disappointed. If you there to enjoy the spa, maybe meet people, maybe leading to something more then you can enjoy yourself. " | |||
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"Is this a place for single guys? I’ve often thought of going I’m actually parked up 1 mile from it now, my fear is going to a empty spare and sitting in a towel for an hour ; ) I’m kinda spoilt because I’ve been to townhouse a few times If you go there expecting instant sex you will probably be disappointed. If you there to enjoy the spa, maybe meet people, maybe leading to something more then you can enjoy yourself. " Excellent advice and can be applied to several venues. Going there myself tomorrow. Really looking forward to it! | |||
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"We have been to BGHS a number of times when we go to Brighton for the weekend. Going next Sunday before we head home .It's a great way to chill out for the day and if we are in the mood later we can head up to the rest rooms ,great value for money as a couple as we are there from 12 till 10 at night .As people have said before treat it as a naturist spa and if it gets you in the mood for extra then pop up to the rest rooms and have some fun " Yes, not quite so good value for single guys who have to leave before six, but I can certainly understand the desire for a couples only period of time. | |||
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"We have been to BGHS a number of times when we go to Brighton for the weekend. Going next Sunday before we head home .It's a great way to chill out for the day and if we are in the mood later we can head up to the rest rooms ,great value for money as a couple as we are there from 12 till 10 at night .As people have said before treat it as a naturist spa and if it gets you in the mood for extra then pop up to the rest rooms and have some fun Yes, not quite so good value for single guys who have to leave before six, but I can certainly understand the desire for a couples only period of time." Yes understand that although isn't it only Saturday evening's when they have that rule ? | |||
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"We have been to BGHS a number of times when we go to Brighton for the weekend. Going next Sunday before we head home .It's a great way to chill out for the day and if we are in the mood later we can head up to the rest rooms ,great value for money as a couple as we are there from 12 till 10 at night .As people have said before treat it as a naturist spa and if it gets you in the mood for extra then pop up to the rest rooms and have some fun Yes, not quite so good value for single guys who have to leave before six, but I can certainly understand the desire for a couples only period of time. Yes understand that although isn't it only Saturday evening's when they have that rule ? " Yes just Sat evening. Unfortunately that's the most convenient day for me to go. Oh well. | |||
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"We have been to BGHS a number of times when we go to Brighton for the weekend. Going next Sunday before we head home .It's a great way to chill out for the day and if we are in the mood later we can head up to the rest rooms ,great value for money as a couple as we are there from 12 till 10 at night .As people have said before treat it as a naturist spa and if it gets you in the mood for extra then pop up to the rest rooms and have some fun Yes, not quite so good value for single guys who have to leave before six, but I can certainly understand the desire for a couples only period of time. Yes understand that although isn't it only Saturday evening's when they have that rule ? Yes just Sat evening. Unfortunately that's the most convenient day for me to go. Oh well." Yes that is a problem for single guys ,lot of money to pay for half a day ,shame we don't get chance to go more often really as always have a great time but then have a 2 and half hour drive home which is a struggle when you are relaxed lol | |||
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"We have been to BGHS a number of times when we go to Brighton for the weekend. Going next Sunday before we head home .It's a great way to chill out for the day and if we are in the mood later we can head up to the rest rooms ,great value for money as a couple as we are there from 12 till 10 at night .As people have said before treat it as a naturist spa and if it gets you in the mood for extra then pop up to the rest rooms and have some fun Yes, not quite so good value for single guys who have to leave before six, but I can certainly understand the desire for a couples only period of time. Yes understand that although isn't it only Saturday evening's when they have that rule ? Yes just Sat evening. Unfortunately that's the most convenient day for me to go. Oh well. Yes that is a problem for single guys ,lot of money to pay for half a day ,shame we don't get chance to go more often really as always have a great time but then have a 2 and half hour drive home which is a struggle when you are relaxed lol " Yes absolutely. I live in London, although came down by rail, so at least I can relax....after I relax | |||
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"We have been to BGHS a number of times when we go to Brighton for the weekend. Going next Sunday before we head home .It's a great way to chill out for the day and if we are in the mood later we can head up to the rest rooms ,great value for money as a couple as we are there from 12 till 10 at night .As people have said before treat it as a naturist spa and if it gets you in the mood for extra then pop up to the rest rooms and have some fun Yes, not quite so good value for single guys who have to leave before six, but I can certainly understand the desire for a couples only period of time. Yes understand that although isn't it only Saturday evening's when they have that rule ? Yes just Sat evening. Unfortunately that's the most convenient day for me to go. Oh well. Yes that is a problem for single guys ,lot of money to pay for half a day ,shame we don't get chance to go more often really as always have a great time but then have a 2 and half hour drive home which is a struggle when you are relaxed lol " Update/correction: the single male restriction applies to both Saturday AND Sunday. Pity, as I'd have to take a day off to go during the week. | |||
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"i have tried to go there some weeks ago. i phoned them to get more info about it but the receptionist told me that they don't do that kind of stuff. so please, tell me how i can get it. " What do you mean by "that kind of stuff"? | |||
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"i have tried to go there some weeks ago. i phoned them to get more info about it but the receptionist told me that they don't do that kind of stuff. so please, tell me how i can get it. " The staff turn a blind eye to what goes on in the rest rooms and strictly forbid playing outside the rest rooms. Not sure what questions you asked the receptionist but I get the feeling this place is not for you | |||
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"Are any days busier than others? Are we likely to find respectful older men (40+)?" yes the regulars do seem to like to swarm around newbies i noticed as expect first dibs on fresh meet | |||
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unfortunately (I know, I’m horrible to be driven by looks etc) I didnt feel attracted to any of them to play... so will try a different time.
But had a nice time in steam room and jacuzzi. | |||
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"Are any days busier than others? Are we likely to find respectful older men (40+)? yes the regulars do seem to like to swarm around newbies i noticed as expect first dibs on fresh meet" We’ve not noticed this behaviour and the club itself would frown upon it. In our experience the men are well behaved, polite and no nuisance at all. Even in the playrooms where you can do whatever you want we have found that the single men are respectful (even in the open playroom). | |||
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"Are any days busier than others? Are we likely to find respectful older men (40+)? yes the regulars do seem to like to swarm around newbies i noticed as expect first dibs on fresh meet We’ve not noticed this behaviour and the club itself would frown upon it. In our experience the men are well behaved, polite and no nuisance at all. Even in the playrooms where you can do whatever you want we have found that the single men are respectful (even in the open playroom)." I've been there a few times and not noticed that behaviour either, although I've only been in the weekend so maybe the week is different. Like you, I was actually quite pleased to see how generally respectful the behaviour was, even in the restrooms area as you say. | |||
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"I went a couple of weeks ago for the first time. Facilities are lovely and so is the staff. I went midweek right at opening time and it wasn’t busy at all. When I left at about 1.45pm I went into one of the steam rooms and all if a sudden I had 12 males all around me... unfortunately (I know, I’m horrible to be driven by looks etc) I didnt feel attracted to any of them to play... so will try a different time.
But had a nice time in steam room and jacuzzi. "Not horrible at all. Quite normal for there to need to be a level of attraction to do any playing. Despite single guys being as common as plankton (on here and at many clubs), I feel exactly the same way. | |||
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"I went a couple of weeks ago for the first time. Facilities are lovely and so is the staff. I went midweek right at opening time and it wasn’t busy at all. When I left at about 1.45pm I went into one of the steam rooms and all if a sudden I had 12 males all around me... unfortunately (I know, I’m horrible to be driven by looks etc) I didnt feel attracted to any of them to play... so will try a different time.
But had a nice time in steam room and jacuzzi.
Not horrible at all. Quite normal for there to need to be a level of attraction to do any playing. Despite single guys being as common as plankton (on here and at many clubs), I feel exactly the same way."As with all clubs there is an advantage in going as a couple because we enjoy our own company. Clare is not going to get hounded either like a single woman might. If we meet someone we like then we might have some fun but if we don’t then it’s no big deal either. | |||
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"I have been going to BGHS every few weeks for years. It's a clean, attractive, very well run place with a range of saunas and steam rooms, hot pools, a cold pool, and a jacuzzi. The staff, who to be frank are mostly a bit frosty, frown on what they call "amorous" behaviour outside the restroom section, which is a corridor flanked by small and large rest rooms, an open banquette area, and for the more exhibitionistic a mirrored stage. Whether or not sex goes on depends on who's there of course, but I've had many good experiences with men and women. Even if you don't pull you get a good spa session out of it." Yep what he said | |||
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"We're in Brighton Sunday and Monday and we're going to try BG for the first time Sunday afternoon. Need a bi lady, couple or respectful straight gent. " Would I be of interest. ..... | |||
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"We're in Brighton Sunday and Monday and we're going to try BG for the first time Sunday afternoon. Need a bi lady, couple or respectful straight gent. " It’s a great club you will love it! | |||
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"We're in Brighton Sunday and Monday and we're going to try BG for the first time Sunday afternoon. Need a bi lady, couple or respectful straight gent. It’s a great club you will love it! " Although it's not really a club as there's no membership 
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"We enjoyed the spa aspect, really clean and loads of different options sauna, steam, jacuzzi, hot baths etc, when we went it was scorching hot so we made use out of the sun deck.. fab !! We think it’s a spa in its own right, but with optional play rooms upstairs.. which we loved !! As for the clientele like someone mentioned, it’s like anywhere you in and around this scene it can be varied, so an open mind is required, go you will leave refreshed if anything but the strict rules will ensure you will be safe xx" The sun deck is the one part I haven't used yet. Every time I've been to BGHS it's been raining or cold outside, but it looks good. Love that place. So clean and such a variety of top quality facilities. | |||
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"We enjoyed the spa aspect, really clean and loads of different options sauna, steam, jacuzzi, hot baths etc, when we went it was scorching hot so we made use out of the sun deck.. fab !! We think it’s a spa in its own right, but with optional play rooms upstairs.. which we loved !! As for the clientele like someone mentioned, it’s like anywhere you in and around this scene it can be varied, so an open mind is required, go you will leave refreshed if anything but the strict rules will ensure you will be safe xx The sun deck is the one part I haven't used yet. Every time I've been to BGHS it's been raining or cold outside, but it looks good. Love that place. So clean and such a variety of top quality facilities." Yes still to use the sun deck! | |||
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"Thanks everyone for the posts. We went last night (Monday) not expecting too much or it to be busy but really enjoyed it so will be going back! X" It’s s great club! | |||
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" It’s s great club! " Isn't it just! I've been quite a bit over the last few months, I crave a good sauna in the cold weather | |||
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" It’s s great club! Isn't it just! I've been quite a bit over the last few months, I crave a good sauna in the cold weather "The facilities are good and it’s run well, great place to chill! | |||
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" It’s s great club! Isn't it just! I've been quite a bit over the last few months, I crave a good sauna in the cold weather
The facilities are good and it’s run well, great place to chill! "I haven't been there in two weeks and am starting to go through withdrawl symptoms!! | |||
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