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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you consider going to the closest club or one that’s not on your doorstep.

How many have been to their local club and met people they know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been jds 5 times

Never met or seen anyone I know

Come jaydees with me

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Does it matter if you meet people you know, it gives you something to talk about, and you never know what might transpire out of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would dread meeting people I knew

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By *inny999Woman
over a year ago

blackburn

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve never met anyone I know in any of the clubs I’ve visited, but I would find it interesting and I would at least say hello

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"Would you consider going to the closest club or one that’s not on your doorstep.

How many have been to their local club and met people they know?"

If people you know think the same you could just bump into them at a Club further away. I know that has happened with friends.

Does it matter? You are all there for the same reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We bumped into to others we know at clubs simply have a natter leave it at that,we are all consenting adults after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to both, honestly it’s not as daunting as you think x I’ve never meet anyone I know so be brave x lots of fun to be had when you get there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club, really want to, no idea on ettiqate though and what you do lol. Plus I'd be on my own so that's scary

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

Don’t go ondoorstep but by tofar either!

Always the chance of seeing someone you know

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I suppose being male it`s easier in a way. But don`t think by going miles out of you way that you will not see anyone you know! I got dragged along to Bi Night at Chams a few years ago and spotted another male who I`d had dealt with one a professional level previously (VERY vanilla!). He spotted me and you could see from his expression he thought he knew me whereas I knew in an instant who he was! We never spoke at the time but I have seen and spoken to him on more than one occasion since then, again in the same vanilla context.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"I suppose being male it`s easier in a way. But don`t think by going miles out of you way that you will not see anyone you know! I got dragged along to Bi Night at Chams a few years ago and spotted another male who I`d had dealt with one a professional level previously (VERY vanilla!). He spotted me and you could see from his expression he thought he knew me whereas I knew in an instant who he was! We never spoke at the time but I have seen and spoken to him on more than one occasion since then, again in the same vanilla context."

And this guy is about 15-20 miles away from me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you consider going to the closest club or one that’s not on your doorstep.

How many have been to their local club and met people they know?"

I go all over. Never worry about bumping into people I know as you can do that anywhere. Especially if every one has the same idea to not go local

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

Love finding people I know in here tho

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