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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would a single female going to a club stand out in wrong way?

Like Billy no mates.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Nope. We go to clubs and single women are highly coveted so you would find people very friendly towards you

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Would a single female going to a club stand out in wrong way?

Like Billy no mates.

"

It really depends what sort of person you are. If you are a sociable sort then you will fit in straight away. I've been to many clubs alone. Chose your club and night wisely, Think about what you want - couples, single men/fems. Days are quieter/less pressure. Ring them first or tell them on arrival you are by yourself and new to the scene. A good club will give you a tour and introduce to regulars. Allow yourself the luxury of leaving if you don't like it. Don't put pressure on yourself. Get there under your own steam and dont go with a random stranger (you will be innundated with requests cos if this post - they have their own motives and it will spoil the night).

Relax. Have fun and report back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would a single female going to a club stand out in wrong way?

Like Billy no mates.

"
noooooo you'd be a target

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By *ants_Nerdy_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Havant


"Would a single female going to a club stand out in wrong way?

Like Billy no mates.

It really depends what sort of person you are. If you are a sociable sort then you will fit in straight away. I've been to many clubs alone. Chose your club and night wisely, Think about what you want - couples, single men/fems. Days are quieter/less pressure. Ring them first or tell them on arrival you are by yourself and new to the scene. A good club will give you a tour and introduce to regulars. Allow yourself the luxury of leaving if you don't like it. Don't put pressure on yourself. Get there under your own steam and dont go with a random stranger (you will be innundated with requests cos if this post - they have their own motives and it will spoil the night).

Relax. Have fun and report back."

^^ all of this

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’ve been on my own ... and had a ball .... literally .... everyone is very friendly towards a single fem ... I can guarantee it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would a single female going to a club stand out in wrong way?

Like Billy no mates.

It really depends what sort of person you are. If you are a sociable sort then you will fit in straight away. I've been to many clubs alone. Chose your club and night wisely, Think about what you want - couples, single men/fems. Days are quieter/less pressure. Ring them first or tell them on arrival you are by yourself and new to the scene. A good club will give you a tour and introduce to regulars. Allow yourself the luxury of leaving if you don't like it. Don't put pressure on yourself. Get there under your own steam and dont go with a random stranger (you will be innundated with requests cos if this post - they have their own motives and it will spoil the night).

Relax. Have fun and report back."

All really good advice.

Just to add as a single female I would choose a couples & single labies night only to start with unless you specifically want single guys of course Xx

Lou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attending my first event as a single female

I'm hoping I won't stand out lol

Not in a bad way anyway

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Just be yourself and be relaxed that way youll enjoy your first experience everyone has these nerves to begin with but rules are in clubs for this reason to make sure u feel safe and have a good time hope u have a ball xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you’ll be welcomed. Clubs are social places too. Try the jacuzzi- always a good way to chat to other.

I’d recommend a all singles and couples night, rather then just single woman. I find them more social and enjoy the mix of people more.

Enjoy

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN

I go alone most of the time...always have a good night

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By *inglesCouple
over a year ago

Colchester

Most clubs are really friendly and I know most, including us, take the time to tour new members and introduce them to the regulars. No one really stands out in a club, it's very much the same as going to a normal bar or club, everyone mixes and _ingles together

We offer to walk all single ladies in from the car park or taxi outside so they feel more comfortable entering the club, we also walk them back at the end of the night. We will also check on them throughout the night to make sure they feel comfortable.

Clubs are a great safe environment for ladies.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Nope. We go to clubs and single women are highly coveted so you would find people very friendly towards you"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies, I somehow lost this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to meet a naughty lady xz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most clubs are really friendly and I know most, including us, take the time to tour new members and introduce them to the regulars. No one really stands out in a club, it's very much the same as going to a normal bar or club, everyone mixes and _ingles together

We offer to walk all single ladies in from the car park or taxi outside so they feel more comfortable entering the club, we also walk them back at the end of the night. We will also check on them throughout the night to make sure they feel comfortable.

Clubs are a great safe environment for ladies."

Hi

I am a member I think but never quiet plucked up the courage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too nervous xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm v fun loving and broadminded, happy to try most things, with the right person I'd go xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many things I want to try but I hold myself back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me to, inbox me if you like xz

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I've not been to a club before and would to BUT by myself i would be shitting myself LOL with a hard on before i got there

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I almost always go alone and love it. No compromising on who to play with! Everyone is very friendly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I've not been to a club before and would to BUT by myself i would be shitting myself LOL with a hard on before i got there "

Just be brave and go for it fella, you’ll never know otherwise! You’re quite likely to be underwhelmed once you get inside, the hype of these places far outweighs what many are actually like, and the likelihood is, you’ll go home wondering what you were worried about

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