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"We're totally new to all this and really want to attend VA, what's the best night to go? This will be our 1st visit. Thanks T x" Hope filth 500 sees this, we were thinking he same | |||
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"I second jaydees for beginners, as youbhave private rooms, couples only area everyone is so welcoming and especially to newbies! X " | |||
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"Hi guys, I’m Sugar and I work at the Vanilla Alternative I’ve just come across this thread and wanted every one to know we are so welcoming to all newcomers. So much so my boss has suggested that I should host a Newbie night. This will take place on Friday 28th September and everyone is welcome. I will be advertising properly very soon but will say if you haven’t dipped your toe yet or thinking about it please please get in touch, I would love to see you there....,. Sugar xxxx" Oh we’d be very interested in this sugar, last night was amazing!! | |||
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"Hi guys, I’m Sugar and I work at the Vanilla Alternative I’ve just come across this thread and wanted every one to know we are so welcoming to all newcomers. So much so my boss has suggested that I should host a Newbie night. This will take place on Friday 28th September and everyone is welcome. I will be advertising properly very soon but will say if you haven’t dipped your toe yet or thinking about it please please get in touch, I would love to see you there....,. Sugar xxxx" Can vouch for this. We went there as a newbie couple last month on a couples night. Sugar was very friendly and helpful. Great place for newbies, it’s so relaxed and no pressure from anyone. Great vibe and atmosphere. | |||
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"We're totally new to all this and really want to attend VA, what's the best night to go? This will be our 1st visit. Thanks T x" Hi . For a first visit try the couples night on a Saturday. On arrival make sure you share with the lovely lady on reception. Then you will get a full tour of all the areas simple rules etc. There’s a really large bar a little like the one in Cheers, this is a great place to get the vibe look around and catch people’s eyes and begin to chat. On one side is a dance floor and on the other is a snug with sofas, a bit like Friends! Slightly quieter here for better chatting! These are areas normally clothed and for the more nervous of us! However through the passageway takes you to the lockers and then to the hot tub! An amazing place to meet people in a more intimate way ! Around the hot tub and next door are various sizes and shapes of beds to relax and play on! For the more adventurous through the double doors is a room of serious toys , St Andrews cross etc! All in all a room for every level of experience and comfort so relax enjoy to your level ! | |||
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"Hi guys, I’m Sugar and I work at the Vanilla Alternative I’ve just come across this thread and wanted every one to know we are so welcoming to all newcomers. So much so my boss has suggested that I should host a Newcomer night. This will take place on Friday 28th September and everyone is welcome. I will be advertising properly very soon but will say if you haven’t dipped your toe yet or thinking about it please please get in touch, I would love to see you there....,. Sugar xxxx Oh we’d be very interested in this sugar, last night was amazing!! " That's amazing, I think a night like this has a place as lots of people all feeling the same way definitely helps. If I have newcomers in I always make sure they meet, it works well. I'll post a guest list tomorrow and confirm times and prices. Would love to have you there. Feel free to message me anytime X Sugar | |||
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"Does VA have a website? We got security warnings when we clicked on the one VA has in the clubs section. We'd like to go to one of the Wed milf events." Hi guys Yes it does and the milf event was so popular that we now do it every other Wed. It’s on this Wednesday and I’ll be there. Drop me a message if you can make it. It would be great to see you there xxx | |||
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"Hi guys, I’m Sugar and I work at the Vanilla Alternative I’ve just come across this thread and wanted every one to know we are so welcoming to all newcomers. So much so my boss has suggested that I should host a Newbie night. This will take place on Friday 28th September and everyone is welcome. I will be advertising properly very soon but will say if you haven’t dipped your toe yet or thinking about it please please get in touch, I would love to see you there....,. Sugar xxxx Can vouch for this. We went there as a newbie couple last month on a couples night. Sugar was very friendly and helpful. Great place for newbies, it’s so relaxed and no pressure from anyone. Great vibe and atmosphere." Wow thanks for that recommendation babe it means a lot. I am passionate about making peoples first tine one they will remember. That’s how it was for me. Xxxx | |||
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"We are newbies to VA and I was wondering what do people wear? We are going Friday (27/7)" We were at VA on Saturday and J wore a sexy little black dress with nice underwear and heals, I went in slim chinos, a short sleeve shirt and smart shoes. | |||
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"We are newbies to VA and I was wondering what do people wear? We are going Friday (27/7) We were at VA on Saturday and J wore a sexy little black dress with nice underwear and heals, I went in slim chinos, a short sleeve shirt and smart shoes. " Thank you. | |||
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"We are newbies to VA and I was wondering what do people wear? We are going Friday (27/7)" At VA's the dress code on entry is 'Dress to Impress'. No set rules but suggest something you are comfortable with. Some visitors bring a change of clothing to wear as the evening progresses. After we close the front door at 11pm, guests can come back into the bar and snug areas wearing just a towel, obviously sexy underwear, and sometimes, particularly on Saturday nights, nothing at all. The original dress code is purely optional from here on. For ladies the choice is anything from outright sexy and revealing to more classy and formal but the choice is yours. No one is judgemental. Guys, depending on time of year, wear shirt (and sometimes tie), trousers or when the weather is as hot as now, maybe designer shorts. Please avoid well worn jeans or sports clothing. When moving to the play areas, sexy underwear or a towel is fine (towels are in the lockers). Above all, feel comfortable in what you are wearing and maybe bring several options. We look forward to seeing you on Friday night. | |||
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"Ladies dress sexy.. check out the pics of us with clothes on. And guys shirt and chinos or trousers with shoes x " Thank you, I don’t have the figure to pull of them outfits but can feel a trip to Ann Summers coming on | |||
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"We're totally new to all this and really want to attend VA, what's the best night to go? This will be our 1st visit. Thanks T x" When I was going to VA with my ex last year we found that Saturdays tended to be busier, so it had a better vibe; however, if you want a single guy, you’ll need to go on a Friday. Staff are all lovely and will show you around on your first visit and put you at ease. Just try and relax and talk to people. If you aren’t smokers it would still be worth going outside in the fresh air where they congregate as conversation is usually flowing nicely. Just be honest with people that it’s your first visit and they’ll all make you feel at home and put your nerves at rest. VA is by far my favourite club and another great quality is that it is clean! Just go and enjoy yourselves. We’re here for a good time, not a long time! | |||
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"Can I ask as a single Male going for the first time when would be best for me to try and is there anything I should avoid, thanks in advance all. " Apart from August, when it's the VA's Festival of Fun, the first Friday of the month is Bi-Night and generally restricted to guys who are Bi. Other than that, any Friday night would be good. You need to register online via the club's website and then phone or e-mail the club in the week before the Friday you want to attend, to get on the guest list, as only 10 single guys are allowed. | |||
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"We are super excited for tomorrow. Does the club have air-con?" Yes it does but rarely gets used in the summer. See you tomorrow night. | |||
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"We are super excited for tomorrow. Does the club have air-con? Yes it does but rarely gets used in the summer. See you tomorrow night." Oh god I will melt lol | |||
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"Hi guys, I’m Sugar and I work at the Vanilla Alternative I’ve just come across this thread and wanted every one to know we are so welcoming to all newcomers. So much so my boss has suggested that I should host a Newbie night. This will take place on Friday 28th September and everyone is welcome. I will be advertising properly very soon but will say if you haven’t dipped your toe yet or thinking about it please please get in touch, I would love to see you there....,. Sugar xxxx" We will have to keep an eye out for this, haven't done a club yet and this sounds ideal for a first time | |||
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"Hi guys, I’m Sugar and I work at the Vanilla Alternative I’ve just come across this thread and wanted every one to know we are so welcoming to all newcomers. So much so my boss has suggested that I should host a Newbie night. This will take place on Friday 28th September and everyone is welcome. I will be advertising properly very soon but will say if you haven’t dipped your toe yet or thinking about it please please get in touch, I would love to see you there....,. Sugar xxxx We will have to keep an eye out for this, haven't done a club yet and this sounds ideal for a first time " You’ll love it x | |||
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"We are super excited for tomorrow. Does the club have air-con? Yes it does but rarely gets used in the summer. See you tomorrow night. Oh god I will melt lol" It wasn’t on last weekend, plenty of socialising going on outside in the “smoking” area though and once you strip off for the hot tub you won’t notice the warmth anyway | |||
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"We are super excited for tomorrow. Does the club have air-con? Yes it does but rarely gets used in the summer. See you tomorrow night. Oh god I will melt lol It wasn’t on last weekend, plenty of socialising going on outside in the “smoking” area though and once you strip off for the hot tub you won’t notice the warmth anyway " Thank you | |||
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"I am so glad that I have just found this post. We have just signed up to VA And are very excited to attend our first club meet. Unfortunately it won’t be until September " Hi guys Saw your post and not sure what night in September you are thinking. There are some great nights that month. Bi night and belamour party is the first weekend and chic is that month as well. I just wanted to let you know that I will be hosting the mix night on the 21st and a Newcomers night on the 28th I would love to welcome you on either of those nights. Xxx If not I will see you there as I’m behind the bar most Saturdays Hope to see you then Sugar | |||
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"Hi. I would love to attend 28th of September. Never been there. I will come as a single lady. Is there any list I have to register?" You have to register with the club on their website. Think you can then just turn up as a single female... but there might be the odd event where you need to let them know | |||
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"Hi. I would love to attend 28th of September. Never been there. I will come as a single lady. Is there any list I have to register? You have to register with the club on their website. Think you can then just turn up as a single female... but there might be the odd event where you need to let them know " Thank you. I just registered on their web | |||
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"Hi. I would love to attend 28th of September. Never been there. I will come as a single lady. Is there any list I have to register? You have to register with the club on their website. Think you can then just turn up as a single female... but there might be the odd event where you need to let them know Thank you. I just registered on their web " You will have a great time! Make sure you ask for a tour and a few intros to existing members! | |||
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"Hi. I would love to attend 28th of September. Never been there. I will come as a single lady. Is there any list I have to register? You have to register with the club on their website. Think you can then just turn up as a single female... but there might be the odd event where you need to let them know Thank you. I just registered on their web You will have a great time! Make sure you ask for a tour and a few intros to existing members! " Oh I will... I'm a bit shy... at first | |||
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"Hi. I would love to attend 28th of September. Never been there. I will come as a single lady. Is there any list I have to register? You have to register with the club on their website. Think you can then just turn up as a single female... but there might be the odd event where you need to let them know Thank you. I just registered on their web You will have a great time! Make sure you ask for a tour and a few intros to existing members! Oh I will... I'm a bit shy... at first " Never seen any shy people leave Vanilla Alternative ! Just really sated and smiley ?? I people ! Looking forward to Sept 28th | |||
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"Hi. I would love to attend 28th of September. Never been there. I will come as a single lady. Is there any list I have to register? You have to register with the club on their website. Think you can then just turn up as a single female... but there might be the odd event where you need to let them know Thank you. I just registered on their web You will have a great time! Make sure you ask for a tour and a few intros to existing members! Oh I will... I'm a bit shy... at first Never seen any shy people leave Vanilla Alternative ! Just really sated and smiley ?? I people ! Looking forward to Sept 28th " Lol...I like to smile. Just new place I never been but keen to explore Which hotel is good to book not too far from the club and they serve breakfast? | |||
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"Hi. I would love to attend 28th of September. Never been there. I will come as a single lady. Is there any list I have to register? You have to register with the club on their website. Think you can then just turn up as a single female... but there might be the odd event where you need to let them know Thank you. I just registered on their web You will have a great time! Make sure you ask for a tour and a few intros to existing members! Oh I will... I'm a bit shy... at first Never seen any shy people leave Vanilla Alternative ! Just really sated and smiley ?? I people ! Looking forward to Sept 28th Lol...I like to smile. Just new place I never been but keen to explore Which hotel is good to book not too far from the club and they serve breakfast? " The club have a few rooms but they often fill up,fast, there are also some travel lodge etc types, but the nearest to serve breakfast would be the one at Wyboston Lakes, not the closest but still ok by taxi. To avoid looks from taxi drivers the club has a preferred taxi firm that are used to the club and thus no judgey looks! Pop to the club site and the names of hotels and taxi firm are there, only fab doesn’t like those details in the forum! Lol | |||
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"Hi. I would love to attend 28th of September. Never been there. I will come as a single lady. Is there any list I have to register? You have to register with the club on their website. Think you can then just turn up as a single female... but there might be the odd event where you need to let them know Thank you. I just registered on their web You will have a great time! Make sure you ask for a tour and a few intros to existing members! Oh I will... I'm a bit shy... at first Never seen any shy people leave Vanilla Alternative ! Just really sated and smiley ?? I people ! Looking forward to Sept 28th Lol...I like to smile. Just new place I never been but keen to explore Which hotel is good to book not too far from the club and they serve breakfast? The club have a few rooms but they often fill up,fast, there are also some travel lodge etc types, but the nearest to serve breakfast would be the one at Wyboston Lakes, not the closest but still ok by taxi. To avoid looks from taxi drivers the club has a preferred taxi firm that are used to the club and thus no judgey looks! Pop to the club site and the names of hotels and taxi firm are there, only fab doesn’t like those details in the forum! Lol " Thank you very much.x | |||
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"Hi. I would love to attend 28th of September. Never been there. I will come as a single lady. Is there any list I have to register? You have to register with the club on their website. Think you can then just turn up as a single female... but there might be the odd event where you need to let them know Thank you. I just registered on their web You will have a great time! Make sure you ask for a tour and a few intros to existing members! Oh I will... I'm a bit shy... at first Never seen any shy people leave Vanilla Alternative ! Just really sated and smiley ?? I people ! Looking forward to Sept 28th Lol...I like to smile. Just new place I never been but keen to explore Which hotel is good to book not too far from the club and they serve breakfast? The club have a few rooms but they often fill up,fast, there are also some travel lodge etc types, but the nearest to serve breakfast would be the one at Wyboston Lakes, not the closest but still ok by taxi. To avoid looks from taxi drivers the club has a preferred taxi firm that are used to the club and thus no judgey looks! Pop to the club site and the names of hotels and taxi firm are there, only fab doesn’t like those details in the forum! Lol Thank you very much.x " Your more than welcome! Now the Festival has come and gone...next big date , for us anyway is the new members night September 28th! Pop it in your diaries! | |||
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"Hi. I would love to attend 28th of September. Never been there. I will come as a single lady. Is there any list I have to register? You have to register with the club on their website. Think you can then just turn up as a single female... but there might be the odd event where you need to let them know Thank you. I just registered on their web You will have a great time! Make sure you ask for a tour and a few intros to existing members! Oh I will... I'm a bit shy... at first Never seen any shy people leave Vanilla Alternative ! Just really sated and smiley ?? I people ! Looking forward to Sept 28th Lol...I like to smile. Just new place I never been but keen to explore Which hotel is good to book not too far from the club and they serve breakfast? The club have a few rooms but they often fill up,fast, there are also some travel lodge etc types, but the nearest to serve breakfast would be the one at Wyboston Lakes, not the closest but still ok by taxi. To avoid looks from taxi drivers the club has a preferred taxi firm that are used to the club and thus no judgey looks! Pop to the club site and the names of hotels and taxi firm are there, only fab doesn’t like those details in the forum! Lol Thank you very much.x Your more than welcome! Now the Festival has come and gone...next big date , for us anyway is the new members night September 28th! Pop it in your diaries! " Don’t forget Belle Amour on September 8th | |||
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"Hi. I would love to attend 28th of September. Never been there. I will come as a single lady. Is there any list I have to register? You have to register with the club on their website. Think you can then just turn up as a single female... but there might be the odd event where you need to let them know Thank you. I just registered on their web You will have a great time! Make sure you ask for a tour and a few intros to existing members! Oh I will... I'm a bit shy... at first Never seen any shy people leave Vanilla Alternative ! Just really sated and smiley ?? I people ! Looking forward to Sept 28th Lol...I like to smile. Just new place I never been but keen to explore Which hotel is good to book not too far from the club and they serve breakfast? The club have a few rooms but they often fill up,fast, there are also some travel lodge etc types, but the nearest to serve breakfast would be the one at Wyboston Lakes, not the closest but still ok by taxi. To avoid looks from taxi drivers the club has a preferred taxi firm that are used to the club and thus no judgey looks! Pop to the club site and the names of hotels and taxi firm are there, only fab doesn’t like those details in the forum! Lol Thank you very much.x Your more than welcome! Now the Festival has come and gone...next big date , for us anyway is the new members night September 28th! Pop it in your diaries! Don’t forget Belle Amour on September 8th " Wow now that was a night and a half lol So newcomers night next !!!!! | |||
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"We're totally new to all this and really want to attend VA, what's the best night to go? This will be our 1st visit. Thanks T x" How did you get on? | |||
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