FabSwingers.com forum: Question?? Licenced Bar Or Bring Your Own? Can Do Both At Minute But What Do You Want??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Question?? Licenced Bar Or Bring Your Own? We Can Do Both At Minute But What Do You Want?? We Need To Make A Decision Very Fast!! We do Listen Xx You Decided ??

We set the club up for you the swinging community Straight & Bi alike as real swingers ourselves not just for money!! Yes we have to pay the bills and eat and live but we want a place people can come without feeling we just want to fleece them.

In private we have been asked by many for bring your own so before we drop our lincence, what do you want at Club Sx?

Lou

& Paul

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the many PM all want the BYO (as they do not like paying on the bar) with the odd all inclusive parties. We did notice with BYO people do not drink as much some none at all. With this we feel as a club its more responsibly as we have a duty of care to make sure no-one gets too d*unk.

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By *zzy69Woman
over a year ago

The Lake District

Personally I like to stay sober when I play so I kind of feel penalised for being responsible when clubs don’t allow soft drinks to be brought in but do allow alcoholic ones.

One option would be to charge a corkage fee for alcoholic drinks brought in I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We do not allow soft drinks to be bought in all clubs and pubs have the same rule we have To make money somehow to pay for the club, bills staff, ect these are not free. By law you are allowed tap water for free and we do provide that. We do not charge a corkage fee like some clubs do and we are very fair on our pricing with free membership for all. Most guess do not drink at all. And on a Saturday night they get a free buffet which is high quality.

Louise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think byo is the better option as keeps it a reasonable night price wise for those who like to drink..but your all inclusive event was very popular too guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think byo is the better option as keeps it a reasonable night price wise for those who like to drink..but your all inclusive event was very popular too guys xxx

Yes we think the same too BYO and once a month we were thing getting a ten's to do the all inclusive. Or we can keep the licence and just do both so people can bring their own or buy at the bar up to them. Lou xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Club SX Update

After lots messages we have decide to go with bring your own at Club Sx Before we open our doors full time.

We will still have the ability to change back to a full bar in the future and still do our all inclusive parties but are going with what 99% of what people have ask for.

It also means we can have a simple membership form with NO photo ID need, again as asked for

So it bring you own with no photo ID need at Club Sx

Lou

& Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club SX Update

After lots messages we have decide to go with bring your own at Club Sx Before we open our doors full time.

We will still have the ability to change back to a full bar in the future and still do our all inclusive parties but are going with what 99% of what people have ask for.

It also means we can have a simple membership form with NO photo ID need, again as asked for

So it bring you own with no photo ID need at Club Sx

Lou

& Paul

Off on a tangent but do you screen porn in any rooms? If so would you not need to see ID to ensure visitors were over 18?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Club SX Update

After lots messages we have decide to go with bring your own at Club Sx Before we open our doors full time.

We will still have the ability to change back to a full bar in the future and still do our all inclusive parties but are going with what 99% of what people have ask for.

It also means we can have a simple membership form with NO photo ID need, again as asked for

So it bring you own with no photo ID need at Club Sx

Lou

& Paul

Off on a tangent but do you screen porn in any rooms? If so would you not need to see ID to ensure visitors were over 18?"

We are an over 21 years old club only!!

This is very simple to deal with if you are lucky to look under 25 we just ask to see ask to see ID like in a supermarket do!! simple

Lou

& Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club SX Update

After lots messages we have decide to go with bring your own at Club Sx Before we open our doors full time.

We will still have the ability to change back to a full bar in the future and still do our all inclusive parties but are going with what 99% of what people have ask for.

It also means we can have a simple membership form with NO photo ID need, again as asked for

So it bring you own with no photo ID need at Club Sx

Lou

& Paul

Off on a tangent but do you screen porn in any rooms? If so would you not need to see ID to ensure visitors were over 18?

We are an over 21 years old club only!!

This is very simple to deal with if you are lucky to look under 25 we just ask to see ask to see ID like in a supermarket do!! simple

Lou

& Paul

Then you do need to bring ID with you, just in case. Can see some people turning up and saying that it says we don’t need ID online.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Club SX Update

After lots messages we have decide to go with bring your own at Club Sx Before we open our doors full time.

We will still have the ability to change back to a full bar in the future and still do our all inclusive parties but are going with what 99% of what people have ask for.

It also means we can have a simple membership form with NO photo ID need, again as asked for

So it bring you own with no photo ID need at Club Sx

Lou

& Paul

Off on a tangent but do you screen porn in any rooms? If so would you not need to see ID to ensure visitors were over 18?

We are an over 21 years old club only!!

This is very simple to deal with if you are lucky to look under 25 we just ask to see ask to see ID like in a supermarket do!! simple

Lou

& Paul

Then you do need to bring ID with you, just in case. Can see some people turning up and saying that it says we don’t need ID online. "

Only need ID if you look under 25 is that clear enough?? & we are party invite only at the minute & not showing porn at momment!!

Look at most profiles on fab they are they over 25 years old especially in couples.

ID ONLY NEEDED IF YOU LOOK UNDER 25, CLEAR!!

We are a responsible club that makes sure everyones enters is over 21!

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Bring your own is much cheaper for costumers and no license required.But has some negative side . As I saw with my own eyes the lady behind the bar serving my Amsterdam vodka to someone else !

Even had my number I rather to be asked .But I am not drinking alcohol at the moment . I will have soft drinks or alcohol free cocktails . Good luck where is the location ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bring your own is much cheaper for costumers and no license required.But has some negative side . As I saw with my own eyes the lady behind the bar serving my Amsterdam vodka to someone else !

Even had my number I rather to be asked .But I am not drinking alcohol at the moment . I will have soft drinks or alcohol free cocktails . Good luck where is the location ? "

We are in Blackpool and have been mega busy on nights we have opened

Guest lists for next months events on the 7th,13th,14th looking amazing and building very fast

We have a system in place for bring your own linked to locker numbers and people have to be show there locker number to be served there own alcohol back to them

We also log all the drink our guest bring into the club to there locker so know exactly what people have brought it and log it out again when they leave.

This system works for us and cheaper for our guest and what nearly 100% of off swingers on fab asked us to do Xx so we listened and did it Xx

Lou

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Wow I would definitely visit one weekend ! Sounds fabulous ! Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club SX Update

After lots messages we have decide to go with bring your own at Club Sx Before we open our doors full time.

We will still have the ability to change back to a full bar in the future and still do our all inclusive parties but are going with what 99% of what people have ask for.

It also means we can have a simple membership form with NO photo ID need, again as asked for

So it bring you own with no photo ID need at Club Sx

Lou

& Paul

Off on a tangent but do you screen porn in any rooms? If so would you not need to see ID to ensure visitors were over 18?

We are an over 21 years old club only!!

This is very simple to deal with if you are lucky to look under 25 we just ask to see ask to see ID like in a supermarket do!! simple

Lou

& Paul

Then you do need to bring ID with you, just in case. Can see some people turning up and saying that it says we don’t need ID online.

Only need ID if you look under 25 is that clear enough?? & we are party invite only at the minute & not showing porn at momment!!

Look at most profiles on fab they are they over 25 years old especially in couples.

ID ONLY NEEDED IF YOU LOOK UNDER 25, CLEAR!!

We are a responsible club that makes sure everyones enters is over 21!"

Not having a go. Just knowing how some people are, there is bound to be someone who is pedantic enough to turn up without ID and then claim that it said they didn’t need it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Club SX Update

After lots messages we have decide to go with bring your own at Club Sx Before we open our doors full time.

We will still have the ability to change back to a full bar in the future and still do our all inclusive parties but are going with what 99% of what people have ask for.

It also means we can have a simple membership form with NO photo ID need, again as asked for

So it bring you own with no photo ID need at Club Sx

Lou

& Paul

Off on a tangent but do you screen porn in any rooms? If so would you not need to see ID to ensure visitors were over 18?

We are an over 21 years old club only!!

This is very simple to deal with if you are lucky to look under 25 we just ask to see ask to see ID like in a supermarket do!! simple

Lou

& Paul

Then you do need to bring ID with you, just in case. Can see some people turning up and saying that it says we don’t need ID online.

Only need ID if you look under 25 is that clear enough?? & we are party invite only at the minute & not showing porn at momment!!

Look at most profiles on fab they are they over 25 years old especially in couples.

ID ONLY NEEDED IF YOU LOOK UNDER 25, CLEAR!!

We are a responsible club that makes sure everyones enters is over 21!

Not having a go. Just knowing how some people are, there is bound to be someone who is pedantic enough to turn up without ID and then claim that it said they didn’t need it."

Then if look under 25 will not be let in Xxx

We have updated our website on the membership page with the same information so this does not happen but there is always one, like you say lol Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club SX Update

After lots messages we have decide to go with bring your own at Club Sx Before we open our doors full time.

We will still have the ability to change back to a full bar in the future and still do our all inclusive parties but are going with what 99% of what people have ask for.

It also means we can have a simple membership form with NO photo ID need, again as asked for

So it bring you own with no photo ID need at Club Sx

Lou

& Paul

Off on a tangent but do you screen porn in any rooms? If so would you not need to see ID to ensure visitors were over 18?

We are an over 21 years old club only!!

This is very simple to deal with if you are lucky to look under 25 we just ask to see ask to see ID like in a supermarket do!! simple

Lou

& Paul

Then you do need to bring ID with you, just in case. Can see some people turning up and saying that it says we don’t need ID online.

Only need ID if you look under 25 is that clear enough?? & we are party invite only at the minute & not showing porn at momment!!

Look at most profiles on fab they are they over 25 years old especially in couples.

ID ONLY NEEDED IF YOU LOOK UNDER 25, CLEAR!!

We are a responsible club that makes sure everyones enters is over 21!

Not having a go. Just knowing how some people are, there is bound to be someone who is pedantic enough to turn up without ID and then claim that it said they didn’t need it.

Then if look under 25 will not be let in Xxx

We have updated our website on the membership page with the same information so this does not happen but there is always one, like you say lol Xx"

Might have to pop in next time we have a weekend up there, will bring ID as we are only just over twenty-one - honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Club SX Update

After lots messages we have decide to go with bring your own at Club Sx Before we open our doors full time.

We will still have the ability to change back to a full bar in the future and still do our all inclusive parties but are going with what 99% of what people have ask for.

It also means we can have a simple membership form with NO photo ID need, again as asked for

So it bring you own with no photo ID need at Club Sx

Lou

& Paul

Off on a tangent but do you screen porn in any rooms? If so would you not need to see ID to ensure visitors were over 18?

We are an over 21 years old club only!!

This is very simple to deal with if you are lucky to look under 25 we just ask to see ask to see ID like in a supermarket do!! simple

Lou

& Paul

Then you do need to bring ID with you, just in case. Can see some people turning up and saying that it says we don’t need ID online.

Only need ID if you look under 25 is that clear enough?? & we are party invite only at the minute & not showing porn at momment!!

Look at most profiles on fab they are they over 25 years old especially in couples.

ID ONLY NEEDED IF YOU LOOK UNDER 25, CLEAR!!

We are a responsible club that makes sure everyones enters is over 21!

Not having a go. Just knowing how some people are, there is bound to be someone who is pedantic enough to turn up without ID and then claim that it said they didn’t need it.

Then if look under 25 will not be let in Xxx

We have updated our website on the membership page with the same information so this does not happen but there is always one, like you say lol Xx

Might have to pop in next time we have a weekend up there, will bring ID as we are only just over twenty-one - honest

Always welcome and

Paul

& lou

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow I would definitely visit one weekend ! Sounds fabulous ! Thank you "

Just let us know when and add you to our guest list with pleasure Xx

Lou

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I prefer a bar when I'm out in general as byob just seems to make a place feel cheap especially as I like nice cold lager or cider not luke warm from a tin.

Ps As long as the prices are realistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess the majority have to drive .

some may need a little tipple to relax and dutch courage maybe

im guessing bring your own is fine .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer a bar when I'm out in general as byob just seems to make a place feel cheap especially as I like nice cold lager or cider not luke warm from a tin.

Ps As long as the prices are realistic"

We have brand new state of art coolers for people to add there beers or wine that cools them very fast

Lou

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By *oolandsexyCouple
over a year ago

kings lynn

"I prefer a bar when I'm out in general as byob just seems to make a place feel cheap especially as I like nice cold lager or cider not luke warm from a tin.

Ps As long as the prices are realistic

We have brand new state of art coolers for people to add there beers or wine that cools them very fast

Lou

& Paul

Just an aside, if you keep your personal licences valid then for all inclusive events you can apply for the relevant one night licence at the club, naturally limited per year but to a certain extent gives you the best of both...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer a bar when I'm out in general as byob just seems to make a place feel cheap especially as I like nice cold lager or cider not luke warm from a tin.

Ps As long as the prices are realistic

We have brand new state of art coolers for people to add there beers or wine that cools them very fast

Lou

& Paul

You already clocked our plan then lol Xx

Thanks Anyway

Lou

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By *oolandsexyCouple
over a year ago

kings lynn

"I prefer a bar when I'm out in general as byob just seems to make a place feel cheap especially as I like nice cold lager or cider not luke warm from a tin.

Ps As long as the prices are realistic

We have brand new state of art coolers for people to add there beers or wine that cools them very fast

Lou

& Paul

You already clocked our plan then lol Xx

Thanks Anyway

Lou

?? all the best btw you’re the far north for us but hope it all goes wel!

Maybe one day we will adventure that far ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer a bar when I'm out in general as byob just seems to make a place feel cheap especially as I like nice cold lager or cider not luke warm from a tin.

Ps As long as the prices are realistic

We have brand new state of art coolers for people to add there beers or wine that cools them very fast

Lou

& Paul

You already clocked our plan then lol Xx

Thanks Anyway

Lou

?? all the best btw you’re the far north for us but hope it all goes wel!

Maybe one day we will adventure that far ! Lol

If you do adventure north always welcome Xx

Blackpools a great place fir a ling weekend

Club Sx

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I prefer bring your own, as I find the licensed bar clubs tend to have more of a nightclub feel to them and not what I'm looking for , as I'd rather stay local for that. Not sure why it's different, maybe due to the choice of alcohol to buy, whereas if you take your own you only have that choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer bring your own, as I find the licensed bar clubs tend to have more of a nightclub feel to them and not what I'm looking for , as I'd rather stay local for that. Not sure why it's different, maybe due to the choice of alcohol to buy, whereas if you take your own you only have that choice."

Its also a lot cheaper

Paul Xx

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