FabSwingers.com forum: Club memberships

By *lackitnco OP Couple
over a year ago

brownhills

Would love to attend a club and go on a regular basis but loathed to spend 25 to join and the same to enter £50 for your first visit

Would make more sense (to us anyway) to make a first visit free or entrance fee only

Surely that would b more enticing

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

...the people would just tour around the UK, clubbing for free.

These clubs are businesses...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£50.00!!! Weres charging that??

christ on a bike you may aswel leave them a kidney on your way i !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can attend chams on Sunday 24th without membership and it's only 20 pound entry fee xx

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"...the people would just tour around the UK, clubbing for free.

These clubs are businesses..."

I teach and am often asked if people can have their first class for free. I suggest they see if my landlord is happy with that arrangement.

If people are given things for free they tend not to put any effort in. They also arrive with an air of entitlement.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"Would love to attend a club and go on a regular basis but loathed to spend 25 to join and the same to enter £50 for your first visit

Would make more sense (to us anyway) to make a first visit free or entrance fee only

Surely that would b more enticing"

The £25 is a lifetime membership so if you go on a regular basis then you’re going to get your moneys worth. Depends where you go and what you want. The price you are on about is probably Chameleons which is our preferred club. For a less costly experience Xtasia charges £10 to join and then you get free entry for a couple of months. Both clubs are different environments though.

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

AtlantisEVOLUTION in Stoke-on-Trent is £10 lifetime membership fee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Attic in Derby has no membership and couples is £15....bargain on a party night when it is busy and great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club F charge 30 pound membership to all annualy. And 22.00 for couples and single males entry. But thats up here in the North East so probably out your way.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Look at the club events forum, there are sometimes socials in clubs that don't don't require club membership as long as you are on the guest list for the event.

That way you can "try before you buy" kinda thing.

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Cupids.do evemts were u just have to be on the guestlist like the above said just look up club ads and events x

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

We have free memberships and reasonable entry fees x

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Would love to attend a club and go on a regular basis but loathed to spend 25 to join and the same to enter £50 for your first visit

Would make more sense (to us anyway) to make a first visit free or entrance fee only

Surely that would b more enticing"
. I live in London so paying £50 - £60 on a Friday night to get into OP4F is normal the other club in London Le Boudier is £80 these are the prices for single guys.

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

No membership fees at The Vanilla Alternative although you do need to be registered (for free) via the club's website.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"You can attend chams on Sunday 24th without membership and it's only 20 pound entry fee xx"

Only if you are bbw or an admirer though or you may be disappointed lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Club F charge 30 pound membership to all annualy. And 22.00 for couples and single males entry. But thats up here in the North East so probably out your way. "

So £52 on your first visit then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can attend chams on Sunday 24th without membership and it's only 20 pound entry fee xx

Only if you are bbw or an admirer though or you may be disappointed lol"

That's very true however your a great hostess so I doubt many would be disappointed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would love to attend a club and go on a regular basis but loathed to spend 25 to join and the same to enter £50 for your first visit

Try being a single guy!

Seen one for £50 a year for membership and £55 to get in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would love to attend a club and go on a regular basis but loathed to spend 25 to join and the same to enter £50 for your first visit

Just seen another one for single guys. £80 a year for membership and £80 to get in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would love to attend a club and go on a regular basis but loathed to spend 25 to join and the same to enter £50 for your first visit

Just seen another one for single guys. £80 a year for membership and £80 to get in."

Where the fuck is that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seen another one for single guys. £80 a year for membership and £80 to get in.

Where the fuck is that xx"

Can't PM you. Somewhere in the midlands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seen another one for single guys. £80 a year for membership and £80 to get in.

Where the fuck is that xx

Can't PM you. Somewhere in the midlands."

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By *lackitnco OP Couple
over a year ago

brownhills

Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot"

Try AtlantisEVOLUTION in Stoke-on-Trent, closer and only £10 lifetime membership fee plus £15 entry fee.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Just seen another one for single guys. £80 a year for membership and £80 to get in.

Where the fuck is that xx

Can't PM you. Somewhere in the midlands."

Or you could help the community by posting the name of the club here.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Club F charge 30 pound membership to all annualy. And 22.00 for couples and single males entry. But thats up here in the North East so probably out your way.

So £52 on your first visit then "

£53 with your corkage fee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot"

And yet people happily spend around £100 on a night out in town?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club F charge 30 pound membership to all annualy. And 22.00 for couples and single males entry. But thats up here in the North East so probably out your way.

So £52 on your first visit then

£53 with your corkage fee

Close but not quite right.

Ladies is a £10 membership

Couples and single guys is a £30 membership and then your 2nd & 3rd entry is half price. We do that to encourage people to try the club a few times as every night is different and its good to judge better over a few nights.

Entry depends on which nights you come and wether you are a single lady, guy or couple.

And we discount forces, ex forces and blue light services.

One of the reasons we charge a membership is so that we dont get anyone & everyone in who just wants to gawp, like someone said in earlier post, you dont value as much what you get for free and our club is about lifestyle people rather than walk ins.

We vet people as well, anyone who joins usually goes via me on the phone first, and believe me I dont let any old tom, dick or harry in...

Tbh I dont think £50odd pounds for an experience that may change the way you think, or will stay in your memory forever, is alot when you compare to a night out at the cinema, a meal at a restaurant or a night out in town, well I dont think thats expensive.

And if you dont enjoy it, or dont think its for you, thats fine too, at least you tried it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WE DO NOT CHARGE FOR CLUB MEMBERSHIPS SO ITS FREE FOR THIS. YOU ONLY PAY ON THE DOOR AND SOFT DRINKS. ON A SATURDAY WE BUT A LUXURY BUFFET ON THE PICURES WILL BE-UP LOADED ON OUR WEBSITE.

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By *lackitnco OP Couple
over a year ago

brownhills

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot

And yet people happily spend around £100 on a night out in town?

Not quite the point

U could goto a club , pay 25 membership then 25 to get in and hate it

Surely there could be an entrance only to decide if club life is for u

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"WE DO NOT CHARGE FOR CLUB MEMBERSHIPS SO ITS FREE FOR THIS. YOU ONLY PAY ON THE DOOR AND SOFT DRINKS. ON A SATURDAY WE BUT A LUXURY BUFFET ON THE PICURES WILL BE-UP LOADED ON OUR WEBSITE.

Is your caps lock broken?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its just we need to be seen

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot

And yet people happily spend around £100 on a night out in town?

Not quite the point

U could goto a club , pay 25 membership then 25 to get in and hate it

Surely there could be an entrance only to decide if club life is for u"

Look at it another way. Do you think it would be fair to get a refund if you go in and find that you hate the place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot

And yet people happily spend around £100 on a night out in town?

Not quite the point

U could goto a club , pay 25 membership then 25 to get in and hate it

Surely there could be an entrance only to decide if club life is for u"

Thats exactly the point!

Going to normal nightclubs I know it's typical for men and women to spend £100 or more.

On what?? Entry and just booze. You do not get the opportunity for sex on that night inside those clubs. You most likely won't even get a snog and a randoms number!

Yet here yourself and others are moaning about the cost of entry eye for swinging clubs! Where when compared to normal typical nightclubs, the chance of sex that night in that swingers club, is greatly higher.

lol. Heard it all now.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot

And yet people happily spend around £100 on a night out in town?

Not quite the point

U could goto a club , pay 25 membership then 25 to get in and hate it

Surely there could be an entrance only to decide if club life is for u"

I think there's a definite difference between deciding whether 'club life' is for you, or preferring a particular club over others. Unfortunately, there's no money back guarantees here, you just have to suck it and see. If you don't enjoy one place, just try another, there are plenty to choose from. If it makes you feel any better, just compare couples' entry fees to those of single males. And, if you do make it in to a club sometime, say hello to the single males

All the best!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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There are many different clubs and many different price ranges.

If one of them doesn't suit you, just visit another.

It's your money and you can spend it wherever you want.

There is, of course the chance that you might be missing out on a very memorable night, or you might have a fantastic night at the place of your choice.

Going for a meal, bowling, to the cinema or a meal especially with a round of drinks cost a lot of money.

Some people choose to stay in some people choose to go out.

It's your money and I hope you enjoy whatever you choose to spend it on.

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By *lackitnco OP Couple
over a year ago

brownhills

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot

And yet people happily spend around £100 on a night out in town?

Not quite the point

U could goto a club , pay 25 membership then 25 to get in and hate it

Surely there could be an entrance only to decide if club life is for u

Thats exactly the point!

Going to normal nightclubs I know it's typical for men and women to spend £100 or more.

On what?? Entry and just booze. You do not get the opportunity for sex on that night inside those clubs. You most likely won't even get a snog and a randoms number!

lol. Heard it all now."

Wow I hope England’s defence is this committed tonight lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot

And yet people happily spend around £100 on a night out in town?

Not quite the point

U could goto a club , pay 25 membership then 25 to get in and hate it

Surely there could be an entrance only to decide if club life is for u

Thats exactly the point!

Going to normal nightclubs I know it's typical for men and women to spend £100 or more.

On what?? Entry and just booze. You do not get the opportunity for sex on that night inside those clubs. You most likely won't even get a snog and a randoms number!

lol. Heard it all now."

Can I ask, as a single female, what you typically pay for swing club entry?

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By *lub F Co.DurhamCouple
over a year ago

Stanley

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot

And yet people happily spend around £100 on a night out in town?

Not quite the point

U could goto a club , pay 25 membership then 25 to get in and hate it

Surely there could be an entrance only to decide if club life is for u"

I’m sorry but it is exactly the point.

You go to a cinema and see a film you don’t enjoy, you go to a restaurant and have a meal you don’t enjoy and you can have a shit night out on the town.

What do you do?

You can’t guarantee to enjoy everything or find everything is exactly as you want, that’s one of the reasons we give 2nd/3rd entry half price , as every night is different you may enjoy it more on a different evening with a different mix of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I ask, as a single female, what you typically pay for swing club entry?"

Just had a look at a load of different clubs. Most appear to be free. Most expensive single female membership I've just seen, is £10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seen another one for single guys. £80 a year for membership and £80 to get in.

Where the fuck is that xx

Can't PM you. Somewhere in the midlands."

Where in the mids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot

And yet people happily spend around £100 on a night out in town?

Not quite the point

U could goto a club , pay 25 membership then 25 to get in and hate it

Surely there could be an entrance only to decide if club life is for u

Thats exactly the point!

Going to normal nightclubs I know it's typical for men and women to spend £100 or more.

On what?? Entry and just booze. You do not get the opportunity for sex on that night inside those clubs. You most likely won't even get a snog and a randoms number!

lol. Heard it all now.

Can I ask, as a single female, what you typically pay for swing club entry?"

I used to happily pay to attend chams and xtasisa. It was never more than a tenner

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot

And yet people happily spend around £100 on a night out in town?

Not quite the point

U could goto a club , pay 25 membership then 25 to get in and hate it

Surely there could be an entrance only to decide if club life is for u

Thats exactly the point!

Going to normal nightclubs I know it's typical for men and women to spend £100 or more.

On what?? Entry and just booze. You do not get the opportunity for sex on that night inside those clubs. You most likely won't even get a snog and a randoms number!

lol. Heard it all now.

Can I ask, as a single female, what you typically pay for swing club entry?

I used to happily pay to attend chams and xtasisa. It was never more than a tenner"

I would happily pay no more than a tenner too!

I've just been pricing up visiting either Infusion or Entice for a first time Friday night, and for a single guy, it's slightly more than that

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot

And yet people happily spend around £100 on a night out in town?

Not quite the point

U could goto a club , pay 25 membership then 25 to get in and hate it

Surely there could be an entrance only to decide if club life is for u

Thats exactly the point!

Going to normal nightclubs I know it's typical for men and women to spend £100 or more.

On what?? Entry and just booze. You do not get the opportunity for sex on that night inside those clubs. You most likely won't even get a snog and a randoms number!

lol. Heard it all now.

Can I ask, as a single female, what you typically pay for swing club entry?

I used to happily pay to attend chams and xtasisa. It was never more than a tenner

I would happily pay no more than a tenner too!

I've just been pricing up visiting either Infusion or Entice for a first time Friday night, and for a single guy, it's slightly more than that

Well when you EVENTUALLY get your arse over to Townhouse, you can get in on some of our fantastic nights for just a tenner

The big Fridays are £20 or £25...no membership feeeeee. We just need to to vet out the loons first, but we've already established that you're not a loon

lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot

And yet people happily spend around £100 on a night out in town?

Not quite the point

U could goto a club , pay 25 membership then 25 to get in and hate it

Surely there could be an entrance only to decide if club life is for u

Thats exactly the point!

Going to normal nightclubs I know it's typical for men and women to spend £100 or more.

On what?? Entry and just booze. You do not get the opportunity for sex on that night inside those clubs. You most likely won't even get a snog and a randoms number!

lol. Heard it all now.

Can I ask, as a single female, what you typically pay for swing club entry?

I used to happily pay to attend chams and xtasisa. It was never more than a tenner

I would happily pay no more than a tenner too!

I've just been pricing up visiting either Infusion or Entice for a first time Friday night, and for a single guy, it's slightly more than that

Well when you EVENTUALLY get your arse over to Townhouse, you can get in on some of our fantastic nights for just a tenner

The big Fridays are £20 or £25...no membership feeeeee. We just need to to vet out the loons first, but we've already established that you're not a loon

lol "

There are a few in here who would argue the case for my looniness Vicky

Tardis ordered btw; just awaiting a delivery date

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Thanks for all the input

We did attend townhouse and would become regulars however it’s too far out our way.

This is our point, we don’t want a free membership but don’t think it’s fair to be pushed into it on our first visit making it £50 plus drinks

Seems a lot

And yet people happily spend around £100 on a night out in town?

Not quite the point

U could goto a club , pay 25 membership then 25 to get in and hate it

Surely there could be an entrance only to decide if club life is for u

I’m sorry but it is exactly the point.

You go to a cinema and see a film you don’t enjoy, you go to a restaurant and have a meal you don’t enjoy and you can have a shit night out on the town.

What do you do?

This.

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

You can come along to Jaydees for the first time and not pay membership. If you do decide to pay for membership its £10 life time. You then get in at members prices each time you come along,,,

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By *lackitnco OP Couple
over a year ago

brownhills

"You can come along to Jaydees for the first time and not pay membership. If you do decide to pay for membership its £10 life time. You then get in at members prices each time you come along,,,

Brilliant exactly the idea

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By *atureMischiefCouple
over a year ago

Lutterworth

If a club operates as a Private Members Club then to keep that status they must charge a membership fee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just found another one:

Single Male membership £75 {12 months}

Entry: £50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a club operates as a Private Members Club then to keep that status they must charge a membership fee. "

What about the ones that give memberships away to single females, for free {which seems like most of them}?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Membership fees are all well and good but what if it’s a one off visit?

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By *lackitnco OP Couple
over a year ago

brownhills

"Membership fees are all well and good but what if it’s a one off visit?"

Surely a membership fee has a benefit ie cheaper next time or buy 3 got 1 Freda’s at townhouse

It seems most just want an extra payday each year

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Would love to attend a club and go on a regular basis but loathed to spend 25 to join and the same to enter £50 for your first visit

Would make more sense (to us anyway) to make a first visit free or entrance fee only

Surely that would b more enticing"

We have never paid to be a member of any Club and never would. £50 also seems very steep for a couples entry to anything other than a premium event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paying 50 for single males is good or there will be too many in the club's.

Also these clubs have staff, rent, rates, web sites, telephones, cleaners rubbish removal, fire safety checks, soft drinks, cleaners etc to pay

So you all want it free do you. The club won't last long will it. We are happy to pay whatever as long as we have a great night and feel safe. If you can't afford a club then go dogging, it's free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems that the OP is just a broke cheapskate who is extremely tight.

It goes without saying that any swingers club has to charge membership, to ween out the pissed up post pub crowd and have an air of exclusiveness.

Since most clubs are BYO booze, a night out in a swingers club is a lot more affordable than a night in the local pub paying a fiver a pint, plus the environment of a swingers club normally is a lot more civilised than a night out on the town. It's unlikely to find people getting wasted if they are serious about playing.

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By *lackitnco OP Couple
over a year ago

brownhills

"Paying 50 for single males is good or there will be too many in the club's.

Also these clubs have staff, rent, rates, web sites, telephones, cleaners rubbish removal, fire safety checks, soft drinks, cleaners etc to pay

So you all want it free do you. The club won't last long will it. We are happy to pay whatever as long as we have a great night and feel safe. If you can't afford a club then go dogging, it's free"

Don’t think anyone begrudges nor can’t afford

Read the posts again

We r new to the club scene and would like to try

But when most clubs ask 25 membership and then 25 entry on the first night seems excessive and could put people off

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By *lackitnco OP Couple
over a year ago

brownhills

"It seems that the OP is just a broke cheapskate who is extremely tight.

It goes without saying that any swingers club has to charge membership, to ween out the pissed up post pub crowd and have an air of exclusiveness.

Excuse me there is no need at all for insults

Just a simple observation

U rude man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find your tightness to be extremely rude.

If you get an invite to a party, would you even bring a bottle.... and would it be a budget bottle from a downmarket supermarket or would you even bother to let them moths in your wallet to catch some air?

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By *lackitnco OP Couple
over a year ago

brownhills

"I find your tightness to be extremely rude.

We tend to visit a few parties on cruise ships which tend to b all inclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

I guess you'll find a trip on a cruise ship a lot more expensive than a night out in a swingers club.

Open the wallet, spending a bit of money to enjoy yourself won't exactly kill you.

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By *lackitnco OP Couple
over a year ago

brownhills

"I guess you'll find a trip on a cruise ship a lot more expensive than a night out in a swingers club.

Open the wallet, spending a bit of money to enjoy yourself won't exactly kill you."

Makes sense

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By *lackitnco OP Couple
over a year ago

brownhills

"I guess you'll find a trip on a cruise ship a lot more expensive than a night out in a swingers club.

Open the wallet, spending a bit of money to enjoy yourself won't exactly kill you."

Wouldn’t u like more ladies

More couples at your club

Do u not see how a first visit of £50 being off putting?

That’s all our point is

Nobody wants anything for free

Just think more people would entertain the idea of a first visit was more reasonable

No we r not all pissed up paupers wanting to bring the club into disrepute

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over a year ago

"Paying 50 for single males is good or there will be too many in the club's.

Also these clubs have staff, rent, rates, web sites, telephones, cleaners rubbish removal, fire safety checks, soft drinks, cleaners etc to pay

So you all want it free do you. The club won't last long will it. We are happy to pay whatever as long as we have a great night and feel safe. If you can't afford a club then go dogging, it's free

Don’t think anyone begrudges nor can’t afford

Read the posts again

We r new to the club scene and would like to try

But when most clubs ask 25 membership and then 25 entry on the first night seems excessive and could put people off"

My answer was for others, you may have noticed my answer did not include your post did it. Maybe you should read my answer again.

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By *lackitnco OP Couple
over a year ago

brownhills

"Paying 50 for single males is good or there will be too many in the club's.

Also these clubs have staff, rent, rates, web sites, telephones, cleaners rubbish removal, fire safety checks, soft drinks, cleaners etc to pay

So you all want it free do you. The club won't last long will it. We are happy to pay whatever as long as we have a great night and feel safe. If you can't afford a club then go dogging, it's free

Don’t think anyone begrudges nor can’t afford

Read the posts again

We r new to the club scene and would like to try

But when most clubs ask 25 membership and then 25 entry on the first night seems excessive and could put people off

My answer was for others, you may have noticed my answer did not include your post did it. Maybe you should read my answer again. "

Lol it didn’t change the second time

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over a year ago

"Paying 50 for single males is good or there will be too many in the club's.

Also these clubs have staff, rent, rates, web sites, telephones, cleaners rubbish removal, fire safety checks, soft drinks, cleaners etc to pay

So you all want it free do you. The club won't last long will it. We are happy to pay whatever as long as we have a great night and feel safe. If you can't afford a club then go dogging, it's free

Don’t think anyone begrudges nor can’t afford

Read the posts again

We r new to the club scene and would like to try

But when most clubs ask 25 membership and then 25 entry on the first night seems excessive and could put people off

My answer was for others, you may have noticed my answer did not include your post did it. Maybe you should read my answer again.

Lol it didn’t change the second time"

To be honest guys it all depends on the type of club you go to. We go to the Hellfire club and we had to pay a membership and entrance fee. It was 60 i think but we had a great time and it was worth it. But it was a proper swingers night club with play rooms and dungeon but BGHS IN BRIGHTON IS ABOUT 20 PER COUPLE. IT'S A SAUNA WHERE SWINGERS go and at xtasia in Darlston I can assure you the membership is worth it so it really is worth asking on here about the club's first before you go as the membership fees are needed to keep the undesirables out and you safe when enjoying the club's. Just be glad some guy or lady decided to spend there money on opening a club for us to go too. Most don't make a profit although the ones who do are very good. Have a good night when you go xx

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

Personally, I look at swinging as a hobby. I've had a fair few hobbies over the years and to be honest, I don't think I've spent as much money on swinging as I have on other fun activities!

Bear in mind that I'm a single guy (in case you didn't notice

) so I pay higher rates to get into clubs. I also like to stay in hotels and used to hire a car to get there sometimes.

If you're serious about playing a sport, especially as an amateur or semi pro, you can spend loads on uniform, club membership fees, decent equipment etc. I've seen people who are into kink bring a bag full of hundreds of pounds worth of equipment. That's before they set for in a club. Heck, I've even had girlfriends with dildo that cost more than club entry and they weren't even swingers!

But at the end of the day, you do have to consider value for money when you weigh up the cost with what you get out of it. Personally, I think the friends I've made and the experiences I've had since getting involved are...PRICELESS!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

If clubs didn't charge they'd have all n sundry through the door.

Some charges are extortionate and others are just covering costs.

Bear in mind some clubs only sell soft drinks so aren't making on alcohol. They have high running costs too.... it maybe your fun but its their business.

Memberships often also help sort out the swingers from the horny idiot chancers

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By *lackitnco OP Couple
over a year ago

brownhills

Everybody missing the point we don’t want a freebie and don’t even mind a membership fee

But having to pay it on a first visit can often make it £50 before u know if it’s for u or not

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over a year ago

"Everybody missing the point we don’t want a freebie and don’t even mind a membership fee

But having to pay it on a first visit can often make it £50 before u know if it’s for u or not"

The best thing to do is keep an eye on the swinging club/events section. There are always lots of events at clubs that you don't need to be a member for. Perfect way to check out the club to see if you like it before becoming members.

Plus there are plenty of clubs that offer free membership/free entry with membership.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Everybody missing the point we don’t want a freebie and don’t even mind a membership fee

But having to pay it on a first visit can often make it £50 before u know if it’s for u or not"

I think everyone has got a valid point, we all had to pay it on our first visit, why do you think you should be different? There will always be risks in life, just bite the bullet and do it, if it's not for you then you lost £50 but if it works out then you've opened the door to some amazing experiences.

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

We had never swung in our lives, never even had a 3some! We went along to Chams on a Sunday, paid the entrance fee and membership (about £45 total) not even knowing if we would like it. If we didn’t like it all it had cost us was the price of a half decent meal out....

It was a gamble yes but actually £50 seems pretty reasonable for my safety and comfort which is what you get when you go to a club. Also you only generally pay membership once or at worst once a year.

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

A couple who is new to our club Jaydees will only pay £30... normally £25 but extra £5 if non member. Guys £40 or £35 members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been to around 8 or so clubs in the north west and Yorkshire as a couple and never once paid a membership fee. We’ve always just paid the entrance fee of £20-30.

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