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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

The wife and I are in Birmingham on the 7th for a gig, and were thinking it might be a good chance to visit a club after. We've not been to one before as we've been a bit nervous about it, but figure being out of town presents a good opportunity! Any recommendations?

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By *_and_LCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

It’s not Birmingham itself but just up the road - try Chameleons.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

It’s saturday I think so depends a lot on whether you do or don’t want single guys as to where to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also interested, specifically those which are 18+ rather than 21+.. apparently I’m too young for Chams!

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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


"It’s saturday I think so depends a lot on whether you do or don’t want single guys as to where to go "

Single guys definitely wanted.

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By *urious and openmindedCouple
over a year ago

under the sea

We’ve done _tasia and chams

Both are very different but great fun

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"It’s saturday I think so depends a lot on whether you do or don’t want single guys as to where to go

Single guys definitely wanted."

In which case Chams is no good as single guys are banned on Saturday night

They’re banned from _tasia too but flirts which is next door does allow single guys in and as a couple you can move between the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s saturday I think so depends a lot on whether you do or don’t want single guys as to where to go

Single guys definitely wanted.

In which case Chams is no good as single guys are banned on Saturday night

They’re banned from _tasia too but flirts which is next door does allow single guys in and as a couple you can move between the two "

Single guys are allowed on a Saturday till 7/7.30

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"It’s saturday I think so depends a lot on whether you do or don’t want single guys as to where to go

Single guys definitely wanted.

In which case Chams is no good as single guys are banned on Saturday night

They’re banned from _tasia too but flirts which is next door does allow single guys in and as a couple you can move between the two

Single guys are allowed on a Saturday till 7/7.30"

They said they were going somewhere after a gig and are looking for single guys, unless the guys are hiding in the cinema Chams is unlikely to be very good

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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

That being said, a club which has a lively social aspect would be welcome, just to help us feel at ease with it all.

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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

Also, if we were to go to Chams after the gig, what's the vibe post-11ish?

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By *_and_LCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Also, if we were to go to Chams after the gig, what's the vibe post-11ish?"

It’s still busy. I’ve seen people heading in still at 1am - it’s open till 3 or 4 on a Saturday.

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By *urboTongue21Man
over a year ago

Walsall

There are two sex clubs in area which are open until 2am where will be plenty of single guys...chams is a swingers club whereas these are sex clubs with hostesses. Look at reviews for Private Club and R3tro club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not Birmingham itself but just up the road - try Chameleons. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have two choices

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Xtasia ... Dress up... Nightclub vibe

Chams ... Dress down ... Spa feel

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Both within 5 miles of each other

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Both have great reviews.

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Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good "
Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land )."

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers "

Sorry... what’s a paid hostess club??

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By *4sexCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Try the private club in Aston Birmingham great on a sat night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers "
We would stay close to the bullring / train station as we stayed there before and it was very central...going by what you've said chams sounds like the one as we like to watch and be watched....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps Chams isnt in Birmingham , Its in Darlaston which is part of Walsall/Wednesbury , Nearest motorway junction is j9 of the m6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land )."

Check the metro tram times. You can get it From centre of brum and there is a stop 5min walk From club you can change at club and lockers are available also taxi's are reasonable From brum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also interested, specifically those which are 18+ rather than 21+.. apparently I’m too young for Chams! "

If you are going accompanied by someone who's over 21 you can be even 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also interested, specifically those which are 18+ rather than 21+.. apparently I’m too young for Chams!

If you are going accompanied by someone who's over 21 you can be even 18 "

Ooh good to know, thanks!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers

Sorry... what’s a paid hostess club?? "

Its a club where the Hostesses get paid ....

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By *parkle7Woman
over a year ago

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Has anyone been to club Retro?? Any tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers

Sorry... what’s a paid hostess club??

Its a club where the Hostesses get paid .... "

...so prositutes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers

Sorry... what’s a paid hostess club??

Its a club where the Hostesses get paid .... "

We don't fancy _tasia anymore and its not about the club or the staff , they all are lovely its just cause we don't find anymore the right vibe although i Would not tolerate to hear someone insulting some people from there with some stupid assumptions.we have loads of friends who goes at _tasia and we know that place better then anyone but I can guarantee cause they are not paying prostitutes.its true cause they are paying some people a small reward for their efforts for making some events and bringing people together but they are far for being prostitutes , so Mrs Mellon dear, watch your mouth and don t make fake accusation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused. Xtasia is a swinging club. Chams is a swinging club. Private club is a paid hostess club, ie the hostesses get paid to entertain the customers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm confused. Xtasia is a swinging club. Chams is a swinging club. Private club is a paid hostess club, ie the hostesses get paid to entertain the customers "

You are totally right private club pay hostess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers We would stay close to the bullring / train station as we stayed there before and it was very central...going by what you've said chams sounds like the one as we like to watch and be watched.... "

You’ll need taxis and I’m guessing you’ll spend £60-70 return on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers We would stay close to the bullring / train station as we stayed there before and it was very central...going by what you've said chams sounds like the one as we like to watch and be watched....

You’ll need taxis and I’m guessing you’ll spend £60-70 return on it"
Guess we'll have to change our plans a bit then.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers We would stay close to the bullring / train station as we stayed there before and it was very central...going by what you've said chams sounds like the one as we like to watch and be watched....

You’ll need taxis and I’m guessing you’ll spend £60-70 return on it"

It won't cost that much. I used to to live in Brum and go chams regular, the taxi home used to cost me £20-25 max and I lived close to the city centre.

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers

Sorry... what’s a paid hostess club??

Its a club where the Hostesses get paid ....

We don't fancy _tasia anymore and its not about the club or the staff , they all are lovely its just cause we don't find anymore the right vibe although i Would not tolerate to hear someone insulting some people from there with some stupid assumptions.we have loads of friends who goes at _tasia and we know that place better then anyone but I can guarantee cause they are not paying prostitutes.its true cause they are paying some people a small reward for their efforts for making some events and bringing people together but they are far for being prostitutes , so Mrs Mellon dear, watch your mouth and don t make fake accusation "

Don’t think they were on about us, they mentioned another Birmingham Club in the last line. Appreciate the defence though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers

Sorry... what’s a paid hostess club??

Its a club where the Hostesses get paid ....

We don't fancy _tasia anymore and its not about the club or the staff , they all are lovely its just cause we don't find anymore the right vibe although i Would not tolerate to hear someone insulting some people from there with some stupid assumptions.we have loads of friends who goes at _tasia and we know that place better then anyone but I can guarantee cause they are not paying prostitutes.its true cause they are paying some people a small reward for their efforts for making some events and bringing people together but they are far for being prostitutes , so Mrs Mellon dear, watch your mouth and don t make fake accusation

Don’t think they were on about us, they mentioned another Birmingham Club in the last line. Appreciate the defence though "
I did realised that after and I do apologise but with a bit of misreading can lead to this misunderstanding sorry once again

Ps.will always defend my 1st club lol when it comes with fake accusation and Im Glad cause it was just a misunderstanding

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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago

De12 area

You could always book a room at chameleons and stay over night. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always book a room at chameleons and stay over night. ."
That sounds like an idea

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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


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You’ll need taxis and I’m guessing you’ll spend £60-70 return on it"

Oof! Bit rich for dipping our toes for a couple of hours I think! Might try to have a social meet with someone before the gig instead.

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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


"You could always book a room at chameleons and stay over night. .That sounds like an idea "

Yeah, wish I'd realised that was an option before booking our accommodation! Maybe next time.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"You could always book a room at chameleons and stay over night. .That sounds like an idea

Yeah, wish I'd realised that was an option before booking our accommodation! Maybe next time. "

We’d definitely recommend looking into booking a room there. We stayed over a few weeks ago and it was excellent! Lovely big room which was clean and very comfortable. Fridge, kettle, tv etc. Breakfast of bacon butty and orange juice brought to the room in the morning and only £50 for the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always book a room at chameleons and stay over night. .That sounds like an idea

Yeah, wish I'd realised that was an option before booking our accommodation! Maybe next time.

We’d definitely recommend looking into booking a room there. We stayed over a few weeks ago and it was excellent! Lovely big room which was clean and very comfortable. Fridge, kettle, tv etc. Breakfast of bacon butty and orange juice brought to the room in the morning and only £50 for the night "
50 pounds for the night.........is there a catch guys cos that sounds to good to be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always book a room at chameleons and stay over night. .That sounds like an idea

Yeah, wish I'd realised that was an option before booking our accommodation! Maybe next time.

We’d definitely recommend looking into booking a room there. We stayed over a few weeks ago and it was excellent! Lovely big room which was clean and very comfortable. Fridge, kettle, tv etc. Breakfast of bacon butty and orange juice brought to the room in the morning and only £50 for the night 50 pounds for the night.........is there a catch guys cos that sounds to good to be true "

It's actually less than that, the standard rooms Are £40, they are small but ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers We would stay close to the bullring / train station as we stayed there before and it was very central...going by what you've said chams sounds like the one as we like to watch and be watched....

You’ll need taxis and I’m guessing you’ll spend £60-70 return on it

It won't cost that much. I used to to live in Brum and go chams regular, the taxi home used to cost me £20-25 max and I lived close to the city centre."

Well we’d like that taxi number it’s £40 after 12 home for us, going to Cannock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always book a room at chameleons and stay over night. .That sounds like an idea

Yeah, wish I'd realised that was an option before booking our accommodation! Maybe next time.

We’d definitely recommend looking into booking a room there. We stayed over a few weeks ago and it was excellent! Lovely big room which was clean and very comfortable. Fridge, kettle, tv etc. Breakfast of bacon butty and orange juice brought to the room in the morning and only £50 for the night 50 pounds for the night.........is there a catch guys cos that sounds to good to be true

It's actually less than that, the standard rooms Are £40, they are small but ideal "
i can live with small once iv room to swing Mrs S about the place lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers We would stay close to the bullring / train station as we stayed there before and it was very central...going by what you've said chams sounds like the one as we like to watch and be watched.... "

As a fellow irisher hope you enjoy/enjoyed your visit to birmingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers We would stay close to the bullring / train station as we stayed there before and it was very central...going by what you've said chams sounds like the one as we like to watch and be watched....

As a fellow irisher hope you enjoy/enjoyed your visit to birmingham"
Thanks we'll be looking forward to it just checked chams web site and it looks like a good spot and their well planned out for the nxt few months which suites us.

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"Has anyone been to club Retro?? Any tips? "
worth a look at for greedy girl meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers We would stay close to the bullring / train station as we stayed there before and it was very central...going by what you've said chams sounds like the one as we like to watch and be watched....

As a fellow irisher hope you enjoy/enjoyed your visit to birminghamThanks we'll be looking forward to it just checked chams web site and it looks like a good spot and their well planned out for the nxt few months which suites us."

when you have trip planned and have the time and the inclination maybe meet for a coffee

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Has anyone been to club Retro?? Any tips? worth a look at for greedy girl meets "
this one defo not a swigers club .this a pay your money get yourself a honey for ten mins .ha serves a purpose though eh .just go to chams its proper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always recommend Xtasia for first timers as it's more of a night club style. However if you like to watch and be watched then chameleons is good Are either club far from Birmingham or are we way off...( we are an Irish couple hence not knowing the lay of the land ).

Depends where in Birmingham and if your planning on driving? Xtasia is West Bromwich, chams is Darlaston. Birmingham is a huge place for example driving they are both about 25minutes from the bull ring. Birmingham does have a club but it's a paid hostess club rather than for genuine swingers We would stay close to the bullring / train station as we stayed there before and it was very central...going by what you've said chams sounds like the one as we like to watch and be watched....

As a fellow irisher hope you enjoy/enjoyed your visit to birminghamThanks we'll be looking forward to it just checked chams web site and it looks like a good spot and their well planned out for the nxt few months which suites us.

when you have trip planned and have the time and the inclination maybe meet for a coffee"
We will don't see a problem there now

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"Has anyone been to club Retro?? Any tips? worth a look at for greedy girl meets this one defo not a swigers club .this a pay your money get yourself a honey for ten mins .ha serves a purpose though eh .just go to chams its proper "
there is something for everyone in this area from established popular club s chams and _tasia etc

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