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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there,

We've toyed with the idea of checking out a swingers club, but being an average Asian couple, on the larger, but not obese side, we feel uncomfortable. Bare in mind we've never been to normal club before either!

Usually you only see really hot people in the pics.

If we did ever muster the courage to go to one of these places, how would we be received? Are these places usually welcoming to all?

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

I would suggest very well received....

Most clubs welcome all shapes and sizes - and indeed a variety genuinely adds imho.

Be brave - you're much, much sexier than you think...! lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Hi there,

We've toyed with the idea of checking out a swingers club, but being an average Asian couple, on the larger, but not obese side, we feel uncomfortable. Bare in mind we've never been to normal club before either!

Usually you only see really hot people in the pics.

If we did ever muster the courage to go to one of these places, how would we be received? Are these places usually welcoming to all?"

Come to Chams, theres all shapes and sizes there. I'm a bigger woman and I've never had any issues.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP I've been to several clubs and have always had a good night.

There is always a good mix of people - all ages, shapes and sizes and all ethnicity.

You definitely won't look out of place. Just pluck up the courage and give it a go.

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By * only NWMan
over a year ago

macclesfield

Might be a bit out of your way but there is a curvy girl special at cupids mcr way every thursday

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Might be a bit out of your way but there is a curvy girl special at cupids mcr way every thursday"

Curvy Thursday at cupids isn't every week, it's once a month usually on the first Thursday.

It's well worth a visit, I've made the trip north several times for this event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no problem going to clubs you are what you are and everyone is nice and friendly. Go for it and if you don’t like it don’t go back my guess is that you will and be regulars lol

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton


"Hi there,

We've toyed with the idea of checking out a swingers club, but being an average Asian couple, on the larger, but not obese side, we feel uncomfortable. Bare in mind we've never been to normal club before either!

Usually you only see really hot people in the pics.

If we did ever muster the courage to go to one of these places, how would we be received? Are these places usually welcoming to all?"

We are a curvy pair and we had the same concerns, they vanished within seconds of being inside Chams! Seriously you will not be judged or feel out of place.

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Cupids xx

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London


"Hi there,

We've toyed with the idea of checking out a swingers club, but being an average Asian couple, on the larger, but not obese side, we feel uncomfortable. Bare in mind we've never been to normal club before either!

Usually you only see really hot people in the pics.

If we did ever muster the courage to go to one of these places, how would we be received? Are these places usually welcoming to all?"

Just go. Treat it like going to a pub. You don't have to play, have a nosey round at the facilities and see what's there. Sound it out first. If you don't like it, then don't go back. At least you tried it and not didn't your life wondering what could be.

As for the issue of your size, I wouldn't worry about it. There are all shapes and sizes at clubs. There will someone bigger than you. There will be someone smaller than you. Keep that in mind, and you'll be fine. In fact going bare is one of the most liberating things you can do.

Just go. Sometimes the most scary thing is walking over the threshold. You're lucky. You have someone to hold your hand! Make sure that the people at the club know it's your first time and they'll show you the ropes.

Go. You won't regret it.

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London


"Hi there,

We've toyed with the idea of checking out a swingers club, but being an average Asian couple, on the larger, but not obese side, we feel uncomfortable. Bare in mind we've never been to normal club before either!

Usually you only see really hot people in the pics.

If we did ever muster the courage to go to one of these places, how would we be received? Are these places usually welcoming to all?

Just go. Treat it like going to a pub. You don't have to play, have a nosey round at the facilities and see what's there. Sound it out first. If you don't like it, then don't go back. At least you tried it and not didn't your life wondering what could be.

As for the issue of your size, I wouldn't worry about it. There are all shapes and sizes at clubs. There will someone bigger than you. There will be someone smaller than you. Keep that in mind, and you'll be fine. In fact going bare is one of the most liberating things you can do.

Just go. Sometimes the most scary thing is walking over the threshold. You're lucky. You have someone to hold your hand! Make sure that the people at the club know it's your first time and they'll show you the ropes.

Go. You won't regret it.

"


"

not didn't your life wondering what could be."

I meant to say

Didn't live your life wondering what could be.

Blasted mobile phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been off the scene for a bit and this time round Mrs discrete is much more a curvy woman and this weighs in her mind, I think she looks stunning but she has a lingering doubt guys might not want her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for all the advice.

If we do go we'll let you know.

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

Get ya sens to a club you will have a great time. The thing I love about clubs is that they are so accepting of everyone so long as your polite and respectful of others.

Age race gender anything means nothing as we all have the same mind set as each other.

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