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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do people go to Chams or any other club for?? The last few times we have been to Chams we’ve tried to start conversations tried to have a little play in the couples room. But nothing. Everyone is either playing on there own or just sit there not talking. What are we doing wrong??

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"What do people go to Chams or any other club for?? The last few times we have been to Chams we’ve tried to start conversations tried to have a little play in the couples room. But nothing. Everyone is either playing on there own or just sit there not talking. What are we doing wrong??"

Did you go on a Saturday?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We’ve been on Wednesday, Saturday and Sundays and find all nights the same.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Never been Midweek but always find Mondays and Fridays are best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks ! We will keep those nights in mind.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Friday’s are much the busiest in my view - but it all depends on whether having single guys around puts you off

Never a lack of playing on a Friday in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go to have a dam good time

We find just going with the flow a lot easier than striking up conversations

Perhaps as we are a little shy

Heat of the moment sure helps

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We love Saturdays and always meet great couples & have fun. Disco room is a great place to let your hair down

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By *eepDiversCouple
over a year ago

Over here

We tend to find Saturdays to be a bit clique hence why we tend to go Fridays. Definitely our favourite club tho! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do ok in clubs, but have gone through dry spells but on reflection it’s when either one of us hasn’t been in the best place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We visit chams when we can and have always found willing play mates very often we meet them in the jacussi lol I have often found wandering hands and as I like forward ladies it’s a great icebreaker

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By *aked-funMan
over a year ago

South West

I will chat to anyone, usually in the sauna or jacuzzi and find that Friday's are great, like this last Friday, or any day mid week can be quiet, but as much fun. I guess you just need to be open to talking to people, and things seem to flow from there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on a Saturday night a few times always found it entertaining haha! depends who you go with etc but never had a bad time and the staff are brill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy, I attend Chams on Fridays and Sundays. It is the best club around. I’m happy to chat to anyone, and enjoy the company of singles and couples alike. With couples, I tend to move on if the gentleman or the lady is not interested in engaging in conversation. With couples, I assume all 4 need to make a connection before moving on. Saturday evenings is couples and single ladies only. Just keep an open mind when approached, and politely decline if you are not interested.

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By *itch269Couple
over a year ago

Horley

We like Thursday daytime and monday other days/nights we've found to be very clique x but on the whole a great place if you like to be really norty we love all the touching in the jacuzzi x

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"We visit chams when we can and have always found willing play mates very often we meet them in the jacussi lol I have often found wandering hands and as I like forward ladies it’s a great icebreaker "

I’ve often wondered about this. Isn’t that really people touching without being told they can? Sorry off topic

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By *hebagsCouple
over a year ago

worcestershire

Monday's for us...always great crowd and lots of fun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saturday's for sure, always a good night

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"We visit chams when we can and have always found willing play mates very often we meet them in the jacussi lol I have often found wandering hands and as I like forward ladies it’s a great icebreaker

I’ve often wondered about this. Isn’t that really people touching without being told they can? Sorry off topic "

Yeah, I find this a bit offputting to be honest - it’s touching without consent & I would not be happy to be on the receiving end of a wandering hand in any club.

If this is considered acceptable there, it’d make me think twice, which is a shame as I’ve been looking forward to going!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"We visit chams when we can and have always found willing play mates very often we meet them in the jacussi lol I have often found wandering hands and as I like forward ladies it’s a great icebreaker

I’ve often wondered about this. Isn’t that really people touching without being told they can? Sorry off topic

Yeah, I find this a bit offputting to be honest - it’s touching without consent & I would not be happy to be on the receiving end of a wandering hand in any club.

If this is considered acceptable there, it’d make me think twice, which is a shame as I’ve been looking forward to going!"

There is far more to Chams than the Jacuzzi's, we don't go near them as cant stand the chlorine but the club is a great place so don't be put off.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"We visit chams when we can and have always found willing play mates very often we meet them in the jacussi lol I have often found wandering hands and as I like forward ladies it’s a great icebreaker

I’ve often wondered about this. Isn’t that really people touching without being told they can? Sorry off topic

Yeah, I find this a bit offputting to be honest - it’s touching without consent & I would not be happy to be on the receiving end of a wandering hand in any club.

If this is considered acceptable there, it’d make me think twice, which is a shame as I’ve been looking forward to going!"

I’ve played in the jacuzzi and not played there

Never seen any inappropriate behaviour/touching against anyone’s will and I’m sure a quick no thanks if someone showed interest would suffice - most are very respectful there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We visit chams when we can and have always found willing play mates very often we meet them in the jacussi lol I have often found wandering hands and as I like forward ladies it’s a great icebreaker

I’ve often wondered about this. Isn’t that really people touching without being told they can? Sorry off topic "

No they normally have been chatting and more or less know it’s welcome but a man touching a lady different rules

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


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I’ve played in the jacuzzi and not played there

Never seen any inappropriate behaviour/touching against anyone’s will and I’m sure a quick no thanks if someone showed interest would suffice - most are very respectful there "

wot they said.

It's a well run club and bad behavior is not tolerated.

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By *our LamourCouple
over a year ago

'near that London'

We only ever go on a Saturday nite as it’s couples only and have to say it never dissapoints. Like all clubs it’s what you make of it. (We don’t do jacuzzis btw) . But to give you an example, join the food q, where last Sat nite we chatted away to loads of peeps. Go to the disco and have a boogie. Sit at the bus top and smile and say hi to the passers by. And definitely don’t be shy and go to the round bed room !! x x

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We’ve only been once so far and after feeling really nervous and apprehensive about going once we were inside it was great. Such a relaxed environment and a really great atmosphere. We didn’t fancy the jacuzzi but were chatted to by a few people in the bar area. Every couple will go there for different reasons. We had no intention of joining any play with anyone else on our first visit but still enjoyed being there.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We've always had a great time there, day or night. We just go with the intention of relaxing and enjoying ourselves and never had any issue with finding playmates. We've never noticed any cliques but we are usually too busy having sex.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"

I’ve played in the jacuzzi and not played there

Never seen any inappropriate behaviour/touching against anyone’s will and I’m sure a quick no thanks if someone showed interest would suffice - most are very respectful there

wot they said.

It's a well run club and bad behavior is not tolerated."

I’ve never visited a club yet where I thought everything was 100%. And Chams has its fair share of problems.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"

I’ve played in the jacuzzi and not played there

Never seen any inappropriate behaviour/touching against anyone’s will and I’m sure a quick no thanks if someone showed interest would suffice - most are very respectful there

wot they said.

It's a well run club and bad behavior is not tolerated.

I’ve never visited a club yet where I thought everything was 100%. And Chams has its fair share of problems."

Does any club ever have 100% good behaviour- I suspect that club doesn’t exist!

I was just making the point in my trips, and I appreciate thats not a huge trial, the behaviour in the jacuzzi has been good

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By *esterLilacCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"

I’ve played in the jacuzzi and not played there

Never seen any inappropriate behaviour/touching against anyone’s will and I’m sure a quick no thanks if someone showed interest would suffice - most are very respectful there

wot they said.

It's a well run club and bad behavior is not tolerated.

I’ve never visited a club yet where I thought everything was 100%. And Chams has its fair share of problems.

Does any club ever have 100% good behaviour- I suspect that club doesn’t exist!

I was just making the point in my trips, and I appreciate thats not a huge trial, the behaviour in the jacuzzi has been good "

I think it’s important how a club deals with bad behaviour or rule breaking that counts. It only takes one idiot to break the rules in any club but it’s a) up to the members/guests to speak up and tell the idiot and b) inform the staff. If staff don’t know, then they can’t deal with the situation.

On a separate note... we really enjoy Chams.

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

Been a few times.guy stroked her arm in jacuzzi without asking.that and a quiet night about finished her off on the swinging front.club generally is nice though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been Midweek but always find Mondays and Fridays are best."

We too find Mondays and Fridays the best and always manage to have some playtime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really want to go on a Friday but I'm not sure anyone would be interested in playing with us as we are a larger couple and don't want to feel out of place or uncomfortable xx

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I really want to go on a Friday but I'm not sure anyone would be interested in playing with us as we are a larger couple and don't want to feel out of place or uncomfortable xx"

Are you looking for single guys or couples/girls?

Friday’s is the busiest night for single guys and you wouldn’t have an issue I don’t think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really want to go on a Friday but I'm not sure anyone would be interested in playing with us as we are a larger couple and don't want to feel out of place or uncomfortable xx

Are you looking for single guys or couples/girls?

Friday’s is the busiest night for single guys and you wouldn’t have an issue I don’t think "

We mainly play with couples and females but I sometimes like to play with single guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fridays Sundays and mondays for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fridays Sundays and mondays for me. "

I love Sundays x

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By *t my DesiresWoman
over a year ago

Bitchville

Monday and Sunday are the best

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