FabSwingers.com forum: Enticing single females to clubs

By *0xy OP Woman
over a year ago

Warwick

Hey ladies, I keep hearing that single females are like unicorns but I know we are definitely out there and there is so much fun to be had in a safe environment. So what would entice you to go to a club?

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I already go to club's and am aware it is a far safer place to meet. Choice of men you can actually see in person and great atmosphere to socialise in.

I often talk to single ladies about the benefits of going to club's.

I think it's all about ensuring the ladies are reassured that it is completely safe and that no means no. Once ladies have attended a club, they keep returning

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest never see a shortage of single females at clubs to be honest I’ve been on a few occasions where women outnumber men

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Hey ladies, I keep hearing that single females are like unicorns but I know we are definitely out there and there is so much fun to be had in a safe environment. So what would entice you to go to a club?

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Is Liberty Elite short of single females then?

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Well there's a lot of single females who come cupids me included be ause u feel safe arriving alone and leaving plus it well looked after inside xx

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Is Liberty Elite short of single females then? "

Not when me and my gang go!

Love that place, Mature Mischief and Lovetoparty will be the next two I’m at.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"To be honest never see a shortage of single females at clubs to be honest I’ve been on a few occasions where women outnumber men "

Would that be at Greedy Girl type events, or 'ordinary' nights?

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

"I already go to club's and am aware it is a far safer place to meet. Choice of men you can actually see in person and great atmosphere to socialise in.

I often talk to single ladies about the benefits of going to club's.

I think it's all about ensuring the ladies are reassured that it is completely safe and that no means no. Once ladies have attended a club, they keep returning

We agree with you! By the looks of it we go to the same club, we have only been 3 times and although we are a couple and im sure there are far more nerves involved going as a single lady the first thing we noticed was how friendly and laid back everyone was. We dont mind admiting that we were nervous about being hounded by single guys, which we guess is a worry to single girla going for the first time but they were all very respectful and polite x

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I go to a certain Midlands club most Friday's and I love it, I much prefer it to vanilla pubs and clubs. I don't feel intimidated, harassed etc, just chilled out with the option to gave fun if I want. In fact, there's quite a few of us single females that go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs do offer a great place for couples and single females to meet and we are looking further afield than Brighton to meet them.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I love going to clubs, I much prefer it to trying to arrange meets through fab. Since I've been going to clubs I only really use fab now for the forums and to keep in touch with people I've met at the clubs.

I feel much safer going to clubs as there are always people watching out for you and making sure you are ok.

I'm not sure how you would encourage more single ladies to go. I was very scared in the beginning and thought clubs would be seedy places.

Maybe the clubs could make their websites more "female friendly". Lots of club websites are very geared towards couples and single men. There isn't really a section to reassure ladies who will be going on their own. There is always a section for single men, usually detailing the rules for them and requirements for membership etc. You could have a similar section for ladies that explains how the club will look after them and what to expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest never see a shortage of single females at clubs to be honest I’ve been on a few occasions where women outnumber men

Would that be at Greedy Girl type events, or 'ordinary' nights?

The club we attend regularly is Mingles on a Saturday more than once the club has not been able to fill its quota for single guys

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By *exyminxxWoman
over a year ago

sexyville

I go to Eureka Couples and Singke Female Evening and love it. It's much safer than going out to the pub to be completely honest x

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

i go to clubs

love it they are the only way I meet now so much easier and safer.

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By *asterBunny38Woman
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

I tried my first club (recommended by a member) last month and went on my own. The team there were friendly and welcoming and reassured me that if there was any bother to just let them know and they would speak to anyone who didn't accept that No meant NO. I was given the tour by a couple of members who were very informative about what to expect. The clientele were polite and respectful and I'm looking forward to going back there soon.

I think a Web page for single ladies attending a venue is a great idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been to lots of clubs on my own all ways feel safe. cupids is my fav club not had any trouble there. just good fun you do get guys follow you. but just a polite no and they respect that.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"To be honest never see a shortage of single females at clubs to be honest I’ve been on a few occasions where women outnumber men

Would that be at Greedy Girl type events, or 'ordinary' nights?

The club we attend regularly is Mingles on a Saturday more than once the club has not been able to fill its quota for single guys "

Possibly the financial imbalance of the entry fees?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"To be honest never see a shortage of single females at clubs to be honest I’ve been on a few occasions where women outnumber men

Would that be at Greedy Girl type events, or 'ordinary' nights?

The club we attend regularly is Mingles on a Saturday more than once the club has not been able to fill its quota for single guys

Possibly the financial imbalance of the entry fees?"

I think that's for a whole other thread, the subject has been beaten to death.

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By *azielMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I have offered to meet at a club before now. Seems like a safe place to meet where you can express or experience a similar interest if you wish. However the offer hasnt been accepted before... god knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s on my bucket list to go to one, but I wouldn’t want to go alone I’d like to go with a friend. One day I’ll find a BBW night and be brave enough to go I hope. x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"To be honest never see a shortage of single females at clubs to be honest I’ve been on a few occasions where women outnumber men

Would that be at Greedy Girl type events, or 'ordinary' nights?

The club we attend regularly is Mingles on a Saturday more than once the club has not been able to fill its quota for single guys

Possibly the financial imbalance of the entry fees?

I think that's for a whole other thread, the subject has been beaten to death. "

My apologies for veering off topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on this scene on and off for years. Met people in many different ways but have never been brace enough to go to a club.

Maybe this is a contradiction but I wouldn't want to go with a guy because then I wouldn't feel free to play if the urge took me. I'm not sure what would make me go, but I do feel I'm missing out xx

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I am a bit scared of going alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on this scene on and off for years. Met people in many different ways but have never been brace enough to go to a club.

Maybe this is a contradiction but I wouldn't want to go with a guy because then I wouldn't feel free to play if the urge took me. I'm not sure what would make me go, but I do feel I'm missing out xx "

That makes total sense. I have a friend who would probably accompany me but we are only platonic friends, I think I would prefer to go with someone who I would/ could play with if I/ we wanted. Otherwise I’d feel guilty about having my friend accompany me and not have the option to go play elsewhere if he wanted.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"To be honest never see a shortage of single females at clubs to be honest I’ve been on a few occasions where women outnumber men

Would that be at Greedy Girl type events, or 'ordinary' nights?

The club we attend regularly is Mingles on a Saturday more than once the club has not been able to fill its quota for single guys

Possibly the financial imbalance of the entry fees?

I think that's for a whole other thread, the subject has been beaten to death.

My apologies for veering off topic

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"Safety" comes up again and again in this thread. I've thought for a long while there are a lot of girls out there who've gone home from a regular night club with a guy who'd be a lot safer in a swingers club instead but wouldn't even think of trying one in a million years.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

""Safety" comes up again and again in this thread. I've thought for a long while there are a lot of girls out there who've gone home from a regular night club with a guy who'd be a lot safer in a swingers club instead but wouldn't even think of trying one in a million years. "

I started internet dating when it was first invented (and before mobiles too), my friends were hugely concerned about my safety, all the while meeting blokes in bars and taking them home.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

I started internet dating when it was first invented (and before mobiles too), my friends were hugely concerned about my safety, all the while meeting blokes in bars and taking them home. "

Think we need to petition the powers that be to start a national safety campaign to get all these girls out of regular night clubs and into swingers clubs - purely for their own well being of course.

Seriously, it'd be an interesting poll actually, take a bunch of parents with university aged daughters and ask them "what would worry you more, finding out your daughter had gone home with a stranger after a night of drinking or finding out she'd been to a swingers club?"

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By *heHotWifeClubWoman
over a year ago

leicester

Is Liberty Elite short of single females then? "

I won’t be short of females tonight

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I love going Townhouse on my own .... everyone is so friendly and make you feel welcome .... I start off by sitting at bar and chatting to people who will listen ha ha ... well recommend it x

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

How about not having low price / free entry for single ladies and not letting single ladies in on couples nights.

My thought train is that as its easy for ladies to get men, they would easily find a man to go to a club with, on here for instance.

The couples price is usually lower than a single gents price so im sure the chaps would be happy to pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I go to a certain Midlands club most Friday's and I love it, I much prefer it to vanilla pubs and clubs. I don't feel intimidated, harassed etc, just chilled out with the option to gave fun if I want. In fact, there's quite a few of us single females that go.

Exactly. I think you will find a regular single woman clientele at most clubs around the country

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"How about not having low price / free entry for single ladies and not letting single ladies in on couples nights.

My thought train is that as its easy for ladies to get men, they would easily find a man to go to a club with, on here for instance.

The couples price is usually lower than a single gents price so im sure the chaps would be happy to pay.

It really isn’t that easy for women to find a man that she wants to go to a club with, heck, it’s not easy to find a bloke at all.

Most of us don’t want ‘just a fuck’.

The Bi ladies that would like to meet Bi couples, how would that work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hear hear! I've never found it easy to find men, here or elsewhere, as am exceptionally fussy

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"How about not having low price / free entry for single ladies and not letting single ladies in on couples nights.

My thought train is that as its easy for ladies to get men, they would easily find a man to go to a club with, on here for instance.

The couples price is usually lower than a single gents price so im sure the chaps would be happy to pay.

But then the lady would be stuck with a friend man who possibly once she met decides she didn't like that much.

If she went as a single lady she has a choice of the men there, if she gets on with someone then maybe they can come back again as a couple.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Is Liberty Elite short of single females then?

I won’t be short of females tonight

I know

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Is Liberty Elite short of single females then?

I won’t be short of females tonight

I know

Come to Chams, doctors and nurses night!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Is Liberty Elite short of single females then?

I won’t be short of females tonight

I know

Come to Chams, doctors and nurses night!"

How did the night go then?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Is Liberty Elite short of single females then?

I won’t be short of females tonight

I know

Come to Chams, doctors and nurses night!

How did the night go then?"

It was really good, busy! Next weekend it's the bank holiday party on the Sunday, always an amazing night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really want to attend more clubs this year, but it's rather daunting and previous bad experiences have put me off from going as a single fem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest never see a shortage of single females at clubs to be honest I’ve been on a few occasions where women outnumber men "

Because we're not allowed in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest never see a shortage of single females at clubs to be honest I’ve been on a few occasions where women outnumber men

Because we're not allowed in"

The club actually put a status on their profile asking for single guys to turn up

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Is Liberty Elite short of single females then?

I won’t be short of females tonight

I know

Come to Chams, doctors and nurses night!

How did the night go then?

It was really good, busy! Next weekend it's the bank holiday party on the Sunday, always an amazing night "

Glad to hear it

I went to LC which was the complete opposite, but then; you can guarantee it’ll be a quiet night whichever club I turn up in

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