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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we are really nervous are clubs the best way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just find a local club.

A lot do newbies nights so just go and mingle.

There is no pressure to play.

Just chat and you will find the nerves soon drop away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tks we are really nervous steve wants us to try soft swing says it will get me into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tks we are really nervous steve wants us to try soft swing says it will get me into it"

Just go with how you feel and stay within your comfort zone.

It's a lot less daunting than you think.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Stop thinking of it as a sex club.

There's your first mistake. Treat it like a normal night out at your pub. Go and chat and socialise.

It's like if on a night out you were interested in someone you would speak to them. .. doesn't mean anything is going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes suppose ure right a pub where u fuck lol

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

Go with the mind to have a look and just play between yourselves. It’s hot having sex whilst people watch. People are all super friendly and you never know you might hit it off with a couple and end up in private playroom

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By *eviantUnicornWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Just talk and get to know people. It's a space for you to meet like minded people. Only do what your happy with. No really does mean no in a club.If you only want to watch and play by yourselves that absolutely fine to do.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"yes suppose ure right a pub where u fuck lol"

You don't have to fuck.... That's the difference.

And erm how many quickies do you think have occurred down your local in the toilets......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

a few hun I shud know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes suppose ure right a pub where u fuck lol

You don't have to fuck.... That's the difference.

And erm how many quickies do you think have occurred down your local in the toilets......"

Or outside round the back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this life time, you don’t have to prove nothing to nobody, except yourself. And after what you’ve gone through,if you haven’t done that by now, it ain’t gonna never happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure many single guys go there and dont get sex

We here it on here all the time

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Im sure many single guys go there and dont get sex

We here it on here all the time"

I'm a single fem and I don't "get" sex.

As I have tried to say its not for that. It's like going to a T.V. or a gay night

You are there because you are relaxed and interested or gay/tv/bi.. you get my gist. It's a place to feel comfortable and where you don't have to mind your p's and q's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been recently for our first visit.

I'd say go for not long after it opens so it's quiet. Go with the intentions of just a social then you'll be less nervous. Choose a club that you can dress normally in then there's no added worry of what to wear.

Phone ahead and let the club know its your first time and they will take you on a tour of the club.

We actually had sex in one of the bedrooms but kept it just to us and locked the door.

I'm definitely ready to play next time we go! I actually can't wait to go again and I was the nervous one.

If you want to message me happy to help with anymore questions.

Jenny x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sent u a message jenny

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