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By *hri OP   Man
over a year ago

cleethorpes

Never been to a club or event but would like to, are single men welcome or should I find someone to go with me? X

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I go to the Attic on ma own occasionally. Have also been with a few ladies off here as well. There's no membership, and it's only £20 admission on a Saturday

Not sure which club you are planning on visiting, but check out their website, and give them a call first, as all clubs have different entry policies & prices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been to a club or event but would like to, are single men welcome or should I find someone to go with me? X"

Ive been to clubs and events.

As a single guy, i get snubbed a lot when i attempt to just being social. (Pubs etc, are different as there's no thought of sex being had in the back of people's minds) . some think im after a quick shag from bad experiences of pushy men, some can be up their own arses., but the main issue is it seems very cliquey!

I would go to an event, reason being its cheaper to mingle with swingers and get the feel of what a club would be like.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Pretty much every Club welcome single guys, certain nights of the week.

It's best to check the websites to see which club choices are available to you, on the night that you want to go.

Check the membership details, if you need to register first, (most club limit single guys, and so you might need to put your name down on a list before you go), check if there is a dress code and what you need to take with, for example identification, your own drinks etc.

At the club be friendly, introduce yourself to people comma chat and take note of any club rules.

Explain to people that it's your first time.

If you treat it like a more interesting and friendly nightclub or bar, you wonder why you didn't just go earlier.

Many single ladies are looking for single guys, they are an important some part of the club community.

I hope you have a good time.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Never been to a club or event but would like to, are single men welcome or should I find someone to go with me? X

Ive been to clubs and events.

As a single guy, i get snubbed a lot when i attempt to just being social. (Pubs etc, are different as there's no thought of sex being had in the back of people's minds) . some think im after a quick shag from bad experiences of pushy men, some can be up their own arses., but the main issue is it seems very cliquey!

"

I agree, and can speak from experience, of feeling about as popular as a Big Issue seller. You need a thick skin to visit a swingers' club as a single guy, or know people who will be there on the night you choose to go. Look for an event, or 'party' night, when the place you've picked is likely to be busy, that way you'll get to see what the club scene is about, even if YOU don't get to play with anyone. Another tip; tough it out until closing time, even if you are being ignored/avoided, and feel the urge to leave earlier. Most of the 'action' doesn't happen until later on

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Cupid's is good wether ur a sm or a SF or a couple give it a try x

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"Never been to a club or event but would like to, are single men welcome or should I find someone to go with me? X

Ive been to clubs and events.

As a single guy, i get snubbed a lot when i attempt to just being social. (Pubs etc, are different as there's no thought of sex being had in the back of people's minds) . some think im after a quick shag from bad experiences of pushy men, some can be up their own arses., but the main issue is it seems very cliquey!

I agree, and can speak from experience, of feeling about as popular as a Big Issue seller. You need a thick skin to visit a swingers' club as a single guy, or know people who will be there on the night you choose to go. Look for an event, or 'party' night, when the place you've picked is likely to be busy, that way you'll get to see what the club scene is about, even if YOU don't get to play with anyone. Another tip; tough it out until closing time, even if you are being ignored/avoided, and feel the urge to leave earlier. Most of the 'action' doesn't happen until later on "

You STILL haven't been to Townhouse!!! lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Never been to a club or event but would like to, are single men welcome or should I find someone to go with me? X

Ive been to clubs and events.

As a single guy, i get snubbed a lot when i attempt to just being social. (Pubs etc, are different as there's no thought of sex being had in the back of people's minds) . some think im after a quick shag from bad experiences of pushy men, some can be up their own arses., but the main issue is it seems very cliquey!

I agree, and can speak from experience, of feeling about as popular as a Big Issue seller. You need a thick skin to visit a swingers' club as a single guy, or know people who will be there on the night you choose to go. Look for an event, or 'party' night, when the place you've picked is likely to be busy, that way you'll get to see what the club scene is about, even if YOU don't get to play with anyone. Another tip; tough it out until closing time, even if you are being ignored/avoided, and feel the urge to leave earlier. Most of the 'action' doesn't happen until later on

You STILL haven't been to Townhouse!!! lol"

Believe me; I check your events diary regularly to find something I can attend I was free the last Friday you had that U-39's night (love the fact they're so scared of turning 40, they can't even call it 'Under 40's night lol ) I have a date in September set aside though

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