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By *jbucks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bletchley

Hello we are thinking of doing our first club but are very nervous as we don’t know what they are like and also how to go about things because for example Adam is not someone who is a person who can chat people up easily and just Jordan would be nervous. Plus i think it’s about £30 for a couple and wandering if it’s worth it as we have two girls so doing this may be a one off or a rare occasion thing. Please help us with experiences or advice thank you

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Everyone is nervous the first time they visit one of these places, but the usual response you hear from people tends to be along the lines of “I don’t know what I was worried about”. These places are hyped up beyond what they actually are, and you may even find the first one you visit to be an anti-climax, because you have built up an image in your heads about what they are like inside. Just go one night and see for yourselves. At least as a couple, you will have each other to lean on, unlike venturing in as a single. As for cost? Nothing in life is for free, but compare the fees for single guys to make yourselves feel better. Have fun

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We got to jaydees it's a good club for newbies. Not expensive to get in and no pressure to get undressed or play. Very friendly staff and customers. We have been about 15 x great facilities. Look it up on site see reviews and see what best night suites you. Take plunge you won't regret it, wife likes it as is very descrete place to visit

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By *jbucks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bletchley

Well your local to us so we will look up jaydees thank you x

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

Best thing we ever did was go to a club we have made so many new friends. We don't always play most of the time we just chat with friends and have a dance. You should definitely give it a try. Xx

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

You might also like to consider The Vanilla Alternative on a Saturday night when it's couples and single ladies only. It's an upmarket club with licensed bar and massive hot tub. Check out reviews at the end of the south east section of the CLUBS tab here. A link to the club's website is at the top of that page.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We can only comment on the clubs we have visited. We may give Va a try one time. Arouses is to close for home for wife's liking. Tho I may pay a visit to see what it's like

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were off to xtasia on sunday. Not sure how far your prepared to travel but xtasia in west Midlands (just of J1 on the M5) are having a free night on bonk holiday Sunday.

It's free entrance and as long as your on the guest list in fab forum as a couple you won't need to be members for this night.

If its a long road trip there's 3 hotels one being next door and the farthest being about 5min in a taxi. all are listed on their web site.

It's a great way to experience your first night without breaking the bank and the ffff nights are always great night's full of sexy people

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By *jbucks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bletchley

Thank you so many people with great advice and experiences to help us. I think it’s more of a case of finding the right club and preferably local

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By *aughty Little SecretsCouple
over a year ago

Wetherby

We visited Vanilla Alternative for our first visit( rather nervous) & loved it! We were soon made welcome & although we just chatted we found it a good experience ( really erotic) just hits the bullet x

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Which ever club you go to, try not to " chat people up".

It is more important to chat to people. Be friendly and think of it as a normal pub or nightclub and you talk to people normally. If there is a connection, then you find the chat might turn to sexual things.

There should be no pressure, might be better to go with the idea that you will just enjoy the evening, find out about club's people have been to, get some tips and just watch what is going on.

Don't expect too much and just relax and enjoy a different night out

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By *jbucks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bletchley

Thank you for such kind adivce people x

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By *ookornotMan
over a year ago

fife

just stay close together

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By *ssex Playfull CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Grays

Agreed, the vanilla alternative is a really nice club. Saturday nights are good as it’s couples and single ladies. Remember your the one in control at all times. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of reviews in the club section so suggest you read them before making a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello we are thinking of doing our first club but are very nervous as we don’t know what they are like and also how to go about things because for example Adam is not someone who is a person who can chat people up easily and just Jordan would be nervous. Plus i think it’s about £30 for a couple and wandering if it’s worth it as we have two girls so doing this may be a one off or a rare occasion thing. Please help us with experiences or advice thank you "

Most clubs are great but yes can be a bit nerve-racking the first time, would be lovely for you if you could find another couple to go with that's been before though

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By *inky kissersCouple
over a year ago

South East

As someone who can find it difficult to talk to people and suffers from social anxiety, going to a club was a revelation.

Found people there who it was surprisingly easy to talk to and made you feel welcome. After the first time I returned often as I was finding the interaction lots of fun, even without playing.

I would recommend it

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