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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys.

Wonder if you could all offer some advice please.

We are wanting to join the club scene but are unsure of how or what we need to do.

What do we wear?

Which are the best clubs to go to?

What do we need?

Do you have to do anything once inside?

Xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You are lucky that you have two great clubs so close -Quest and Pandora's. I suggest Quest is better for a first visit as it is much more compact. On your first visit take photo ID and proof of address. Quest is free to join for couples. Sunday is a good day as it is quieter than Fri and Sat nights. Take your own alcohol if you drink. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you.

Do we have a dress code to follow xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on which club you go to. There are reviews of clubs on here, you can have a look. There are also links to clubs websites, where they state the dress code etc. Some clubs are dress down clubs, where you're expected to wear just underwear/towel around you or even nothing. Other clubs only accept smart wear.

What you need: towel if there is sauna/hot tub and you'd like to try it; hairband for the lady if you have longish hair; condoms; lube. I always carry a small pouch with me with all my 'essentials'.

Drinks- again as per dress code, please check on club's website if they sell alcohol/drinks in there or if you can bring your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forgot about your last question. There is never any pressure in clubs for people to play. A lot of people go there for socials, to meet like-minded people in relaxed environment. If, at any point, anybody in the club gets too pushy, just report them to the staff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you so much for your advice.

It really is appreciated

Gem xx

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

I go Cupid's and they provide the towels and it's bring ur own alcohol u can purchase soft drinks and tea and coffee as well as buy condoms it's a dress down. Club but us women normally wear sexy underwear it's a great day or night out as it opens from midday during the week ull have all the info if u look them up on here x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can I ask what the men wear when it's a dress down please xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Usually boxers or a towel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thank you xx

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By *ipsxxCouple
over a year ago

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Just be yourself you’ll be fine.... we find clubs very welcoming and you don’t have to do anything you don’t want too xx just go with the flow..

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

Clubs were our first real introduction to the scene and it’s our favourite way to play now. For our experience they are pressure free and very sexy.

We love Chams I’m the West Midlands but have also visited Quest before. We very much prefer the dress down clubs and find them very relaxing. We tend to stick with towels as keeping track of knickers and bras can be ‘interesting’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any good clubs in Birmingham guy's...we where there before ( not into the scene then )...but enjoyed it and are thinking of going back again...just with a difference this time lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just the idea of my other half being in just a towel or boxers really don't appeal to him. Any clubs of where we can go fully dressed and have the choice of if we want to show ourselves in underwear xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

At both Quest and Pandora's you can stay fully clothed all night in the bar/lounge areas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for that. He'll be happy knowing xx

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle


"Any good clubs in Birmingham guy's...we where there before ( not into the scene then )...but enjoyed it and are thinking of going back again...just with a difference this time lol."

Xtasia or Chameleons not far from Brum. Both great clubs with very different "feels" to them. Chams is dress down, Xtasia is not.

Look at reviews of both and visit each website as both clubs may have special events on.

Xtasia has it's own bar (in a separate building adjancent to the club) where you can go before going into the main club if you want to talk to others pre the club.

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