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"The club we’ve been to was dreadful, such an anti-climax! We much prefer private meets from Fab but would love to find a decent club to go to. Amelia x" Like everything else there are good and bad. Perhaps ask for some recommendations in your area, or within your travelling requirements. | |||
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"Much prefer going to a club & seeing who I meet that I click with. No time wasters, everyone is there to have fun, you can gauge someone from actually meeting & chatting to them rather than from an online chat and it’s much better IMO. But everyone’s different & clubs aren’t for everyone! " The thing with the clubs Morty is; it all depends on who is in at the same time as you, which makes the difference. When it comes to private messaging in here, you start chatting with a profile that catches your eye, ticks the boxes you are looking for, and you go from there. If your messages go well, you arrange to meet, and it’s not like you’re meeting a complete stranger, as you already have a rapport built. Arriving at a club, if you know absolutely nobody, and haven’t arranged to meet someone in there, you’ve got it all to do, and that’s IF someone catches your eye. Add to that, if like the OP, you are a single guy, then you’re likely to have a lot of ‘competition’ | |||
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"Much prefer going to a club & seeing who I meet that I click with. No time wasters, everyone is there to have fun, you can gauge someone from actually meeting & chatting to them rather than from an online chat and it’s much better IMO. But everyone’s different & clubs aren’t for everyone! The thing with the clubs Morty is; it all depends on who is in at the same time as you, which makes the difference. When it comes to private messaging in here, you start chatting with a profile that catches your eye, ticks the boxes you are looking for, and you go from there. If your messages go well, you arrange to meet, and it’s not like you’re meeting a complete stranger, as you already have a rapport built. Arriving at a club, if you know absolutely nobody, and haven’t arranged to meet someone in there, you’ve got it all to do, and that’s IF someone catches your eye. Add to that, if like the OP, you are a single guy, then you’re likely to have a lot of ‘competition’ "And there lies the problem! Zero effort equals zero reward, those that put in the hard work are rarely on her moaning about not getting meets You do the Math as the septics would say!  | |||
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"Much prefer going to a club & seeing who I meet that I click with. No time wasters, everyone is there to have fun, you can gauge someone from actually meeting & chatting to them rather than from an online chat and it’s much better IMO. But everyone’s different & clubs aren’t for everyone! The thing with the clubs Morty is; it all depends on who is in at the same time as you, which makes the difference. When it comes to private messaging in here, you start chatting with a profile that catches your eye, ticks the boxes you are looking for, and you go from there. If your messages go well, you arrange to meet, and it’s not like you’re meeting a complete stranger, as you already have a rapport built. Arriving at a club, if you know absolutely nobody, and haven’t arranged to meet someone in there, you’ve got it all to do, and that’s IF someone catches your eye. Add to that, if like the OP, you are a single guy, then you’re likely to have a lot of ‘competition’
And there lies the problem!
Zero effort equals zero reward, those that put in the hard work are rarely on her moaning about not getting meets
You do the Math as the septics would say!"That's an assumption on your part. A lot of people (mainly single men) put a lot of effort in and still get nowhere. Assuming people get what their effort level deserves is just arrogant. | |||
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"Much prefer going to a club & seeing who I meet that I click with. No time wasters, everyone is there to have fun, you can gauge someone from actually meeting & chatting to them rather than from an online chat and it’s much better IMO. But everyone’s different & clubs aren’t for everyone! The thing with the clubs Morty is; it all depends on who is in at the same time as you, which makes the difference. When it comes to private messaging in here, you start chatting with a profile that catches your eye, ticks the boxes you are looking for, and you go from there. If your messages go well, you arrange to meet, and it’s not like you’re meeting a complete stranger, as you already have a rapport built. Arriving at a club, if you know absolutely nobody, and haven’t arranged to meet someone in there, you’ve got it all to do, and that’s IF someone catches your eye. Add to that, if like the OP, you are a single guy, then you’re likely to have a lot of ‘competition’
And there lies the problem!
Zero effort equals zero reward, those that put in the hard work are rarely on her moaning about not getting meets
You do the Math as the septics would say!"I put in a lot of effort visiting several different clubs, by myself, and not knowing anyone in any of them. It’s no mean feat. Would Mr M venture in to one, that he isn’t known in, as a single male? Are you admitting clubs are ‘hard work’ ? I don’t struggle finding private meets, ergo; I’m not moaning about not getting meets
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"Ate clubs? We prefer Trios. Sorry, I know it was a typo but the Trios thing was too good to miss." Haha very witty  | |||
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"Much prefer going to a club & seeing who I meet that I click with. No time wasters, everyone is there to have fun, you can gauge someone from actually meeting & chatting to them rather than from an online chat and it’s much better IMO. But everyone’s different & clubs aren’t for everyone! The thing with the clubs Morty is; it all depends on who is in at the same time as you, which makes the difference. When it comes to private messaging in here, you start chatting with a profile that catches your eye, ticks the boxes you are looking for, and you go from there. If your messages go well, you arrange to meet, and it’s not like you’re meeting a complete stranger, as you already have a rapport built. Arriving at a club, if you know absolutely nobody, and haven’t arranged to meet someone in there, you’ve got it all to do, and that’s IF someone catches your eye. Add to that, if like the OP, you are a single guy, then you’re likely to have a lot of ‘competition’
And there lies the problem!
Zero effort equals zero reward, those that put in the hard work are rarely on her moaning about not getting meets
You do the Math as the septics would say!
That's an assumption on your part. A lot of people (mainly single men) put a lot of effort in and still get nowhere. Assuming people get what their effort level deserves is just arrogant. "Rubbish My comment was based upon guys who think that they have an entitlement. You will see the same or similar comments in many other threads based on or about the same subject in these threads also. The bleating hearts are those who want to put in no effort but expect the rewards, then moan in the forums when it doesn't happen. And in answer to the comment from the poster below, Mr M wouldn't attend a club as a single male as we are a couple but as he understands what the lifestyle is about he would easily fit in if he were to do so. Its not all about sex, there is a great social side to this too.  | |||
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"Much prefer going to a club & seeing who I meet that I click with. No time wasters, everyone is there to have fun, you can gauge someone from actually meeting & chatting to them rather than from an online chat and it’s much better IMO. But everyone’s different & clubs aren’t for everyone! The thing with the clubs Morty is; it all depends on who is in at the same time as you, which makes the difference. When it comes to private messaging in here, you start chatting with a profile that catches your eye, ticks the boxes you are looking for, and you go from there. If your messages go well, you arrange to meet, and it’s not like you’re meeting a complete stranger, as you already have a rapport built. Arriving at a club, if you know absolutely nobody, and haven’t arranged to meet someone in there, you’ve got it all to do, and that’s IF someone catches your eye. Add to that, if like the OP, you are a single guy, then you’re likely to have a lot of ‘competition’
And there lies the problem!
Zero effort equals zero reward, those that put in the hard work are rarely on her moaning about not getting meets
You do the Math as the septics would say!
That's an assumption on your part. A lot of people (mainly single men) put a lot of effort in and still get nowhere. Assuming people get what their effort level deserves is just arrogant.
Rubbish
My comment was based upon guys who think that they have an entitlement.
You will see the same or similar comments in many other threads based on or about the same subject in these threads also.
The bleating hearts are those who want to put in no effort but expect the rewards, then moan in the forums when it doesn't happen.
And in answer to the comment from the poster below, Mr M wouldn't attend a club as a single male as we are a couple but as he understands what the lifestyle is about he would easily fit in if he were to do so.
Its not all about sex, there is a great social side to this too. "And there's the arrogance again. | |||
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"Much prefer going to a club & seeing who I meet that I click with. No time wasters, everyone is there to have fun, you can gauge someone from actually meeting & chatting to them rather than from an online chat and it’s much better IMO. But everyone’s different & clubs aren’t for everyone! The thing with the clubs Morty is; it all depends on who is in at the same time as you, which makes the difference. When it comes to private messaging in here, you start chatting with a profile that catches your eye, ticks the boxes you are looking for, and you go from there. If your messages go well, you arrange to meet, and it’s not like you’re meeting a complete stranger, as you already have a rapport built. Arriving at a club, if you know absolutely nobody, and haven’t arranged to meet someone in there, you’ve got it all to do, and that’s IF someone catches your eye. Add to that, if like the OP, you are a single guy, then you’re likely to have a lot of ‘competition’
And there lies the problem!
Zero effort equals zero reward, those that put in the hard work are rarely on her moaning about not getting meets
You do the Math as the septics would say!
That's an assumption on your part. A lot of people (mainly single men) put a lot of effort in and still get nowhere. Assuming people get what their effort level deserves is just arrogant.
Rubbish
My comment was based upon guys who think that they have an entitlement.
You will see the same or similar comments in many other threads based on or about the same subject in these threads also.
The bleating hearts are those who want to put in no effort but expect the rewards, then moan in the forums when it doesn't happen.
And in answer to the comment from the poster below, Mr M wouldn't attend a club as a single male as we are a couple but as he understands what the lifestyle is about he would easily fit in if he were to do so.
Its not all about sex, there is a great social side to this too.
And there's the arrogance again."If honesty is arrogance then guilty as charged  | |||
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"Ate clubs? We prefer Trios. Sorry, I know it was a typo but the Trios thing was too good to miss." I like a Jacobs Orange Club | |||
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"Ate clubs? We prefer Trios. Sorry, I know it was a typo but the Trios thing was too good to miss. I like a Jacobs Orange Club" Me too when they had the lovely thick chocolate on them...yum | |||
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"Much prefer going to a club & seeing who I meet that I click with. No time wasters, everyone is there to have fun, you can gauge someone from actually meeting & chatting to them rather than from an online chat and it’s much better IMO. But everyone’s different & clubs aren’t for everyone! The thing with the clubs Morty is; it all depends on who is in at the same time as you, which makes the difference. When it comes to private messaging in here, you start chatting with a profile that catches your eye, ticks the boxes you are looking for, and you go from there. If your messages go well, you arrange to meet, and it’s not like you’re meeting a complete stranger, as you already have a rapport built. Arriving at a club, if you know absolutely nobody, and haven’t arranged to meet someone in there, you’ve got it all to do, and that’s IF someone catches your eye. Add to that, if like the OP, you are a single guy, then you’re likely to have a lot of ‘competition’
And there lies the problem!
Zero effort equals zero reward, those that put in the hard work are rarely on her moaning about not getting meets
You do the Math as the septics would say!
That's an assumption on your part. A lot of people (mainly single men) put a lot of effort in and still get nowhere. Assuming people get what their effort level deserves is just arrogant.
Rubbish
My comment was based upon guys who think that they have an entitlement.
You will see the same or similar comments in many other threads based on or about the same subject in these threads also.
The bleating hearts are those who want to put in no effort but expect the rewards, then moan in the forums when it doesn't happen.
And in answer to the comment from the poster below, Mr M wouldn't attend a club as a single male as we are a couple but as he understands what the lifestyle is about he would easily fit in if he were to do so.
Its not all about sex, there is a great social side to this too. "I’ve never thought I had an entitlement when I’ve been in a club, I’ve genuinely only ever gone in with an open mind, and zero expectations. My original post on this thread was in reply to the OP’s question of whether clubs were better than using Fab for private meets, to which I answered honestly. | |||
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"Much prefer going to a club & seeing who I meet that I click with. No time wasters, everyone is there to have fun, you can gauge someone from actually meeting & chatting to them rather than from an online chat and it’s much better IMO. But everyone’s different & clubs aren’t for everyone! The thing with the clubs Morty is; it all depends on who is in at the same time as you, which makes the difference. When it comes to private messaging in here, you start chatting with a profile that catches your eye, ticks the boxes you are looking for, and you go from there. If your messages go well, you arrange to meet, and it’s not like you’re meeting a complete stranger, as you already have a rapport built. Arriving at a club, if you know absolutely nobody, and haven’t arranged to meet someone in there, you’ve got it all to do, and that’s IF someone catches your eye. Add to that, if like the OP, you are a single guy, then you’re likely to have a lot of ‘competition’
And there lies the problem!
Zero effort equals zero reward, those that put in the hard work are rarely on her moaning about not getting meets
You do the Math as the septics would say!
That's an assumption on your part. A lot of people (mainly single men) put a lot of effort in and still get nowhere. Assuming people get what their effort level deserves is just arrogant.
Rubbish
My comment was based upon guys who think that they have an entitlement.
You will see the same or similar comments in many other threads based on or about the same subject in these threads also.
The bleating hearts are those who want to put in no effort but expect the rewards, then moan in the forums when it doesn't happen.
And in answer to the comment from the poster below, Mr M wouldn't attend a club as a single male as we are a couple but as he understands what the lifestyle is about he would easily fit in if he were to do so.
Its not all about sex, there is a great social side to this too.
I’ve never thought I had an entitlement when I’ve been in a club, I’ve genuinely only ever gone in with an open mind, and zero expectations. My original post on this thread was in reply to the OP’s question of whether clubs were better than using Fab for private meets, to which I answered honestly. "We were not having a snipe at you personally but were just stating that a lot of guys do feel that they are entitled in the club's as well as on here. There was no offence to you intended, apologies if that's how it came across. | |||
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"Much prefer going to a club & seeing who I meet that I click with. No time wasters, everyone is there to have fun, you can gauge someone from actually meeting & chatting to them rather than from an online chat and it’s much better IMO. But everyone’s different & clubs aren’t for everyone! The thing with the clubs Morty is; it all depends on who is in at the same time as you, which makes the difference. When it comes to private messaging in here, you start chatting with a profile that catches your eye, ticks the boxes you are looking for, and you go from there. If your messages go well, you arrange to meet, and it’s not like you’re meeting a complete stranger, as you already have a rapport built. Arriving at a club, if you know absolutely nobody, and haven’t arranged to meet someone in there, you’ve got it all to do, and that’s IF someone catches your eye. Add to that, if like the OP, you are a single guy, then you’re likely to have a lot of ‘competition’
And there lies the problem!
Zero effort equals zero reward, those that put in the hard work are rarely on her moaning about not getting meets
You do the Math as the septics would say!
That's an assumption on your part. A lot of people (mainly single men) put a lot of effort in and still get nowhere. Assuming people get what their effort level deserves is just arrogant.
Rubbish
My comment was based upon guys who think that they have an entitlement.
You will see the same or similar comments in many other threads based on or about the same subject in these threads also.
The bleating hearts are those who want to put in no effort but expect the rewards, then moan in the forums when it doesn't happen.
And in answer to the comment from the poster below, Mr M wouldn't attend a club as a single male as we are a couple but as he understands what the lifestyle is about he would easily fit in if he were to do so.
Its not all about sex, there is a great social side to this too.
I’ve never thought I had an entitlement when I’ve been in a club, I’ve genuinely only ever gone in with an open mind, and zero expectations. My original post on this thread was in reply to the OP’s question of whether clubs were better than using Fab for private meets, to which I answered honestly.
We were not having a snipe at you personally but were just stating that a lot of guys do feel that they are entitled in the club's as well as on here.
There was no offence to you intended, apologies if that's how it came across."Thank you | |||
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"Much prefer going to a club & seeing who I meet that I click with. No time wasters, everyone is there to have fun, you can gauge someone from actually meeting & chatting to them rather than from an online chat and it’s much better IMO. But everyone’s different & clubs aren’t for everyone! The thing with the clubs Morty is; it all depends on who is in at the same time as you, which makes the difference. When it comes to private messaging in here, you start chatting with a profile that catches your eye, ticks the boxes you are looking for, and you go from there. If your messages go well, you arrange to meet, and it’s not like you’re meeting a complete stranger, as you already have a rapport built. Arriving at a club, if you know absolutely nobody, and haven’t arranged to meet someone in there, you’ve got it all to do, and that’s IF someone catches your eye. Add to that, if like the OP, you are a single guy, then you’re likely to have a lot of ‘competition’
And there lies the problem!
Zero effort equals zero reward, those that put in the hard work are rarely on her moaning about not getting meets
You do the Math as the septics would say!
That's an assumption on your part. A lot of people (mainly single men) put a lot of effort in and still get nowhere. Assuming people get what their effort level deserves is just arrogant.
Rubbish
My comment was based upon guys who think that they have an entitlement.
You will see the same or similar comments in many other threads based on or about the same subject in these threads also.
The bleating hearts are those who want to put in no effort but expect the rewards, then moan in the forums when it doesn't happen.
And in answer to the comment from the poster below, Mr M wouldn't attend a club as a single male as we are a couple but as he understands what the lifestyle is about he would easily fit in if he were to do so.
Its not all about sex, there is a great social side to this too.
I’ve never thought I had an entitlement when I’ve been in a club, I’ve genuinely only ever gone in with an open mind, and zero expectations. My original post on this thread was in reply to the OP’s question of whether clubs were better than using Fab for private meets, to which I answered honestly.
We were not having a snipe at you personally but were just stating that a lot of guys do feel that they are entitled in the club's as well as on here.
There was no offence to you intended, apologies if that's how it came across.
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"Much prefer going to a club & seeing who I meet that I click with. No time wasters, everyone is there to have fun, you can gauge someone from actually meeting & chatting to them rather than from an online chat and it’s much better IMO. But everyone’s different & clubs aren’t for everyone! The thing with the clubs Morty is; it all depends on who is in at the same time as you, which makes the difference. When it comes to private messaging in here, you start chatting with a profile that catches your eye, ticks the boxes you are looking for, and you go from there. If your messages go well, you arrange to meet, and it’s not like you’re meeting a complete stranger, as you already have a rapport built. Arriving at a club, if you know absolutely nobody, and haven’t arranged to meet someone in there, you’ve got it all to do, and that’s IF someone catches your eye. Add to that, if like the OP, you are a single guy, then you’re likely to have a lot of ‘competition’
And there lies the problem!
Zero effort equals zero reward, those that put in the hard work are rarely on her moaning about not getting meets
You do the Math as the septics would say!
That's an assumption on your part. A lot of people (mainly single men) put a lot of effort in and still get nowhere. Assuming people get what their effort level deserves is just arrogant. "Have to agree here. I put effort in chatting to couples and usually get snubbed more than if i were in a different environment like a pub, possibly because they think I'm just after a shag, whereas im just being sociable. Some people are up their own arses with attitude and i just stay clear, some are great to chat to without sex of any kind entering the conversation, sometimes we do play. Single men do get prejudged i have to say, based on some single guys behaviour. I just take people for what they are. Couples and women will argue against what I've said but;They aint a single guy so can't appreciate the experiences of one, or be treated like one when in a club | |||
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