FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys not feeling it

By *ikeC81 OP Man
over a year ago

harrow

It’s interesting how in the past I have heard couples and women say they have turned up at a club and then within first couple of hours they were not feeling it

Well for the first time in a long time on Saturday this happened to me. Which is annoying as I was talking to great company, had good music and felt really up for it. Then I just turned.

I couldn’t be arsed to ask people to play, even watching people fuck was not doing it for me (normally does). In the end I just decided to go home.

I wonder if others had similar issues. I hadn’t even drank a lot. Probably 3 glasses of booze. Not enough to make me unhappy and I wasn’t on any meds

Anyway I just wanted to say to people it’s ok to have nights like that and it’s ok to not want to play

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"It’s interesting how in the past I have heard couples and women say they have turned up at a club and then within first couple of hours they were not feeling it

Well for the first time in a long time on Saturday this happened to me. Which is annoying as I was talking to great company, had good music and felt really up for it. Then I just turned.

I couldn’t be arsed to ask people to play, even watching people fuck was not doing it for me (normally does). In the end I just decided to go home.

I wonder if others had similar issues. I hadn’t even drank a lot. Probably 3 glasses of booze. Not enough to make me unhappy and I wasn’t on any meds

Anyway I just wanted to say to people it’s ok to have nights like that and it’s ok to not want to play

Yup same here had enough I think need a break

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"It’s interesting how in the past I have heard couples and women say they have turned up at a club and then within first couple of hours they were not feeling it

Well for the first time in a long time on Saturday this happened to me. Which is annoying as I was talking to great company, had good music and felt really up for it. Then I just turned.

I couldn’t be arsed to ask people to play, even watching people fuck was not doing it for me (normally does). In the end I just decided to go home.

I wonder if others had similar issues. I hadn’t even drank a lot. Probably 3 glasses of booze. Not enough to make me unhappy and I wasn’t on any meds

Anyway I just wanted to say to people it’s ok to have nights like that and it’s ok to not want to play

Thanks for sharing Mike

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

We felt like this the last time we visited our favourite club.

Whilst we really enjoyed our evening just relaxing etc we just didnt feel like playing!!!

It happens ... just love the fact that good clubs have no pressure policies and as individuals we feel relaxed enough to do whatever we want to do or NOT do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With me wanting to try clubs it’s nice to read the forums and read peoples experiences,

I don’t know how I would feel on my first visit seems a bit daunting ha so gonna try a social first

But thanks for sharing OP

nice to read different sides

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

That's the great thing about clubs, they're social places as well as the rest of it. I feel far safer at a club than at a regular nightclub so it's my go to place if I fancy a night out.

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By *tuartsCelloCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"That's the great thing about clubs, they're social places as well as the rest of it. I feel far safer at a club than at a regular nightclub so it's my go to place if I fancy a night out."

Same for us - sometimes we like to play and sometimes its just a social in a nice safe environment - much better than normal clubs, less idiots x

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"That's the great thing about clubs, they're social places as well as the rest of it. I feel far safer at a club than at a regular nightclub so it's my go to place if I fancy a night out.

Same for us - sometimes we like to play and sometimes its just a social in a nice safe environment - much better than normal clubs, less idiots x "

Sometimes the latter appear....lol

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"That's the great thing about clubs, they're social places as well as the rest of it. I feel far safer at a club than at a regular nightclub so it's my go to place if I fancy a night out.

Same for us - sometimes we like to play and sometimes its just a social in a nice safe environment - much better than normal clubs, less idiots x "

This me too so much. I don't play that often, but I love the liberation of the clubs and scene.

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around

I rarely ever feel it at clubs. But love the people and sicial side and could count the urge to play on both hands over my 14 years in scene unless with planned company..

Its all means something to different people and thats the great thing about it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't always feel the need to play at clubs, just taking in the atmosphere can be enough

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