FabSwingers.com forum: First club

By *WS21 OP Man
over a year ago

farnbourgh

Hi all, this is my 2nd time on fab and went to a few socials on my last profile, tho I still haven’t been to a club yet, what’s everyone’s opinions on this should I wait and try go to a few more social and get to know more people on here or just man up and go to a club on my own as a single male as I don’t want it to seem weird, any advice would greatly be appreciated Stu x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Perhaps consider going with another couple of single guys.

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By *WS21 OP Man
over a year ago

farnbourgh

"Perhaps consider going with another couple of single guys. "

Thanks a lot will have to look around for anyone who is up for going, thanks for your message x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Very welcome and good luck. X

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Hi all, this is my 2nd time on fab and went to a few socials on my last profile, tho I still haven’t been to a club yet, what’s everyone’s opinions on this should I wait and try go to a few more social and get to know more people on here or just man up and go to a club on my own as a single male as I don’t want it to seem weird, any advice would greatly be appreciated Stu x"

Look through the club reviews in here, and choose a club which has good reviews from single males, ignore those reviews from the club ‘fluffers’ (you’ll soon recognise what I mean), and try to pick a party night which will have plenty of people attending.

I’d advise you to lose the ‘dick in another woman’ pics from your profile too mate, as these tend to put other women off.

Good luck

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By *WS21 OP Man
over a year ago

farnbourgh

Thanks for your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I jumped in at the deep end, at Chams - quite a few years ago now

some nights amazing

some nights went home frustrated

inevitably, I suppose

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Definitely look at the reviews I go Cupid's and have seen many since males and females that have enjoyed thierselves as it's very clean and the people are respectfully after all we are all there for the same thing in retro spect have a look maybe invite someone to go with you x

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By *usty and LustyCouple
over a year ago

Fleet

Hellfire is good, it's SWISH on Saturday, more than welcome to come say hi to us if attending.

Anna

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By *addyAndKitten9Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

General tips: Be groomed, dress well, smell nice, be sociable and polite. Everything after that is a bonus. Being humorous and engaging about them rather than yourself in conversation always helps.

If you're talking to a couple, speak earnestly to both of them. If you haven't already been asked either politely ask if they're interested in playing or (and I think this works wonders, has for us) express an interest but say you're going to get another drink or let them have time to themselves and let them approach you again. Leaves you scope to continue being social and gives the the couple breathing room and a chance to discuss between themselves if they'd like to take up the offer.

Tl:dr; Be social, put in effort, don't pressure but do offer

Finally as everyone says, set your expectations to zero and you might be pleasantly surprised!

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