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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm looking to start attending clubs, I am well aware of most clubs having details about club etiquette but I'd quite like a female or couple to show me the ropes for my first time, as a club newbie. Just because I'm sure there will be a few unwritten rules...

If you think you're up for the job, let me know

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/743678

That's what I'm offering here

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hi and welcome to the forums

I've seen many threads like yours in my time here and the general opinion is usually to just pluck up the courage and go by yourself.

If you are able to go the offer to introduce newbies by the previous poster is a great opportunity. It will be easier than just walking in by yourself and you will have a little group of wing men/women .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest that you look for a club running a newbies night, most do about once a month. Email the club in advance to introduce yourself and that you’re new to clubs. They will look out for you, show you around and explain the dos and don’ts one to one. They will also introduce you to people and make sure you’re not a wall flower.

Trust me, that is a much better option of tagging along with strangers who you may not get on with.

Above all, enjoy it; clubs are great fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/743678

That's what I'm offering here "

Unfortunately I can't make the 20th, very kind offer though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi and welcome to the forums

I've seen many threads like yours in my time here and the general opinion is usually to just pluck up the courage and go by yourself.

If you are able to go the offer to introduce newbies by the previous poster is a great opportunity. It will be easier than just walking in by yourself and you will have a little group of wing men/women ."

Thank you for the words of wisdom, it is probably just a case of building up the courage like you say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would suggest that you look for a club running a newbies night, most do about once a month. Email the club in advance to introduce yourself and that you’re new to clubs. They will look out for you, show you around and explain the dos and don’ts one to one. They will also introduce you to people and make sure you’re not a wall flower.

Trust me, that is a much better option of tagging along with strangers who you may not get on with.

Above all, enjoy it; clubs are great fun. "

Thank you, I never thought about doing that it does seem like a good way in theory!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would suggest that you look for a club running a newbies night, most do about once a month. Email the club in advance to introduce yourself and that you’re new to clubs. They will look out for you, show you around and explain the dos and don’ts one to one. They will also introduce you to people and make sure you’re not a wall flower.

Trust me, that is a much better option of tagging along with strangers who you may not get on with.

Above all, enjoy it; clubs are great fun.

Thank you, I never thought about doing that it does seem like a good way in theory! "

It worked for me.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

If you can go to a bar on your own, you can go to a club. There are no piles of naked writhing bodies that you have to join, three feet from the entrance.

Walk in, get a drink and chat.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"I would suggest that you look for a club running a newbies night, most do about once a month. Email the club in advance to introduce yourself and that you’re new to clubs. They will look out for you, show you around and explain the dos and don’ts one to one. They will also introduce you to people and make sure you’re not a wall flower.

Trust me, that is a much better option of tagging along with strangers who you may not get on with.

Above all, enjoy it; clubs are great fun. "

So exactly like I was offering then

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/743678

That's what I'm offering here

Unfortunately I can't make the 20th, very kind offer though! "

Shame maybe you can make the next one ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/743678

That's what I'm offering here

Unfortunately I can't make the 20th, very kind offer though!

Shame maybe you can make the next one ????"

When will that be?

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/743678

That's what I'm offering here

Unfortunately I can't make the 20th, very kind offer though!

Shame maybe you can make the next one ????

When will that be? "

18th May

I am going to Xtasia on the 27th April if you can make that? There's a huge mechanical cock riding competition which is gonna be a right laugh, I'm willing to meet you at flirts on that night if you like.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/743678

That's what I'm offering here

Unfortunately I can't make the 20th, very kind offer though!

Shame maybe you can make the next one ????

When will that be?

18th May

I am going to Xtasia on the 27th April if you can make that? There's a huge mechanical cock riding competition which is gonna be a right laugh, I'm willing to meet you at flirts on that night if you like. "

Miss Purple. You are a star

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/743678

That's what I'm offering here

Unfortunately I can't make the 20th, very kind offer though!

Shame maybe you can make the next one ????

When will that be?

18th May

I am going to Xtasia on the 27th April if you can make that? There's a huge mechanical cock riding competition which is gonna be a right laugh, I'm willing to meet you at flirts on that night if you like.

Miss Purple. You are a star "

She really is!

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I really am lol

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/743678

That's what I'm offering here

Unfortunately I can't make the 20th, very kind offer though!

Shame maybe you can make the next one ????

When will that be?

18th May

I am going to Xtasia on the 27th April if you can make that? There's a huge mechanical cock riding competition which is gonna be a right laugh, I'm willing to meet you at flirts on that night if you like.

Miss Purple. You are a star "

Oh yes! We need reserve riders!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/743678

That's what I'm offering here

Unfortunately I can't make the 20th, very kind offer though!

Shame maybe you can make the next one ????

When will that be?

18th May

I am going to Xtasia on the 27th April if you can make that? There's a huge mechanical cock riding competition which is gonna be a right laugh, I'm willing to meet you at flirts on that night if you like.

Miss Purple. You are a star

Oh yes! We need reserve riders! "

Miss Purple, think you just signed yourself up

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/743678

That's what I'm offering here

Unfortunately I can't make the 20th, very kind offer though!

Shame maybe you can make the next one ????

When will that be?

18th May

I am going to Xtasia on the 27th April if you can make that? There's a huge mechanical cock riding competition which is gonna be a right laugh, I'm willing to meet you at flirts on that night if you like.

Miss Purple. You are a star

Oh yes! We need reserve riders!

Miss Purple, think you just signed yourself up "

Signed meself up lol I wish I had a choice lol I'm already on the team mate

Can't say no to _educed lol

So if anyone does want to be on the team or just see us lot make fools of ourselves please come along lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Welcome to the forums. Perhaps buddy up with a couple of other single guys and go, doesn't have to be a couple or female.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome to the forums. Perhaps buddy up with a couple of other single guys and go, doesn't have to be a couple or female. "

Yeah that is a possibility I guess! Thanks!

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Yacht chandlers usually have many types and sizes of ropes they can show you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might come along to cheer you guys on

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"I might come along to cheer you guys on"

And step in if needed right? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no!

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Hell no!"

How many drinks to turn that into a hell yes? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hell no!

How many drinks to turn that into a hell yes? Lol "

Actually gutted I can't make it, sounds like a good laugh to me

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I have some lovely red ropes..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have some lovely red ropes.. "

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Guess what colour mine is lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guess what colour mine is lol"

Hmm... Anything but purple?!

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Guess what colour mine is lol

Hmm... Anything but purple?! "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I have some lovely red ropes..

"
wanna tie.. I mean try hehe

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