FabSwingers.com forum: DARE TO... Bristol Swingers Club

By *are to Swing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Happy to help, advice or answer any questions You may have or quieres related to our venue.

You can also tell us what You think and let us know about any sugestions You may have. We want to hear from You.

You can PM us direct or carry on the thread here.

NOTE!

Please be patient We will do what We can to answer to everybody as long as the quieres or questions are related to the venue.

Thank You very much for all Your help and support. It really means a lot to Us. Hope to see You soon.

Cherry and Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, do you do a couples only or bi only night? X

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By *are to Swing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Hi, do you do a couples only or bi only night? X"

Hi,

Yes We do. All our events are listed on our website. The link for the website You can find our venue listed on a fabswingers website.

Click:

CLUBS - South West - Dare to...

Wilst You're on our website the best way to keep Yourself up to date and informed about all the events We are hosting is:

Cliking on the Menu - Events.

It will show You an event calendar showing You all planed events (with a short description).

When You find an event You are looking for or want to know more about (like a price, start-finish time and more) select it.

You will have a ability to book Yourself in and pay online. For moust of the events You can also chose to pay on the door (it's Your decission).

If You have anymore questions please feel free to message me.

Thank You

Mike

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Happy to help, advice or answer any questions You may have or quieres related to our venue.

You can also tell us what You think and let us know about any sugestions You may have. We want to hear from You.

You can PM us direct or carry on the thread here.

NOTE!

Please be patient We will do what We can to answer to everybody as long as the quieres or questions are related to the venue.

Thank You very much for all Your help and support. It really means a lot to Us. Hope to see You soon.

Cherry and Mike"

Hi! Welcome to the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new to all this really so as a single guy where do i stand within your club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for your reply! I’ve had a nosy at your website, nice to see a club that caters for everyone! Hopefully we’ll make it to one of your events soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to try the bi nite

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By *are to Swing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'm new to all this really so as a single guy where do i stand within your club? "

Hi,

Well as You are so new (also on fabswingers website) and don't have any verifications from meets with other people it will not be so easy for You.

As I'm sure You an imagine that as a Private Members Club We have a obligation to verify and check all our members and first time guests.

My advice is:

Have a look and browse through our web site (all the detailes, rules and information You may ever need are there). Go to our event calendar (as I've just explained to other gentelman on this forum thread). When You will find an event You are interested in and book Yourself in come.

IMPORTANT!

Please remember that on Your first visit You will have to have Your photo ID with You and show it at the entrance to one of the staff members.

You will be showed around the building and explained very clearly all the club and active event rules. Your first visit will be a part of verification proces and also a chance for You for Your first "meet in person verification".

If YOu have any more questions please feel free to message me.

Thank You

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm new to all this really so as a single guy where do i stand within your club?

Hi,

Well as You are so new (also on fabswingers website) and don't have any verifications from meets with other people it will not be so easy for You.

As I'm sure You an imagine that as a Private Members Club We have a obligation to verify and check all our members and first time guests.

My advice is:

IMPORTANT!

Please remember that on Your first visit You will have to have Your photo ID with You and show it at the entrance to one of the staff members.

If YOu have any more questions please feel free to message me.

Thank You

Mike"

Thank you for that, very informative and great advice. I will take everything you have said and will def look at your event calendar and take it from there. Once more thank you for the reply. Hopefully see you soon

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By *are to Swing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'm new to all this really so as a single guy where do i stand within your club?

Hi,

Well as You are so new (also on fabswingers website) and don't have any verifications from meets with other people it will not be so easy for You.

As I'm sure You an imagine that as a Private Members Club We have a obligation to verify and check all our members and first time guests.

My advice is:

IMPORTANT!

Please remember that on Your first visit You will have to have Your photo ID with You and show it at the entrance to one of the staff members.

If YOu have any more questions please feel free to message me.

Thank You

Mike

No problem, happy to help.

If You have any more questions or You are not sure of anything please message me and will do what I can to help.

Have a nice day and hope to see You soon.

Mike

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By *are to Swing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Would love to try the bi nite

You are very welcome to come

Thank You

Mike

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By *are to Swing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

As nobody is asking any questions at the moment I will use it to explain one thing. Hopefully everybody will read it and be aware of it.

I our club We are accepting cash and card payments. Some people are concern and asking, I think a important and good question.

For example:

"If I decide to buy a drink at the bar or book myself online on Your website and pay by credit or debit card how that transaction will look like on my bank statement?"

Answer:

Whole payment system (doesn't matter if You are paying at the bar or on a web site) is based and going through a PayPal. PayPal business account is in my name. So, on Your bank statement You will see the amount of money You've spent and My Name and Surname. In exactly the same way as if You will purchase something on eBay. So if that is a main concern I hope my explanation was helpful. I can only guess that is a main concern of most of the people asking that questions.

Please remember there is nothing to worry about. You will not see anything "bad" on Your bank statement or anything connected or associated with any sexual services in any way.

I will give You one more example.

Mr Horny Harry purchased 1 can of Diet (because He is trying to lose weight and be more attractive to all those beautiful women around). 1 can of Diet cost £1. Harry payed by debit card and walked away from the bar with a big smile of the Alpha male and leader of the pack. When His wife a Virgin Veronica will check his bank statement tomorrow She will that Mr Horny send/payed £1 via PayPal to Mr Wojciech Szczepanik (which is me, oh god, I so hate my name hahaha).

And even if You We will push that whole story a little bit to extreme and assume that Veronica somehow managed to acquire my or a clubs phone number and called asking what was that payment for. I will say what ever Harry will ask me to say (as it's not my business and as I don't have any right to get involved in Mr Horny and Mrs Virgin private life).

I just wish all adult and grown up people were aware of their actions and following them consequences.

And obviously I will do what I can to make everybody welcome enjoy our club that much so They will come back again and again and again (hopefully not becoming a pain in the ass in the process).

A biggest help and support I can ever ask for is:

If You liked it, if You've enjoyed it, if You had a great time and laugh (and SEX sometimes hahaha), Please keep coming back.

Remember! We are creating this club for us!

ok, enough of chatting shit!

Hope everybody will have a great, warm and sunny rest of the day (sunny hahahah uk? I wish).

Thank again

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mike does your club mainly cater for bdsm or is it for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've not been to a club before and it's something that we would like to try but I'm (Mrs) very nervous about it. I don't like going to new places I'm unsure of but in the same hand I'm very intrigued to try.

Any help or advice please? Like what to wear, what to expect, how to say no to people politely if you don't want to play with them

Many thanks x

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By *are to Swing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Mike does your club mainly cater for bdsm or is it for everyone

Different kind and type of events are orientated and designed to please different kind of needs kinks and fantasys. It not hard to guess that obviously We are doing what We can to make everybody happy and pleased (which is of course impossible and very frustrating for us). We are doing what We can. Moust of events (except just few) are open and are welcoming to everybody but We have to make sure that everybody is full informed and aware what kind of event He/She just agreed to attended. So reassuming You will be welcome to come anytime and on every event (except gay men events

and I sure nobody will be complaining because of a company of beautiful and attractive single Lady

I hope that answers Your question

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By *are to Swing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"We've not been to a club before and it's something that we would like to try but I'm (Mrs) very nervous about it. I don't like going to new places I'm unsure of but in the same hand I'm very intrigued to try.

Any help or advice please? Like what to wear, what to expect, how to say no to people politely if you don't want to play with them

Many thanks x"

Hi,

If You want to know what other people who visited our club think about it and what they have to say Please feel free to browse through our verifications and Club reviews

We are one of a kind Club which probaly the only one where You will not experience a situation called “a clicky atmosphere” it just never happened and I don’t think it ever will. As Yoh are hopefully aware as a private mwmbers club We are obligated to make sure that all our members are verified and legit. We will not let any any tramp or a parlour boy in because it’s not worth it, it’s embarrasing and bad foe business. If You decide to come, first thing You will feel and see is “feel like home relaxed and happy athmosphere”. Depending on time of Your arrival You will see place full of happy friendly polite and respetfull people. Nobody cares about You material status positions or background. Our guests are interested in having fun and spending a good relaxing time. I will personally explain You all the club rules and answer all You questions You may have or may want to ask me and when You gonna be ready I will give You a full tour around the building. Also as our first ever guests You are entitled to 1 dring each of Your choice. Our wat of thanking You for cominig.

Yes We have a club dress code (I’m sure You are not fancy to be surrounded by teenager looking like people in track suits and caps hahaha

I think it’s a common sence and it’s obvious. If You want to come to our place show us a respect make an effort to make Yourself more attractive. Look presentable and smart.

So, having all that in mind and being a normal respectfull and an inteligent adult You will not struggle to guess our dress code.

Basically our dress rules are: no track suits, no hoodies, no trainers, no caps. In other words “SMART CASUAL” attractive and sexy Ladies and Gentelmans respecting a special place their are lucky to be a part of.

And a last and moust difficult and a little funny enquiry. Since We opened our club I was trying making an effort and doing everything what was and is in my power to find a best nice and polite way to tell somebody to FUCK OFF

I don’t think that way exists and I don’t think it’s possible. That’s one of those things You have to just say it if all other nice and polite ways and clues You were trying to use didn’t made any desired/wanted/ planed changes or cause desired/wanted effect. That is that moment that know and realize that the only one thing You can do and tell that person (usually from some reason very resistance for education clues and knowledge) to remove himself or herself from our personal space. Basically in that situation You have two actions to chose from (the choice is entirety Yours). You can let me or my wife know what is the problem and what is the problem You are experiencing because of some other person and that persons behaviour or lack of socialising skills. And let us professionally get rid of that problem/issue or dependind on a situation reaolve it in a best possible way. Or (not recommended) seriously firmly but with a calm voice in the same time tell that person to kindly fuck off or remove him/herself from our range of eye site.

If We are talking about a way of refusing somebody asking or proposing or trying to initiate a sexual interaction wit Yourself. I’m sure that an intellingent person with good maners will not have a problem or struggle of found that task difficult. If You are really unlucky You may have a pleasure to deal with a person with artificially modified behaviour bravery and a special super power making Him/Her very resistance or even immune to knowledge and even a biggest and moust heroic and exhausting attempts of educating that special in a way person/representing that luckly for humanity almoust extinct species of complete and antisocial morons. Based on my peraonal experience that spiecies require a different kind of special approach if We want to gain a control over that persons behaviour. In other words people with special needs require special treatment and approach. My simples solution and advice for You in any of those kind of situations simply save Yourself a trouble and let me sort it out. Believe me I’ve for a lot of required eperiance knowledge patience and one of my special powerful convincing ability.

Hope I met Your expectations explained properly and answer all Your questions good enough.

If there is anything else that u might be unsure of or just any thing i might of missed then pls feel free to msg me back

Thanks mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assuming there is a carpark can guests stay overnight? (We have a campervan with a double bed and kip at 3 clubs so this is important for us) .... ta muchly ... you are just down't road it seems

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By *are to Swing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Assuming there is a carpark can guests stay overnight? (We have a campervan with a double bed and kip at 3 clubs so this is important for us) .... ta muchly ... you are just down't road it seems

Yes We have quite large private car park at the back of the building and We are also offering accommodation over night so it's really up to You if You would like to stay and sleep in one of our rooms or in Your camper van.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming there is a carpark can guests stay overnight? (We have a campervan with a double bed and kip at 3 clubs so this is important for us) .... ta muchly ... you are just down't road it seems

Awesome thanks.... looks just our kind of place .... we tick a few of the boxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks like we can nip to the church next door on the sunday morning if we stop over... bonus

(Street View is brill)

See you soon

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"looks like we can nip to the church next door on the sunday morning if we stop over... bonus

(Street View is brill)

See you soon"

Wait! There's a church?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey few more dude...

Do we need to pay that "£25/month Passport" thingy as well as the entrance fee?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the reply Mike! Hopefully I will pluck up the courage soon

xxx

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By *are to Swing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Thanks for the reply Mike! Hopefully I will pluck up the courage soon

xxx"

I know You will and We will have a pleasure to meet You and See You at our club.

We believe in You and sending You wirelessly some confidence

Cherry and Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the reply Mike! Hopefully I will pluck up the courage soon

xxx

I know You will and We will have a pleasure to meet You and See You at our club.

We believe in You and sending You wirelessly some confidence

Cherry and Mike"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another question if you don't mind?

Do you do a TV/TS admirer night or similar???

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

"Just another question if you don't mind?

Do you do a TV/TS admirer night or similar???"

I was about to ask the very same question lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just another question if you don't mind?

Do you do a TV/TS admirer night or similar???

I was about to ask the very same question lol

Well great minds...as they say haha

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By *are to Swing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Just another question if you don't mind?

Do you do a TV/TS admirer night or similar???"

YES OF COURSE ITS CALLED "TRANSCENDANCE" FABULOUS NITE

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

"Just another question if you don't mind?

Do you do a TV/TS admirer night or similar???

YES OF COURSE ITS CALLED "TRANSCENDANCE" FABULOUS NITE"

Thanks for replying.

I found the Facebook page for Transcendance.

It says: "Just to let folks know when purchasing tickets online the verification section can be skipped as this is a Dance night and not a swing event."

That's cool.

Is it always a social event rather than a swing one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re hoping to come along this Saturday (5th May), any other bi couples or bi singles going? Get in touch x

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By *are to Swing OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Just another question if you don't mind?

Do you do a TV/TS admirer night or similar???

YES OF COURSE ITS CALLED "TRANSCENDANCE" FABULOUS NITE

Thanks for replying.

I found the Facebook page for Transcendance.

It says: "Just to let folks know when purchasing tickets online the verification section can be skipped as this is a Dance night and not a swing event."

That's cool.

Is it always a social event rather than a swing one?

No hunni

It’s an open club play and dance event, which is now updated on f/b aswell

Thanks cherry

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