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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never been to a club before. Really considering going to angels sometime soon. What's it like for a single guy there? Any advice for a first time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey we are going to Angels on the 14tb april and always looking to meet a nice fit guy to join us x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey we are going to Angels on the 14tb april and always looking to meet a nice fit guy to join us x"

I'm even more interested in going now

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

You’ll like it, a really nice club. It is very friendly and as ‘Just the 2 of us’ have said, good looking single guys are always welcome - we wont be their on 14/4, so enjoy!

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By *ickey and MalloryCouple
over a year ago

abingdon

They're right - it is a friendly place and a lot of fun has been had the few times we've been. Sometimes with couples, sometimes singles.

Bit of a drive, but worth the effort.

And 14th is a possibility!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

To be honest, the experience that single guys have depends on them, not the club.

If they sit in a corner drinking, wander round following couples and ladies in the hope of playing, and then stand there silently wanking their cocks inches from any ladies who do decide to play, and touching without asking first, chances are they will leave disappointed.

If, however, they interact, chat, mingle, are friendly and polite, and not pushy, chances are they might have a much more positive response when they pop into any of the rooms where action is taking place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest, the experience that single guys have depends on them, not the club.

If they sit in a corner drinking, wander round following couples and ladies in the hope of playing, and then stand there silently wanking their cocks inches from any ladies who do decide to play, and touching without asking first, chances are they will leave disappointed.

If, however, they interact, chat, mingle, are friendly and polite, and not pushy, chances are they might have a much more positive response when they pop into any of the rooms where action is taking place.

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Do guys actually behave like that at clubs?

That's not my style. I'm not pushy and don't feel entitled to touch anyone who would be playing without consent.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"To be honest, the experience that single guys have depends on them, not the club.

If they sit in a corner drinking, wander round following couples and ladies in the hope of playing, and then stand there silently wanking their cocks inches from any ladies who do decide to play, and touching without asking first, chances are they will leave disappointed.

If, however, they interact, chat, mingle, are friendly and polite, and not pushy, chances are they might have a much more positive response when they pop into any of the rooms where action is taking place.

Do guys actually behave like that at clubs?

That's not my style. I'm not pushy and don't feel entitled to touch anyone who would be playing without consent. "

Yup, this and worse, it's often possible to end up with a 4 or 5 guy "conga line" behind you as a couple if you wander around the club seeing what's going on and possibly looking for somewhere to play.

Sometimes guys can get quite pushy if they've seen you playing with other single guys during the evening, they seem to think that, just because they have a cock, and your previous invited extra had a cock, that somehow it means they get a "free pass" to dive in with hands, or other appendages.

And, god forbid you should be so lucky as to find a lady to join you, somehow again some seem to think that this means they can join in uninvited, like maybe the guy of the couple might need a hand to cope with two ladies lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest, the experience that single guys have depends on them, not the club.

If they sit in a corner drinking, wander round following couples and ladies in the hope of playing, and then stand there silently wanking their cocks inches from any ladies who do decide to play, and touching without asking first, chances are they will leave disappointed.

If, however, they interact, chat, mingle, are friendly and polite, and not pushy, chances are they might have a much more positive response when they pop into any of the rooms where action is taking place.

Do guys actually behave like that at clubs?

That's not my style. I'm not pushy and don't feel entitled to touch anyone who would be playing without consent.

Yup, this and worse, it's often possible to end up with a 4 or 5 guy "conga line" behind you as a couple if you wander around the club seeing what's going on and possibly looking for somewhere to play.

Sometimes guys can get quite pushy if they've seen you playing with other single guys during the evening, they seem to think that, just because they have a cock, and your previous invited extra had a cock, that somehow it means they get a "free pass" to dive in with hands, or other appendages.

And, god forbid you should be so lucky as to find a lady to join you, somehow again some seem to think that this means they can join in uninvited, like maybe the guy of the couple might need a hand to cope with two ladies lol!"

Guys confuse me sometimes. Just because someone swings isn't an open invite to all.

That would annoy the hell out of me if I was there with a partner.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"To be honest, the experience that single guys have depends on them, not the club.

If they sit in a corner drinking, wander round following couples and ladies in the hope of playing, and then stand there silently wanking their cocks inches from any ladies who do decide to play, and touching without asking first, chances are they will leave disappointed.

If, however, they interact, chat, mingle, are friendly and polite, and not pushy, chances are they might have a much more positive response when they pop into any of the rooms where action is taking place.

Do guys actually behave like that at clubs?

That's not my style. I'm not pushy and don't feel entitled to touch anyone who would be playing without consent.

Yup, this and worse, it's often possible to end up with a 4 or 5 guy "conga line" behind you as a couple if you wander around the club seeing what's going on and possibly looking for somewhere to play.

Sometimes guys can get quite pushy if they've seen you playing with other single guys during the evening, they seem to think that, just because they have a cock, and your previous invited extra had a cock, that somehow it means they get a "free pass" to dive in with hands, or other appendages.

And, god forbid you should be so lucky as to find a lady to join you, somehow again some seem to think that this means they can join in uninvited, like maybe the guy of the couple might need a hand to cope with two ladies lol!

Guys confuse me sometimes. Just because someone swings isn't an open invite to all.

That would annoy the hell out of me if I was there with a partner. "

It's not every single guy who acts like this, and there is a variation on severity of bad behaviour, with the worst carried out by a small minority, however that is the behaviour that tends to stick in peoples minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have thought for a fleeting second or two about going to Angels,but I think they charge a high admission for solo men compared to women & couples.Don't see paying a lot of money with no guarantee of getting any fun.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Have thought for a fleeting second or two about going to Angels,but I think they charge a high admission for solo men compared to women & couples.Don't see paying a lot of money with no guarantee of getting any fun. "

...you are never guaranteed whether it is £1 or £1000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have thought for a fleeting second or two about going to Angels,but I think they charge a high admission for solo men compared to women & couples.Don't see paying a lot of money with no guarantee of getting any fun.

...you are never guaranteed whether it is £1 or £1000 "

Thats true,if it was £1 or even £10 then I'd have been there by now.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

It is an evening out for us, we drive a round trip of 100 miles, get dressed up, sometimes stay in a hotel so debating the cost of entry based on guarantee of action is missing the point by miles.

Succesful single guys know how to make eye contact, are well groomed, smell good, smile and talk to people. Unless you can do this don’t even think about going..., no matter how much money you are willing to spend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is an evening out for us, we drive a round trip of 100 miles, get dressed up, sometimes stay in a hotel so debating the cost of entry based on guarantee of action is missing the point by miles.

Succesful single guys know how to make eye contact, are well groomed, smell good, smile and talk to people. Unless you can do this don’t even think about going..., no matter how much money you are willing to spend."

Ok thanks for the advice.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Have thought for a fleeting second or two about going to Angels,but I think they charge a high admission for solo men compared to women & couples.Don't see paying a lot of money with no guarantee of getting any fun. "

And that's the sort of "I've paid more than everyone else so I am entitled to a shag" mentality that I am talking about.

Some guys just don't get it, and it wouldn't matter if entry was free, they still wouldn't get laid.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

If u want a guaranteed fuck u had best take urself to a sauna u pay the desk choose a female off u pop into a room and u pay her for sex! A swingers club does not and never will guarantee anyone sex! U shudnt go to a club if u have that mentality ud best pay for sex with a prostitute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u want a guaranteed fuck u had best take urself to a sauna u pay the desk choose a female off u pop into a room and u pay her for sex! A swingers club does not and never will guarantee anyone sex! U shudnt go to a club if u have that mentality ud best pay for sex with a prostitute! "

I have no intention of using sauna's & prostitutes. The point I was trying to make was as a solo man I'd have to pay a high price compared to women & couples to get into a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u want a guaranteed fuck u had best take urself to a sauna u pay the desk choose a female off u pop into a room and u pay her for sex! A swingers club does not and never will guarantee anyone sex! U shudnt go to a club if u have that mentality ud best pay for sex with a prostitute!

I have no intention of using sauna's & prostitutes. The point I was trying to make was as a solo man I'd have to pay a high price compared to women & couples to get into a club. "

How much is a "high price" if you dont mind me asking.

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By *b23Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

I also have debated going to Angels, sadly not usually free.

Never had any “club” experience so also looking for pointers.

So far advice has been more common sense is that 90% of club meets? Just being courteous to others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u want a guaranteed fuck u had best take urself to a sauna u pay the desk choose a female off u pop into a room and u pay her for sex! A swingers club does not and never will guarantee anyone sex! U shudnt go to a club if u have that mentality ud best pay for sex with a prostitute!

I have no intention of using sauna's & prostitutes. The point I was trying to make was as a solo man I'd have to pay a high price compared to women & couples to get into a club. "

I think the point being is that if single guys were charged a lower rate the clubs would be full of single guys, which is okay if you're bi or gay!

Very few single women attend clubs so a lower entrance fee is charged to encourage their attendance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u want a guaranteed fuck u had best take urself to a sauna u pay the desk choose a female off u pop into a room and u pay her for sex! A swingers club does not and never will guarantee anyone sex! U shudnt go to a club if u have that mentality ud best pay for sex with a prostitute!

I have no intention of using sauna's & prostitutes. The point I was trying to make was as a solo man I'd have to pay a high price compared to women & couples to get into a club.

I think the point being is that if single guys were charged a lower rate the clubs would be full of single guys, which is okay if you're bi or gay!

Very few single women attend clubs so a lower entrance fee is charged to encourage their attendance."

Some people are just so tight.

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By *b23Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

What’s the going rate In Angels for a single anyway, £30?

Could easy spend more that that on a night out and probably have half as much fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s the going rate In Angels for a single anyway, £30?

Could easy spend more that that on a night out and probably have half as much fun. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went there on Saturday...

Great club really enjoyed it

There were quite a few guys there and we invited a couple of em to play....

There were no 'Wanking Dead' and everyone seemed great.

As its an hour from us we will deffo be going again (well, in 2 weeks time after a Chams trip this Sat)

Go for it OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's going this Saturday? X

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Sadly not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not long till Saturday night! Who's going?

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By *tuartsCelloCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We love it there - always a good crowd and we usually find great single guys to play with, will be there again on the 21st x

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan
over a year ago

Kent


"If u want a guaranteed fuck u had best take urself to a sauna u pay the desk choose a female off u pop into a room and u pay her for sex! A swingers club does not and never will guarantee anyone sex! U shudnt go to a club if u have that mentality ud best pay for sex with a prostitute! "

Well said . I go for a giggle really . I usualky attend Eurekas in Kent as more about a drink n dance n socialize ...then bonus if anything happens . I might try Angels on 14th if anyone wants to meet up . X

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We love it there - always a good crowd and we usually find great single guys to play with, will be there again on the 21st x"

Yep; I’ve definitely been going to the wrong clubs.........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who's going this Saturday? X"

Want you but my ex is working a long day shift last minute so got my kids ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok let's hope you all turn up then as more the merrier.. x

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