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What was your first club experience like?

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By *hewinternytz OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hola everyone!

So basically I’ve been thinking for a small while about trying out a club.. and while I’m quite social and outgoing in my day to day life, I feel so nervous about the idea of being so sexually... open I guess (always had body conscious issues!).

Just wanted everyone’s own experiences of their first club experience as a night time read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really fun went to a club in England years and years ago.when I was young and skinny. Ended up in a red maids dress on my knees being wanked over by 6 guys.As my Mistress at the time spanked me . The walk back to her house was really mad me covered in cum on a dog leash.

That was nearly 23 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first experience was shit...but I went to a shit club (which has since closed thankfully).

I LOVE clubs now and have for years! We go to various clubs around the UK, visit at least one most weekends and enjoy every minute

Read reviews, choose a club that suits your tastes and be sociable, you'll have a blast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also...most clubs have private play rooms where you can lock the door and not be seen.

Until around 18 months ago I never played in public, since then my confidence has grown and now I don't care who's watching, in fact, I enjoy being watched! But still more often than not play in the private rooms.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Hey there,I went around a year ago..it was a daytime session and I went with a male buddy. Got to be honest I found it a bit odd to start off with and not very horny. The gaggle of guys that followed everywhere didn't help. It was a bit like being at a zoo!

But after an hour or so we got into it. I played with a couple of people.

So an interesting experience but not one I've rushed back to. A different club or a different day might be better.

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By *hewinternytz OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Also...most clubs have private play rooms where you can lock the door and not be seen."

That does sound more inviting! But is the same rules (I.e. unclothed) count inside anyway? I’m in pretty decent shape but I’ve always been wary of my figure since my youth (too much of being told what looks good!), even walking topless around a holiday resort is a stretch

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Also...most clubs have private play rooms where you can lock the door and not be seen.

That does sound more inviting! But is the same rules (I.e. unclothed) count inside anyway? I’m in pretty decent shape but I’ve always been wary of my figure since my youth (too much of being told what looks good!), even walking topless around a holiday resort is a stretch "

Downstairs was clothed , upstairs was towels for men and lingerie for women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also...most clubs have private play rooms where you can lock the door and not be seen.

That does sound more inviting! But is the same rules (I.e. unclothed) count inside anyway? I’m in pretty decent shape but I’ve always been wary of my figure since my youth (too much of being told what looks good!), even walking topless around a holiday resort is a stretch "

I won't attend "dress down" clubs where you have to be naked, in underwear or in a towel. I usually strip down to lingerie after a while but that's on my terms.

Only do what you're comfortable with but honestly, after one visit you'll see you have nothing to worry about. People of all shapes and sizes attend and many will get naked in the public areas. You look like you're in decent shape, but I get it. J has an amazing body but is only just now comfortable with having just his shirt off in clubs and that's over 2 years since I took him to his first club.

Choose the right club and you'll not be expected to strip down or do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Our first club experience was 13 years ago. It was a quiet night and we were like deer in headlights!

We saw 3 people that we knew, which broke the ice for us as that was our biggest fear!!! We basically decided that it couldn't get much worse than that and settled down.

The club was ok but we didn't know any different back then; if we were comparing it to clubs we have been to since, it was crap really. But we made great friends and it reinforced what we still believe...the guests and the staff make the club.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We didn't enjoy our first club visit. It was a few years ago and we've not been back to said club - though we've been to others since and love them (especially The Attic)

Problem was that everywhere we went we were followed by a group of 7 Asian men, which we found very off putting.

Thankfully most clubs don't allow this sort of behaviour, many don't even admit large groups of men, which helps prevent such issues.

But now we try and get to The Attic at least once a month, and other clubs too when we're we get a chance.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

My first club visit was a complete anti-climax; all that anxiety about what these places are like inside, the nervousness about being a single guy going in by myself, to a place full of strangers, it was actually a bit of a letdown. I’ve always likened it to a ‘Sunday afternoon in a working men’s club’ rather than a Friday night in a swingers’ club. I’ve been to several clubs now, as a single guy, and look at them as places to escape the hum-drum of ‘ordinary’ life, and certainly not somewhere a bloke can go to get sex (I’ve never had so much as a peck on the cheek in any of them). Don’t worry about your body image, you have nothing to worry about mate, and I personally would recommend you visit a dress down club, as it really is the best leveller

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

I tend to be quite shy socially when it comes to new experiences/surroundings and particularly if I don't know anyone around me as I'm most definitely not a natural extrovert.

My first 'club' visit was to Rios just over three years ago. I chose that place mainly because it was fairly quick and convenient to get to and also because it's a spa so there would be facilities to enjoy if nothing else.

Never having been to any place like it before, aside from interacting with the staff and the odd mutual smile and 'hi', I pretty much kept to myself (but NOT in a creepy staring zombie wanker brigade kind of way) and just enjoyed the spa aspect. Essentially I was taking it all in and getting used to being in that environment and I enjoyed doing that.

Although slightly outside what the OP is asking, on my second visit there a couple of weeks or so later, I started to make efforts to interact socially and was pleasantly surprised by the majority of responses. Haven't looked back since, either there or other places!

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