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By *east88 OP   Couple
over a year ago

darlington

Hi guys we regularly visit clubs and the most disappointing thing we find is the music choice

We’ve spoke to loads on this and everyone agrees that the right music. Creates that erotic sexual environment that I know with a lot of woman is essential to relaxing and “getting in the mood”

I mean I’ve been to clubs where they have played way to Amarillo!!!

So here’s my question what would you like to hear.

Ours

The Weekend Often!

Xxx

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

At some Clubs there is different music on depending on the Event or maybe different music in the "play area" to the dance floor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys we regularly visit clubs and the most disappointing thing we find is the music choice

We’ve spoke to loads on this and everyone agrees that the right music. Creates that erotic sexual environment that I know with a lot of woman is essential to relaxing and “getting in the mood”

I mean I’ve been to clubs where they have played way to Amarillo!!!

So here’s my question what would you like to hear.

Ours

The Weekend Often!

Xxx"

Agreed - it’s hilarious what’s on some of their playlists!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem is the variety of people that go there. Would hate to try and keep all punters happy. Plus most decent djs will charge and expect a decent system with monitors. Not sure many clubs could cater

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By *east88 OP   Couple
over a year ago

darlington

Sometimes it does seem like your in a working men’s club, waiting for bingo and the turn to come on ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah sometimes they get it wrong by going too modern and you get people not knowing how to dance to the rave music

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Some Clubs have theme nights.

ROCKSTAR PARTY a night with a variety of Rock music. 80's night, Ibiza Dance music.

Look out on Club websites and the Swinging Club Events forum.

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By *rousalsDJMan
over a year ago

Dubai/ Amersham

Great thread discussion... I DJ at Arousals as my profile name would suggest, most of the music I play is current charts or things most would be familiar with on commercial radio. I try and keep it up beat on arrival so between say 10pm and midnight but then I tone it down to the slower "sexier" r&b stuff & 80's groove. The advantage I have is that I mix music videos which are projected onto the wall, most videos feature sexy dancing or scantily clad individuals which can help...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great thread discussion... I DJ at Arousals as my profile name would suggest, most of the music I play is current charts or things most would be familiar with on commercial radio. I try and keep it up beat on arrival so between say 10pm and midnight but then I tone it down to the slower "sexier" r&b stuff & 80's groove. The advantage I have is that I mix music videos which are projected onto the wall, most videos feature sexy dancing or scantily clad individuals which can help... "

Genuine question but I've been to many different clubs amd most really don't have a demographic that would be listening to chart music or RnB. Is this really what club goers want or just what you want to play?

As I say this is a genuine question, I know my music tastes are fairly obscure and wouldn't expect click s to play what I listen too but equally can't help thinking most clubs play it safe with a very safe music policy that in reality no one particularly likrs or dislikes.

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION Swingers Club. Stoke

You have to play to the crowd that is in attendance, or to the theme of the evening.

And always remember that ones persons that's crap is another(s) love this

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

It's a tough one. All you gotta do is read the music threads to see how varied Fabbers' music is. So you're never going to please everyone.

I've been in rock bands for decades, but I don't find it to be in the least sexy music. Yet I see others who think it's really sexy.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I don't mind any type of music. What I do dislike is music so loud that you have to shout when chatting and even then shouting isn't quite enough to be heard.

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By *ohnfromnwukMan
over a year ago

North Manchester


"I don't mind any type of music. What I do dislike is music so loud that you have to shout when chatting and even then shouting isn't quite enough to be heard."

Couldn't agree more. Nothing worse than having to shout at someone you're about to have a sexy time with!

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"I don't mind any type of music. What I do dislike is music so loud that you have to shout when chatting and even then shouting isn't quite enough to be heard.

Couldn't agree more. Nothing worse than having to shout at someone you're about to have a sexy time with! "

Choose a Club that has a dance area with louder music and a social/chat area for getting to know each other.

Like AtlantisEVOLUTION

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By *oolandsexyCouple
over a year ago

kings lynn

The thing we have found is most DJ s feel they are showing off their skills and as loud as possible!

The tunes should reflect the people there, a good dj plays for his crowd. One club asked us on arrival for a tune we’d like to hear! Not guaranteed to be played but better aided the DJ to match the music!

The other main concern we find is that it’s way too loud! Yes we know DJs invest in systems speakers etc but swingers clubs are a little different. Most people want to ask s few more frank play questions before moving to play areas! Too loud and you can’t ask then delaying play or allowing presumptions to set in with disgruntled customers if they feel the others took advantage. So really, a good approach to music played, volumes set, leads to happier customers and more repeat visits! And the only down is a sad DJ who can’t crank it to the max lol

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By *east88 OP   Couple
over a year ago

darlington

Maybe I should have asked. What music do you like to have sex too.

And honestly who fucks to “Do you know the way to Amarillo “ or high ho silver lining.

Surely it’s all about the AMBIENCE ?? ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys we regularly visit clubs and the most disappointing thing we find is the music choice

We’ve spoke to loads on this and everyone agrees that the right music. Creates that erotic sexual environment that I know with a lot of woman is essential to relaxing and “getting in the mood”

I mean I’ve been to clubs where they have played way to Amarillo!!!

So here’s my question what would you like to hear.

Ours

The Weekend Often!

Xxx"

What kind of music do u like xxx

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"The thing we have found is most DJ s feel they are showing off their skills and as loud as possible!

The tunes should reflect the people there, a good dj plays for his crowd. One club asked us on arrival for a tune we’d like to hear! Not guaranteed to be played but better aided the DJ to match the music!

The other main concern we find is that it’s way too loud! Yes we know DJs invest in systems speakers etc but swingers clubs are a little different. Most people want to ask s few more frank play questions before moving to play areas! Too loud and you can’t ask then delaying play or allowing presumptions to set in with disgruntled customers if they feel the others took advantage. So really, a good approach to music played, volumes set, leads to happier customers and more repeat visits! And the only down is a sad DJ who can’t crank it to the max lol"

One of the reasons I like Chams! Background music in the bar and jaccuzzis is just at the right level but louder for those who like to boogie in the Starlight Lounge

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

I totally agree with what’s said, I’m 42 and probably at the lower end of age range for some of these clubs and I couldn’t tell you a single song in the charts but then I only listen to 50s rock n roll mainly but do know music up until 2000 I guess!

We once went to Eurekas for a 60s night and they played club music all night not a single 60s tune!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"I don't mind any type of music. What I do dislike is music so loud that you have to shout when chatting and even then shouting isn't quite enough to be heard.

Couldn't agree more. Nothing worse than having to shout at someone you're about to have a sexy time with!

Choose a Club that has a dance area with louder music and a social/chat area for getting to know each other.

Like AtlantisEVOLUTION "

I've tried Atlantis, the play rooms let it down for me.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"The thing we have found is most DJ s feel they are showing off their skills and as loud as possible!

The tunes should reflect the people there, a good dj plays for his crowd. One club asked us on arrival for a tune we’d like to hear! Not guaranteed to be played but better aided the DJ to match the music!

The other main concern we find is that it’s way too loud! Yes we know DJs invest in systems speakers etc but swingers clubs are a little different. Most people want to ask s few more frank play questions before moving to play areas! Too loud and you can’t ask then delaying play or allowing presumptions to set in with disgruntled customers if they feel the others took advantage. So really, a good approach to music played, volumes set, leads to happier customers and more repeat visits! And the only down is a sad DJ who can’t crank it to the max lol"

Yasss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes it does seem like your in a working men’s club, waiting for bingo and the turn to come on ha ha. "

Armadillo

They could play twingy twangy 70's porn film music.

Or put a microphone in one of the play rooms and broadcast the grunts and moaning sex noises.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I don't mind any type of music. What I do dislike is music so loud that you have to shout when chatting and even then shouting isn't quite enough to be heard.

Couldn't agree more. Nothing worse than having to shout at someone you're about to have a sexy time with!

Choose a Club that has a dance area with louder music and a social/chat area for getting to know each other.

Like AtlantisEVOLUTION

I've tried Atlantis, the play rooms let it down for me."

So have I, and I have to say; the music was way too loud

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By *rousalsDJMan
over a year ago

Dubai/ Amersham

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By *rousalsDJMan
over a year ago

Dubai/ Amersham


"Great thread discussion... I DJ at Arousals as my profile name would suggest, most of the music I play is current charts or things most would be familiar with on commercial radio. I try and keep it up beat on arrival so between say 10pm and midnight but then I tone it down to the slower "sexier" r&b stuff & 80's groove. The advantage I have is that I mix music videos which are projected onto the wall, most videos feature sexy dancing or scantily clad individuals which can help...

Genuine question but I've been to many different clubs amd most really don't have a demographic that would be listening to chart music or RnB. Is this really what club goers want or just what you want to play?

As I say this is a genuine question, I know my music tastes are fairly obscure and wouldn't expect click s to play what I listen too but equally can't help thinking most clubs play it safe with a very safe music policy that in reality no one particularly likrs or dislikes.

"

I was genuinely surprised too... I was bought in to play non-specific vocal/soulful house music but found I got a much better response to commercial more "recognisable" songs. There is a vast range of personal tastes within the club and I'm well aware I'll never please everyone but generally feedback on the night is positive, not to say that's EVERYONES review or opinion but also in the club reviews page there's many a mention about the "DJ" or "Music Choice".

Pop down bike monkey, I may even lure you onto the dancefloor! Lol 

As mentioned previously, I also mix with the music videos and people do seem to enjoy that aspect of it.

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By *hebagsCouple
over a year ago

worcestershire

I am a retired dj,well I still have a dabble,at a few party,s, now again,we sometimes like to go to clubs,where there,s good music,as we love to dance,and we can dance with other sexy couples,we have chated to loads of people,at clubs who tell us ! Thay want to dance..but the music is awful,people have asked,for ,other tunes,70,80'ect,and the dj,is lost!!!!! Unless it's not on his "laptop " he's not got it !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the music they play in the large playroom at Libertys.

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