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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.

At the front door of this club . . . nooooooo . . . seen the sights over the years, but open toed brown furry slippers and no socks - baggy knee jeans leather jacket that saw 1972 in and t-shirt with a rip in the collar . . . ain't happening and gobsmacked that you thought you were dressed to party lmao !!!

Sorry mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was rather rude and doesn't show you in a good light.

In my opinion.

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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.


"That was rather rude and doesn't show you in a good light.

In my opinion."

Shows us in an excellent light. Standards.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"That was rather rude and doesn't show you in a good light.

In my opinion.

Shows us in an excellent light. Standards."

Disrespecting customers is a good thing is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biting the hand that feeds you

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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.


"That was rather rude and doesn't show you in a good light.

In my opinion.

Shows us in an excellent light. Standards.

Disrespecting customers is a good thing is it?"

Disrespecting the club standards and members who make an effort week in week out isn't cool.

And most people would be the first to say why did you let him in!

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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.


"Biting the hand that feeds you"

protecting members that have standards actually

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"That was rather rude and doesn't show you in a good light.

In my opinion."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Biting the hand that feeds you

protecting members that have standards actually"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Biting the hand that feeds you

protecting members that have standards actually"

I wouldn't have any respect for club owners that publicly ridiculed someone.

It's childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That was rather rude and doesn't show you in a good light.

In my opinion.

Shows us in an excellent light. Standards.

Disrespecting customers is a good thing is it?

Disrespecting the club standards and members who make an effort week in week out isn't cool.

And most people would be the first to say why did you let him in!

"

You have every right to refuse entry to someone you think is dressed inappropriately. Coming on here and ridiculing him-with you the wording you used-is unprofessional.

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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.


"Biting the hand that feeds you

protecting members that have standards actually

I wouldn't have any respect for club owners that publicly ridiculed someone.

It's childish. "

And his name is?

The point is a general one about club entry standards.

Controversial? Glad to be.

But I respect your opinion.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"That was rather rude and doesn't show you in a good light.

In my opinion.

Shows us in an excellent light. Standards.

Disrespecting customers is a good thing is it?

Disrespecting the club standards and members who make an effort week in week out isn't cool.

And most people would be the first to say why did you let him in!

You have every right to refuse entry to someone you think is dressed inappropriately. Coming on here and ridiculing him-with you the wording you used-is unprofessional. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Biting the hand that feeds you

protecting members that have standards actually"
because he chooses to dress different he has no standards ????

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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.

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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.


"Biting the hand that feeds you

protecting members that have standards actually because he chooses to dress different he has no standards ???? "

There weren't any standards - my point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That was rather rude and doesn't show you in a good light.

In my opinion.

Shows us in an excellent light. Standards.

Disrespecting customers is a good thing is it?

Disrespecting the club standards and members who make an effort week in week out isn't cool.

And most people would be the first to say why did you let him in!

You have every right to refuse entry to someone you think is dressed inappropriately. Coming on here and ridiculing him-with you the wording you used-is unprofessional. "

Damn right it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Biting the hand that feeds you

protecting members that have standards actually because he chooses to dress different he has no standards ????

There weren't any standards - my point!"
i dont understand what you are actually saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That was rather rude and doesn't show you in a good light.

In my opinion.

Shows us in an excellent light. Standards.

Disrespecting customers is a good thing is it?

Disrespecting the club standards and members who make an effort week in week out isn't cool.

And most people would be the first to say why did you let him in!

You have every right to refuse entry to someone you think is dressed inappropriately. Coming on here and ridiculing him-with you the wording you used-is unprofessional. "

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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.

And his name is?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"And his name is?"

That's not the point and you know it. I'd say the best thing to do would be to ask for this thread to be deleted.

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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.


"And his name is?

That's not the point and you know it. I'd say the best thing to do would be to ask for this thread to be deleted. "

Actually no. Points out that we have minumum standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Biting the hand that feeds you

protecting members that have standards actually

I wouldn't have any respect for club owners that publicly ridiculed someone.

It's childish.

And his name is?

The point is a general one about club entry standards.

Controversial? Glad to be.

But I respect your opinion.

"

I'm not saying your post is controversial. I think it's unprofessional. You're trying to promote standards in your club, yet failing, with this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how not too promote a club

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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.

Awww well - onwards - upwards

Never change who you are.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"And his name is?

That's not the point and you know it. I'd say the best thing to do would be to ask for this thread to be deleted.

Actually no. Points out that we have minumum standards.

"

Why do you need to start a thread about this, totally unprofessional.

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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"That was rather rude and doesn't show you in a good light.

In my opinion.

Shows us in an excellent light. Standards.

Disrespecting customers is a good thing is it?

Disrespecting the club standards and members who make an effort week in week out isn't cool.

And most people would be the first to say why did you let him in!

You have every right to refuse entry to someone you think is dressed inappropriately. Coming on here and ridiculing him-with you the wording you used-is unprofessional. "

Totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"how not too promote a club "

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok "
pmsl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok pmsl x"

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok pmsl x "
you still look hot though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok pmsl x you still look hot though "
awww shucks thanks

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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.


"i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok "

Don't visit here then Co's you won't get in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok

Don't visit here then Co's you won't get in "
Thats slipperism

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok

Don't visit here then Co's you won't get in "
I dont think he would want to after reading your thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And his name is?

That's not the point and you know it. I'd say the best thing to do would be to ask for this thread to be deleted.

Actually no. Points out that we have minumum standards.

Why do you need to start a thread about this, totally unprofessional."
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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.


"i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok

Don't visit here then Co's you won't get in I dont think he would want to after reading your thread "

Cool

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok

Don't visit here then Co's you won't get in I dont think he would want to after reading your thread "

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"And his name is?

That's not the point and you know it. I'd say the best thing to do would be to ask for this thread to be deleted.

Actually no. Points out that we have minumum standards.

"

It points out that you are willing to slag of anybody you come across that doesn't fit in with your standards and probably do it about lots of other customers that do get in your club for whatever reason you deem worthy.

I have no desire to be a potential target of your public ridicule so that's one customer you've lost.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"And his name is?

That's not the point and you know it. I'd say the best thing to do would be to ask for this thread to be deleted.

Actually no. Points out that we have minumum standards.

It points out that you are willing to slag of anybody you come across that doesn't fit in with your standards and probably do it about lots of other customers that do get in your club for whatever reason you deem worthy.

I have no desire to be a potential target of your public ridicule so that's one customer you've lost.

"

Two...

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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.


"And his name is?

That's not the point and you know it. I'd say the best thing to do would be to ask for this thread to be deleted.

Actually no. Points out that we have minumum standards.

It points out that you are willing to slag of anybody you come across that doesn't fit in with your standards and probably do it about lots of other customers that do get in your club for whatever reason you deem worthy.

I have no desire to be a potential target of your public ridicule so that's one customer you've lost.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok

Don't visit here then Co's you won't get in Thats slipperism "

It was you wasn't it.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"And his name is?

That's not the point and you know it. I'd say the best thing to do would be to ask for this thread to be deleted.

Actually no. Points out that we have minumum standards.

It points out that you are willing to slag of anybody you come across that doesn't fit in with your standards and probably do it about lots of other customers that do get in your club for whatever reason you deem worthy.

I have no desire to be a potential target of your public ridicule so that's one customer you've lost.

"
Im sure they have lost a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok

Don't visit here then Co's you won't get in I dont think he would want to after reading your thread

Cool "
i hope you are not the Head of promotion . ( psst your last job was not at Toys R us was it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok

Don't visit here then Co's you won't get in Thats slipperism

It was you wasn't it. "
yes but the slippers was actually beige not brown . i have some class

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"i always wear my open toed brown furry slippers with socks . so im ok

Don't visit here then Co's you won't get in I dont think he would want to after reading your thread

Cool i hope you are not the Head of promotion . ( psst your last job was not at Toys R us was it ? "

Haha

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"At the front door of this club . . . nooooooo . . . seen the sights over the years, but open toed brown furry slippers and no socks - baggy knee jeans leather jacket that saw 1972 in and t-shirt with a rip in the collar . . . ain't happening and gobsmacked that you thought you were dressed to party lmao !!!

Sorry mate.

"
Have you been on the sauce

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By *atEvolution OP   Couple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.


"At the front door of this club . . . nooooooo . . . seen the sights over the years, but open toed brown furry slippers and no socks - baggy knee jeans leather jacket that saw 1972 in and t-shirt with a rip in the collar . . . ain't happening and gobsmacked that you thought you were dressed to party lmao !!!

Sorry mate.

Have you been on the sauce "

HP - High standard in Sauce. Bar non lol.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"At the front door of this club . . . nooooooo . . . seen the sights over the years, but open toed brown furry slippers and no socks - baggy knee jeans leather jacket that saw 1972 in and t-shirt with a rip in the collar . . . ain't happening and gobsmacked that you thought you were dressed to party lmao !!!

Sorry mate.

Have you been on the sauce

HP - High standard in Sauce. Bar non lol."
club suicide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pleased to hear that there is a club that is willing to turn away a single guy when he is dressed like a bum rather than take his money and let him in. To turn up looking like that deserves ridicule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pleased to hear that there is a club that is willing to turn away a single guy when he is dressed like a bum rather than take his money and let him in. To turn up looking like that deserves ridicule."
And no one is disagreeing with that . But is the club going to come on a forum and put up a thread too ridicule everyone that they turn away or does not meet there standards ?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Biting the hand that feeds you

protecting members that have standards actually

I wouldn't have any respect for club owners that publicly ridiculed someone.

It's childish. "

Very . It reminds me of the mentality where men show preference to a certain type of woman whilst slagging off the other. Not good.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

But what if that was the best he could afford or owned?

What if it was a unique retro hipster style?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I pleased to hear that there is a club that is willing to turn away a single guy when he is dressed like a bum rather than take his money and let him in. To turn up looking like that deserves ridicule. And no one is disagreeing with that . But is the club going to come on a forum and put up a thread too ridicule everyone that they turn away or does not meet there standards ? "

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

He was brave to wear open toed slippers in the snow.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"I pleased to hear that there is a club that is willing to turn away a single guy when he is dressed like a bum rather than take his money and let him in. To turn up looking like that deserves ridicule. And no one is disagreeing with that . But is the club going to come on a forum and put up a thread too ridicule everyone that they turn away or does not meet there standards ? "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He was brave to wear open toed slippers in the snow."
He is saving his Hug boots for summer

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"He was brave to wear open toed slippers in the snow. He is saving his Hug boots for summer "

Hug or Ugg?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Hug boobs?

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

“Deserves ridicule”. Oooooh boy.

I’m glad a club has standards but wholly inappropriate and unprofessional to put it here in such a way.

Quite simple unacceptable.

V x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"“Deserves ridicule”. Oooooh boy.

I’m glad a club has standards but wholly inappropriate and unprofessional to put it here in such a way.

Quite simple unacceptable.

V x "

No human being deserves ridicule in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He was brave to wear open toed slippers in the snow. He is saving his Hug boots for summer

Hug or Ugg?"
oh yeah . Thanks for pointing that out .

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

This thread does not show you in a good light at all, what other threads would you post about people who attend your club....

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"He was brave to wear open toed slippers in the snow. He is saving his Hug boots for summer

Hug or Ugg? oh yeah . Thanks for pointing that out . "

It's alright chuck

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"He was brave to wear open toed slippers in the snow. He is saving his Hug boots for summer

Hug or Ugg? oh yeah . Thanks for pointing that out . "

Ugg.....like ull......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He was brave to wear open toed slippers in the snow. He is saving his Hug boots for summer

Hug or Ugg? oh yeah . Thanks for pointing that out .

Ugg.....like ull...... "
The first time ive ever bothered with a H and its when i should not of bothered with a H

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"He was brave to wear open toed slippers in the snow. He is saving his Hug boots for summer

Hug or Ugg? oh yeah . Thanks for pointing that out .

Ugg.....like ull...... The first time ive ever bothered with a H and its when i should not of bothered with a H "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He was brave to wear open toed slippers in the snow. He is saving his Hug boots for summer

Hug or Ugg? oh yeah . Thanks for pointing that out .

Ugg.....like ull...... The first time ive ever bothered with a H and its when i should not of bothered with a H

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

I have a 1972 leather jacket & I’ll have you know it’s damn cool!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a 1972 leather jacket & I’ll have you know it’s damn cool!"
Yeah but do you have matching brown open toed slippers ?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I have a 1972 leather jacket & I’ll have you know it’s damn cool!"

You know I bloody do too - a black fringed Lewis Leathers biker jacket and it's cool as fuck! !

I wouldn't wear it with fluffy slippers mind you. ... though actually my white stuff slipper booties would look quite cute.....

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle


"I have a 1972 leather jacket & I’ll have you know it’s damn cool! Yeah but do you have matching brown open toed slippers ? "

No I don’t sadly but the wife does with furry Pom-poms, along with a retro suspender belt it really completes the look tbh!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I pleased to hear that there is a club that is willing to turn away a single guy when he is dressed like a bum rather than take his money and let him in. To turn up looking like that deserves ridicule."

No-one deserves ridicule, it's ugly.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"I pleased to hear that there is a club that is willing to turn away a single guy when he is dressed like a bum rather than take his money and let him in. To turn up looking like that deserves ridicule. And no one is disagreeing with that . But is the club going to come on a forum and put up a thread too ridicule everyone that they turn away or does not meet there standards ?

+1 "

from me as well! It would have more appropriate and professional to have reminded potential customers of the dress code instead of ripping into this person so publicly

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Every club is entitled to refuse entry, for whatever reason, but to publicly ridicule someone in this way, is very unprofessional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine most clubs turn people away on occasion. Thankfully most don't feel the need to start a thread about. Rude and somewhat crass.

And truth be told completely puts me off a club where the owners (on thus thread at least) are unapologetically bitchy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pleased to hear that there is a club that is willing to turn away a single guy when he is dressed like a bum rather than take his money and let him in. To turn up looking like that deserves ridicule."

If someone found something you wear to be ridiculous, would you think it was ok to start a thread about you and ridicule you publicly?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I would imagine most clubs turn people away on occasion. Thankfully most don't feel the need to start a thread about. Rude and somewhat crass.

And truth be told completely puts me off a club where the owners (on thus thread at least) are unapologetically bitchy."

Yes me too, not very professional, or a good advert for any business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow... this level of immaturity is something I would expect from teenagers and children. Not adults.

Shame on you.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really sad and childish for a club to post a thread about someone they wouldn't let in!!...

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"I pleased to hear that there is a club that is willing to turn away a single guy when he is dressed like a bum ridicule.

If someone found something you wear to berather than take his money and let him in. To turn up looking like that deserves ridiculous, would you think it was ok to start a thread about you and ridicule you publicly?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And his name is?

That's not the point and you know it. I'd say the best thing to do would be to ask for this thread to be deleted. "

I really hope that admin don't delete it. The club have repeatedly reinforced their stance so people should see them for what they are. The continued bitchiness of theit comments leaves only one unanswered question - what do they say about their members behind their backs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the front door of this club . . . nooooooo . . . seen the sights over the years, but open toed brown furry slippers and no socks - baggy knee jeans leather jacket that saw 1972 in and t-shirt with a rip in the collar . . . ain't happening and gobsmacked that you thought you were dressed to party lmao !!!

Sorry mate.

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Meow!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me. "
me to

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me. me to "

Probably most of us that saw her post as a vile display of unprofessionalism.

I hope the relevant authorities find out she’s allowing people to sleep in the club overnight for free.

I wonder if the gentleman that presented himself to the club last night was actually in need of help?

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me. me to

Probably most of us that saw her post as a vile display of unprofessionalism.

I hope the relevant authorities find out she’s allowing people to sleep in the club overnight for free.

I wonder if the gentleman that presented himself to the club last night was actually in need of help?"

Probably better not to make an hypothesis about something that did or didn’t happen. The club comments are bad enough.

V x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me. me to

Probably most of us that saw her post as a vile display of unprofessionalism.

I hope the relevant authorities find out she’s allowing people to sleep in the club overnight for free.

I wonder if the gentleman that presented himself to the club last night was actually in need of help?

Probably better not to make an hypothesis about something that did or didn’t happen. The club comments are bad enough.

V x "

Just thinking out loud about the very odd attire the man presented himself in, but you are correct of course, I will avoid disparaging the club when she’s done a grand job of that herself.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me. me to

Probably most of us that saw her post as a vile display of unprofessionalism.

I hope the relevant authorities find out she’s allowing people to sleep in the club overnight for free.

I wonder if the gentleman that presented himself to the club last night was actually in need of help?

Probably better not to make an hypothesis about something that did or didn’t happen. The club comments are bad enough.

V x

Just thinking out loud about the very odd attire the man presented himself in, but you are correct of course, I will avoid disparaging the club when she’s done a grand job of that herself. "

You’re not wrong

V x

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Perhaps the wording regarding said gent are a little sarcastic, but it got everyone thinking about what is or isn't acceptable to wear to a club.

If I remember correctly, it was a special rock night and it is optional to wear appropriate rock clothing or the usual smart club attire.

Slippers are not acceptable. Baggy kneed jeans are not acceptable. Torn collared tea shirts are not acceptable.

Why would someone turn up at a club having not made an effort to look nice ?

Maybe you don't like the club owner telling you what this individual was wearing. I think she is using this as an example of how the club does have standards and if you don't have ID or are not dressed appropriately, you do not get in.

Who would read a thread that said...if you are not wearing smart clothes, ie no jogging bottoms or trainers you won't gain entry. It's headlines people ....headlines

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Perhaps the wording regarding said gent are a little sarcastic, but it got everyone thinking about what is or isn't acceptable to wear to a club.

If I remember correctly, it was a special rock night and it is optional to wear appropriate rock clothing or the usual smart club attire.

Slippers are not acceptable. Baggy kneed jeans are not acceptable. Torn collared tea shirts are not acceptable.

Why would someone turn up at a club having not made an effort to look nice ?

Maybe you don't like the club owner telling you what this individual was wearing. I think she is using this as an example of how the club does have standards and if you don't have ID or are not dressed appropriately, you do not get in.

Who would read a thread that said...if you are not wearing smart clothes, ie no jogging bottoms or trainers you won't gain entry. It's headlines people ....headlines "

Only that’s not what she posted. She was having a laugh at someone’s expense and I bet it carried on in the club too.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me. me to

Probably most of us that saw her post as a vile display of unprofessionalism.

I hope the relevant authorities find out she’s allowing people to sleep in the club overnight for free.

I wonder if the gentleman that presented himself to the club last night was actually in need of help?"

That's a good question.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Perhaps the wording regarding said gent are a little sarcastic, but it got everyone thinking about what is or isn't acceptable to wear to a club.

If I remember correctly, it was a special rock night and it is optional to wear appropriate rock clothing or the usual smart club attire.

Slippers are not acceptable. Baggy kneed jeans are not acceptable. Torn collared tea shirts are not acceptable.

Why would someone turn up at a club having not made an effort to look nice ?

Maybe you don't like the club owner telling you what this individual was wearing. I think she is using this as an example of how the club does have standards and if you don't have ID or are not dressed appropriately, you do not get in.

Who would read a thread that said...if you are not wearing smart clothes, ie no jogging bottoms or trainers you won't gain entry. It's headlines people ....headlines "
Maybe but im sure its done the club a lot of good

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me. me to

Probably most of us that saw her post as a vile display of unprofessionalism.

I hope the relevant authorities find out she’s allowing people to sleep in the club overnight for free.

I wonder if the gentleman that presented himself to the club last night was actually in need of help?

That's a good question. "

If he was in need of help, the club would of done it's best to get assistance for him. The owners and regulars are lovely people. The owner is a very caring lady. But that was not the case in this instance.

Last week they had a collection for the local food bank with over 200 items collected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the wording regarding said gent are a little sarcastic, but it got everyone thinking about what is or isn't acceptable to wear to a club.

If I remember correctly, it was a special rock night and it is optional to wear appropriate rock clothing or the usual smart club attire.

Slippers are not acceptable. Baggy kneed jeans are not acceptable. Torn collared tea shirts are not acceptable.

Why would someone turn up at a club having not made an effort to look nice ?

Maybe you don't like the club owner telling you what this individual was wearing. I think she is using this as an example of how the club does have standards and if you don't have ID or are not dressed appropriately, you do not get in.

Who would read a thread that said...if you are not wearing smart clothes, ie no jogging bottoms or trainers you won't gain entry. It's headlines people ....headlines "

It didn't get me thinking about what is acceptable in a club; I, and I'm guessing, most people already know to look at dress code before going anywhere. This post was purely to take the piss out of a particular individual. For what reason, I don't know, but sounded like someone was looking for entertainment. A professional club owner would have posted a reminder on their profile and website; if they really thought they needed to. Every club has standards; some club owners are more professional than others in upholding them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me. me to

Probably most of us that saw her post as a vile display of unprofessionalism.

I hope the relevant authorities find out she’s allowing people to sleep in the club overnight for free.

I wonder if the gentleman that presented himself to the club last night was actually in need of help?

That's a good question.

If he was in need of help, the club would of done it's best to get assistance for him. The owners and regulars are lovely people. The owner is a very caring lady. But that was not the case in this instance.

Last week they had a collection for the local food bank with over 200 items collected. "

I had a feeling you might be personally involved with this person. I couldn't condone anyone speaking publicly about someone, in this manner, regardless of who they were.

As people have pointed out, it has given an insight into the ethos of the club and it's owners, for people to make a decision whether to attend.

Was it the last who posted this thread?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Perhaps the wording regarding said gent are a little sarcastic, but it got everyone thinking about what is or isn't acceptable to wear to a club.

If I remember correctly, it was a special rock night and it is optional to wear appropriate rock clothing or the usual smart club attire.

Slippers are not acceptable. Baggy kneed jeans are not acceptable. Torn collared tea shirts are not acceptable.

Why would someone turn up at a club having not made an effort to look nice ?

Maybe you don't like the club owner telling you what this individual was wearing. I think she is using this as an example of how the club does have standards and if you don't have ID or are not dressed appropriately, you do not get in.

Who would read a thread that said...if you are not wearing smart clothes, ie no jogging bottoms or trainers you won't gain entry. It's headlines people ....headlines "

It wasn't sarcastic, it was meant to be humiliating, we have an issue with her publicly mocking someone, not her telling us what the dress code is or isn't.

Would you appreciate someone publicly mocking you on these forums?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Perhaps the wording regarding said gent are a little sarcastic, but it got everyone thinking about what is or isn't acceptable to wear to a club.

If I remember correctly, it was a special rock night and it is optional to wear appropriate rock clothing or the usual smart club attire.

Slippers are not acceptable. Baggy kneed jeans are not acceptable. Torn collared tea shirts are not acceptable.

Why would someone turn up at a club having not made an effort to look nice ?

Maybe you don't like the club owner telling you what this individual was wearing. I think she is using this as an example of how the club does have standards and if you don't have ID or are not dressed appropriately, you do not get in.

Who would read a thread that said...if you are not wearing smart clothes, ie no jogging bottoms or trainers you won't gain entry. It's headlines people ....headlines "

Is this the response she wanted then,I'm not entirely sure that makes great business sense.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me. me to

Probably most of us that saw her post as a vile display of unprofessionalism.

I hope the relevant authorities find out she’s allowing people to sleep in the club overnight for free.

I wonder if the gentleman that presented himself to the club last night was actually in need of help?

That's a good question.

If he was in need of help, the club would of done it's best to get assistance for him. The owners and regulars are lovely people. The owner is a very caring lady. But that was not the case in this instance.

Last week they had a collection for the local food bank with over 200 items collected.

I had a feeling you might be personally involved with this person. I couldn't condone anyone speaking publicly about someone, in this manner, regardless of who they were.

As people have pointed out, it has given an insight into the ethos of the club and it's owners, for people to make a decision whether to attend.

Was it the last who posted this thread? "

I am not connected with the person who wrote the post. I attend the club regularly, but don't work there. I am just trying to add a little perspective, knowing the club owner, I know she would not be slagging anyone off, just bemused as what someone thought was acceptable to wear.

I am very pleased they stick to their guidelines and don't let riff raff in

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Perhaps the wording regarding said gent are a little sarcastic, but it got everyone thinking about what is or isn't acceptable to wear to a club.

If I remember correctly, it was a special rock night and it is optional to wear appropriate rock clothing or the usual smart club attire.

Slippers are not acceptable. Baggy kneed jeans are not acceptable. Torn collared tea shirts are not acceptable.

Why would someone turn up at a club having not made an effort to look nice ?

Maybe you don't like the club owner telling you what this individual was wearing. I think she is using this as an example of how the club does have standards and if you don't have ID or are not dressed appropriately, you do not get in.

Who would read a thread that said...if you are not wearing smart clothes, ie no jogging bottoms or trainers you won't gain entry. It's headlines people ....headlines "

Has she asked you to write that? I’d be surprised if she hasn’t read the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me. me to

Probably most of us that saw her post as a vile display of unprofessionalism.

I hope the relevant authorities find out she’s allowing people to sleep in the club overnight for free.

I wonder if the gentleman that presented himself to the club last night was actually in need of help?

That's a good question.

If he was in need of help, the club would of done it's best to get assistance for him. The owners and regulars are lovely people. The owner is a very caring lady. But that was not the case in this instance.

Last week they had a collection for the local food bank with over 200 items collected.

I had a feeling you might be personally involved with this person. I couldn't condone anyone speaking publicly about someone, in this manner, regardless of who they were.

As people have pointed out, it has given an insight into the ethos of the club and it's owners, for people to make a decision whether to attend.

Was it the last who posted this thread?

I am not connected with the person who wrote the post. I attend the club regularly, but don't work there. I am just trying to add a little perspective, knowing the club owner, I know she would not be slagging anyone off, just bemused as what someone thought was acceptable to wear.

I am very pleased they stick to their guidelines and don't let riff raff in

"

I assumed the OP owned the club. We're they using the club for an event? Who has a say over who comes into the club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me. me to

Probably most of us that saw her post as a vile display of unprofessionalism.

I hope the relevant authorities find out she’s allowing people to sleep in the club overnight for free.

I wonder if the gentleman that presented himself to the club last night was actually in need of help?

That's a good question.

If he was in need of help, the club would of done it's best to get assistance for him. The owners and regulars are lovely people. The owner is a very caring lady. But that was not the case in this instance.

Last week they had a collection for the local food bank with over 200 items collected.

I had a feeling you might be personally involved with this person. I couldn't condone anyone speaking publicly about someone, in this manner, regardless of who they were.

As people have pointed out, it has given an insight into the ethos of the club and it's owners, for people to make a decision whether to attend.

Was it the last who posted this thread? "

Was it the lady who posted the thread?

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Perhaps the wording regarding said gent are a little sarcastic, but it got everyone thinking about what is or isn't acceptable to wear to a club.

If I remember correctly, it was a special rock night and it is optional to wear appropriate rock clothing or the usual smart club attire.

Slippers are not acceptable. Baggy kneed jeans are not acceptable. Torn collared tea shirts are not acceptable.

Why would someone turn up at a club having not made an effort to look nice ?

Maybe you don't like the club owner telling you what this individual was wearing. I think she is using this as an example of how the club does have standards and if you don't have ID or are not dressed appropriately, you do not get in.

Who would read a thread that said...if you are not wearing smart clothes, ie no jogging bottoms or trainers you won't gain entry. It's headlines people ....headlines

Has she asked you to write that? I’d be surprised if she hasn’t read the thread. "
Maybe she should coment in the thread and defend herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This initial posting highlights why I have a fear of going to a club.

I could now just imagine going and then reading some slagging off of me on here and it being made "OK" because I wasn't named by the poster.

It's appalling behaviour and I might not be the only person to feel like this but I may be the only one brave enough to say it...

Just another thing added to my list of why I daren’t go to a club

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

The person who first posted in the thread will have OP next to any post they make in that particular thread.

The original post in this thread has probably done lots of damage to the creditability of the club. The OP and one other gentleman continually post suggesting the club as suitable for those staying in Birmingham City Centre when it`s a good 40 mile ride each way which smacks of desperation to me. I had thought about visiting this club, but it`s not my type of club and this one post starting this thread has made up my mind completely about not going!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too think it was totally unprofessional of the OP to publicly mock the way that this gentleman was dressed.

However, for those questioning whether this man needed help or not, is very judgmental. What do you mean by help? Do you assume he is vulnerable because of the way he was dressed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me. me to

Probably most of us that saw her post as a vile display of unprofessionalism.

I hope the relevant authorities find out she’s allowing people to sleep in the club overnight for free.

I wonder if the gentleman that presented himself to the club last night was actually in need of help?

That's a good question.

If he was in need of help, the club would of done it's best to get assistance for him. The owners and regulars are lovely people. The owner is a very caring lady. But that was not the case in this instance.

Last week they had a collection for the local food bank with over 200 items collected.

I had a feeling you might be personally involved with this person. I couldn't condone anyone speaking publicly about someone, in this manner, regardless of who they were.

As people have pointed out, it has given an insight into the ethos of the club and it's owners, for people to make a decision whether to attend.

Was it the last who posted this thread?

I am not connected with the person who wrote the post. I attend the club regularly, but don't work there. I am just trying to add a little perspective, knowing the club owner, I know she would not be slagging anyone off, just bemused as what someone thought was acceptable to wear.

I am very pleased they stick to their guidelines and don't let riff raff in

"
Not only was it wrong too post it . when the first challange came about the post . She could of said " i apologise . But she just kept giving clever remarks . And assuming .just because we did not know his name it was ok too ridicule him

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By *art123Man
over a year ago

Stoke

I think the OP was simply stating that if you come to our club, please make a bit more effort than bunging your knackered slippers on and turn up expecting to be allowed in.. quite right I say.

That’s not ridicule.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I too think it was totally unprofessional of the OP to publicly mock the way that this gentleman was dressed.

However, for those questioning whether this man needed help or not, is very judgmental. What do you mean by help? Do you assume he is vulnerable because of the way he was dressed?

"

I haven’t assumed anything, I was curious about the clothing he was described as wearing due to the severity of the weather. Open toed slippers wouldn’t be common for anybody to wear in such situations.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think the OP was simply stating that if you come to our club, please make a bit more effort than bunging your knackered slippers on and turn up expecting to be allowed in.. quite right I say.

That’s not ridicule. "

No, she didn’t. She may have meant that but that’s not what she wrote.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Biting the hand that feeds you

protecting members that have standards actually"

Uhhh, no... you do that at the door. Like professionals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP was simply stating that if you come to our club, please make a bit more effort than bunging your knackered slippers on and turn up expecting to be allowed in.. quite right I say.

That’s not ridicule. "
why say . lmao. at the end if it was a serious post

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Perhaps the wording regarding said gent are a little sarcastic, but it got everyone thinking about what is or isn't acceptable to wear to a club.

If I remember correctly, it was a special rock night and it is optional to wear appropriate rock clothing or the usual smart club attire.

Slippers are not acceptable. Baggy kneed jeans are not acceptable. Torn collared tea shirts are not acceptable.

Why would someone turn up at a club having not made an effort to look nice ?

Maybe you don't like the club owner telling you what this individual was wearing. I think she is using this as an example of how the club does have standards and if you don't have ID or are not dressed appropriately, you do not get in.

Who would read a thread that said...if you are not wearing smart clothes, ie no jogging bottoms or trainers you won't gain entry. It's headlines people ....headlines "

If this were anywhere near the case or the intention then the post would have read something like .... dear all, following an incident last night then we feel the need to stress the importance of our dress code for the enjoyment of all our guests ... blah blah.

All I inferred from it was “this club owner makes rude remarks about people that have attempted to go to the club”.

I’m sure clubs turn people away often. I’ve seen it. They don’t need to post it.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been watching this all morning and just going to stick my head into the firing line a little bit.

Open toed slippers

Baggy jeans

Ripped collar t shirt.

Now firstly, agreement in the posts that say these is no reason to ridicule said gentleman for his dress on the night.

Thats unprofessional for a club owner/manager at any location.

But right to refuse entry is at the owners discretion based on club standards, dress code and policy.

Now 2ndly.

It's Saturday night, you're the owner of a vanilla nightclub, your popular to ALL clubbers.

Open toed slippers

Baggy jeans

Ripped collar t shirt.

Are you letting him in?

This topical debate works both ways in swinging clubs and regular night clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

[Removed by poster at 03/03/18 13:31:36]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been watching this all morning and just going to stick my head into the firing line a little bit.

Open toed slippers

Baggy jeans

Ripped collar t shirt.

Now firstly, agreement in the posts that say these is no reason to ridicule said gentleman for his dress on the night.

Thats unprofessional for a club owner/manager at any location.

But right to refuse entry is at the owners discretion based on club standards, dress code and policy.

Now 2ndly.

It's Saturday night, you're the owner of a vanilla nightclub, your popular to ALL clubbers.

Open toed slippers

Baggy jeans

Ripped collar t shirt.

Are you letting him in?

This topical debate works both ways in swinging clubs and regular night clubs."
Why did the OP just not write that . Then this thread would of faded away hours ago

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Been watching this all morning and just going to stick my head into the firing line a little bit.

Open toed slippers

Baggy jeans

Ripped collar t shirt.

Now firstly, agreement in the posts that say these is no reason to ridicule said gentleman for his dress on the night.

Thats unprofessional for a club owner/manager at any location.

But right to refuse entry is at the owners discretion based on club standards, dress code and policy.

Now 2ndly.

It's Saturday night, you're the owner of a vanilla nightclub, your popular to ALL clubbers.

Open toed slippers

Baggy jeans

Ripped collar t shirt.

Are you letting him in?

This topical debate works both ways in swinging clubs and regular night clubs."

And I don’t think anyone disagrees with you that dress codes and standards of presentation are important.

V x

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"This initial posting highlights why I have a fear of going to a club.

I could now just imagine going and then reading some slagging off of me on here and it being made "OK" because I wasn't named by the poster.

Not all clubs or patrons or owners are like the OP....obv most are far more professional than this......just avoid this one!

It's appalling behaviour and I might not be the only person to feel like this but I may be the only one brave enough to say it...

Just another thing added to my list of why I daren’t go to a club "

Not all clubs/owners/patrons are like the this one....most are run far better with people who would never dream of posting threads like this.....just avoid this one !!!!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Is it a wet club?? People arrive at Eureka's door in flip flops and a towel!

Or maybe he'd broken his toe.........

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I think the OP was simply stating that if you come to our club, please make a bit more effort than bunging your knackered slippers on and turn up expecting to be allowed in.. quite right I say.

That’s not ridicule. "

So she could have advised him he was not appropriately dressed and not started a thread about it. Most people know how to dress and don't need someone reinforcing it by making fun of someone else.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I think this is a look I could pull off. I might try it later at New Paradise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been watching this all morning and just going to stick my head into the firing line a little bit.

Open toed slippers

Baggy jeans

Ripped collar t shirt.

Now firstly, agreement in the posts that say these is no reason to ridicule said gentleman for his dress on the night.

Thats unprofessional for a club owner/manager at any location.

But right to refuse entry is at the owners discretion based on club standards, dress code and policy.

Now 2ndly.

It's Saturday night, you're the owner of a vanilla nightclub, your popular to ALL clubbers.

Open toed slippers

Baggy jeans

Ripped collar t shirt.

Are you letting him in?

This topical debate works both ways in swinging clubs and regular night clubs."

The debate isn't about whether he should be allowed in. It's about writing a thread about him on a swinging site. He was directly spoken to by the OP by saying you're not getting in mate (or words to that effect). This wasn't an information post regarding dress code at their event-if it was they would have informed us of the dress code- it was a pop at him and his clothing. I would be surprised if any reputable club let someone in wearing jeans and slippers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This excerpt made it personal, and ridicule: . . . ain't happening and gobsmacked that you thought you were dressed to party lmao !!!

Sorry mate.

The language used, in itself, is a poor show.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Well that’s you told OP. Let that be a lesson to you tut tut tut and wag of the finger

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

So now I understand it was a rock night. Perhaps a leather jacket, ripped tee and jeans he thought suitable? I have a funky ripped rock tee, faux leather jacket and jeans (although I'd have chosen ripped, as he chose baggy).

I'm not sure as to what he thought to his choice of footwear.

Perhaps he thought his attire would be satisfactory?

We'll never know. Which ever way, I echo others, it wasn't very professional to slate on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good job there are lots of other friendly clubs to choose from,avoiding this one!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Good job there are lots of other friendly clubs to choose from,avoiding this one!"

I dread to think what would be said about me if I showed up, I'm rather eccentric at times.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Good job there are lots of other friendly clubs to choose from,avoiding this one!

I dread to think what would be said about me if I showed up, I'm rather eccentric at times."
I have bad knees and carnt wear heels for long , if i changed into my slippers i would probably be thrown out

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Good job there are lots of other friendly clubs to choose from,avoiding this one!

I dread to think what would be said about me if I showed up, I'm rather eccentric at times. I have bad knees and carnt wear heels for long , if i changed into my slippers i would probably be thrown out "

I doubt it

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Good job there are lots of other thisfriendly clubs to choose from,avoiding one!

I dread to think what would be said about me if I showed up, I'm rather eccentric at times. I have bad knees and carnt wear heels for long , if i changed into my slippers i would probably be thrown out

I doubt it "
promise i will wear my posh ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, what seemed to be a fairly light hearted look into acceptable dress code and particularly the dress code of the unnamed gentleman who turned up at this club, which frankly is pretty funny, turned into a rhetoric about professionalism blah blah....

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Wow, what seemed to be a fairly light hearted look into acceptable dress code and particularly the dress code of the unnamed gentleman who turned up at this club, which frankly is pretty funny, turned into a rhetoric about professionalism blah blah...."

I’m sure the club is quaking by the people from hundreds of miles away and non club goers that will now never go owing to this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the wording regarding said gent are a little sarcastic, but it got everyone thinking about what is or isn't acceptable to wear to a club.

If I remember correctly, it was a special rock night and it is optional to wear appropriate rock clothing or the usual smart club attire.

Slippers are not acceptable. Baggy kneed jeans are not acceptable. Torn collared tea shirts are not acceptable.

Why would someone turn up at a club having not made an effort to look nice ?

Maybe you don't like the club owner telling you what this individual was wearing. I think she is using this as an example of how the club does have standards and if you don't have ID or are not dressed appropriately, you do not get in.

Who would read a thread that said...if you are not wearing smart clothes, ie no jogging bottoms or trainers you won't gain entry. It's headlines people ....headlines "

So it's a rock night where I could have got turned away for dressing like o was going to a rock night?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Good job there are lots of other thisfriendly clubs to choose from,avoiding one!

I dread to think what would be said about me if I showed up, I'm rather eccentric at times. I have bad knees and carnt wear heels for long , if i changed into my slippers i would probably be thrown out

I doubt it promise i will wear my posh ones "

Hehe

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Perhaps the wording regarding said gent are a little sarcastic, but it got everyone thinking about what is or isn't acceptable to wear to a club.

If I remember correctly, it was a special rock night and it is optional to wear appropriate rock clothing or the usual smart club attire.

Slippers are not acceptable. Baggy kneed jeans are not acceptable. Torn collared tea shirts are not acceptable.

Why would someone turn up at a club having not made an effort to look nice ?

Maybe you don't like the club owner telling you what this individual was wearing. I think she is using this as an example of how the club does have standards and if you don't have ID or are not dressed appropriately, you do not get in.

Who would read a thread that said...if you are not wearing smart clothes, ie no jogging bottoms or trainers you won't gain entry. It's headlines people ....headlines

So it's a rock night where I could have got turned away for dressing like o was going to a rock night?"

Only if you had open toed slippers on!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

A rock night you say .....

Baggy jeans .... tee shirt ... leather jacket ....

Opened toe shoes .... it could have been

....I cant dance ... I cant talk .... the only thing about me is the way I walk ( foot pedal damage from playing the drums).....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You have every right to refuse entry to someone you think is dressed inappropriately. Coming on here and ridiculing him-with you the wording you used-is unprofessional. "

Agree

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"The OP is online and posting in other threads but choosing to ignore this one.

I would like to invite her to reply to the comments here but she has blocked me. me to

Probably most of us that saw her post as a vile display of unprofessionalism.

I hope the relevant authorities find out she’s allowing people to sleep in the club overnight for free.

I wonder if the gentleman that presented himself to the club last night was actually in need of help?

That's a good question. "

He may not actually have known what kind of club it was; what if some of his work colleagues had ‘pranked’ him into turning up there? I bet it wouldn’t be the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awww well - onwards - upwards

Never change who you are. "

You might need to change your Mr Majeika hairstyle ... bullying is not classed as ‘standards’ being condescending and uptight shows no class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the front door of this club . . . nooooooo . . . seen the sights over the years, but open toed brown furry slippers and no socks - baggy knee jeans leather jacket that saw 1972 in and t-shirt with a rip in the collar . . . ain't happening and gobsmacked that you thought you were dressed to party lmao !!!

Sorry mate.

Shocking!! Just for the record, on viewing your pics, you've not got best the best dress sense yourself, just saying.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, what seemed to be a fairly light hearted look into acceptable dress code and particularly the dress code of the unnamed gentleman who turned up at this club, which frankly is pretty funny, turned into a rhetoric about professionalism blah blah...."

Everyone has standards. Some use how people treat others and speak about them as a measure of standards.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Wow, what seemed to be a fairly light hearted look into acceptable dress code and particularly the dress code of the unnamed gentleman who turned up at this club, which frankly is pretty funny, turned into a rhetoric about professionalism blah blah....

Everyone has standards. Some use how people treat others and speak about them as a measure of standards. "

Exactly this

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

My mistake. The Rock Night is tonight. I am not in the area so got my dates mixed up. As you were .......

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Well this went well .....

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"My mistake. The Rock Night is tonight. I am not in the area so got my dates mixed up. As you were ....... "

So he could come tonight and be appropriately dressed in his 1972 leather jacket?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"My mistake. The Rock Night is tonight. I am not in the area so got my dates mixed up. As you were .......

So he could come tonight and be appropriately dressed in his 1972 leather jacket?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP did not make it personal because the individual was not named. This is like the BBC doing a piece about obesity and showing video of fat people walking along the street without showing their faces.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"The OP did not make it personal because the individual was not named. This is like the BBC doing a piece about obesity and showing video of fat people walking along the street without showing their faces."

The individual is not named, but he will know it was him, it is hurtful. Why start a thread about it, it is mocking the guy. I would imagine people are nervous about going to this club now, in case the OP is going to make fun of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The individual is not named, but he will know it was him"

and will, no doubt, dress more appropriately next time.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"The individual is not named, but he will know it was him

and will, no doubt, dress more appropriately next time."

No doubt and the OP only had to tell him at the door, not plaster it on here

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"The individual is not named, but he will know it was him

and will, no doubt, dress more appropriately next time."
Dont think he will be going again , like a lot of people that have seen this thread

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"The individual is not named, but he will know it was him

and will, no doubt, dress more appropriately next time. Dont think he will be going again , like a lot of people that have seen this thread"

You will always get their supporters there....bless them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The individual is not named, but he will know it was him

and will, no doubt, dress more appropriately next time. Dont think he will be going again , like a lot of people that have seen this thread"

If he can't afford socks then he is unlikely to be able to afford to travel further afield.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"The individual is not named, but he will know it was him

and will, no doubt, dress more appropriately next time. Dont think he will be going again , like a lot of people that have seen this thread

If he can't afford socks then he is unlikely to be able to afford to travel further afield. "

Who said he couldn't afford socks?

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"The individual is not named, but he will know it was him

and will, no doubt, dress more appropriately next time. Dont think he will be going again , like a lot of people that have seen this thread

You will always get their supporters there....bless them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps people would like to start a Just Giving page to raise funds to send him to the nearest club that allows people in wearing open toed furry sandals and baggy kneeded jeans. Any clubs out there who fit this requirement please feel free to speak up.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Perhaps people would like to start a Just Giving page to raise funds to send him to the nearest club that allows people in wearing open toed furry sandals and baggy kneeded jeans. Any clubs out there who fit this requirement please feel free to speak up."
l love my furry sandals

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Perhaps people would like to start a Just Giving page to raise funds to send him to the nearest club that allows people in wearing open toed furry sandals and baggy kneeded jeans. Any clubs out there who fit this requirement please feel free to speak up."

Well I doubt he will want to return to the said club, because of their and probably their members pompous attitude towards him

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Perhaps people would like to start a Just Giving page to raise funds to send him to the nearest club that allows people in wearing open toed furry sandals and baggy kneeded jeans. Any clubs out there who fit this requirement please feel free to speak up. l love my furry sandals "

Bet yours are pink though, so you may be allowed in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard the club is crap anyway so will stick to my usual one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who said he couldn't afford socks? "
Are you suggesting that, as a single guy in a club, he chose this look. He will be sorely missed!

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Perhaps people would like to start a Just Giving page to raise funds to send him to the nearest club that allows people in wearing open toed furry sandals and baggy kneeded jeans. Any clubs out there who fit this requirement please feel free to speak up."
Any decent club would know better than to start such a stupid thread

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

This has been an intresting thread to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard the club is crap anyway so will stick to my usual one!"
You must have good hearing, you're in Portsmouth!

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Perhaps people would like to start a Just Giving page to raise funds to send him to the nearest club that allows people in wearing open toed furry sandals and baggy kneeded jeans. Any clubs out there who fit this requirement please feel free to speak up. l love my furry sandals

Bet yours are pink though, so you may be allowed in! "
How did you know they are pink,im closeing my blinds

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Who said he couldn't afford socks? Are you suggesting that, as a single guy in a club, he chose this look. He will be sorely missed!"

Think he's had a lucky escape, personally

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I've heard the club is crap anyway so will stick to my usual one!"

Yeah, me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard the club is crap anyway so will stick to my usual one!

Yeah, me too "

Me three

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

The thread is nearly full maybe the owner would like to coment

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