FabSwingers.com forum: Wanking when playing

By *ikeC81 OP Man
over a year ago

harrow

This is an interesting discussion. After many years of being in scene, I still am unsure of wanking when people are playing openly say on an orgy bed or in an area that is open. (I tend to)

I am not talking about following couples and women around playing with cock as I do (that would be wrong). However how many of you that play openly in a club don’t mind being watched and wanked over, or would you prefer if they just watched.

I suppose it comes from a discussion I was having with someone I knew who said she knew I was wanking and didn’t mind at all, but I know others do.

So I suppose the question is. If in a club and your playing openly would you prefer if people just watched or do you mind if they wanked as well

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

We see it as a form of applause, like you said not the creepy follow us around while we are not playing version, the wanking dead.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

We don't see it as a problem especially if we are in an open play room.

As long as the boundrys are set it can make for some good eye candy

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

I dont mind, but prefer you have a chat and tell me you are just there to watch rather than being a creepy lurker.

I have enjoyed my husband going down on me whilst a guy wanked in a club....he enjoyed holding my hand as I came. As he had made me laugh and enjoyed watching us, directed slave a little... i let him cum on my tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no problem with it, nice to know someone os getting pleasure while watching us, what annoys me as we frequent BGHS is the men who stand and watch while playing with themselves but keep the towel on so they're covered. A little respect is needed, we're openly let you watch so why do they feel it's ok to keep themselves covered while pleasuring themselves?

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By *ikeC81 OP Man
over a year ago

harrow

"We have no problem with it, nice to know someone os getting pleasure while watching us, what annoys me as we frequent BGHS is the men who stand and watch while playing with themselves but keep the towel on so they're covered. A little respect is needed, we're openly let you watch so why do they feel it's ok to keep themselves covered while pleasuring themselves?"

See I always keep my cock out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone for a wank message me

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By *orobinCouple
over a year ago

preston

Jo likes people to wank while we fuck and then often encourages them to come on her face and tits, though she got an unexpected mouthful a couple of weeks back that she wasn't so happy about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are watching a specific group of people I think it would be good manners to ask them if they mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting topic, I've often wondered what the etiquette is regarding watching and maybe wanking, always too embarrassed to do anything in case it offends

That said.. I rarely venture upstairs in the club i frequently visit anyway... but of I do.... now I know how to approach the open play areas

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We love it and take it as a compliment

We'd prefer for the watcher to look like they're enjoying the show rather than just giving us a dead-eyed stare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find knowing someone is that turned on from watching us play, that they need to, a huge turn on for me. Like you said though, not so much with the wanking zombies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer the guy /guys watching us did wank.

Mildred likes watching guy's cum for her

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By *ealgentMan
over a year ago

Penistone near Barnsley

Having been on both sides of the fence so to speak, I think its Ok to wank openly while watching.

My mrs used to like the attention and would sometimes wank them or suck them.

Ive been to a club on my own once and found a couple on their own in a public playroom. I asked if they minded if I watched and they said it was ok. I sat watching and took my towel off to reveal my hard cock which I was slowly wanking. Another guy came in and did the same. The guy in the couple then invited us to join in while he watched. I fucked her while she sucked the other single guy. It wasnt long before we had an audience of other guys and another couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind also never really thought about it tbh

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I like that others are getting enjoyment from it too & we are more likely to invite someone to join us if they are wanking openly rather than lurking or hiding under a towel!!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Fine as long as you're not jangling locker keys or spunk on me without permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fine as long as you're not jangling locker keys or spunk on me without permission."

^this

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

"Jo likes people to wank while we fuck and then often encourages them to come on her face and tits, though she got an unexpected mouthful a couple of weeks back that she wasn't so happy about. "

We enjoy this as well when in the mood for just being watched and fucking with each other...J it to bothered about a mouthful but likes to watch them cum

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"If you are watching a specific group of people I think it would be good manners to ask them if they mind."

^ Agreed My understanding of the etiquette is that the voyeur should politely request to watch and then should ask separately at each other stage eg "Would it be ok for me to stroke myself while watching you?" while keeping a respectful distance unless invited closer by the people he's watching.

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"I dont mind, but prefer you have a chat and tell me you are just there to watch rather than being a creepy lurker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see it as a form of applause, like you said not the creepy follow us around while we are not playing version, the wanking dead.

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Well it does make a clapping sound!

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

If we are playing in an open room i haven't noticed usually as my mind is elsewhere..untill you get the creepers, those that inch forward threatening you with there vinegar strokes an inch from your left ear..

It's a tricky line i guess between trying your luck and getting (pun intended) in someones face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Providing it’s at a respectful distance (ie I’m not in the ‘splash zone’) I don’t really mind, in fact it’s probably a nice compliment. Some chaps get a slightly unsettling stare on them, which can be a little offputting.

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By *nvisible_manMan
over a year ago

TWICKENHAM

"Providing it’s at a respectful distance (ie I’m not in the ‘splash zone’) I don’t really mind, in fact it’s probably a nice compliment. Some chaps get a slightly unsettling stare on them, which can be a little offputting. "

I've been playing with a female and been subjected to the 'one eyed stare' and had to wave that person back!

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

As others have said having folks watch and enjoying what is happening is fine and can sometimes lead to more. The trick is remembering personal space, unless invited into it.

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By *upergirthukMan
over a year ago

Liverpool UK

So long as a respectful distance is maintained.

I find it more of a disturbance when a conversation ensues between third parties and players especially when people use my name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be worried if guys watching us didn't wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanking is fine, hot and appropriate as long as it's not too close.

If you want to be within inches of people you never as much as spoke to before, you really have to ask permission first.

The creepiest behaviour is sneaking in quietly, closer and closer, and hoping to join in without saying a word. That's just diabolical, but it happens.

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By *upergirthukMan
over a year ago

Liverpool UK

"Wanking is fine, hot and appropriate as long as it's not too close.

If you want to be within inches of people you never as much as spoke to before, you really have to ask permission first.

The creepiest behaviour is sneaking in quietly, closer and closer, and hoping to join in without saying a word. That's just diabolical, but it happens."

If they do and touch without permission it's sexual assault whatever sex they are. Just remind them as they get closer. Fuckin dickheads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're in an open room then I assume you're happy to be watched and I see it as a compliment! Being followed and wanking is creepy and odd but I'd you're watching and it turns you on, hell have a great time. If they look at you and you catch eyes and it looks inviting ask if you can join in? I mean in the right situations I'd invite that guy right over and let him enjoy my mouth too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man I've been missing out on sooo bloody much! Haha

This thread has opened my eyes a little more...i may even venture upstairs more often now

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By *upergirthukMan
over a year ago

Liverpool UK

"If you're in an open room then I assume you're happy to be watched and I see it as a compliment! Being followed and wanking is creepy and odd but I'd you're watching and it turns you on, hell have a great time. If they look at you and you catch eyes and it looks inviting ask if you can join in? I mean in the right situations I'd invite that guy right over and let him enjoy my mouth too. "

Open room or not rules differ from club to club on this and can differ from event to event. If unsure it's worth asking if the couple mind then you're covered.

I think a discreet stroke is more likely to be accepted rather than the frantic battering some guys seem to think is acceptable. Xxx

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Tug away...... Something we've discussed a few times (but never happened!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t mind at all as long as our personal space is not invaded. In fact some of our best experiences have happened when we invited couples or guys that were watching to join

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wanking is fine, hot and appropriate as long as it's not too close.

If you want to be within inches of people you never as much as spoke to before, you really have to ask permission first.

The creepiest behaviour is sneaking in quietly, closer and closer, and hoping to join in without saying a word. That's just diabolical, but it happens."

Agreed!

I’ve had this happen a few times. I was on a sex swing once and ended up smacking him with my 4” heel .... think he liked it

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By *east88Couple
over a year ago

darlington

I know my wife loves to watch guys wank and cum as well,

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