FabSwingers.com forum: Single lad

By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Depends on tge lad. Some have a great time. Some the money would be better spent on an Escort. Depends how you approach it really.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree. At my club it's £50 just to get in as as there are many othe single men hoping for "free" sex you may spend the evening twiddling your thumbs.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think its a similar price. The way i was looking at it was i head along i might me some new people and people who like going on socials aswell

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Just wondering how single guys get on at swingers clubs. Thinking of giving one a try."

As you're bi, you've got twice the options of the straight guys

By *yphodMan
over a year ago

London

As a single lad, a few tips.

When the night is young and play has not started, make an effort to chat to people, introduce yourself.

Yes it can be quite hard as it can feel a little cliquey.

Once things get going, ask politely if you can join in.

Don't be one of the followers (you see a train on single guys following couples and single ladies around).

Don't focus on the best looking/youngest woman/couple.

In fact don't be lookist at all, everybody is there to have fun and once you are skin on skin there is very little difference between one person and another.

Never get angry when rejected, move on.

Better go to a party that requires pre-registration to limit the number of single males, otherwise it becomes a sausage fest.

Now there are Greedy girl events, where yes you probably will get to have some fun, "if" you fancy a quick wham bam thank you mam. Just be careful some events do hire working girls, which comes at a risk (i.e. police raid as happened at the paradise spa)