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"Chams in darlaston, easy decision for me. As a single female, it's the only club I've been to that I'm comfortable going alone. That is probably mainly down to the staff and how safe they make me feel there. While they're not in your face, they are walking about collecting cups/towels etc. In other clubs I've seen staff walking round with walkie talkies and almost marching, which was off putting. It's also the consistency of the staff and chams, it's not a revolving door for the people that work there. Alongside that it would be the relaxed cosy atmosphere the club has, cupids was the only other club I've thought was close to that. But then what I feel a lot of clubs are lacking are social areas. Chams has the best smoking area by far, where non smokers can go to comfortably, it's a great area to socialise especially in the summer. But then throughout the club it has all the little bus stops to be able to chat with people, some other clubs have tried this but I think it doesn't work as well because of the music, whereas chams music is tucked away and not overpowering. So for me, it's chams based on feeling safe and the ability to easily socialise. " We find Chams so addictive, hence lack of trying other clubs; agree the staff are awesome more like friends. Staff always about as you say, last Friday a couple had taken a single man into couples playroom, Carl was fuming and evicted him. Were trying Cupids tonight excited xx | |||
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"Favourite club....Atlantis in Stoke area. Great mix of frequent regulars, now and then regulars, and new people. Nightclub style, with sofas to chat, dance floor and DJ who plays a great mix of music, but also plays requests. Good mix of facilities, open play areas, private rooms and playroom were you can be watched, but not be touched, dark room, glory holes, fetish area, smokers deck.... Porn screens and quiet chill out space upstairs. Party nights when you can stay overnight at no cost. £10 lifetime membership, so people can join on the night. Take your own alcohol, so keeps the cost down. A lovely safe place, where people are told the rules on their initial tour, and you do not get the parade of single guys following you. 99% of people are respectful and know how to behave appropriately. The other 1% are warned or dealt with immediately. Two gorgeous hosts Cat and Tag who are aleays visible mingling and on the dance floor and helping the club run very efficiently and successfully. Bar staff Andy and Jan who soon learn what people drink and help things run smoothly. The friendliest,most relaxed club I have been to. I love the way it changes from normal nightclub to sexy wild party gradually over the course of the evening. Lovely, generous members who genuinely care that people enjoy the time at the club and are just the nicest group of people. For example last night at a birthday party, people were asked to bring some items to donate to the local food bank. The amount brought on was just incredible. In summary. It's the bestest club ever " Awesome - we're down for next party, got double sleeping bag ready xx | |||
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"We've enjoyed Infusion alot and more recently Chameleons in Midlands due to the friendly & relaxed environments. Liberty Elite on CHIC & SIN night as classy. After last weekend in Amsterdam & visiting both Fun4Two & Fata Morgana we were blown away by both of them, just wish they were nearer - Fi xx" All the UK clubs you mentioned would definitely be ones we would recommend (Along with a number of others including F Club, Atlantis, Xtasia, Ourplace4fun) each is fairly unique from the next but we wouldn't compare them alongside anything in Holland or Belgium as the different laws out there mean people can really go to town without fear of closure from the local councils etc. FataMorgana and Fun4Two are like miniature Disneyland for adults but such clubs really have raised the bar for those over here, which is no bad thing and has seen a drastic change in the standards and facilities offered, which can only be a good thing. Hard to say which is our overall favorite, probably between Atlantis and Xtasia, because I really like to dance as part of the night and they both have great Dancefloors and DJ's which is always good. That, of course, is less of a priority for some people. | |||
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"We've enjoyed Infusion alot and more recently Chameleons in Midlands due to the friendly & relaxed environments. Liberty Elite on CHIC & SIN night as classy. After last weekend in Amsterdam & visiting both Fun4Two & Fata Morgana we were blown away by both of them, just wish they were nearer - Fi xx All the UK clubs you mentioned would definitely be ones we would recommend (Along with a number of others including F Club, Atlantis, Xtasia, Ourplace4fun) each is fairly unique from the next but we wouldn't compare them alongside anything in Holland or Belgium as the different laws out there mean people can really go to town without fear of closure from the local councils etc. FataMorgana and Fun4Two are like miniature Disneyland for adults but such clubs really have raised the bar for those over here, which is no bad thing and has seen a drastic change in the standards and facilities offered, which can only be a good thing. Hard to say which is our overall favorite, probably between Atlantis and Xtasia, because I really like to dance as part of the night and they both have great Dancefloors and DJ's which is always good. That, of course, is less of a priority for some people. " Yes Amsterdam clubs are on another level for sure. Were going Xtasia next Saturday & Atlantis 17th March, get my dancing shoes ready lol xx | |||
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"We like jaydees very friendly staff great mix of people and a big jacuzzi and a great mix of play areas " Will check out, could be another to try xx | |||
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"We like jaydees very friendly staff great mix of people and a big jacuzzi and a great mix of play areas " I am planning of visiting Jaydees later in the year. Have motorhome....will travel | |||
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"We like jaydees very friendly staff great mix of people and a big jacuzzi and a great mix of play areas I am planning of visiting Jaydees later in the year. Have motorhome....will travel " Fancy getting a motorhome ourselves | |||
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"Chams in darlaston, easy decision for me. As a single female, it's the only club I've been to that I'm comfortable going alone. That is probably mainly down to the staff and how safe they make me feel there. While they're not in your face, they are walking about collecting cups/towels etc. In other clubs I've seen staff walking round with walkie talkies and almost marching, which was off putting. It's also the consistency of the staff and chams, it's not a revolving door for the people that work there. Alongside that it would be the relaxed cosy atmosphere the club has, cupids was the only other club I've thought was close to that. But then what I feel a lot of clubs are lacking are social areas. Chams has the best smoking area by far, where non smokers can go to comfortably, it's a great area to socialise especially in the summer. But then throughout the club it has all the little bus stops to be able to chat with people, some other clubs have tried this but I think it doesn't work as well because of the music, whereas chams music is tucked away and not overpowering. So for me, it's chams based on feeling safe and the ability to easily socialise. " Agree completely, I go on my own and feel completely at ease and when we go as a couple it feels like we were just there the day before as the staff are a great team. | |||
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"Chams in darlaston, easy decision for me. As a single female, it's the only club I've been to that I'm comfortable going alone. That is probably mainly down to the staff and how safe they make me feel there. While they're not in your face, they are walking about collecting cups/towels etc. In other clubs I've seen staff walking round with walkie talkies and almost marching, which was off putting. It's also the consistency of the staff and chams, it's not a revolving door for the people that work there. Alongside that it would be the relaxed cosy atmosphere the club has, cupids was the only other club I've thought was close to that. But then what I feel a lot of clubs are lacking are social areas. Chams has the best smoking area by far, where non smokers can go to comfortably, it's a great area to socialise especially in the summer. But then throughout the club it has all the little bus stops to be able to chat with people, some other clubs have tried this but I think it doesn't work as well because of the music, whereas chams music is tucked away and not overpowering. So for me, it's chams based on feeling safe and the ability to easily socialise. Agree completely, I go on my own and feel completely at ease and when we go as a couple it feels like we were just there the day before as the staff are a great team." | |||
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"Chams has set the bar for us, and made us reluctant to try anywhere else. We have tried mystique in tenerife, which was gorgeous but dead. Off to try VA for a weekend in April, so hoping it'll make us braver for trying new clubs later in the year. " We only go to Mystique end of Dec to see in New Year couples nights at weekends always busy, not been any other time. Yet to try VA bit of a trek, later in year hopefully. | |||
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"I’m still yet to visit a club..though I’ve heard Townhouse, Cupids and Entice are best! Id need a friendly female to accompany my first visit to a club " You could try going on a night when single men are allowed? | |||
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"I’m still yet to visit a club..though I’ve heard Townhouse, Cupids and Entice are best! Id need a friendly female to accompany my first visit to a club You could try going on a night when single men are allowed? " We occasionaly do, went Cupids Saturday gone & Chams couple Fridays ago | |||
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"I've been to quite a few around the country as by job takes me all over. I have to agree that Chams is the best all round, very friendly and always something going on. Kestrels was fantastic, especially in the summer and Eurekas can be fun but very limited play rooms. As someone said the woods can be a lot of fun. Always up for a club visit so let me know if you're going and fancy saying hi. " Not a woods thing for us but nude yeah | |||
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"It will be lovely to meet you if you ever decide to come along to our club love Jaydee and Tracy x" Ohh yes roadtrip xx | |||
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"We like jaydees very friendly staff great mix of people and a big jacuzzi and a great mix of play areas " | |||
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"Definitely have the Chams bug here too - hard to imagine somewhere better but we really should try somewhere Been fascinated with trying a true “ dark room “ which Chams hasn’t got Which clubs have one ?" Infusion | |||
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"We've been to loads and always end up back at the VA. The facilities are great, the huge hot tub with it's massive filter system is spotless and huge. DJ, dance floor, pole for the ladies, licensed bar with average bar prices, attached hotel. Can't really ask for more. Open play in the big play areas, couples only play room behind the dance floor it has it all. Staff are always very welcoming, club is immaculately turned out and the single men on a Friday night are strictly vetted and limited in numbers so much so that we have never had any trouble atall. We have just been to the Valentine's party a couple of weeks ago and it was a banging night." This is on our to do list for sure. Plan a new club adventures for my birthday year, yes 2018 is big year Fi xx | |||
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"After 8 in Edinburgh. Yes its wee and can be quite quiet but I was always welcomed there by staff and those who frequented were always lovely. Even now after a couple of years away when I visit I'm welcomed in like it was only the other day that they saw me. As a single fem the staff constantly have your back on the no means no and try to encourage everyone in dress up/themed nights " Never heard of this one, if we head up that way will have to check out thanks | |||
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"After 8 in Edinburgh. Yes its wee and can be quite quiet but I was always welcomed there by staff and those who frequented were always lovely. Even now after a couple of years away when I visit I'm welcomed in like it was only the other day that they saw me. As a single fem the staff constantly have your back on the no means no and try to encourage everyone in dress up/themed nights Never heard of this one, if we head up that way will have to check out thanks" Def recommend it. Central Edinburgh and beside a few pubs too so can go out for dinner and drinks then swing! Not expensive either | |||
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"After 8 in Edinburgh. Yes its wee and can be quite quiet but I was always welcomed there by staff and those who frequented were always lovely. Even now after a couple of years away when I visit I'm welcomed in like it was only the other day that they saw me. As a single fem the staff constantly have your back on the no means no and try to encourage everyone in dress up/themed nights Never heard of this one, if we head up that way will have to check out thanks Def recommend it. Central Edinburgh and beside a few pubs too so can go out for dinner and drinks then swing! Not expensive either" Sounds a plan | |||
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"Cupid’s is by far my favourite club, I love the choice of rooms and the new jacuzzi area and it’s always clean. They don’t tolorate any bad behaviour and I always feel safe when I attend as a single lady " We went Saturday and really enjoyed it, didn't get round to Jacuzzi; would prefer to try on couples night but its only a Wednesday | |||
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"Cupid's by far it's clean friendly and a great mix of people there's plenty of playrooms and a jacuzzi and sauna area bit as a single female I feel safe turning up on my own . The party night are the best with a great atmosphere and always can indulge a day time meet too xx" | |||
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"I know its closed for now but its Kestrels/Abfab for us. Nowhere offers anything like it anywhere else in the country for facilities, staffing, clientel or opening hours. Looking forward to their relaunch in a newl venue." It was by far the best club in UK. Hopefully the new one will be as good if not better. | |||
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"We've been to many clubs (23 I think) and have had great fun at most of them. Clubs do vary massively and it's quite hard to compare one with another, and ultimately it's the people on the night who make the for a good time. As for favourites though, we still have a soft spot for La Chambre, but we love The Attic, Pandoras and Cupids too... I know that's not really naming a favourite but that's the best I can do. Cal" Maybe it should have read favourites | |||
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"Chams in darlaston, easy decision for me. As a single female, it's the only club I've been to that I'm comfortable going alone. That is probably mainly down to the staff and how safe they make me feel there. While they're not in your face, they are walking about collecting cups/towels etc. In other clubs I've seen staff walking round with walkie talkies and almost marching, which was off putting. It's also the consistency of the staff and chams, it's not a revolving door for the people that work there. Alongside that it would be the relaxed cosy atmosphere the club has, cupids was the only other club I've thought was close to that. But then what I feel a lot of clubs are lacking are social areas. Chams has the best smoking area by far, where non smokers can go to comfortably, it's a great area to socialise especially in the summer. But then throughout the club it has all the little bus stops to be able to chat with people, some other clubs have tried this but I think it doesn't work as well because of the music, whereas chams music is tucked away and not overpowering. So for me, it's chams based on feeling safe and the ability to easily socialise. " I echo your views of Chams, particularly the bit about the music. I like the variety of suitable evenings, Nude Night being a favourite of mine, and I also like it that ALL of the staff are great, not just those in the club, but the guys outside manning the car parks are great too! | |||
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"I’m a quest lover too. Thinking of giving club f a try though. " we done quest cany club freindly people , you will find the same at our local clubf just like a little family not in a clicky way either , even the staff when off attend hope to see you there sometime | |||
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"Where did you go for your first experiences? I’d like to go but it s for the first time so newbie friendly " Townhouse on the wirral is good for newbies. | |||
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"We like jaydees very friendly staff great mix of people and a big jacuzzi and a great mix of play areas " We’re going at end of month for my birthday can’t wait! | |||
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"Where did you go for your first experiences? I’d like to go but it s for the first time so newbie friendly Townhouse on the wirral is good for newbies." Not the first time Townhouse has been suggested to me | |||
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"secrets in Devon, very remote, held once a month with approximately 100-150 couples attending, you can also rent out a caravan for the weekend and it's only a short hop (8 miles) to Torbay." Not heard about this, sounds perfect excuse for roadtrip xx | |||
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"We're big fans of Jaydee's. Not at all stuffy like other clubs we have visited with an easy going vibe. Love that it has kind of been constructed from a farm and outbuildings thoughtfully. And an open to all on a Saturday night policy is democratically pleasing." Looking to try Jaydees. From your comment, I take it single men are allowed innin a Saturday? Would be great as it’s easier for me to get there on a Saturday and I do like my single men! | |||
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"We like jaydees very friendly staff great mix of people and a big jacuzzi and a great mix of play areas " Was disappointed with jaydees, yes big jacuzzi but strict no playing so what’s the point if no one allowed to touch each other | |||
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"I know its closed for now but its Kestrels/Abfab for us. Nowhere offers anything like it anywhere else in the country for facilities, staffing, clientel or opening hours. Looking forward to their relaunch in a newl venue." Is that planned? | |||
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"I’ve been to Cupids, Atlantis, No.3, and Club F, but by far and away my favourite was Chams, for the all-round relaxed, friendly vibe " Totally agree | |||
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"Atlantis was brilliant. Visited it on a Thursday night when down working in the area, fantastic friendly staff. Nice clean premises and a right good fun bunch of regulars that are happy to chat away ... and more xx Can’t wait to next visit to area soon. Xx" We went on a party night and had amazing time. We plan on visiting again soon, lovely intimate club xx | |||
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"I’ve been to Cupids, Atlantis, No.3, and Club F, but by far and away my favourite was Chams, for the all-round relaxed, friendly vibe Totally agree " I should also say, that my visit to Chams was the only time I’ve been to a club as a couple, and there is a marked difference to going in as a single guy | |||
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"The two best Clubs in the U.K. are in the Midlands and they are not even in competition with each other. Both are great for out of towners too as one has hotel rooms “on site” and the other has a Premier literally next door. I am talking about Chams and Xtasia and both are great for entirely different reasons. We live in the NW and don’t even bother going to local Clubs anymore (other than No3 - because it has a bit of a swishy feel to it)." | |||
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"The two best Clubs in the U.K. are in the Midlands and they are not even in competition with each other. Both are great for out of towners too as one has hotel rooms “on site” and the other has a Premier literally next door. I am talking about Chams and Xtasia and both are great for entirely different reasons. We live in the NW and don’t even bother going to local Clubs anymore (other than No3 - because it has a bit of a swishy feel to it)." | |||
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"We especially me (female) has a favourite which is Chams Darlaston the staff are amazing and so is the facilities all is clean and well looked after.Would always pick this place over any other which we did Saturday went to go try xtasia and wow its grubby smells like an elderly home the jacuzzi looks like a scene from slaughter house with the horrid plastic curtains,people walking around in dirty trainers so no rules to etiquette by the looks of things.But that's just my opinion everyone is different I suppose." Wow... amazing how different people see different places... so differently. Our last visit to Xtasia was the UV DPraved event and the Club was packed with the hottest, sexiest and well turned out people that I have ever see anywhere, in any Club, at any time. The whole place was “sparkling” with energy and sexual anticipation and not a zombie in sight. Chams is a great Club and is also a favourite of ours but it is completely different. We won’t use the hot tub in Chams (or anywhere for that matter) simply because of the amount of semen that gets ejaculated in there from all and sundry. Just not our thing. | |||
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