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"It’s a great club. Chalk and cheese compared to Xtasia as it’s a dress down club. You will love it." Has to be the best club in the Uk! Dress down is the key we think to creating the great atmosphere. Most girls wear lingerie, men just underwear! | |||
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"It’s a great club. Chalk and cheese compared to Xtasia as it’s a dress down club. You will love it. Has to be the best club in the Uk! Dress down is the key we think to creating the great atmosphere. Most girls wear lingerie, men just underwear! " We agree, best by miles. | |||
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"It’s a great club. Chalk and cheese compared to Xtasia as it’s a dress down club. You will love it. Has to be the best club in the Uk! Dress down is the key we think to creating the great atmosphere. Most girls wear lingerie, men just underwear! We agree, best by miles." We love it ![]() | |||
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"We are trying Chams for the first time tonight. X" We're peeling ourselves away to try other clubs as we find Chams addictive but we'll be returning very soon. Have fun guys xx | |||
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"We went on Friday. A lovely night and met some nice new friends, but the abundance of guys...not the nice kind which you find a few of...but the kind that stare and play with themselves on every corner put a bit of a dampener on the mood. We will stick to couples nights now, wherever we go. The club is great, just an awkward few. " Yes its definately a different vibe on Saturdays, couples nights is our preference. We went the other Friday as flying from Birmingham early next morning, we enjoyed our night but somewhat guarded xx | |||
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"We went Saturday night for our first ever club experience. Wasn't overly struck on the place tbf. Marmite springs to mind. Some people love it, some dont. Just try it for yourselves. P.S everyone was friendly xx" Was it too quiet? Maybe try a themed night Bump-n-grind do parties there & literally fill the place. Its our favourite club, (love the dress down on arrival) but agree not every club suits all. Were trying different clubs ourselves, Cupids Saturday gone then revisiting Xtasia Saturday give it another go xx | |||
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"Hated the fact that most people walking round with nothing on there feet. Really just wasn't what we expected as a CLUB. did have a good chat and a laugh Every1 seemed friendly x" I always wear heels there and any club - Fi ![]() | |||
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"Hated the fact that most people walking round with nothing on there feet. Really just wasn't what we expected as a CLUB. did have a good chat and a laugh Every1 seemed friendly x I always wear heels there and any club - Fi ![]() I did too and hubby kept his trainers on. Got some funny looks though ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We went on Friday. A lovely night and met some nice new friends, but the abundance of guys...not the nice kind which you find a few of...but the kind that stare and play with themselves on every corner put a bit of a dampener on the mood. We will stick to couples nights now, wherever we go. The club is great, just an awkward few. Yes its definately a different vibe on Saturdays, couples nights is our preference. We went the other Friday as flying from Birmingham early next morning, we enjoyed our night but somewhat guarded xx" Somewhat guarded is about right. Like when N walks through a crowd of guys and they let her through then puff their chests out to get and stop me. Quite amusing lol B | |||
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"Hated the fact that most people walking round with nothing on there feet. Really just wasn't what we expected as a CLUB. did have a good chat and a laugh Every1 seemed friendly x I always wear heels there and any club - Fi ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We went on Friday. A lovely night and met some nice new friends, but the abundance of guys...not the nice kind which you find a few of...but the kind that stare and play with themselves on every corner put a bit of a dampener on the mood. We will stick to couples nights now, wherever we go. The club is great, just an awkward few. Yes its definately a different vibe on Saturdays, couples nights is our preference. We went the other Friday as flying from Birmingham early next morning, we enjoyed our night but somewhat guarded xx Somewhat guarded is about right. Like when N walks through a crowd of guys and they let her through then puff their chests out to get and stop me. Quite amusing lol B" One guy grabbed my arm infront of hubby and asked would I walk on him in my heels if he lay on the floor - FFS | |||
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"We went on Friday. A lovely night and met some nice new friends, but the abundance of guys...not the nice kind which you find a few of...but the kind that stare and play with themselves on every corner put a bit of a dampener on the mood. We will stick to couples nights now, wherever we go. The club is great, just an awkward few. Yes its definately a different vibe on Saturdays, couples nights is our preference. We went the other Friday as flying from Birmingham early next morning, we enjoyed our night but somewhat guarded xx Somewhat guarded is about right. Like when N walks through a crowd of guys and they let her through then puff their chests out to get and stop me. Quite amusing lol B One guy grabbed my arm infront of hubby and asked would I walk on him in my heels if he lay on the floor - FFS " Were you there a week last Friday as I had exactly the same ![]() | |||
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"Hated the fact that most people walking round with nothing on there feet. Really just wasn't what we expected as a CLUB. did have a good chat and a laugh Every1 seemed friendly x" I love the fact we don't have to wear shoes, it's refreshing to go to a club and be comfortable. Just shows how everyone's taste is different. Also how everyone sees differently, as I was there Friday night and unlike the above person I didn't find the single men to be too much at all. But I agree everyone should try a club to decide for themselves, I always say try twice to be certain. Also if you're not interested in single men then check when the couples night is, I don't go to chams on a Saturday as I have no interest in it. | |||
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"We went on Friday. A lovely night and met some nice new friends, but the abundance of guys...not the nice kind which you find a few of...but the kind that stare and play with themselves on every corner put a bit of a dampener on the mood. We will stick to couples nights now, wherever we go. The club is great, just an awkward few. Yes its definately a different vibe on Saturdays, couples nights is our preference. We went the other Friday as flying from Birmingham early next morning, we enjoyed our night but somewhat guarded xx Somewhat guarded is about right. Like when N walks through a crowd of guys and they let her through then puff their chests out to get and stop me. Quite amusing lol B One guy grabbed my arm infront of hubby and asked would I walk on him in my heels if he lay on the floor - FFS Were you there a week last Friday as I had exactly the same ![]() Friday 16th - big guy looked like Alan off Stella ![]() | |||
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"We went on Friday. A lovely night and met some nice new friends, but the abundance of guys...not the nice kind which you find a few of...but the kind that stare and play with themselves on every corner put a bit of a dampener on the mood. We will stick to couples nights now, wherever we go. The club is great, just an awkward few. Yes its definately a different vibe on Saturdays, couples nights is our preference. We went the other Friday as flying from Birmingham early next morning, we enjoyed our night but somewhat guarded xx Somewhat guarded is about right. Like when N walks through a crowd of guys and they let her through then puff their chests out to get and stop me. Quite amusing lol B One guy grabbed my arm infront of hubby and asked would I walk on him in my heels if he lay on the floor - FFS Were you there a week last Friday as I had exactly the same ![]() ![]() Have no idea on Alan off Stella but it was a big guy, as I declined his offer he then asked if he put a table top on his chest, would I sit on it with him underneath ![]() | |||
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"We went on Friday. A lovely night and met some nice new friends, but the abundance of guys...not the nice kind which you find a few of...but the kind that stare and play with themselves on every corner put a bit of a dampener on the mood. We will stick to couples nights now, wherever we go. The club is great, just an awkward few. Yes its definately a different vibe on Saturdays, couples nights is our preference. We went the other Friday as flying from Birmingham early next morning, we enjoyed our night but somewhat guarded xx Somewhat guarded is about right. Like when N walks through a crowd of guys and they let her through then puff their chests out to get and stop me. Quite amusing lol B One guy grabbed my arm infront of hubby and asked would I walk on him in my heels if he lay on the floor - FFS Were you there a week last Friday as I had exactly the same ![]() ![]() ![]() Weirdo - he was at door of couples room way past men only sign when asked me, Karl walked past and evicted him. He should have been evicted tbh a pest who ignores the rules | |||
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"Hated the fact that most people walking round with nothing on there feet. Really just wasn't what we expected as a CLUB. did have a good chat and a laugh Every1 seemed friendly x I love the fact we don't have to wear shoes, it's refreshing to go to a club and be comfortable. Just shows how everyone's taste is different." And if you have nice boobs the men won`t care if you have feet, let alone what you have on them! ![]() | |||
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"It’s a great club. Chalk and cheese compared to Xtasia as it’s a dress down club. You will love it. Has to be the best club in the Uk! Dress down is the key we think to creating the great atmosphere. Most girls wear lingerie, men just underwear! " Totally agree | |||
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"Hated the fact that most people walking round with nothing on there feet. Really just wasn't what we expected as a CLUB. did have a good chat and a laugh Every1 seemed friendly x I love the fact we don't have to wear shoes, it's refreshing to go to a club and be comfortable. Just shows how everyone's taste is different. Also how everyone sees differently, as I was there Friday night and unlike the above person I didn't find the single men to be too much at all. But I agree everyone should try a club to decide for themselves, I always say try twice to be certain. Also if you're not interested in single men then check when the couples night is, I don't go to chams on a Saturday as I have no interest in it." I don't think it helped it was our first night with single males so it was our first experience. N didn't want to play anywhere public because she was often being stared at by men. We didn't say anything because we didn't think staring and following was necessarily against club rules if that makes sense? B | |||
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"Hated the fact that most people walking round with nothing on there feet. Really just wasn't what we expected as a CLUB. did have a good chat and a laugh Every1 seemed friendly x I love the fact we don't have to wear shoes, it's refreshing to go to a club and be comfortable. Just shows how everyone's taste is different. Also how everyone sees differently, as I was there Friday night and unlike the above person I didn't find the single men to be too much at all. But I agree everyone should try a club to decide for themselves, I always say try twice to be certain. Also if you're not interested in single men then check when the couples night is, I don't go to chams on a Saturday as I have no interest in it. I don't think it helped it was our first night with single males so it was our first experience. N didn't want to play anywhere public because she was often being stared at by men. We didn't say anything because we didn't think staring and following was necessarily against club rules if that makes sense? B" Following isn't against club rules no, but I'm sure if you would have said they were making you uncomfortable or that they were wasting their time following you they would have backed off. Have you been on a couples night? Do you not find couples stare, or does it not bother you as much as its a couple so have each other. Just curious as I find all tend to watch people while they're playing, even if just passing by. | |||
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"Hated the fact that most people walking round with nothing on there feet. Really just wasn't what we expected as a CLUB. did have a good chat and a laugh Every1 seemed friendly x I love the fact we don't have to wear shoes, it's refreshing to go to a club and be comfortable. Just shows how everyone's taste is different. Also how everyone sees differently, as I was there Friday night and unlike the above person I didn't find the single men to be too much at all. But I agree everyone should try a club to decide for themselves, I always say try twice to be certain. Also if you're not interested in single men then check when the couples night is, I don't go to chams on a Saturday as I have no interest in it. I don't think it helped it was our first night with single males so it was our first experience. N didn't want to play anywhere public because she was often being stared at by men. We didn't say anything because we didn't think staring and following was necessarily against club rules if that makes sense? B Following isn't against club rules no, but I'm sure if you would have said they were making you uncomfortable or that they were wasting their time following you they would have backed off. Have you been on a couples night? Do you not find couples stare, or does it not bother you as much as its a couple so have each other. Just curious as I find all tend to watch people while they're playing, even if just passing by. " We've never had an issue with couples watching to be fair. I mean having a peep is one thing, but I noticed one guy staring so intensely at one point it was if he was trying to hypnotise N so we left the tub lol. | |||
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"Hated the fact that most people walking round with nothing on there feet. Really just wasn't what we expected as a CLUB. did have a good chat and a laugh Every1 seemed friendly x I love the fact we don't have to wear shoes, it's refreshing to go to a club and be comfortable. Just shows how everyone's taste is different. Also how everyone sees differently, as I was there Friday night and unlike the above person I didn't find the single men to be too much at all. But I agree everyone should try a club to decide for themselves, I always say try twice to be certain. Also if you're not interested in single men then check when the couples night is, I don't go to chams on a Saturday as I have no interest in it. I don't think it helped it was our first night with single males so it was our first experience. N didn't want to play anywhere public because she was often being stared at by men. We didn't say anything because we didn't think staring and following was necessarily against club rules if that makes sense? B Following isn't against club rules no, but I'm sure if you would have said they were making you uncomfortable or that they were wasting their time following you they would have backed off. Have you been on a couples night? Do you not find couples stare, or does it not bother you as much as its a couple so have each other. Just curious as I find all tend to watch people while they're playing, even if just passing by. We've never had an issue with couples watching to be fair. I mean having a peep is one thing, but I noticed one guy staring so intensely at one point it was if he was trying to hypnotise N so we left the tub lol." Oh you just got to learn to ignore it lol, I make eye contact with those I like and in those situations I just talk to someone I know or move away. | |||
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"We have been swinging for two years and always go to Xtasia but would like to try out Chameleons this Saturday. Any advice and would any couple like to join us?" I’m a single female and really love Chameleons - so friendly and staff are fantastic. | |||
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"What's best night to go friday or Saturday night " Depends what you're looking for. If you want single men then Friday, if you don't then Saturday. | |||
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"What's best night to go friday or Saturday night Depends what you're looking for. If you want single men then Friday, if you don't then Saturday. " Friday’s for us, great fun, mind you Monday’s can be special too ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I should have specified eg: depraved,party night ![]() Bump-n-grinds party night club bursting atcthe seams, next one Sat 14th April Oscars ![]() | |||
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"I should have specified eg: depraved,party night ![]() If you mean chams party nights, unless it's the beach party or NYE they do them on Friday and Saturday nights. Not sure when the next one is, it may be on their website, it may be Easter now. | |||
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"I should have specified eg: depraved,party night ![]() The next party night at Chams is the St Patrick's day party on the 16th/17th of March, after that is the Easter party. Then on April 14th is the Saturday night at the Movies/Oscars night party that we're hosting. If you'd like anymore details on any of our party nights just let us know xx | |||
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"I should have specified eg: depraved,party night ![]() I dont want an Easter Egg - want a night at Chams instead Fi ![]() | |||
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"I dont want an Easter Egg - want a night at Chams instead Fi ![]() It's does sound better than an Easter egg ![]() | |||
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"I dont want an Easter Egg - want a night at Chams instead Fi ![]() ![]() Must get hinting ![]() | |||
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"Saturdays for us. Definitely going at Easter.....much nicer things to get your mouth round than an Easter egg !!!" Sounds like a good way to look at it! We are trying to get there again soon xx | |||
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