FabSwingers.com forum: First time visit

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, looking for some advice. We are a couple and looking to visit a club for the first time in the Midlands this Friday evening. Looking at the reviews we seem to have narrowed it down to either Chameleons or Xtasia. We want to meet other couples, single females and would like to know which club would be best for our first experience.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

It really boils down to what sort of night you`re looking for. The two clubs mentioned are great clubs but with very different atmospheres. Chams is dress down which means literally that. You need to change straight away into underwear or a towel (ask when you pay at reception for a larger one if you need it) Chams do not have a bar but will keep your alcohol behind the bar for you. They otherwise have a full range of hot and soft drinks as well as hot food. Tell the staff you`re new to the club scene when you arrive and they`ll show you around.

Xtasia is more night club style, have their own bar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are looking for more of the night club seen. Silly question what do you ware?

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Ladies as sexy as they want, first time maybe go slightly more conservative until you know how far you want to go/show

Guys, nice shirt, trousers and shoes. We enjoyed Xtasia as we both like dressing up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks is trousers and shirt the genuine attire for men on a Friday night at Axtasia

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

It was when we went a few weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great, any tips for first timers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could not think of anything worse than visiting a singers club ... have some self respect lol

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Xtasia is a Greedy Girls night this friday, which would not put us off

it is a great club, loads of places to explore, a large dance floor and places to play. It really depends what you are looking for, the first time we go to a club we kind of assume we won’t play with others, although that is partly to take the pressure off! We managed to have a great night, even if it was just with each other

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I could not think of anything worse than visiting a singers club ... have some self respect lol "

It’s ok, noone would consider making you go... ‘lol’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could not think of anything worse than visiting a singers club ... have some self respect lol

It’s ok, noone would consider making you go... ‘lol’"

What's wrong with swingers club's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could not think of anything worse than visiting a singers club ... have some self respect lol

It’s ok, noone would consider making you go... ‘lol’

What's wrong with swingers club's?"

Everyone to their own I suppose ... but no thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any other clubs anyone can recommend in the midlands to meet couples on Friday xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friday's is normally singles night where there are plenty of single men to be found which suits a lot of cples if your specifically looking for cples and single females Saturday nights normally better not sure about xtasia but I know chams is cples and single females only on a Saturday night but look at xtasia website and it will tell what events they have on. As already mentioned the 2 clubs are different xtasia being more nightclub and chams dress down although chams do have a small disco area upstairs which is very popular. Might be worthwhile having a look at the meets section on here see who is going where on Friday there maybe other first timers going that you could arrange to meet also as already mentioned go with the expectation of not playing first time that way if play does happen it's a bonus wherever you decide to go I'm sure you'll have a great time as both clubs are great

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Any other clubs anyone can recommend in the midlands to meet couples on Friday xx"

Atlantis in Stoke. It's my birthday party.. .All invited. Super friendly nightclub style club. Socialising and dancing downstairs and naughty stuff in variety of playrooms and open areas upstairs.

Black and white theme friday....black trousers and white shirt and little black dress suggested.

Charity collection for foodbank.

Bring ID for both of you and join on the night.

Bring a duvet and stay overnight for free.

Buffet, cos it's a party night.

Bring your own alcohol, soft drinks and mixers all £1

How does that sound OP ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Lizzy thank you for the invite it’s much appreciated. Our challenge would be the distance, stoke us a long way from us. Thank you though xxx

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Hi Lizzy thank you for the invite it’s much appreciated. Our challenge would be the distance, stoke us a long way from us. Thank you though xxx"

That's why I mentioned that you can stay overnight for free

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