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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so I am a single guy, wishing to try out a club as clearly having no luck on here! It is clear that single guys are not particularly welcomed at this kind of event. Is the only way to find a willing partner to attend as part of a couple or are there other options for attending? Thank you

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Most clubs (including VA) have at least one night a week where single guys are allowed to attend - for VA that is Friday night - you need to register with them beforehand and book in in advance of attending.

Go along with an open mind and be prepared to talk to people but accept a polite no thanks graciously and follow the club etiquette/rules (which will be explained to you during a tour on your first visit) and you'll be fine

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Generally the right kind of single guys are very much welcomed at clubs, apart from on couples only evenings of course.

The single guys who follow women and couples around, cock in hand and barely speak to anyone don't get a good reception from most club goers.

A guy who has good social skills, is friendly and chatty and not pushy is always welcome. These are the more successful men in clubs because people want to interact with them.

You don't need anyone to go with you. It is nerve wracking going for the first time but we've all been in the same position. The hardest part is just walking through the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm already a member, and someone has asked me how much membership is. I can't remember!

Can someone please remind me?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I'm already a member, and someone has asked me how much membership is. I can't remember!

Can someone please remind me?"

There is no membership fee for VA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm already a member, and someone has asked me how much membership is. I can't remember!

Can someone please remind me?

There is no membership fee for VA "

Thought that was the case but couldn't be sure.

Thanks!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I'm already a member, and someone has asked me how much membership is. I can't remember!

Can someone please remind me?

There is no membership fee for VA

Thought that was the case but couldn't be sure.

Thanks!"

No probs - you do need to pre-register if a single guy or can do so on arrival if a couple or single female

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

Try jaydees Instead. It’s greedy girls tomorrow (fri 16th) so there are more single guy spaces than normal, also single guys are allowed on Saturdays but the spaces are more limited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try jaydees Instead. It’s greedy girls tomorrow (fri 16th) so there are more single guy spaces than normal, also single guys are allowed on Saturdays but the spaces are more limited "

See you tomorrow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone going to VA tonight?

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