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By *imbob999 OP   Couple
over a year ago

oakham

When you go to your first club is it best to go to one that is quite a distance from your home as would be abut Awkward meeting someone you know ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm it’s a false logic, what about if everyone else thinks the same and travels miles too? As a grown up accept the fact that you may run into people you know, you are all there for the same thing, say hello and just be adult about the situation x

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By *astRider600Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"When you go to your first club is it best to go to one that is quite a distance from your home as would be abut Awkward meeting someone you know ? "

Naturally that might be a worry but reality is the fab community is a small fraction of society lol not very likely but could be possible in extreme cases! Hey, might have an even more intense time, sexually aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were at Chams once. Sat in the hot tub. With 3 couples all within a few miles of us and each other. They Had all gone there so as not to bump into anyone that they knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live 10 mins from chams, and have never run into anyone I know.

Don't stress about it, everyone is there for the same reason.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I’m less than 10 miles from my local club, been going there over 18 months now & never seen anyone I know.

... watch me run into someone this week now I’ve said that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmm it’s a false logic, what about if everyone else thinks the same and travels miles too? As a grown up accept the fact that you may run into people you know, you are all there for the same thing, say hello and just be adult about the situation x"

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By *ary_JosephCouple
over a year ago

South Shields


"Mmm it’s a false logic, what about if everyone else thinks the same and travels miles too? As a grown up accept the fact that you may run into people you know, you are all there for the same thing, say hello and just be adult about the situation x"

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I live more than 150 miles from Chams and saw a guy who I know who is 15 miles away from me!

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I’m less than 10 miles from my local club, been going there over 18 months now & never seen anyone I know.

... watch me run into someone this week now I’ve said that!! "

He he

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

OP4F is 20 - 30 minutes drive from me Rios 45 minutes drive I have yet to come across anyone I know.I think I would be a bit embarrassed if it was a member of my family as I am sure any one would but if it was a work colleague I would be less embarrassed.

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

12 years, visited dozens of clubs (wouldn't even be able to guess the number of visits in total) and never bumped into anyone we know.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Fuck em. (Not literally).

What can they say when they are there for the same thing

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"OP4F is 20 - 30 minutes drive from me Rios 45 minutes drive I have yet to come across anyone I know.I think I would be a bit embarrassed if it was a member of my family as I am sure any one would but if it was a work colleague I would be less embarrassed."

Bumping into family at a club has happened to me.

The first time it was my sister and her husband, the second time was my uncle and his wife.

We were all a bit embarrassed, for about 30 seconds, then we had a good laugh about it.

The only impact it has had on any of us is we choose to play in private lockable rooms rather than public areas if we are visiting a club at the same time.

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By *ohnfromnwukMan
over a year ago

North Manchester

I've bumped into a work colleague at a club. It was a bit of a shock for us both but at the end of the day we're both in the same boat and now when we see each other we just say hi.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"OP4F is 20 - 30 minutes drive from me Rios 45 minutes drive I have yet to come across anyone I know.I think I would be a bit embarrassed if it was a member of my family as I am sure any one would but if it was a work colleague I would be less embarrassed.

Bumping into family at a club has happened to me.

The first time it was my sister and her husband, the second time was my uncle and his wife.

We were all a bit embarrassed, for about 30 seconds, then we had a good laugh about it.

The only impact it has had on any of us is we choose to play in private lockable rooms rather than public areas if we are visiting a club at the same time."
It's good that you could all laugh about it.I hope it doesn't happen to me as I am generally a bit shy and resvered it but if it does I hope like you we can laugh about and keep it private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re either going to bump into someone or you aren’t, regardless of the distance. We’ve visited 6 clubs in the uk and a couple abroad too and we have bumped into someone we knew but it took almost 3 years of visits for that to happen and it wasn’t in our closest club.

Still we were all adults about it, even ended up arranging to meet and playing together so it all ended well and now we are all good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck em. (Not literally).

What can they say when they are there for the same thing "

That's what we think (with the exception of the vulgar "Fuck em" [sic] portion of the post.

We've not bumped into anyway we know at clubs yet, but wouldn't really care if we did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you go to your first club is it best to go to one that is quite a distance from your home as would be abut Awkward meeting someone you know ? "

We were in a club with friends when a guy walked in they knew they were worried sick so I said let’s go over to him his first words were hi I not seen you and you not seen me . After all most people on here want this kept private

They have seen him outside the swinging scene and nothing has ever been said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wemt to a club quite far away from us and then found a really close family friend there with her partner and we just laughed if off and see them regular there but we have set rules though x

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