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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So.... I’m kind of interested in going to Chams- has anyone ever been as a single woman?! If so, what’s it like? Scared I’ll be all alone and feel awkward

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

Only seen your one pic, and have to admit that we haven't been to Chams but I am sure you won't be alone for long and you'll find plenty of attention your way.

Don't feel awkward, clubs can be fun and sociable and everyone is there to have a good time just like you.

If you're unsure or nervous ask the hosts if they can show you around and give you a brief tour.

Best of luck and hope you have a nice time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your reply... I guess I’ll just need to try it and see what happens! It’s just the first few minutes that terrify me asking for a tour is a good idea! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi we love chams we mainly go on Sundays as feel more relaxed they are having a bbw party on the 18th of Feb if you feel self conscious the staff are fantastic and the club goers are very friendly. Don't worry about going alone lots of single ladies do xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, that’s really nice of you to reply...

I like the sound of a bbw night... interesting!! x

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"So.... I’m kind of interested in going to Chams- has anyone ever been as a single woman?! If so, what’s it like? Scared I’ll be all alone and feel awkward "

Ive been twice. Both times with a single fem friend. The first time was awful. The men were predetory and out of control. Id heard good things about the club and assummed I just caught it on a bad night so returned. The second night was great. Totally different atmosphere. Would I go as a single fem? No the first night put me off but I would go with a fem friend again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, that’s really nice of you to reply...

I like the sound of a bbw night... interesting!! x"

Well we will be there so if you decide to go we will be more than happy to have a chat and show you round feel free to pm if you would like to know anything else xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So.... I’m kind of interested in going to Chams- has anyone ever been as a single woman?! If so, what’s it like? Scared I’ll be all alone and feel awkward

Ive been twice. Both times with a single fem friend. The first time was awful. The men were predetory and out of control. Id heard good things about the club and assummed I just caught it on a bad night so returned. The second night was great. Totally different atmosphere. Would I go as a single fem? No the first night put me off but I would go with a fem friend again."

I am a bit worried about your first experience! Is there a way to make it really clear that you’re not interested?! I think I’d try a quieter night, or maybe find a girl to go with! Thanks for your help x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks, that’s really nice of you to reply...

I like the sound of a bbw night... interesting!! x

Well we will be there so if you decide to go we will be more than happy to have a chat and show you round feel free to pm if you would like to know anything else xx"

Thanks, that’s really kind- I will let you know if I feel brave enough!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, that’s really nice of you to reply...

I like the sound of a bbw night... interesting!! x

Well we will be there so if you decide to go we will be more than happy to have a chat and show you round feel free to pm if you would like to know anything else xx

Thanks, that’s really kind- I will let you know if I feel brave enough!! x"

No worries xx

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