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Abfabs 20/1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Considering going to Abfabs on 20/1, but heard a few bad reviews of late that it’s gone down hill a bit and even on couples nights there are lots of Asian and Eastern European guys with women that really don’t want to be there and the men hassle you a bit.

Or have I heard wrong and it likely to be a great night like it used to be?

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always go the extra few miles to jaydees ..

The guys are members if not at least vetted a bit ...

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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago

Derby

We haven't been for a couple of years now. The last three times we went we found exactly what you've described....on couples nights (Saturdays). The last time felt more like a couples and singles night, with the obligatory line of single males following couples around every time they moved.

We also had nearly all of our drink taken.

On complaining to staff both times about both things, they weren't bothered.

Unfortunately fabswingers has removed Abfabs club review section from the site, otherwise we're sure you'd find plenty of experiences similar to ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always go the extra few miles to jaydees ..

The guys are members if not at least vetted a bit ..."

All attendees at Abfabs are members as it’s now a private members club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abfabs Heathrow to Jaydees up by Bedford, that’s more than a few miles by my Sat Nav!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abfabs has got alot better. But Maybe you should go make your own mind up and not take others opinions as everyone is different and dont have the same veiws on it

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By *innerfrompinnerWoman
over a year ago

pinner

I love kestrel/ abfabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kestrel/ abfabs"

Fortunately so do many others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kestrel/ abfabs

Fortunately so do many others! "

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"I love kestrel/ abfabs

Fortunately so do many others! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kestrel/ abfabs

Fortunately so do many others! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kestrel/ abfabs

Fortunately so do many others!

"

Heard a silly rumour being spread today that the pool is out of action. It’s currently 34C and lovely. When will people stop spreading these unfounded rumours!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love kestrel/ abfabs

Fortunately so do many others!

Heard a silly rumour being spread today that the pool is out of action. It’s currently 34C and lovely. When will people stop spreading these unfounded rumours!! "

Well it was first hand from a couple who have been going for years and went recently 2 x consecutive Saturday nights and reported this back so I don’t count it as silly, hence why I’m asking for other people’s opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kestrel/ abfabs

Fortunately so do many others!

Heard a silly rumour being spread today that the pool is out of action. It’s currently 34C and lovely. When will people stop spreading these unfounded rumours!!

Well it was first hand from a couple who have been going for years and went recently 2 x consecutive Saturday nights and reported this back so I don’t count it as silly, hence why I’m asking for other people’s opinions."

We come regularly and it hasn’t been out of action since a power cut affected the whole village.

Spreading unfounded rumours obviously damages the club and spoils it for us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kestrel/ abfabs

Fortunately so do many others!

Heard a silly rumour being spread today that the pool is out of action. It’s currently 34C and lovely. When will people stop spreading these unfounded rumours!!

Well it was first hand from a couple who have been going for years and went recently 2 x consecutive Saturday nights and reported this back so I don’t count it as silly, hence why I’m asking for other people’s opinions.

We come regularly and it hasn’t been out of action since a power cut affected the whole village.

Spreading unfounded rumours obviously damages the club and spoils it for us all."

I agree. Lately I noticed there is a negative campaign going against kestrels(abfabs) in forums from “promotors or maybe members” from new rival club in east of town who lack all these superb facilities which kestrels(abfab) provides. X

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Abfabs is OPEN and so is Kestrels why not come and see for yourself instead of listening to gossip!!!!!it's a bit like food isn't it we don't all like McDonald's.....

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By *unniebee1970Woman
over a year ago

The Hive


"I love kestrel/ abfabs"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can’t stand Angeles but lots of others like it.

It’s marmite love it or hate it you decide

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By *ants_Nerdy_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Havant

We visit on Fridays as often as is practical (it's a bit if a trek to us). It was where we had our first swinging experience (last year). We don't go on Saturdays any more because it costs more and one of our kinks is having Mrs Nerdy being services by lots of guys, which is easièr on Fridays. So I can't comment on whether Saturdays have got worse.

What I can say is that we still continue to go, and there are lots of guys there on Fridays but also plenty of couples of all types. We obviously like it since we keep going, so I'd say the best course of action is to have a go and judge for yourself.

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By *oolcouple400Couple
over a year ago

kingston

We've always had good fun nights at abfabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kestrels/Abfabs always clean and friendly and fantastic fun roll on Monday I’ll be going with Fb

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am going this evening - the first time for about 18

Months. It will be good to see what it is like

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By *rfunMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Asian and Eastern European ruining all clubs in London

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Asian and Eastern European ruining all clubs in London"

Def

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Asian and Eastern European ruining all clubs in London

Def"

If that’s true. Why let them in. You work there. Just ban them if they misbehave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love kestrels/Abfabs always clean and friendly and fantastic fun roll on Monday I’ll be going with Fb "

We are going on Monday night, always a good atmosphere.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Asian and Eastern European ruining all clubs in London

Def

If that’s true. Why let them in. You work there. Just ban them if they misbehave "

Not upto me!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Asian and Eastern European ruining all clubs in London

Def

If that’s true. Why let them in. You work there. Just ban them if they misbehave

Not upto me!!!!! "

Not up to you.

Interesting. So staff who work there( like yourself) are unable to deal with bad behaviour from certain ethnic groups but happy to take money from them. then it’s the club who is its own biggest enemy, not Eastern Europeon or Asians ruining club.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Asian and Eastern European ruining all clubs in London

Def

If that’s true. Why let them in. You work there. Just ban them if they misbehave

Not upto me!!!!!

Not up to you.

Interesting. So staff who work there( like yourself) are unable to deal with bad behaviour from certain ethnic groups but happy to take money from them. then it’s the club who is its own biggest enemy, not Eastern Europeon or Asians ruining club. "

I don't do the parties so get your facts right !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any unacceptable behaviour at the club has to be reported at the time and the staff will deal with it promptly . Kestrels/Abfab staff are fantastic and look after its members . If you don’t tell them at the time how are they meant to deal with the problem.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


" Any unacceptable behaviour at the club has to be reported at the time and the staff will deal with it promptly . Kestrels/Abfab staff are fantastic and look after its members . If you don’t tell them at the time how are they meant to deal with the problem. "

Agreed but sometimes people may feel that they are uncomfortable reporting in person. I have seen this a few times in clubs, myself included.

I have had an 2 issues personally one was at K/A on Friday, and one was 6 months ago at amours.

Both I had dealt with personally at the time, one was telling someone to do one, and that was a female as she was d*unk, abusive and rude to me, The other was an uncomfy play situation which I put a stop to.

Now both situations, were reported to management of the clubs the next day, and I got a great response from amours and a professional response from abfabs (amours is my regular club, so not slating K/A). I must say both were dealt with to my satisfaction

I have also in the past raised concerns to management of various clubs regarding situations that I have seen. I must all clubs have been great.

I would say definitely report all issues. Clubs can manage the situation

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