FabSwingers.com forum: Possible new club......

By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We were wondering if there would be a high interest in a swingers club to be opened in York? And what kind of rooms would you like to see in a new club? And anything that would or wouldn't like to see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd investigate with the local council first regarding licences first. Some are very funny about sex clubs, especially in areas where they'd know there would be a lot of local opposition. As for facilities, pool, jacuzzi, orgy room. Viewing room. Couples / ladies only. Men only rooms for bi nights. Dark room. Glory holes. Dungeon etc etc. Need to cater for different tastes / events. Greedy girl nights. Bi / TV nights. Fetish / BDSM. Couples only and "normal" nights. Party / theme nights.

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

The council is in hand but we need to know what ppl would like to have a idea of property size for the buisness plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep pockets comes to mind....

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Something with a large bar / social area is always good. That then gives you flexibility to use it for different events or just for socialising.

A wet area to house a large hot tub, shower, steam room and or sauna would also attract our attention.

A mix of orgy and private rooms as well as a bdsm themed room should then suit most folks. The club doesn't have to be massive to be a success, so long as it has a variety of play and social spaces

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Yeah we're not planning to go massive but have a property big enough to beable to extend if/when needed we don't want to go massive first and not be able to afford to finish before opening.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

'keep it small and keep it all' is the best advice for new ventures like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice... speak to other club owners

They can inform you of costs and what you need licencing etc

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Best advice... speak to other club owners

They can inform you of costs and what you need licencing etc "

This is great advice

I'm pretty sure I've seen threads before where people are asking for info on opening a new club and existing club owners have offered lots of advice regarding what licenses you need, set up costs etc.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Somewhere with car parking.

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By *an42Woman
over a year ago

Sunderland

We would be definitely interested in coming along if you went ahead opening a club in York x

Stopping over is definitely a benefit to a lot of people as well .

So if you offer a crash over night ,and charge a small fee it saves people a fortune which helps them afford more visits x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing we’d like from a club is a room with a two way mirror or video feed to another room. I (tony) like the idea of being watch but I don’t want somebody three foot away bashing one out and putting me off my stroke...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t guarantee you won’t get a club opened in York ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t guarantee you won’t get a club opened in York .."

*can

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

And why not?

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By *orkieboy 99Man
over a year ago

york

"The council is in hand but we need to know what ppl would like to have a idea of property size for the buisness plan

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you may have a lot on with york city council but good look would lol one in york

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We know it's going to be a battle with council but it's a battle we will win lol

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

Any idea of timescales as to when the club might open ?

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Not as yet still getting ideas on what people would like.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

My biggest pet hate with clubs is lighting. Far too many rooms underlit to the point you can’t see faces properly. That’s what dark rooms are for.

Otherwise a nice mix of social - non play areas, open play areas and separate lockable rooms.

Good luck

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Also think carefully about the workload it will put on you personally.

Visiting clubs is great fun of course. Running one means you will spend all your weekends doing all the other stuff - getting rooms clean before AND after, dealing with arguing people, throwing people out when necessary.

It won't all be glamour and fun.

Key to any new business is being following your dream but also being brutally honest with yourselves, about the negatives and positives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My biggest pet hate with clubs is lighting. Far too many rooms underlit to the point you can’t see faces properly. "

We can agree with that too

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

Consider blending in. I went too see we're the townhouse was few months ago, after three ride's up n down the main road found it looks like a unused pub from the outside same with infusion looks like a old garage type place. And having somewhere that allows swinger's too stop over in same place. Even if set nights, a local hotel wouldn't mind the extra income. Good luck

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Consider blending in. I went too see we're the townhouse was few months ago, after three ride's up n down the main road found it looks like a unused pub from the outside same with infusion looks like a old garage type place. And having somewhere that allows swinger's too stop over in same place. Even if set nights, a local hotel wouldn't mind the extra income. Good luck "

That's the plan to look at having somewhere that doesn't stand out aka no big sign lol

And was considering having a word with a local b&b getting decent rates so there's always somewhere to stay

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

Guarantee everyone gets laid it would be the best club ever

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Something small warm correctly lit and intimate with parking.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Guarantee everyone gets laid it would be the best club ever"

That’s a brothel

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

"My biggest pet hate with clubs is lighting. Far too many rooms underlit to the point you can’t see faces properly. That’s what dark rooms are for.

Otherwise a nice mix of social - non play areas, open play areas and separate lockable rooms.

Good luck "

Very low lighting not good if you`re voyeuristic either!

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

So..... so far we have small and intimate with decent lighting possible rooms to stay over plenty of parking different theme nights and a prostitute on standby

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say speak to club owners, find out about licensing, and also check with local council

Some councils will not want a swinging club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea not sure york council will allow it but we at the Big york social would definitely love the idea and support you

good luck x

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Great idea not sure york council will allow it but we at the Big york social would definitely love the idea and support you

good luck x"

If they don't even if we have it past kexby that's easy riding council and it's still classed as "york" and I know they will approve it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were just talking about this a few nights ago... It would be great! Though as York tends to put the needs of the tourist first, maybe a special entry fee combined with the Viking centre!!

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By *elightzCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Noticed from your veris you've been to quest. The only thing we can suggest is you take a few road trips and visit other clubs to get an idea on layouts, facilities ect. All clubs are laid out differently bit sure you will get a good idea of plans.

Good luck anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carparking! From what I've heard about clubs, parking is rubbish!

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By *parkle7Woman
over a year ago

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One thing I think is missing in ALL the clubs I have been too, is a bloody decent fan or air conditioning!!!

i do get all hot n flustered

can't think why

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Noticed from your veris you've been to quest. The only thing we can suggest is you take a few road trips and visit other clubs to get an idea on layouts, facilities ect. All clubs are laid out differently bit sure you will get a good idea of plans.

Good luck anyway x"

We have been to more clubs than quest we've just not been veried by any one from the others

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"One thing I think is missing in ALL the clubs I have been too, is a bloody decent fan or air conditioning!!!

i do get all hot n flustered

can't think why

Decent air con is well up there trust me we did a night at quest in summer when there's stopped working and well it wasn't pleasant

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"We know it's going to be a battle with council but it's a battle we will win lol

How many other clubs have they allowed in York?

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By *elightzCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Good luck anyway x

We have been to more clubs than quest we've just not been veried by any one from the others "

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"We know it's going to be a battle with council but it's a battle we will win lol

How many other clubs have they allowed in York?"

York is a gap in market I'm not sure anyone has tried before?

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

"So..... so far we have small and intimate with decent lighting possible rooms to stay over plenty of parking different theme nights and a prostitute on standby

I’m there already

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"We know it's going to be a battle with council but it's a battle we will win lol

How many other clubs have they allowed in York?

York is a gap in market I'm not sure anyone has tried before?

Might be worth researching that

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

"We know it's going to be a battle with council but it's a battle we will win lol

How many other clubs have they allowed in York?

York is a gap in market I'm not sure anyone has tried before?

Might be worth researching that

You need to do a bit more homework on this , it's been tried in York before

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

That said , We hope you are successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always handy to have a reasonably priced hotel within walking distance....bit like xtasia having the premier inn next door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever happend to the club that was between York and whitby?

It was a nudist/ swingers place ?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Changing rooms and as previously mentioned an overnight option. ClubF aoparently have lovely separate rooms that they use.

Cj’s in Glasgow lets you stay over for a reasonable fee as well. It also has great parking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy access from the west side of the pennines

, free parking

Maybe stay over rooms,

Equality on admission costs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whatever happend to the club that was between York and whitby?

It was a nudist/ swingers place ? "

Closed about three years ago, but there has been a couple of camping weekends there since

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By *ome Back CoupleCouple
over a year ago

to be discussed

On ur profile it says desertion is a must. U do realize if you have a club think people may learn ur identity. Sounds like a dream to me but good luck n we wud come

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"On ur profile it says desertion is a must. U do realize if you have a club think people may learn ur identity. Sounds like a dream to me but good luck n we wud come

Our profile hasn't been updated since we joined... why's it a dream? We already have 1 successful buisness so we know buisness lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On ur profile it says desertion is a must. U do realize if you have a club think people may learn ur identity. Sounds like a dream to me but good luck n we wud come

Our profile hasn't been updated since we joined... why's it a dream? We already have 1 successful buisness so we know buisness lol

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I'm in agreement dreaming. You seem very wish washy . Naive even

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"On ur profile it says desertion is a must. U do realize if you have a club think people may learn ur identity. Sounds like a dream to me but good luck n we wud come

Our profile hasn't been updated since we joined... why's it a dream? We already have 1 successful buisness so we know buisness lol

I'm in agreement dreaming. You seem very wish washy . Naive even "

If that's how you feel.....

Why put people down when they are 1 trying to help the swinging community.

2 make a successful buisness

So I'm guessing when it does happen you won't be joining?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On ur profile it says desertion is a must. U do realize if you have a club think people may learn ur identity. Sounds like a dream to me but good luck n we wud come

Our profile hasn't been updated since we joined... why's it a dream? We already have 1 successful buisness so we know buisness lol

I'm in agreement dreaming. You seem very wish washy . Naive even

If that's how you feel.....

Why put people down when they are 1 trying to help the swinging community.

2 make a successful buisness

So I'm guessing when it does happen you won't be joining?

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Not putting down. Replying to discussion. You are known as Shy couple. So that won't work in Club game. Look at it as constructive discussion. Don't get on hind legs straight away . That wouldnt be desirable in club game either....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decent carpark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need a club in liverpool nearest one is over the water wirral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guarantee everyone gets laid it would be the best club ever"

No club except a whore house can guarantee that and this isn't going to be one.

Good luck xxx

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Decent carpark.

Ah yes good point. And parking where you don’t have to walk to the club entrance in sight of public.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Need a club in liverpool nearest one is over the water wirral "

Liverpool is one of quite a few places where the council won’t allow a swingers club, from what I’ve read on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a shame the council wont let one ooen mind you how did splash sauna open

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By *ansterCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Good luck with your venture, and we would definitely travel up, stay over, and give it a go...

Some people seem to assume their opinions need to extend to questioning your suitability to run this business?

I’m sure you have considered this well; having a business already!

Cinema room is always a good idea, being a smutty den of activity...

Good luck!

Jan&Russ X

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Need a club in liverpool nearest one is over the water wirral

Liverpool is one of quite a few places where the council won’t allow a swingers club, from what I’ve read on here! "

Nottingham’s the same.

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By *heoralexpertMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough/Helmsley NY

We would love it how ever it's not quite as easy as you would think x

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

"Good luck with your venture, and we would definitely travel up, stay over, and give it a go...

Some people seem to assume their opinions need to extend to questioning your suitability to run this business?

I’m sure you have considered this well; having a business already!Absolutely the Ops are doing their homework and I think all they need to know is would they get the support of people on here.Reading their replies to questions I’ve no doubt they know what they are doing.

From a selfish point of view it’s a lot easier getting to the 2 clubs in Leeds or LC in Sheffield than it is York.Also again I’m selfishly hoping the North East doesn’t over do it in clubs like the North west where the majority are quiet because of competition.That said I’d give it a go

Cinema room is always a good idea, being a smutty den of activity...

Good luck!

Jan&Russ X"

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

This post has got slightly out of hand but We are not asking whether you think we will get approval or not that's our battle with the council. And as a buisness we also have that covered as previously mentioned we already have 1 successful buisness.

Our question is what do you want in a club what would make you attend?

If there was a club in York would it be a popular choice to visit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This post has got slightly out of hand but We are not asking whether you think we will get approval or not that's our battle with the council. And as a buisness we also have that covered as previously mentioned we already have 1 successful buisness.

Our question is what do you want in a club what would make you attend?

If there was a club in York would it be a popular choice to visit? "
Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Our question is what do you want in a club what would make you attend?

If there was a club in York would it be a popular choice to visit? Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

Why all the negativity?

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

How do you know what York council will say ?

Do you work for York council?

Are you a local to the York area?

No....... your negativity and clearly spiteful comments are not wanted and or listened to....

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

Confused why it matters to the point where you've started to verge on personal? It's not your investment - either time searching and filling in forms or money. If they want to waste their time, in your eyes, what's it to you? Do you have some sort of stake in a club that would lose out on business?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

How do you know what York council will say ?

Do you work for York council?

Are you a local to the York area?

No....... your negativity and clearly spiteful comments are not wanted and or listened to....

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Far from it. The advice as already given to you. You haven't listened. Naively only changed name from Shy couple today . Think you are wasting time yours and others .

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

How do you know what York council will say ?

Do you work for York council?

Are you a local to the York area?

No....... your negativity and clearly spiteful comments are not wanted and or listened to....

Far from it. The advice as already given to you. You haven't listened. Naively only changed name from Shy couple today . Think you are wasting time yours and others .

How are they wasting people's time? You reply if you want to, you don't if you don't. If you think you're wasting time, it's entirely by your own choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

How do you know what York council will say ?

Do you work for York council?

Are you a local to the York area?

No....... your negativity and clearly spiteful comments are not wanted and or listened to....

Far from it. The advice as already given to you. You haven't listened. Naively only changed name from Shy couple today . Think you are wasting time yours and others .

How are they wasting people's time? You reply if you want to, you don't if you don't. If you think you're wasting time, it's entirely by your own choice. "
Because it's a futile venture regards a club being permitted in York. So false hope.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

How do you know what York council will say ?

Do you work for York council?

Are you a local to the York area?

No....... your negativity and clearly spiteful comments are not wanted and or listened to....

Far from it. The advice as already given to you. You haven't listened. Naively only changed name from Shy couple today . Think you are wasting time yours and others .

How are they wasting people's time? You reply if you want to, you don't if you don't. If you think you're wasting time, it's entirely by your own choice. Because it's a futile venture regards a club being permitted in York. So false hope. "

But why does it matter to you? It's not your effort, futile or otherwise? You seem really bent out of shape about something that has nothing to do with you, once you read the first post you had a choice as to whether to engage with the thread or not. Ergo, you waste your own time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our question is what do you want in a club what would make you attend?

If there was a club in York would it be a popular choice to visit? "

As a matter of interest what line is your current business in?

Wish you all success in your new venture if you can get it off the ground

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Our current line is in commercial development.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our current line is in commercial development. "

Good, at least you've got the experience in Commercial Property, and presume planning etc.... as we said, good luck in the venture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a villa in tenerife ..be with you for ever

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Our current line is in commercial development.

Good, at least you've got the experience in Commercial Property, and presume planning etc.... as we said, good luck in the venture.

Yes we do a wide range of new builds from public buildings through to shopping outlets so the construction and planning etc is the easy bit for us lol

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Good luck with your venture. Don’t listen to people who don’t have the gumption to do it themselves.

We really appreciate the effort Club Owners put in to open and keep clubs running - often inspite of people moaning all the time.

& yes we’d give it a go next time we’re around York.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seems very ship shod. If was a business goer. Don't think anyone would be that naive as to let cat out of bag for others to jump on. Just a nugget of simple buisness I'd say......

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Somewhere chilled and relaxed without feeling your every move is scrutinised and watched.

Large area for socialising and quirky play rooms... maybe different themes! (Yes I am a big kid... I make no apologies)

I would def be interested in coming along if one was set up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just seems very ship shod. If was a business goer. Don't think anyone would be that naive as to let cat out of bag for others to jump on. Just a nugget of simple buisness I'd say......"

Was any of this written in English?

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

How do you know what York council will say ?

Do you work for York council?

Are you a local to the York area?

No....... your negativity and clearly spiteful comments are not wanted and or listened to....

Far from it. The advice as already given to you. You haven't listened. Naively only changed name from Shy couple today . Think you are wasting time yours and others .

I think you are making this a personal attack on this couple. Exactly why only you know. If they want to pursue this venture that is entirely their choice. Best keeping any personal vendetta off the forum as it only makes you look bitter.

Hope this all works out for you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The term 'Don't feed the trolls' springs to mind

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"We were wondering if there would be a high interest in a swingers club to be opened in York? And what kind of rooms would you like to see in a new club? And anything that would or wouldn't like to see?"

Yes, we would be interested.

We particularly like clubs to have a warm sexy boudoir feel.

A selection of rooms, including lockable, open and ones that allow viewing from outside.

A bar area with music and dance space, plus a quieter social area.

Good toilets and changing areas, with generous sized lockers.

Best of luck. Ignore the negativity.

Nita

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over a year ago

"Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

How do you know what York council will say ?

Do you work for York council?

Are you a local to the York area?

No....... your negativity and clearly spiteful comments are not wanted and or listened to....

Far from it. The advice as already given to you. You haven't listened. Naively only changed name from Shy couple today . Think you are wasting time yours and others .

Hope this all works out for you OP."
Far from it. Good luck to anyone who embarks on a venture best of look. However if feel I have a valid point/ points I'll air them. Like in life if n when things are hypothetical. This is my reply

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Actually... my perfect club would be very similar to La Chambre. With better changing and toilet facilities.

LC manages to get a lot into a relatively small building, and a Dungeon in the cellar is just "right".

Nita

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

How do you know what York council will say ?

Do you work for York council?

Are you a local to the York area?

No....... your negativity and clearly spiteful comments are not wanted and or listened to....

Far from it. The advice as already given to you. You haven't listened. Naively only changed name from Shy couple today . Think you are wasting time yours and others .

Hope this all works out for you OP."

Seems to be a trend - he was having a real pop at Club Entice over their teething problems too. SwingersClubOwner-itis maybe?

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over a year ago

"Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

How do you know what York council will say ?

Do you work for York council?

Are you a local to the York area?

No....... your negativity and clearly spiteful comments are not wanted and or listened to....

Far from it. The advice as already given to you. You haven't listened. Naively only changed name from Shy couple today . Think you are wasting time yours and others .

Hope this all works out for you OP.

Seems to be a trend - he was having a real pop at Club Entice over their teething problems too. SwingersClubOwner-itis maybe?"
Not at all. I trestles in visiting clubs just want to be told truth n not duped. As by Entices admission in recent post admitted teething problems and be upfront now. So not having a pop . Was stating facts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think with this Club in York case of waiting to see.

And other club getting mentioned outrageous . Think a case of sucking it n seeing so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think equality on single Males seriously needs addressing on club admissions ..

A bit more fairer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any club in York would need ;

Ample car parking

Stop overs at reasonable rates

Air con

Adjustable lighting (Quest is too bright and hot)

The usual rooms, private rooms and dungeon

If you can get the council to agree, I’m sure it would be a threat venue

We would support you x

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By *asbeenCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Why not fight Tyson Furry or AJ ? it would be an easier win than taking on York council.

Hey you may even beat all three.(someone will)

As for what would I want from a club in York, I'd like one like Chameleons,Cupids,or Quest.

All three are 1st division clubs who have reinvested their profits wisely,

"A well run club is a happy club"

And by the way I Have no connection to any club.

So like any good business take the best ideas from each of your favorite clubs and roll them into one.(i.e your club).

As a businessman you will of course know the best club in the country!!

Yes correct the one that makes the most MONEY.

Don't talk it, get on with it,

make lots of money and give us another 1st division club.

I wish you all the best with your venture.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

How do you know what York council will say ?

Do you work for York council?

Are you a local to the York area?

No....... your negativity and clearly spiteful comments are not wanted and or listened to....

Far from it. The advice as already given to you. You haven't listened. Naively only changed name from Shy couple today . Think you are wasting time yours and others .

Hope this all works out for you OP.

Seems to be a trend - he was having a real pop at Club Entice over their teething problems too. SwingersClubOwner-itis maybe?"

Definitely got it in for club owners. Still ffs

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Toilets. Two club facilities I haven’t liked in particular.

The old Tease 2 that only had toilets inside play rooms.

Va that has mixed communal toilets.

Much nicer to have separate Male / female in my opinion.

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By *irral TwoCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be worth looking at one of those ex-petrol-stations/now failing Indian/Chinese restaurant places.

No neighbours, may be easier for pp.

Fence the parking for privacy...

Job done.

Nearly

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Might be worth looking at one of those ex-petrol-stations/now failing Indian/Chinese restaurant places.

A drive-thru shag ?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Might be worth looking at one of those ex-petrol-stations/now failing Indian/Chinese restaurant places.

A drive-thru shag ?"

I think some people would benefit from a menu, pay and go. Oh that’s a brothel again

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By *r an Mrs xMan
over a year ago

liverpool

First hurdles planning. Then finding 80-100k. Without either it’s a no go. Good luck if u can. But most areas with no clubs are like that for a reason.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Whilst I have been to a lot of clubs about 12/13 clubs over the years in the uk

I would say planning is key.

Then funding

I would say at a guess it’s unlikely that you will get permission for inside the city walls. So then your looking at the outside of York.

I would say that you would need maybe a semi-industrial area away from schools. This could allow you to have parking, and keep the fellow residents happy

Personally York is to far for me, and would rather go to either Manchester or Birmingham. I am sure people would go to York but not for me - good luck

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over a year ago

"Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

How do you know what York council will say ?

Do you work for York council?

Are you a local to the York area?

No....... your negativity and clearly spiteful comments are not wanted and or listened to....

Far from it. The advice as already given to you. You haven't listened. Naively only changed name from Shy couple today . Think you are wasting time yours and others .

Hope this all works out for you OP.

Seems to be a trend - he was having a real pop at Club Entice over their teething problems too. SwingersClubOwner-itis maybe?

Definitely got it in for club owners. Still ffs

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Far from it. I'd stumbled into thread as was looking for clubs to visit. Then found a thread. So joined it. As discretion is a major thing I wanted a few boxes ticked. And if n when see something not right like in life I'll say. I'm not one that relishes being duped. I don't go through with blinkers on. Back to York. It's massive tourism turnover will not permit it. Wise up. Don't be duped I hold once a gin

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over a year ago

"Yes but it's hypothetical as Council won't permit. I'd advise you pay attention to the other buisness you keep mentioning. Your naivety regarding club in York is pie the sky

How do you know what York council will say ?

Do you work for York council?

Are you a local to the York area?

No....... your negativity and clearly spiteful comments are not wanted and or listened to....

Far from it. The advice as already given to you. You haven't listened. Naively only changed name from Shy couple today . Think you are wasting time yours and others .

Hope this all works out for you OP.

Seems to be a trend - he was having a real pop at Club Entice over their teething problems too. SwingersClubOwner-itis maybe?

Definitely got it in for club owners. Still ffs

Far from it. I'd stumbled into thread as was looking for clubs to visit. Then found a thread. So joined it. As discretion is a major thing I wanted a few boxes ticked. And if n when see something not right like in life I'll say. I'm not one that relishes being duped. I don't go through with blinkers on. Back to York. It's massive tourism turnover will not permit it. Wise up. Don't be duped I hold once a gin

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* typo: I hola once again .doh

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Well thanks for getting us blocked

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Well thanks for getting us blocked

Hyperthetically speaking, if I was wanting to do something very public like you’re proposing, I’d rise above other people’s negativity and not react with negative / silly comments like this and your status update. Putting yourself forward publically is going to give you a lot of attention, so if you have got meetings with a council, do you really think portraying yourself in this fashion is going to stand you in good stead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez give OP a break. If they try and fail then so be it, at least they tried. If they sucseed, then the better for all of us, no? I wish you well and hope it comes off, i would certainly visit and know many others who would too

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over a year ago

"Jeez give OP a break. If they try and fail then so be it, at least they tried. If they sucseed, then the better for all of us, no? I wish you well and hope it comes off, i would certainly visit and know many others who would too

Exactly this !

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

They said Hull wouldn't get a club either but 'the reem team' stuck at it and managed to open their Hu9 club here in November and it has been quite successful even at that time of year. You should pay it a visit, the car-park is spot on and the club is just the right size plus close enough to town.

Best of luck to you and we hope to be visiting a new club in York soon

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"They said Hull wouldn't get a club either but 'the reem team' stuck at it and managed to open their Hu9 club here in November and it has been quite successful even at that time of year. You should pay it a visit, the car-park is spot on and the club is just the right size plus close enough to town.

Best of luck to you and we hope to be visiting a new club in York soon

We have visited hu9

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Thank you for your support and confidence...

The hate messages

just make us even more determined to make it work

Like you said least were trying

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Thank you for your support and confidence...

The hate messages

just make us even more determined to make it work

Like you said least were trying

I trust that’s not aimed at me. I made several posts before advising you to remove your - “fuck the haters” status after seeing your post this morning that didn’t make sense. If you’re going to present yourselves to a council especially for an application such as this, you need to keep your cool.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Go for it. It's something we would have loved to do.

Ignore the haters. Get the legalities done before you drop money into anything.

Good luck to you whatever the outcome.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"And why not? "
hope you open one , York needs one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a couples changing room, the last few times we’ve been to a club which is new to us they’ve had separate male and female changing rooms. It can put us off going again as we only take one bag with our change of clothes in, if I want to wear a basque he can’t help me lace it up and then when one of us needs something from the locker the other one has to go get it.

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Been to see licencing ppl today and found out no one had in the last 22years put a application in to open a club in York......

However all positive

Watch this space

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Great news.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Been to see licencing ppl today and found out no one had in the last 22years put a application in to open a club in York......

However all positive

Watch this space

Fantastic news x

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By *ercy and GloriaCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I guess a lot depends on location. Out in the country like Secrets in Devon or city centre/suburbs. One would be York City Council, the other either North or East Yorkshire. Either way it’s bureaucracy but maybe different agendas. Which option are you going for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fantastic, hope you find something! X

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Positive start , wish you well

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I'd definitely be open to a new club in York!

I'd love for a swingers club nearby to go one step beyond a bi night and have a men only event. Would save me having to travel to dewsbury for the gay sauna hehe.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Wow I'd definitely be open to a new club in York!

I'd love for a swingers club nearby to go one step beyond a bi night and have a men only event. Would save me having to travel to dewsbury for the gay sauna hehe. "

If you fancy a change from Doncaster, Quest in Leeds does monthly men only evenings and during the day Pandora's in Leeds is men only (called Steam. Separate website)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something not ringing true, why keep people informed if this is a serious buisness idea, Very naive or fibs the latter I think tut tut

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Something not ringing true, why keep people informed if this is a serious buisness idea, Very naive or fibs the latter I think tut tut"

Stop making personal remarks about this couples venture. If you dont like what they are doing ignore their thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something not ringing true, why keep people informed if this is a serious buisness idea, Very naive or fibs the latter I think tut tut

Stop making personal remarks about this couples venture. If you dont like what they are doing ignore their thread."
ill comment on what I feel fit, n if something wreaks ill ramp it up. Busy body

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Something not ringing true, why keep people informed if this is a serious buisness idea, Very naive or fibs the latter I think tut tut

Stop making personal remarks about this couples venture. If you dont like what they are doing ignore their thread. ill comment on what I feel fit, n if something wreaks ill ramp it up. Busy body

This is a personal attack on the OP which I think you will find is against site rules as is calling people busybody. Stop airing your dirty laundry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something not ringing true, why keep people informed if this is a serious buisness idea, Very naive or fibs the latter I think tut tut

Stop making personal remarks about this couples venture. If you dont like what they are doing ignore their thread. ill comment on what I feel fit, n if something wreaks ill ramp it up. Busy body

This is a personal attack on the OP which I think you will find is against site rules as is calling people busybody. Stop airing your dirty laundry."
it's far from a personal attack, it's responding in a forum... here we go the brigade who think everyone should agree with everything,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it!

If you have the money to lose if it doesn't work, then fair play for giving it a shot. It is your money after all.

Good luck.

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By *orkieboy 99Man
over a year ago

york

Good look with it and I be defo up for coming to it as I am not far from york and just forget knobs on here

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

How many millions £ have you got to spend???

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By *himp_KittenCouple
over a year ago

Preston

Good luck with the venture hope you manage to battle through all the red tape, we'd certainly be there if you manage to get it off the ground. York's an awesome place and the addition of a club would make it even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the 21st of January 2018, ill return to this thread in a year today,

Prove me wrong.

Pound says I'm right .

No club in York.....

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By *himp_KittenCouple
over a year ago

Preston

To be fair you may well be right but if there's a slim chance of a new club opening up in a great place like York then we'll support it every day of the week.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I think it’s great, at least you’re trying something & it’s admirable. I also don’t see anything wrong in gauging public opinion at this point either.

My mum always told me ‘if you’ve got nothing nice to say, don’t say anything at all’. Shame not everyone was brought up the same way, eh?!

Good luck OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Catch you 21st of Jan 2019 ....

For an update

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By *orkcouple888 OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"It's the 21st of January 2018, ill return to this thread in a year today,

Prove me wrong.

Pound says I'm right .

No club in York....."

Clearly you are clueless

Securing premises, permissions and licencing could well take over a year alone before any work can even commence.

We never stated that it would happen overnight

So naive

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By *are2bedifferentCouple
over a year ago

birstall

Yes would love a posh one like libs or va! Xxxxx something with a lot of class

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

'Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt'

Shakespeare

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

We have been to 3 clubs. Pandora’s & Quest in Leeds and Townhouse in Liverpool (well Birkenhead). We’re fairly new to the scene but I am a interior/experience designer and have to say there’s way more that goes into it than a ‘good social space and big play rooms.’

The three clubs we have been to are all very different. They all do things their own way and all have idiosyncrasies that make them unique. They all have something better and something worse than the others. For example Pandora’s social area is too big and difficult to maintain any intimacy but upstairs is a maze of great playrooms. Quest is small but really well done and very clean and well furbished. But lacks space and play rooms. Townhouse has an amazing atmosphere and some great play rooms but the wet area is a bit remote and feels a bit disconnected (not their fault - that’s the nature of the building) but their changing area isn’t nearly as good as the other two.. etc etc.

But what makes them is the experience the owners bring. All have amazing staffing, and rules which are enforced for enjoyment. Mandatory etiquette is all the same but again they all have little differences that make them well, them.

Even with my limited visits, I have in my head the perfect swinging club and I would love to design it. Just need a client with big pockets and loose purse strings.

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By *r an Mrs xMan
over a year ago

liverpool

People who are intimidated by you talk bad about you with hopes that others won’t find you so appealing. - Kayteah

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Good luck for your plans ! I would travel to visit! People on here are so negative ! Don't take any notice ! Just keep moving forward!! Best if luck user name nothing to do with business! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are in a similar business to you guys,We have homes in London & Beverly and we considering the same project,From our calculations the return just isn’t there, To do it properly your looking at 500K + In London it’s a different story but even in the more affluent areas of Yorkshire there just aren’t enough people who would be willing to spend the kind of money regularly enough to make it a good investment in our opinion. But good luck

If you do go ahead x

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By *ustyandfilthCouple
over a year ago

YORK

We would love a place in or around York. Travelling to Leeds and Sheffield is not fun during the winter, with visits always being planned due to the distance.

As none smokers we really don't like internal smoking rooms, which when the door is opens spreads the smell of smoke in the communal areas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good on u both and gd luck hope it all works out for u

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By *ubblyblonde-29Woman
over a year ago

Near York

This is a great idea guys. I would say as long as it's clean,warm and friendly go can't go wrong. I wish you all the very best and hope you manage to pull it off! I would definitely attend a new club in york.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Guarantee everyone gets laid it would be the best club ever

That’s a brothel

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Something not ringing true, why keep people informed if this is a serious buisness idea, Very naive or fibs the latter I think tut tut

Stop making personal remarks about this couples venture. If you dont like what they are doing ignore their thread."

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Guarantee everyone gets laid it would be the best club ever"

Go to Retro or the Private Club they employ "hostesses"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guarantee everyone gets laid it would be the best club ever

Go to Retro or the Private Club they employ "hostesses""

Clubs for us to avoid then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A club in York sounds perfect. We will be attending and that's for sure. A swing in the dungeon is a must for me as are seperate changing rooms. Fingers crossed for you x

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By *ewelsssWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

would the club be accessible ?

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