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best swingers club for a single to go to in U.K.?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m a single male, at the moment working out in the Middle East on military camps, (so no fun lol) and what I’m wanting to plan a trip to a swingers club, never been to one, been on here for a while now comfortable with who I am and what I want to do sexually, and to be honest, now feel confident in attending a swingers party, I’m back in the U.K. in March Willing and able to travel anywhere in the U.K. only have a short time frame unfortunately so between March the 14th and the 19th. Ideally be better to meet someone for a few drinks before heading to the club. I know to sum this seams far too early but I’m a man who likes things to be in order please let me know feel free to message me or reply in here

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i always have a problem with the question because people shill for their favourite club... and "best" is sometimes codeword for something....

so.... you define what you want... and be realistic... and people will be able to suggest

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

Trial and error my friend. As Fabio stated you will always get people saying certain clubs as its their favourite club.

It's a case of trying different clubs to see what works for you

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

With only five days here, there will be a limit to how many he can trial....

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Depends what you’re looking for - look at the club reviews section & find a club you like the sound of. Also check the events they have on.

I don’t know if it’s your kind of thing, but I’m hosting my first event on March 15th at Townhouse - it’s the Buxom Babes event, so if the bigger, curvier & more fabulous ladies float your boat, you’d be more than welcome!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I’m a single male, at the moment working out in the Middle East on military camps, (so no fun lol) and what I’m wanting to plan a trip to a swingers club, never been to one, been on here for a while now comfortable with who I am and what I want to do sexually, and to be honest, now feel confident in attending a swingers party, I’m back in the U.K. in March Willing and able to travel anywhere in the U.K. only have a short time frame unfortunately so between March the 14th and the 19th. Ideally be better to meet someone for a few drinks before heading to the club. I know to sum this seams far too early but I’m a man who likes things to be in order please let me know feel free to message me or reply in here"

Planning ahead is always a good idea fella, you’re a man after my own heart. As others have said though; people will only shout out for their favourite club, and what works for them, may not work for you. Best idea is, as you are so flexible to where you can go, is scroll through all the club reviews in here, and read specifically those left by single guys. Ignore any reviews from couples, as when you click on their profiles, you will most likely see that they have verifications from other couples only, meaning they visit clubs to meet couples. What you are looking for (I believe), is couples and single females looking for single guys, and unfortunately clubs aren’t short of single guys. Indeed, a lot of clubs limit the number of single guys ‘allowed’ in, so read the clubs’ policy on single guy admissions.

It’s a mine field (excuse the pun), but not impossible to enjoy the club scene as a single guy. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice appreciate it x

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By *are to SwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I’m a single male, at the moment working out in the Middle East on military camps, (so no fun lol) and what I’m wanting to plan a trip to a swingers club, never been to one, been on here for a while now comfortable with who I am and what I want to do sexually, and to be honest, now feel confident in attending a swingers party, I’m back in the U.K. in March Willing and able to travel anywhere in the U.K. only have a short time frame unfortunately so between March the 14th and the 19th. Ideally be better to meet someone for a few drinks before heading to the club. I know to sum this seams far too early but I’m a man who likes things to be in order please let me know feel free to message me or reply in here"

"Dare to..." is the newest club in Bristol South West. It's only been open for about 11 months and it's already getting very popular as it hosts very wide variety of popular events and a lots of different themed play rooms, fully equiped dungeon and great roof terrace with a hot tub in the summer time.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

It's the word "best" that can always be misleading.

We are pretty experienced clubbers (nearly 50 in 5 countries) and have had some crappy nights in great clubs. Equally we have had some great nights in crappy clubs.

Even our local favourite can be great this week and a let down next.

Our advice would be to get yourself to a couple (or more) different ones or maybe try the same one more than once.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

OP, did you make it to a club while you were home last month? x

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By *are to SwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It's the word "best" that can always be misleading.

We are pretty experienced clubbers (nearly 50 in 5 countries) and have had some crappy nights in great clubs. Equally we have had some great nights in crappy clubs.

Even our local favourite can be great this week and a let down next.

Our advice would be to get yourself to a couple (or more) different ones or maybe try the same one more than once."

Of course and it so obvious but You how it is there will be always somebody with bored with special super power or knowledge resistance. There is no point of even try to fight with it hahha

I'm always repeating to all my guests the same thing. It's ridiculous to build Yourself an opinion, any kind of criticism, judgment or picture or of a Swingers Club or realistically of anything really. It's so obvious simple to realise that amount of opinions is equal about of people able to create one for themselves. Everybody is different in one way or another, having a different opinion, taste, sexual orientation, gender, language believes... that list is endless. I Think that one of the only ones situations where comedy is absorbing someone else opinion or believes or even behaviour patterns is happening when that somebody is unable to create he's/she's own (because of to low intelligence for example, depression, mental illness, having submissive personality and many others). In those cases it's alright to let that person to absorb somebody else's opinion, sometimes even personality is being copied or unit general view on life or life changing decisions.

That is never happening because somebody made a conscious decision to do it. Personality, our own opinion s preferences likes and dislikes. Those are our main characteristics makes every one of us so unique individual and special. Those are characteristics defining us as a single individual unique human being. So directing our little diversion back on tract leading to the point. If You are making decisions in your own like basing on someone else's experiences feelings and opinions YOU ARE AN COMPLETE MORON AND IDIOT WITH NO HOPE AND FUTURE!

It always irritates very badly when for example I'm hearing some guy expressing his opinion feelings and overall judgement for one of the other Swingers clubs in neighbour town. And after that a person who was listen to that monolog with already absorb a part of the expressive guy opinion and obviously after adding some colours to it and making the whole thing more discussion and dramatic walking to see few of his mates and with a clear conscience completely slagging that club. one of those moments when You want give him a slap and explain that he is an idiot without moral spine personality character and He slagged one of the nicest club without even experiencing it himself.

everybody have a right to their own opinion and should keep it to him/herself. If You want an opinion create it Yourself when You will experience enough to be able to do it.

I've let myself go a little bit...

I'm sorry for that.

Thank You very much for those who last and read it to the very end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This question again

Lol

Answer:

All of them!!!

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By *ait88Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

Have a look at the website for the Private Club, Brum. It's listed in the "Clubs" section.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"It's the word "best" that can always be misleading.

We are pretty experienced clubbers (nearly 50 in 5 countries) and have had some crappy nights in great clubs. Equally we have had some great nights in crappy clubs.

Even our local favourite can be great this week and a let down next.

Our advice would be to get yourself to a couple (or more) different ones or maybe try the same one more than once.

Of course and it so obvious but You how it is there will be always somebody with bored with special super power or knowledge resistance. There is no point of even try to fight with it hahha

I'm always repeating to all my guests the same thing. It's ridiculous to build Yourself an opinion, any kind of criticism, judgment or picture or of a Swingers Club or realistically of anything really. It's so obvious simple to realise that amount of opinions is equal about of people able to create one for themselves. Everybody is different in one way or another, having a different opinion, taste, sexual orientation, gender, language believes... that list is endless. I Think that one of the only ones situations where comedy is absorbing someone else opinion or believes or even behaviour patterns is happening when that somebody is unable to create he's/she's own (because of to low intelligence for example, depression, mental illness, having submissive personality and many others). In those cases it's alright to let that person to absorb somebody else's opinion, sometimes even personality is being copied or unit general view on life or life changing decisions.

That is never happening because somebody made a conscious decision to do it. Personality, our own opinion s preferences likes and dislikes. Those are our main characteristics makes every one of us so unique individual and special. Those are characteristics defining us as a single individual unique human being. So directing our little diversion back on tract leading to the point. If You are making decisions in your own like basing on someone else's experiences feelings and opinions YOU ARE AN COMPLETE MORON AND IDIOT WITH NO HOPE AND FUTURE!

It always irritates very badly when for example I'm hearing some guy expressing his opinion feelings and overall judgement for one of the other Swingers clubs in neighbour town. And after that a person who was listen to that monolog with already absorb a part of the expressive guy opinion and obviously after adding some colours to it and making the whole thing more discussion and dramatic walking to see few of his mates and with a clear conscience completely slagging that club. one of those moments when You want give him a slap and explain that he is an idiot without moral spine personality character and He slagged one of the nicest club without even experiencing it himself.

everybody have a right to their own opinion and should keep it to him/herself. If You want an opinion create it Yourself when You will experience enough to be able to do it.

I've let myself go a little bit...

I'm sorry for that.

Thank You very much for those who last and read it to the very end."

Was that in English?

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By *are to SwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It's the word "best" that can always be misleading.

We are pretty experienced clubbers (nearly 50 in 5 countries) and have had some crappy nights in great clubs. Equally we have had some great nights in crappy clubs.

Even our local favourite can be great this week and a let down next.

Our advice would be to get yourself to a couple (or more) different ones or maybe try the same one more than once.

Of course and it so obvious but You how it is there will be always somebody with bored with special super power or knowledge resistance. There is no point of even try to fight with it hahha

I'm always repeating to all my guests the same thing. It's ridiculous to build Yourself an opinion, any kind of criticism, judgment or picture or of a Swingers Club or realistically of anything really. It's so obvious simple to realise that amount of opinions is equal about of people able to create one for themselves. Everybody is different in one way or another, having a different opinion, taste, sexual orientation, gender, language believes... that list is endless. I Think that one of the only ones situations where comedy is absorbing someone else opinion or believes or even behaviour patterns is happening when that somebody is unable to create he's/she's own (because of to low intelligence for example, depression, mental illness, having submissive personality and many others). In those cases it's alright to let that person to absorb somebody else's opinion, sometimes even personality is being copied or unit general view on life or life changing decisions.

That is never happening because somebody made a conscious decision to do it. Personality, our own opinion s preferences likes and dislikes. Those are our main characteristics makes every one of us so unique individual and special. Those are characteristics defining us as a single individual unique human being. So directing our little diversion back on tract leading to the point. If You are making decisions in your own like basing on someone else's experiences feelings and opinions YOU ARE AN COMPLETE MORON AND IDIOT WITH NO HOPE AND FUTURE!

It always irritates very badly when for example I'm hearing some guy expressing his opinion feelings and overall judgement for one of the other Swingers clubs in neighbour town. And after that a person who was listen to that monolog with already absorb a part of the expressive guy opinion and obviously after adding some colours to it and making the whole thing more discussion and dramatic walking to see few of his mates and with a clear conscience completely slagging that club. one of those moments when You want give him a slap and explain that he is an idiot without moral spine personality character and He slagged one of the nicest club without even experiencing it himself.

everybody have a right to their own opinion and should keep it to him/herself. If You want an opinion create it Yourself when You will experience enough to be able to do it.

I've let myself go a little bit...

I'm sorry for that.

Thank You very much for those who last and read it to the very end.

Was that in English? "

That was a polish way of expressing, constructing sentences in a certain time mixed with my poor and pathetic level of english. Only thing I can say in my defence is the fact that I managed to learn myself without any help.

hahaha it's so nice to be able to make yourself special for a minute or two.

oh, Come on! Give me some applause for all that effort I've made hahaha

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"It's the word "best" that can always be misleading.

We are pretty experienced clubbers (nearly 50 in 5 countries) and have had some crappy nights in great clubs. Equally we have had some great nights in crappy clubs.

Even our local favourite can be great this week and a let down next.

Our advice would be to get yourself to a couple (or more) different ones or maybe try the same one more than once.

Of course and it so obvious but You how it is there will be always somebody with bored with special super power or knowledge resistance. There is no point of even try to fight with it hahha

I'm always repeating to all my guests the same thing. It's ridiculous to build Yourself an opinion, any kind of criticism, judgment or picture or of a Swingers Club or realistically of anything really. It's so obvious simple to realise that amount of opinions is equal about of people able to create one for themselves. Everybody is different in one way or another, having a different opinion, taste, sexual orientation, gender, language believes... that list is endless. I Think that one of the only ones situations where comedy is absorbing someone else opinion or believes or even behaviour patterns is happening when that somebody is unable to create he's/she's own (because of to low intelligence for example, depression, mental illness, having submissive personality and many others). In those cases it's alright to let that person to absorb somebody else's opinion, sometimes even personality is being copied or unit general view on life or life changing decisions.

That is never happening because somebody made a conscious decision to do it. Personality, our own opinion s preferences likes and dislikes. Those are our main characteristics makes every one of us so unique individual and special. Those are characteristics defining us as a single individual unique human being. So directing our little diversion back on tract leading to the point. If You are making decisions in your own like basing on someone else's experiences feelings and opinions YOU ARE AN COMPLETE MORON AND IDIOT WITH NO HOPE AND FUTURE!

It always irritates very badly when for example I'm hearing some guy expressing his opinion feelings and overall judgement for one of the other Swingers clubs in neighbour town. And after that a person who was listen to that monolog with already absorb a part of the expressive guy opinion and obviously after adding some colours to it and making the whole thing more discussion and dramatic walking to see few of his mates and with a clear conscience completely slagging that club. one of those moments when You want give him a slap and explain that he is an idiot without moral spine personality character and He slagged one of the nicest club without even experiencing it himself.

everybody have a right to their own opinion and should keep it to him/herself. If You want an opinion create it Yourself when You will experience enough to be able to do it.

I've let myself go a little bit...

I'm sorry for that.

Thank You very much for those who last and read it to the very end.

Was that in English?

That was a polish way of expressing, constructing sentences in a certain time mixed with my poor and pathetic level of english. Only thing I can say in my defence is the fact that I managed to learn myself without any help.

hahaha it's so nice to be able to make yourself special for a minute or two.

oh, Come on! Give me some applause for all that effort I've made hahaha "

Sorry. I didn't know that English isn't your first language.

Reading it again I think I got most of what you were trying to say.

The only tip (from someone who swings in 3 languages) would be to keep your sentences shorter when not using your first language. It is much easier and the result is, usually, easier to understand.

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