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"Hey everyone, I'm new to the site and am looking to go to my first club night but am really nervous and keep bottling it. I'm a little body conscious (despite my pictures) and lack confidence. Anybody have any advice or anything? " This has been covered dozens of times - use forum search to find previous postings. | |||
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"Hey everyone, I'm new to the site and am looking to go to my first club night but am really nervous and keep bottling it. I'm a little body conscious (despite my pictures) and lack confidence. Anybody have any advice or anything? " Going to a club for the first time as a single guy, is a bit like going for a vasectomy; the thought of it is far worse than the actual event. Read all the reviews in the listings in here, but particularly look for the ones posted by single guys, which will be most relevant to you. When you’ve decided on a particular club, call them to check when single guys are ‘allowed’ in, making sure there’s no waiting list or having to book on to a limited guest list in advance. Then just pick a suitable date, and go for it! Don’t expect to be welcomed with open arms when you get there, you are likely to be one of many single guys there on the night, and most club regulars stick in their own little groups. From my experience, a few visits to get your face known locally is the more likely way to enjoy any ‘success’ inside. Think working men’s social club with a sexy overtone | |||
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"Hey everyone, I'm new to the site and am looking to go to my first club night but am really nervous and keep bottling it. I'm a little body conscious (despite my pictures) and lack confidence. Anybody have any advice or anything? " When it comes to swinging, body issues are left at the door. You’ve no need to worry. Turn your fear on it’s head and label it “excitement”. Feel it rush through your veins like the best drug ever and step out of your comfort zone just for once. You’re not going to die. Not yet. The club is waiting for you to. A good club will look after you. If you’re every down south, come and try The Playgrounds presents SWINGLES. Hit me up if you need a helping hand xx flutter xx | |||
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"Hey everyone, I'm new to the site and am looking to go to my first club night but am really nervous and keep bottling it. I'm a little body conscious (despite my pictures) and lack confidence. Anybody have any advice or anything? Going to a club for the first time as a single guy, is a bit like going for a vasectomy; the thought of it is far worse than the actual event. Read all the reviews in the listings in here, but particularly look for the ones posted by single guys, which will be most relevant to you. When you’ve decided on a particular club, call them to check when single guys are ‘allowed’ in, making sure there’s no waiting list or having to book on to a limited guest list in advance. Then just pick a suitable date, and go for it! Don’t expect to be welcomed with open arms when you get there, you are likely to be one of many single guys there on the night, and most club regulars stick in their own little groups. From my experience, a few visits to get your face known locally is the more likely way to enjoy any ‘success’ inside. Think working men’s social club with a sexy overtone "    fantastic ethos | |||
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"Hey everyone, I'm new to the site and am looking to go to my first club night but am really nervous and keep bottling it. I'm a little body conscious (despite my pictures) and lack confidence. Anybody have any advice or anything? This has been covered dozens of times - use forum search to find previous postings. Fair enough, just posted on a whim and didn't think to look first. Thanks man "Ignore. You’re not to know how this works. I’ve been here four years and still learning!! X | |||
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"You look smiley which is good, as other said look on the Fab Club reviews section and find a club you fancy trying. Next step give the club a call and ask their advice for best night to go on. post a meet on here so people know you are going, you may not get any responses, but people will know you are going and some don’t broadcast they are going. dress smartly, do not get d*unk, assume the first visit will be a social and when you go ask to be shown round and introduced to a few people so you don’t feel like a lemon. Be pleasant, talk to people (guys and ladies) do not just follow people round hoping for a fuck - they mostly get ignored! We all started somewhere, so good luck and give it a try!" Sound advice | |||
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"Hey everyone, I'm new to the site and am looking to go to my first club night but am really nervous and keep bottling it. I'm a little body conscious (despite my pictures) and lack confidence. Anybody have any advice or anything? " I read your profile Mike and understand why you feel nervous. When you get to a club you will have a good time. Not everyone takes their clothes off as soon as they arrive so you can chat to people and feel confident. You can drop your condition into conversation and if people decide not to play then they’re not worth it. I’ve met and played with a couple where the female half had the same issue and believe me it did not stop any fun for the three of us. We had to be a bit careful as some positions weren’t comfortable for her. That aside everyone left with smiles on their faces and that’s the point isn’t it? Good luck buddy and have fun. | |||
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"Hey everyone, I'm new to the site and am looking to go to my first club night but am really nervous and keep bottling it. I'm a little body conscious (despite my pictures) and lack confidence. Anybody have any advice or anything? Going to a club for the first time as a single guy, is a bit like going for a vasectomy; the thought of it is far worse than the actual event. Read all the reviews in the listings in here, but particularly look for the ones posted by single guys, which will be most relevant to you. When you’ve decided on a particular club, call them to check when single guys are ‘allowed’ in, making sure there’s no waiting list or having to book on to a limited guest list in advance. Then just pick a suitable date, and go for it! Don’t expect to be welcomed with open arms when you get there, you are likely to be one of many single guys there on the night, and most club regulars stick in their own little groups. From my experience, a few visits to get your face known locally is the more likely way to enjoy any ‘success’ inside. Think working men’s social club with a sexy overtone
fantastic ethos "It’s what I’ve developed during my time being interested in visiting clubs by myself, and reading the various threads in here. Disappointingly; I’ve now been to four separate clubs, and not particularly enjoyed any of them, not finding very much of these ‘friendly welcomes’ or ‘attentive owners’ you read about in the reviews. Single guys should stick to ‘greedy girl’ or ‘BMFC’ events, unless they have money to burn or time to kill | |||
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"Hey everyone, I'm new to the site and am looking to go to my first club night but am really nervous and keep bottling it. I'm a little body conscious (despite my pictures) and lack confidence. Anybody have any advice or anything? Going to a club for the first time as a single guy, is a bit like going for a vasectomy; the thought of it is far worse than the actual event. Read all the reviews in the listings in here, but particularly look for the ones posted by single guys, which will be most relevant to you. When you’ve decided on a particular club, call them to check when single guys are ‘allowed’ in, making sure there’s no waiting list or having to book on to a limited guest list in advance. Then just pick a suitable date, and go for it! Don’t expect to be welcomed with open arms when you get there, you are likely to be one of many single guys there on the night, and most club regulars stick in their own little groups. From my experience, a few visits to get your face known locally is the more likely way to enjoy any ‘success’ inside. Think working men’s social club with a sexy overtone
fantastic ethos
It’s what I’ve developed during my time being interested in visiting clubs by myself, and reading the various threads in here. Disappointingly; I’ve now been to four separate clubs, and not particularly enjoyed any of them, not finding very much of these ‘friendly welcomes’ or ‘attentive owners’ you read about in the reviews. Single guys should stick to ‘greedy girl’ or ‘BMFC’ events, unless they have money to burn or time to kill "Newbies night (Wednesday’s) at Townhouse is designed to make sure that no one is left sat on their own on their first night at the club & they very much will get a ‘friendly welcome’. If you choose to jump feet first in on a party night or private event, it’s going to be more like going to a house party where you don’t know anyone else - you have to be prepared to start chatting to people or you risk sitting on your own all night, but some people prefer to do it that way! Or there’s always the Speed Dating night on 6th Jan to get chatting to a load of different people!! I do agree that the anticipation is the worst part though & that advanced research is a very good idea! Depending on what you want from a club visit, you need to tailor it to a night that suits what you want! You also don’t need money to burn as a lot of events are a pretty decent price for single guys. Doiluvfun - happy to demonstrate what I’m on about if you decide to pay TH a visit! OP, same applies - Townhouse is only about 8 miles from Ellesmere Port, please feel free to shout out if you want to know anything about the different events | |||
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"Hey everyone, I'm new to the site and am looking to go to my first club night but am really nervous and keep bottling it. I'm a little body conscious (despite my pictures) and lack confidence. Anybody have any advice or anything? Going to a club for the first time as a single guy, is a bit like going for a vasectomy; the thought of it is far worse than the actual event. Read all the reviews in the listings in here, but particularly look for the ones posted by single guys, which will be most relevant to you. When you’ve decided on a particular club, call them to check when single guys are ‘allowed’ in, making sure there’s no waiting list or having to book on to a limited guest list in advance. Then just pick a suitable date, and go for it! Don’t expect to be welcomed with open arms when you get there, you are likely to be one of many single guys there on the night, and most club regulars stick in their own little groups. From my experience, a few visits to get your face known locally is the more likely way to enjoy any ‘success’ inside. Think working men’s social club with a sexy overtone
fantastic ethos
It’s what I’ve developed during my time being interested in visiting clubs by myself, and reading the various threads in here. Disappointingly; I’ve now been to four separate clubs, and not particularly enjoyed any of them, not finding very much of these ‘friendly welcomes’ or ‘attentive owners’ you read about in the reviews. Single guys should stick to ‘greedy girl’ or ‘BMFC’ events, unless they have money to burn or time to kill
Newbies night (Wednesday’s) at Townhouse is designed to make sure that no one is left sat on their own on their first night at the club & they very much will get a ‘friendly welcome’. If you choose to jump feet first in on a party night or private event, it’s going to be more like going to a house party where you don’t know anyone else - you have to be prepared to start chatting to people or you risk sitting on your own all night, but some people prefer to do it that way! Or there’s always the Speed Dating night on 6th Jan to get chatting to a load of different people!!
I do agree that the anticipation is the worst part though & that advanced research is a very good idea!
Depending on what you want from a club visit, you need to tailor it to a night that suits what you want! You also don’t need money to burn as a lot of events are a pretty decent price for single guys. Doiluvfun - happy to demonstrate what I’m on about if you decide to pay TH a visit!"That’s very generous of you Morticia, thank you, I do appreciate the gesture. If TH wasn’t so far from me (100 miles), I would have paid you a visit by now. If I do get a chance, I’ll pop in. Keep a look out for a stranger in your midst, with a Scots accent  | |||
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