FabSwingers.com forum: Club first time

By *its The Spot Alot OP Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

As a couple we are thinking of visiting a club in the new year.

The wife is a bit apprehensive but wants to be able to perhaps see what it's like and watch everything going on and if she feels just watch is all she wants to do she doesn't want to feel pressured is this possible in the club's and if so which club is good for a tentative start?

By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

"As a couple we are thinking of visiting a club in the new year.

Any fellow fabbers feel free to correct me if I'm wrong, but no club would ever force you to play if you dont want to.

If there's a couples or open room then there is nothing wrong with watching and no one will expect you to offer yourself just because you are present.

At the same time the same rules would apply to you guys, you can't just join in without asking.

No means no so don't worry about feeling forced, only thing I would advice is read the club reviews and find one that is good for you and running a night/theme that suits you both .

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the female half of a couple who has only been to a club twice it has been a very Pleasant experience no pressure at all i was all giddy and worried about how every thing would be what to wear and how would it all start but I have to say i love it so relaxed and as long as you to are completely open with each other about how you both feeling then it should not be a bad experience at all this for us has been the best way to meet people and we are hooked you can't regret thing u have tryed only things u have not hope that helps xx

By *its The Spot Alot OP Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

Thank you for the reply's it sounds reassuring.

I think we will talk more about it and like the idea we can relax and look around, we've both been swinging for a while.

But not in a group situation and neither of us are exhibitionists more voyeurs in a crowd lol

We like a horny/sexy atmosphere and maybe dip a toe in

By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would say, check that whichever club you choose isn't a "Dress down" club. Having to strip off and wander round in your undies can be a little daunting at first.

Cal