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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone attended , what did you think of it ? We know it used to be a brothel that has now apparently changed use to a swingers club however just saw a event advertised there called fluffers which says it's a "guaranteed play event " not really sure how you can be guaranteed play unless of course people are being paid to play with the guests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone attended , what did you think of it ? We know it used to be a brothel that has now apparently changed use to a swingers club however just saw a event advertised there called fluffers which says it's a "guaranteed play event " not really sure how you can be guaranteed play unless of course people are being paid to play with the guests. "

Hostesses *are* paid to have sex with the guests at this event. All the other events at the club are just ordinary swinging club events and sex is not guaranteed.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

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By *amiePhuktMan
over a year ago

Bristol

So i cant really comment on the event as not been, however i will say this Dare2swing is pretty much one of the best up and coming south west clubs there is !!

The owners are well switched on and are definitely on the right track to create a really amazing club !! Go give it a try you wont be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Might have to give it a go have heard very mixed reviews there seems to be a lot of events that advertise the attendance of amature porn stars who work as escorts hope that these don’t get paid to attend on standard nights as we have been to clubs before where it’s clear there are escorts being paid to attend and it puts a whole different feel to the night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anyone attended , what did you think of it ? We know it used to be a brothel that has now apparently changed use to a swingers club however just saw a event advertised there called fluffers which says it's a "guaranteed play event " not really sure how you can be guaranteed play unless of course people are being paid to play with the guests.

Hostesses *are* paid to have sex with the guests at this event. All the other events at the club are just ordinary swinging club events and sex is not guaranteed."

So it’s still run as a brothel on certain nights !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone attended , what did you think of it ? We know it used to be a brothel that has now apparently changed use to a swingers club however just saw a event advertised there called fluffers which says it's a "guaranteed play event " not really sure how you can be guaranteed play unless of course people are being paid to play with the guests.

Hostesses *are* paid to have sex with the guests at this event. All the other events at the club are just ordinary swinging club events and sex is not guaranteed.

So it’s still run as a brothel on certain nights !!"

That's not exactly what I said. For that one event only it is a club night, but there will be hostesses to guarantee that nobody misses out on play. That is one or two events in a month. And in no way is that like a brothel. All other club events are regular events where nothing is guaranteed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Surely if the women are paid to have sex with people and the punters are paying to attend and have sex , given that there would be more than one hostess working that would surely constitute a brothel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if the women are paid to have sex with people and the punters are paying to attend and have sex , given that there would be more than one hostess working that would surely constitute a brothel. "

OP, imagine a club night where, as a couple, you were not aware of it, but one or two single women were there to ensure that none of the single guys went without. Other than that, it functions like a regular club event. Very very different to a brothel where you would pay a set amount of money for a set amount of time and perhaps for an agreement of what you would get from a menu of services. That is *very* different to what I am describing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You would very much be aware of it and we have in fact been to a club where This was the case and it was very obvious who were the paid entertainment and you could easily tell when people were playing weather or not it was people who were visitors to the club or weather they were the “workers” the whole dynamics are very different.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Surely if the women are paid to have sex with people and the punters are paying to attend and have sex , given that there would be more than one hostess working that would surely constitute a brothel.

OP, imagine a club night where, as a couple, you were not aware of it, but one or two single women were there to ensure that none of the single guys went without. Other than that, it functions like a regular club event. Very very different to a brothel where you would pay a set amount of money for a set amount of time and perhaps for an agreement of what you would get from a menu of services. That is *very* different to what I am describing."

The problem with that is, surely the hostess can only spend a certain amount of time with the gentleman? What if you get very friendly and want to continue the fun elsewhere?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if the women are paid to have sex with people and the punters are paying to attend and have sex , given that there would be more than one hostess working that would surely constitute a brothel.

OP, imagine a club night where, as a couple, you were not aware of it, but one or two single women were there to ensure that none of the single guys went without. Other than that, it functions like a regular club event. Very very different to a brothel where you would pay a set amount of money for a set amount of time and perhaps for an agreement of what you would get from a menu of services. That is *very* different to what I am describing.

The problem with that is, surely the hostess can only spend a certain amount of time with the gentleman? What if you get very friendly and want to continue the fun elsewhere? "

Seeing as I know the hostess very well, her behaviour is hardly any different -- she is a total cock whore, and I mean that as a compliment lol

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Surely if the women are paid to have sex with people and the punters are paying to attend and have sex , given that there would be more than one hostess working that would surely constitute a brothel.

OP, imagine a club night where, as a couple, you were not aware of it, but one or two single women were there to ensure that none of the single guys went without. Other than that, it functions like a regular club event. Very very different to a brothel where you would pay a set amount of money for a set amount of time and perhaps for an agreement of what you would get from a menu of services. That is *very* different to what I am describing.

The problem with that is, surely the hostess can only spend a certain amount of time with the gentleman? What if you get very friendly and want to continue the fun elsewhere?

Seeing as I know the hostess very well, her behaviour is hardly any different -- she is a total cock whore, and I mean that as a compliment lol"

I mean the time I spend pleasuring a lady means that some other poor guy is in danger of being left out!

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Surely if the women are paid to have sex with people and the punters are paying to attend and have sex , given that there would be more than one hostess working that would surely constitute a brothel.

OP, imagine a club night where, as a couple, you were not aware of it, but one or two single women were there to ensure that none of the single guys went without. Other than that, it functions like a regular club event. Very very different to a brothel where you would pay a set amount of money for a set amount of time and perhaps for an agreement of what you would get from a menu of services. That is *very* different to what I am describing."

So women and couples have to pay for the privilage of doing what other people on the premises are getting paid to do?

And from the business perspective, unpaid labour to suppliment the paid staff in keeping the punters happy. Almost a twist on the modern slavery theme.

Sorry, not impressed, however it's dressed up.

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Surely if the women are paid to have sex with people and the punters are paying to attend and have sex , given that there would be more than one hostess working that would surely constitute a brothel.

OP, imagine a club night where, as a couple, you were not aware of it, but one or two single women were there to ensure that none of the single guys went without. Other than that, it functions like a regular club event. Very very different to a brothel where you would pay a set amount of money for a set amount of time and perhaps for an agreement of what you would get from a menu of services. That is *very* different to what I am describing.

So women and couples have to pay for the privilage of doing what other people on the premises are getting paid to do?

And from the business perspective, unpaid labour to suppliment the paid staff in keeping the punters happy. Almost a twist on the modern slavery theme.

Sorry, not impressed, however it's dressed up."

You seem to be under the impression thats that's what happens every day, as far as we're aware that event is once every 2 to 3 weeks when the club is hired to a person/persons who decide how their own event on privately hired premises are run.

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

So if you don't like that event you are quite rightly wise to avoid it, but the majority of the time the club is run as any other swingers club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The “guaranteed a shag” event is being advertised on the owners profile so whilst it may be private hired they are still pushing the event. We have encountered this at other clubs and the problem is it sets a president whereby some men can’t distinguish between these type of events where escorts are paid to have sex with the punters and events where they are not and then seem to think it’s thier given right to sex. There was a lot of discussion locally and on the forums about the club being a ex brothel which put lots of people off and a big effort was made by the owners and it’s loyal clientele to make it clear this was no longer the case so to hold these type of events now seems counter productive to what they were trying to achieve. There is a club in Manchester which is well known for this sort of thing and it’s damaged it’s reputation and has put off all but a certain type of clientele. From looking at the website there seems to be more than just this one event that is if of this type clubs have to do what is nessasry to survive in what is a nieche market but at the same time such events will also deter new people from attending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very very simple, if any event is not your thing then do not attend that event, cannot be any simpler!.

We regularly attend the normal swingers nights and can categorically say that not once has their ever been a paid person to offer services, we can guarantee this,

Choose your event / night that is your thing and give it a go, all this talk doesn’t do anyone any favours as on a normal swingers night it DOES NOT happen.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Club has set events run by the owners.

Other events while at the club are events where the club is hired by other event organizers.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

None in Manchester to my knowledge. One in Birmingham, I believe...

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"None in Manchester to my knowledge. One in Birmingham, I believe..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s very very simple, if any event is not your thing then do not attend that event, cannot be any simpler!.

We regularly attend the normal swingers nights and can categorically say that not once has their ever been a paid person to offer services, we can guarantee this,

Choose your event / night that is your thing and give it a go, all this talk doesn’t do anyone any favours as on a normal swingers night it DOES NOT happen.

"

All what talk doing nobody Any favours ? I was simply asking about the club and trying to get some idea of what the club was like and weather there was intact a crossover between the guaranteed play night and the normal as you called it swingers nights. As I’m my experience of clubs that offered both there was infacy a crossover and we didn’t enjoy it. I didn’t make any accusations toward the club or say anything bad about it as haven’t been ,granted the particlar event wouldn’t interest us but we would be interested in attending on a normal night.

What doesn’t help is having read the other threads every time someone asked a question or expressed a opinion of the club the same people jumped to its defence and shot them down people have a right to ask a question or express a opinion.

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

The one time we have attended (with a single fem with us) we didn't experience any guys with the 'I've paid to get in so I'm owed some action' attitude. And we liked the set up of the building and the ideas expressed by the owners.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were interested in attending the club so read the reviews and as with reviews they varied as you would expect from any reviews for Any club. We then read the forums and came across people saying rightly or wrongly it was like a massage parlour then read that is was no longer involved in that type of buisines and was now just a swingers club. We then went onto the website to see what events were on offer and on the clubs own website it’s advertising events where you are paying for sex and others with pornstars and escorts we have no problem with any of this but as Someone looking to attend the club it’s difficult to have any idea of what to expect given the contradiction in information. We have spoken to others who have said the same thing and have been put off by the possibility of the various events crossing over. And it is something employed by other clubs so without asking your not going to know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The one time we have attended (with a single fem with us) we didn't experience any guys with the 'I've paid to get in so I'm owed some action' attitude. And we liked the set up of the building and the ideas expressed by the owners. "

That’s all we were after was a honest opinion or advice it’s all very well people who work behind the bar backing the club on every thread but it’s people with no vested interests that’s good to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one time we have attended (with a single fem with us) we didn't experience any guys with the 'I've paid to get in so I'm owed some action' attitude. And we liked the set up of the building and the ideas expressed by the owners.

That’s all we were after was a honest opinion or advice it’s all very well people who work behind the bar backing the club on every thread but it’s people with no vested interests that’s good to hear. "

Yes can def confirm there is never any crossover, and we have no reason to say this fact, we have nothing to do with the club other than enjoying our nights out their as a genuine swinging couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The “guaranteed a shag” event is being advertised on the owners profile so whilst it may be private hired they are still pushing the event. We have encountered this at other clubs and the problem is it sets a president whereby some men can’t distinguish between these type of events where escorts are paid to have sex with the punters and events where they are not and then seem to think it’s thier given right to sex. There was a lot of discussion locally and on the forums about the club being a ex brothel which put lots of people off and a big effort was made by the owners and it’s loyal clientele to make it clear this was no longer the case so to hold these type of events now seems counter productive to what they were trying to achieve. There is a club in Manchester which is well known for this sort of thing and it’s damaged it’s reputation and has put off all but a certain type of clientele. From looking at the website there seems to be more than just this one event that is if of this type clubs have to do what is nessasry to survive in what is a nieche market but at the same time such events will also deter new people from attending. "

This is an interesting thread, we'd been thinking about a visit but had been put off by the way it was set up before. As we were under the impression it was now purely a swingers club we were thinking about a visit but hearing about these events has changed my mind again. I'd rather go somewhere where there was less chance of confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The “guaranteed a shag” event is being advertised on the owners profile so whilst it may be private hired they are still pushing the event. We have encountered this at other clubs and the problem is it sets a president whereby some men can’t distinguish between these type of events where escorts are paid to have sex with the punters and events where they are not and then seem to think it’s thier given right to sex. There was a lot of discussion locally and on the forums about the club being a ex brothel which put lots of people off and a big effort was made by the owners and it’s loyal clientele to make it clear this was no longer the case so to hold these type of events now seems counter productive to what they were trying to achieve. There is a club in Manchester which is well known for this sort of thing and it’s damaged it’s reputation and has put off all but a certain type of clientele. From looking at the website there seems to be more than just this one event that is if of this type clubs have to do what is nessasry to survive in what is a nieche market but at the same time such events will also deter new people from attending.

This is an interesting thread, we'd been thinking about a visit but had been put off by the way it was set up before. As we were under the impression it was now purely a swingers club we were thinking about a visit but hearing about these events has changed my mind again. I'd rather go somewhere where there was less chance of confusion. "

Yes get what your saying but the swingers nights are completely separate and is never any crossover at all, any attendees will confirm this 100%.

The events what are being discussed are totally separate run by organisers and advertised so as long as you check what’s on before you attend there is zero chance of any issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The “guaranteed a shag” event is being advertised on the owners profile so whilst it may be private hired they are still pushing the event. We have encountered this at other clubs and the problem is it sets a president whereby some men can’t distinguish between these type of events where escorts are paid to have sex with the punters and events where they are not and then seem to think it’s thier given right to sex. There was a lot of discussion locally and on the forums about the club being a ex brothel which put lots of people off and a big effort was made by the owners and it’s loyal clientele to make it clear this was no longer the case so to hold these type of events now seems counter productive to what they were trying to achieve. There is a club in Manchester which is well known for this sort of thing and it’s damaged it’s reputation and has put off all but a certain type of clientele. From looking at the website there seems to be more than just this one event that is if of this type clubs have to do what is nessasry to survive in what is a nieche market but at the same time such events will also deter new people from attending.

This is an interesting thread, we'd been thinking about a visit but had been put off by the way it was set up before. As we were under the impression it was now purely a swingers club we were thinking about a visit but hearing about these events has changed my mind again. I'd rather go somewhere where there was less chance of confusion.

Yes get what your saying but the swingers nights are completely separate and is never any crossover at all, any attendees will confirm this 100%.

The events what are being discussed are totally separate run by organisers and advertised so as long as you check what’s on before you attend there is zero chance of any issues.

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Still wouldn't want to go, just because we've checked doesn't mean there wouldn't be people there who've been to other events expecting guaranteed activity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *riendly BiMan
over a year ago

h

Is that the one near Ashton Gate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes get what your saying but the swingers nights are completely separate and is never any crossover at all, any attendees will confirm this 100%.

The events what are being discussed are totally separate run by organisers and advertised so as long as you check what’s on before you attend there is zero chance of any issues.

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I understand what your saying and agree that if you check what event is on then there should be no problem my worry would be the crossover of clientele from one night to the next. If some men are attending the guaranteed sex event and then attend a normal night will there attitude and expectation be the same ? Someone earlier referred to someone as a cock whore maybe in jest however if I was at the club playing with a few men would that attitude be aimed at me ? If I was spoken to like that at a club I would be offended. All women should be respected equally weather they are being paid for sex or not but sadly that is not allways the reality. That would be my concern along with people having the same expectations as other events.

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

TBF if we every encountered a guy who mistook the night for a 'entitled to play night' he would get the same treatment as a guy who overstepped the mark in a 'normal' swing club, if you like to think like that, get told to stop and be reported to the staff. I dare say we've all done that in other clubs I don't see how telling a guy to piss off should be any different in this club than any other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone attended , what did you think of it ? We know it used to be a brothel that has now apparently changed use to a swingers club however just saw a event advertised there called fluffers which says it's a "guaranteed play event " not really sure how you can be guaranteed play unless of course people are being paid to play with the guests. "

Would also love to try this club

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Here, There & Everywhere

I host a BMFC Party at this venue once a month so have been working closely with the owners

Admission to this club is always by guest list only and as everyone needs to 'book in' they are fully aware of the event that they are asking to attend

The design of the venue means that guests can not gain access to the club until they give their name inside the porch

The owners are RUTHLESS and I have witnessed them REFUSE admission to ANYONE who they feel have the wrong attitude, have had too much to drink or indeed just give the wrong vibe

Even though the owners are new to the scene they are quickly learning just how important it is to get it right and in my honest opinion they do everything within their power to ensure that ALL guests have a safe and hassle free evening

I can guarantee that if any of the 'cross over' guys did wish to attend a 'normal' swingers evening they would receive a very frank conversation from the owners to ensure that they are FULLY aware of the ethos of this particular evening

The owners (I call Cherry the Rottweiler!) are strict, firm but fair and I know that the guests who attend feel safe in the knowledge that they know how to run the club

If you have any questions, feel free to drop me a line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have friends who go there and I hear nothing but great stories about the venue hopefully get there myself one day.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"Is that the one near Ashton Gate?"

Barton Hill area.

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

It's a nice club ....very welcoming

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

I do hope this works ...

Also good to read that it's advance bookings only..

I may have missed the pricing (and apologise if this is the case)

Am I too assume single men will be well and truly overcharged?

Of course I realise it's a captive market and you have a choice(if you don't like it don't go) but can't accept this discourages the riff raff or whatever,surely a fairer system could operate..

I hope I am totally wrong and this club bucks the trend..

Good luck to you and unlike other clubs that have tried and failed. I hope it works,not just for couples but for Bristol and all its people and visitors.

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By *INEMCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We've been to this club around 12 times in the year or so it has been open. We've only had one occasion where a guy was being a nuisance, and literally the moment he placed his hand onto E's knee without invitation he was ejected from the club and banned. After this Cherry (who runs the club) came and checked that E was ok, which we thought was a nice touch.

We have always felt very safe there (both before and since that) and on every other occasion we have visited have had only positive experiences.

We can't speak for everyone, this is just how we have experienced this club. We've visited around 3 or 4 other clubs as well, and we prefer the atmosphere and range of people that you find here, also it doesn't seem to have the cliques we have found elsewhere.

In case it needs to be said, we have no connection or affiliation to Dare To or its owners.

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By *hant1lly_dreamzWoman
over a year ago

bristol

Hiya guys I host the bdsm/ fetish parties at dare too and have never had any issues with men turning up thinking they have paid for a guaranteed a shag from party crossovers.

Dare to is an events club and it hosts many different types of parties. They have events that are purely music event's with no play of any kind, swing event's, event's that are more tailored to certain preferences like the bmfc , deviant desires, sweet and kinky.

In order to keep clubs like dare to running they need to bring in money. To run just swinging events would not cover the cost of the building rental.

If you look into things properly you will find most clubs double as other things at times .. be it private hire for film shoots, private parties ect.

I have attended most of dare to events and I can honestly say they all have a different vibe and feel to them if any cross over happens I would say that would be more a crossover of interest like at deviants we welcome people from the swing scene as long as they have an interest in bdsm and aren't bothered or concerned by some of the different things we like to get up too.

One thing I will say is no matter what party you attend you will always find warm and friendly staff who are willing to show you around the venue and answer any questions you may have. They are also on hand if you have any concerns.

Please Don't let yourself's be put of by the milf or fluffers a parties they are organised private events that run in the day time and cater for a certain preference.

I attend events as a guest just like the rest of you and can honestly say it is one of the friendliest and comfortable places I have been hence crossing to host an event there.

Hope this helps with some concerns

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By *hant1lly_dreamzWoman
over a year ago

bristol

Choosing ^

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