FabSwingers.com forum: Club and party recommendations in London for a single female

By *ily_London OP Woman
over a year ago

North London

Hello,

I’m new to this site and the swinging scene. I’d be interested in attending clubs and parties in London but a little hesitant to do it on my own. Any other single ladies out there who might be able to recommend friendly welcoming places to try or maybe even wanting to go together sometime? Or nice gentlemen who’d be up for accompanying me without any further agenda?

Also, what should I wear?! I normally dress pretty casually and don’t have many sexy numbers that I think would be suitable. Where do you ladies get your outfits from? Or maybe I should just go to Kestrels as I love being naked, then I guess I wouldn’t have to worry about clothes, right? Is Kestrels ok to go on your own?

Lily

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Here, There & Everywhere

Just had a peep at your profile and thought we'd give you a cheeky little wave

We usually get approximately 15 single ladies at our London based parties, so if you ever chose the BMFC, you certainly wouldn't be the only lady there

As i always say, you may ARRIVE alone, but you wont be alone for long!!

Lots of our female guests tend to shop online not necessarily just Ann Summers or Love Honey but also check out Missguided, ASOS and BOOHO as you would be amazed at just how many cute little dresses they have on offer there!

No doubt you will be inundated with replies signposting you to the 'best' club as everyone will have their own recommendations, but wherever you go I hope you have a brilliant night

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By *ily_London OP Woman
over a year ago

North London

"Just had a peep at your profile and thought we'd give you a cheeky little wave

We usually get approximately 15 single ladies at our London based parties, so if you ever chose the BMFC, you certainly wouldn't be the only lady there

As i always say, you may ARRIVE alone, but you wont be alone for long!!

No doubt you will be inundated with replies signposting you to the 'best' club as everyone will have their own recommendations, but wherever you go I hope you have a brilliant night "

Thank you so much for your kind reply. I've visited your website and have been interested in attending one of your parties for a while now, but never had the courage to come along. Knowing that there will be other single ladies in attendance is reassuring so maybe I'll try to make the next London party. I've also wanted to visit your nights at Eureka, but as I don't drive was wondering how easy it is to get there and back. I guess I should just check the info on the website again!

Thanks for the clothing advice too. Maybe I should just wear something simple I feel comfortable & sexy in and stop stressing about it.

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Here, There & Everywhere

"Thanks for the clothing advice too. Maybe I should just wear something simple I feel comfortable & sexy in and stop stressing about it.

We always say, if you feel good in it, chances are you will LOOK good in it - Sexy is a state of mind

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Kestrels is just about reachable on public transport, Eurekas less so. My personal recommendation for London is OurPlace4Fun, but if you're specifically looking for black guys, Rio's may not be a bad shout, lets you go naked so no thinking about outfits, though it can be a little seedy. Hope this helps.

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By *ily_London OP Woman
over a year ago

North London

"Kestrels is just about reachable on public transport, Eurekas less so. My personal recommendation for London is OurPlace4Fun, but if you're specifically looking for black guys, Rio's may not be a bad shout, lets you go naked so no thinking about outfits, though it can be a little seedy. Hope this helps. "

Thanks for the advice. I'll check out OurPlace4Fun. Been visiting Rio's on and off for years as I love saunas (being from Finland originally I'm kinda obliged to) and find it nice, friendly and relaxed place, but like you said a bit on the seedy side if you are after more than just saunas - so I'm keen to try other places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Lily, I regularly go to kestrels and also to eurekas, jaydees and other clubs, either on my own or with a group of girlfriends. You will be well looked after and kestrels is lovely in the summer in the sunshine when it's a busier crowd and you can enjoy the outdoors! The nicest nude spa (in my opinion) is Bristol Gardens in brighton- it's lovely. I grew up in Scandinavia too and love a hot sauna!

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By *itten316Woman
over a year ago

Queens Park, LONDON

Try Le Boudoir for a fun & friendly club. Nice crowd & lovely venue which is also in a central London location.

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By *ily_London OP Woman
over a year ago

North London

"Hi Lily, I regularly go to kestrels and also to eurekas, jaydees and other clubs, either on my own or with a group of girlfriends. You will be well looked after and kestrels is lovely in the summer in the sunshine when it's a busier crowd and you can enjoy the outdoors! The nicest nude spa (in my opinion) is Bristol Gardens in brighton- it's lovely. I grew up in Scandinavia too and love a hot sauna! "

Glad to meet another sauna loving lady here.

Thank you for the Bristol Gardens recommendation - I need to visit that place sometime! And yes, Kestrels has been in my plans too.

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By *ily_London OP Woman
over a year ago

North London

"Try Le Boudoir for a fun & friendly club. Nice crowd & lovely venue which is also in a central London location. "

Thank you for the tip. I've registered as a member for Le Boudoir - now just need to find the courage to actually go there!

And yes, the central London location is very appealing to someone who doesn't drive.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Glad to meet another sauna loving lady here.

Thank you for the Bristol Gardens recommendation - I need to visit that place sometime! And yes, Kestrels has been in my plans too. "

Didn't even think to mention Bristol Gardens, seeing as how far out of London it is, but yeah, facilities there are fantastic. it's a good starting point, but then if you've already survived Rio's...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next Friday there is a social get together before Le Boudoir. Lots of ladies and guys meeting up for drinks first followed by a trip to Le Boudoir across the road. If you are interested here are the Fab details of the ladies who are organising it "Titillating temptations"

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

Re outfits - I often go to clubs in chinos and a shirt. I feel sexy in them and they're smart enough to 'pass' the dress codes.

Wear what you find comfortable.

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By *ily_London OP Woman
over a year ago

North London

"Next Friday there is a social get together before Le Boudoir. Lots of ladies and guys meeting up for drinks first followed by a trip to Le Boudoir across the road. If you are interested here are the Fab details of the ladies who are organising it "Titillating temptations""

That sounds great, thanks for the tip. I've sent a message to your meet up profile.

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By *ily_London OP Woman
over a year ago

North London

"Re outfits - I often go to clubs in chinos and a shirt. I feel sexy in them and they're smart enough to 'pass' the dress codes.

Wear what you find comfortable."

Good point - I probably shouldn't try to be something that I'm not and instead just wear what I find comfortable and think that suits me best.

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