FabSwingers.com forum: Pushy guys at clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I attend the Attic on occasion as a single guy, but and am always shocked at how pushy the single guys are.

I was in the maze on Saturday night watching a sexy couple okay, giving them a few feet distance. Next thing I know someone pushes in and stands in that gap and starts wanking, almost touching the couple.

Not sure if it's me who is too polite or if that's just the usual. You wouldn't push in like that anywhere else in society but it seems like it's acceptable in a club.

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

I hate it when men do that xx I love to get in the mood first then if I see someone I want I let them no xx if I seen that id have stopped

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Usually shows they have their brains in their hand.....!!! That sort of behaviour seldom produces positive results....

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

As a hotwife couple who like lot of attention we appreciate guys that come forward and don't stand watching politely in the distance. Also if you have a solid cock you probably are not going to let us down.

Not saying being polite is wrong just an alternative view on the issue.

Easier sometimes to say "no thanks" than "please come over".

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Not all single guys at the attic behave this way but there are a few who do.

Whenever I visit with my FB we love playing in the maze and don't mind people watching providing they don't get too close. If they do we stop play and move away. If they follow us we tell them to f-off and if they still don't get the message we report them to the staff. On a few occasions guys have been kicked out of the club for their bad behaviour.

These guys are the exception rather than the rule and we don't let them spoil our evening.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

Easier sometimes to say "no thanks" than "please come over".

Sx"

But better to ask first rather than assume someone wants your attention.

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Easier sometimes to say "no thanks" than "please come over".

But better to ask first rather than assume someone wants your attention."

There is a balance to be struck!

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

Easier sometimes to say "no thanks" than "please come over".

But better to ask first rather than assume someone wants your attention.

There is a balance to be struck!

I suspect asking "may I?" is *always* better than sexual harassment or sexual assault.

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By *oreverHorny69Man
over a year ago

Milnrow

I’m the exact opposite, Maybe I’m too polite, but I tend to hang back and wait to be asked, I just watch not wank. Maybe that is the reason why I have not played in a club yet. But I’m wondering if I should be slightly more gregarious, but I’m by nature I’m a cautious kind of person, and do not have “the gift of the gab”. Advice would be helpful, as I wrong to hang back??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of how dogging used to be. Can remember when you got to know new areas through talking to folk, it was fairly quiet and good fun. Now it seems to have been ruined by the good old tinternet advertising every location known to man!

Used to keep distance but show I was interested, wait for invitation. But the latelter years seemed to produce guys who couldn’t be paitient... they would pull up next to a car so close the only way to get out of the car would be climbing through their window and into the car with a playing couple.

Unfortunately the etiquette is really quite simple, yet simple minds find it too complicated to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never been dogging as I lead a sheltered life

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By *t8880Couple
over a year ago

Staffs

We have found the attic ok, granted quite a few single men but most kept themselves to themselves. We have had people push in front at another very well known club like you mention though op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats why i dont attend clubs! X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Last time I went I had 4 following around most of the evening 3 were quite polite chatting respectful etc the 4th one kept telling me I was saving the best till last ie himself. Kept touching me under the water in jacuzzi if I moved he moved. Needless to say I did not save the best till last and had fun with the other 3 guys.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"I attend the Attic on occasion as a single guy, but and am always shocked at how pushy the single guys are.

Not sure if it's me who is too polite or if that's just the usual. You wouldn't push in like that anywhere else in society but it seems like it's acceptable in a club."

Sat at one end of the massive bed at BGHS one evening watching a couple at the other end while two guys stood at the bottom of the bed, staring at his butt going up and down one actually bent down to get a better look between their legs. It looked like two blokes with a bonnet up trying to work out what was wrong with the engine and spent the next few minutes struggling not too laugh.

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