FabSwingers.com forum: Daytime Events What would create interest ???

By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We run day time events every Friday from 12 to 6pm Only charging couples £10.. etc...

What would create more interest or are there not many couples and single ladies about in the day time ? We get plenty of interest from guys...

We also have a massive Jacuzzi and sauna.

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

I think the biggest issue for ladies and couples attending daytime events is down to work and children. Obviously there will always be plenty of male interest in any event purely due to how many men are looking to play so these issues are not noticed. I’ve been to a couple of daytime events when I was a single lady and they were mainly attended by single males, one club I was the the only lady there!

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Thank you for the advice x. Maybe we should open earlier then?

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Thanks to others that have private messaged too xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve hosted daytime events at a couple of clubs.

It’s hard to get the right balance of people.

Single guys not a problem. Females more difficult.

Need to advertise lots. Message single females within a 10 mile radius telling them about who you are and what the event is. Maybe look to open earlier. Maybe 11 and don’t hold the events during the school holidays.

Hope this helps.

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Thank you Jane, my only problem is i cant message most of the single ladies as they have a block to our age or because we are a couple.

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Maybe we could open at 11am this Friday and see if that gets the ladies in ???

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

"We run day time events every Friday from 12 to 6pm Only charging couples £10.. etc...

What would create more interest or are there not many couples and single ladies about in the day time ? We get plenty of interest from guys...

We also have a massive Jacuzzi and sauna.

I've always been put off your club by three things:

1. No location on the website. I don't like clubs that are secretive about that information.

2. Towels aren't free. Come on... seriously? £5 hire or bring your own? Most clubs I've been to give out a towel with a locker and have more available on request.

3. The grammar and capitals on your profile here. Have a little rewrite, include the most important info, make sure it's written well. There are sites where you can hire people for not very much money to proof read stuff.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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I do think opening earlier may possibly help. I have to be back around 3 for the school run, so I would have to have left by 2.

The price is unbeatable, obviously that is not an issue.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Two very successful events held up north are Milf Mon at the townhouse (monthly) and Motd at cupids (fortnightly). Both are very busy events. Maybe it's more about adjusting your frequency and promoting the events as something special. Just a club being open 12-6 is hardly exciting and likely to attract a not so sexy crowd hoping for a cheap fuck.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I'd love to come however I need to leave about 2ish as I've got the school run so it's a long way to come for a couple of hours. I'm hoping I have a couple of child free Fridays over Christmas which means it's worth me coming down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my favourite places Jaydees.

My opinion is due to its location it is really a night time venue .

Its a fair old drive down the country lanes to get too and without a Sat nav impossible .

Daytime events are great but perhaps only once a month or they become boring .

Friday /Saturday are most peoples night out so they dont want to be going out in the daytime ....

Id say for most couples and possibly ladies there bored on a Sunday , never anywhere to goon a sunday afternoon / evening , likewise on a weeknight , your Tuesdays were busy sometimes...

Maybe try and Anne summers party or ladies cosmetics party on a Friday to get the girls along (Avon calling)

But in general i just think ladies are to busy on a Friday in the day and like to save there fun for an evening ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love coming over during the day on Fridays when we are both free, is nice to just chill, sit in the hot tub and play as, where n when we feel like it. Then get dressed up for the evening

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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I was a massive fan of your sing and swing Tuesdays...

Just saying (once again!)

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Myself and my partner have been to lots of clubs to being my own towel is no problem at least nobody takes it because they are all the same..... infact I've been bringing mine even to a club that supply their own for that reason "ITS MINE" lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Myself and my partner have been to lots of clubs to being my own towel is no problem at least nobody takes it because they are all the same..... infact I've been bringing mine even to a club that supply their own for that reason "ITS MINE" lol....."

i'd rather use my own ........

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We did at one time supply towels in the lockers, we bought 150 really nice bath sheets and ended up with around 50, people kept taking them.Lots of people would rather use there own, the £5.00 is to encourage peeps to bring their own, although we very rarely charge if anyone forgets.

We do supply a substantial free buffet, unlike a lot of clubs, we also supply free tea and coffee(as much as you want)

We operate a BYOB system with drinks, and have bar staff to look after them in cubbyholes behind the bar ..... lots of people like this system as they know just what they are spending when they arrive, and are not hit with an exorbitant bar bill at the end of the night, we sell soft drinks or you can bring your own.

We have a really nice jacuzzi purposely built which seats 30/40 in a really nice setting, sauna and showers. We offer free camping for caravans, motorhomes, tents.

All this included in the couples entrance fee.

We are not hard to find we are just 2 miles from the A1 trunk Rd, we send everyone that enquires about the club directions of how to get here.

We dont advertise our address on our website as we dont want every Tom, Dick, and Harry turning up when the pubs kick out..

I hope this clarifies a few things

Jaydee

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By *ngie1962Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

11-3 once a month avoiding the week other clubs have daytime events

Open to members and Non members

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

I’d also have to leave at 2pm so a 12 o clock opening time makes it rushed. I’d come if the opening time was earlier.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

"We did at one time supply towels in the lockers, we bought 150 really nice bath sheets and ended up with around 50, people kept taking them.Lots of people would rather use there own, the £5.00 is to encourage peeps to bring their own, although we very rarely charge if anyone forgets.

We do supply a substantial free buffet, unlike a lot of clubs, we also supply free tea and coffee(as much as you want)

We have a really nice jacuzzi purposely built which seats 30/40 in a really nice setting, sauna and showers. We offer free camping for caravans, motorhomes, tents.

All this included in the couples entrance fee.

We are not hard to find we are just 2 miles from the A1 trunk Rd, we send everyone that enquires about the club directions of how to get here.

We dont advertise our address on our website as we dont want every Tom, Dick, and Harry turning up when the pubs kick out..

I hope this clarifies a few things

Jaydee

I don't disagree with any of your reasoning or logic - I was just answering the question as to how you might appeal to more people. Those are the ways that you would appeal more to me.

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

Have you tried maybe joining a dating site like plenty of fish and messaging single ladies who may not be into the scene yet and explaining what’s on offer out there for maybe newly singles who have come out of a long relationship and just looking for fun or even a lot of women not looking for a relationship but still want to enjoy themselves?

This you are targeting a who new audience and converting newbies who may not of even thought of the lifestyle?

Let them know it’s normal and clean and not seedy but lots of fun!!!!!

Good luck ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear the Vanilla Alternative hold a very successful MILF/insatiable event that fits in the with school runs and it's easy to access on the A1. Lovely club

check out their website.

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

See you all soon at Jaydees, we are opening at 12 o clock today... Shut Friday night...

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

As already been said, opening earlier would help people who have to head off for the school run. Or open from 11 through to the evening, so if people are on shifts, or travelling a distance, they can play in the afternoon, and after a breather carry on into the evening. Sounds fun if I travel down in my camper to have a length of time to explorw the club, feel comfortable and then hopefully have some fun.

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

HI we look forward to meeting you Lizzie, you can bring your camper here free of charge too.

We cant supply electric though...

We are going to run the days now from 11 to 4pm as this seems to be a popular time. I cant believe how many of you have been so lovely and helpful. We have had lots of private messages about it. (From other clubs too which is great)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might have to travel to you one Friday to check this out, sounds nice and relaxing!! x

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

up for the 11am start time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this only for single fems and couples or are single guys allowed too?

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

It will be good to meet you all and Unicorn lady... Yes single guys are welcome too...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish there was something like this near me

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Get the local paper to do an article about the club and promote an open day where non swingers can come along and mingle have fun and use the facilities. Kind of like how straight people go to gay bars. Opening hearts and minds. Promoting people’s rights and sexual health.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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I will definitely try to come sometime. Just one more note although it's more personal, Fridays aren't the best day for me, maybe they are better for other people but it tends to be quite a busy day getting everything finished and ready for the weekend and often I'm out at night too.

It may suit other people better though because it is the start of the weekend. I just thought I'd mention it as you are asking what we think.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"HI we look forward to meeting you Lizzie, you can bring your camper here free of charge too.

We cant supply electric though...

Think we need to buy a campervan

Take a £5 deposit for towels refundable for those wishing to hire

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

we been to many clubs ...don't even know where u are etc etc ....need to get out there more and more party posts would help tk u x

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Hi both the clubs are on the Beds/Cambs border we are basically near enough on each others door steps near St. Neots if that helps. We hope you will visit us one day.

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By *edsguyMan
over a year ago

south of Bedford

I've been to jaydees on my own and as a couple loads of times both evening and daytime events

It's the best club in the beds/Cambs area by far

Rob

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hi OP,

Cupids in Manchester run a daytime Tuesday, couple of times a month, on a similar principle. It is well atended by a good mix.

Maybe follow their idea?

I think they limit the ratio of guys. Also they open from 10:30am , as quite a few dash off at 2:30pm for the school run!

Might work for you too?

Hope it works out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wish something similar was happening down in Devon or Cornwall

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

"Just wish something similar was happening down in Devon or Cornwall"

Yes very limited in cornwall

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By *ohnfromnwukMan
over a year ago

North Manchester

"Wish there was something like this near me

Milf Monday at Townhouse in Birkenhead is the first Monday of each month and is very busy.

Partners in Bury also have school time events on Mondays and Fridays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wish there was something like this near me

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It would be great to have a club in Cornwall too!

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Its a shame we cant pick the club up and move it down cornwall, Devon way lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a shame we cant pick the club up and move it down cornwall, Devon way lmao

Love it!

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

"Its a shame we cant pick the club up and move it down cornwall, Devon way lmao

You would be onto a winner real gap in the market there

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

so who is coming along this week, ???

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By *edsguyMan
over a year ago

south of Bedford

I'm there on the 22nd

Rob

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

I’m doing my best to try and get down this weekend or next !

Love jaydees my favourite big club!

Hospitable owners and staff

Friendly fun

great atmosphere

fabulous facilities

For all x

And oh my

The hot tub that is the best

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

cool will be lovely to see you Juicy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like a trip is needed!

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Your a long way off

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Near Kettering

We would be there a lot more often if it wasn't Christmas time.

Not sure what events would attract us. In the day time, we just enjoy relaxing in the hot tub.

This is a fantastic venue so if you have not been already get yourselves down there.

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

Be good if you'd do more weekend events in the summer aimed at camping / caravans and motorhomes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wish there was something like this near me

Milf Monday at Townhouse in Birkenhead is the first Monday of each month and is very busy.

Partners in Bury also have school time events on Mondays and Fridays. "

I co host motd @ cupids twice a month a Tuesday its gone down a storm!!!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I agree with IB I had a banging Tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can only do daytimes so just being made aware helps us out.

Distance is the deciding factor for us mostly.

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I have added you as a friend Ak

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We will be holding the camping weekends again too dont worryyy x

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Its the big Greedy Girl event this Friday (Miss Red Hosting) woo hoo. so many ladies its unbelievable.

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve hosted daytime events at a couple of clubs.

It’s hard to get the right balance of people.

Single guys not a problem. Females more difficult.

Hope this helps.

Jane, yours parties where legendary! And where I made some wonderful friends and found my passion for swinging, so thank you.

Myself, female friend and my play mate would come to daytime events but we all work on Fridays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve hosted daytime events at a couple of clubs.

It’s hard to get the right balance of people.

Single guys not a problem. Females more difficult.

Hope this helps.

Jane, yours parties where legendary! And where I made some wonderful friends and found my passion for swinging, so thank you.

Myself, female friend and my play mate would come to daytime events but we all work on Fridays."

Thank you. They were fun

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Daytime events are great!

Most things on a week night are out for us as we're usually trashed from the working week.

Amour in Manchester held a Sunday service that was for couples and ladies. It ran from 1 till 7 I believe. It was always quiet but it was great for our first visit to a club!

It sounds like you could pitch your day time event as a sexy spa day? People go to regular ones so why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve hosted daytime events at a couple of clubs.

It’s hard to get the right balance of people.

Single guys not a problem. Females more difficult.

Hope this helps.

Jane, yours parties where legendary! And where I made some wonderful friends and found my passion for swinging, so thank you.

Myself, female friend and my play mate would come to daytime events but we all work on Fridays.

Thank you. They were fun

Fun doesn’t began to describe them, I miss them.

Wednesday was a perfect day and well attended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We work Monday to Friday so for us we'd prefer you open on a Sunday during the day. Maybe once a month to increase interest and numbers

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

"We work Monday to Friday so for us we'd prefer you open on a Sunday during the day. Maybe once a month to increase interest and numbers"

This would be a good idea for those that had stayed overnight on the Sat. If the club opened say 1pm to 6pm would be extra fun.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I like the idea of a camping weekend. A rare chance to give my caravan a run out.

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