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Manchester... Amour or Cupids for first time couple??

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By *oehannah OP   Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Young couple wondering where to start with the club scene?

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

What are you looking for from your first club?

Cupid's is dress down on entry whilst amour has more of a nightclub feel with playrooms upstairs.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

There are more than those two in manchester

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

For a first time couple I’d stay well away from Amour

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By *oehannah OP   Couple
over a year ago

stockport

I thought cupids had rooms too? Ive only checked out their websites... just wanting fun but no pressure x

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"I thought cupids had rooms too? Ive only checked out their websites... just wanting fun but no pressure x"

Sorry, yes they do too Cupid's is the larger of the two with a maze of rooms and a large bar area. I'd say that was a good shout for your first visit. The compulsory dress down makes it a really relaxed atmosphere.

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

i would go to cupids

go on a wednesday night which is for couples

its fun you will enjoy !!!

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By *tt1Couple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"i would go to cupids

go on a wednesday night which is for couples

its fun you will enjoy !!!"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to Cupids as our fist club and loved it Friday will be our 3rd visit since Halloween.

It's a club classics night on Friday, if you want some support we would be happy to meet up before hand or in the club on a social basis just drop is a msg x

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By *lub Rouge ManchesterCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"There are more than those two in manchester"

Only one In Manchester. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We went to Cupids as our fist club and loved it Friday will be our 3rd visit since Halloween.

It's a club classics night on Friday, if you want some support we would be happy to meet up before hand or in the club on a social basis just drop is a msg x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cupids guys all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It don't matter where you go there will be loads of single blokes rubbing there hands and kicking lips

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By *rishcreamWoman
over a year ago

manchester


"It don't matter where you go there will be loads of single blokes rubbing there hands and kicking lips "

Is this your behaviour when you go in a swingers club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cupid's on a couple's night is much more relaxed compared to Amours.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It don't matter where you go there will be loads of single blokes rubbing there hands and kicking lips "

Complete rubbish.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"It don't matter where you go there will be loads of single blokes rubbing there hands and kicking lips

Complete rubbish.

"

Ignore the silly comments. Bun & Buck are quite right. Simply choose a night when single males are not allowed if you are concerned.

We have visited most of the club's in the Manchester area. Often more than once.

On this basis we would recommend Cupids. It is friendly and usually busy, without being overwhelming for newbies. If the dress down doesn't appeal, maybe try a club in a different area.

There are several where you don't have to dress down. Maybe La Chambre in Sheffield or one of the Leeds clubs.

Nita

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By *r an Mrs xMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Most couples that go to clubs like the single guys and single girls ....

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Most couples that go to clubs like the single guys and single girls ...."

Most couples who we've met in the swinging lifestyle like variety... we personally look for different things at different times.

Mostly though we look for other couples and ideally two or three of them.

Cal

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By *oreverHorny69Man
over a year ago

Milnrow

Decadence is a brilliant club clean and spotless and the host Mandy is a fantastic lady. It is a not dress down immediately on entry, the safe secure lockers are in the cellar and the bar contains a jacuzzi and has a large TV with a dance floor. It even has a kitchen with Mandy as chef, the food is delicious. Upstairs contains the large playrooms and also a glory hole wall. Also has a sauna upstairs and a heated smoking facility also. It’s a fantastic club and would recommend it without hesitation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recommend Cupids.

Celestine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It don't matter where you go there will be loads of single blokes rubbing there hands and kicking lips

Is this your behaviour when you go in a swingers club? "
???locking lips))

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"It don't matter where you go there will be loads of single blokes rubbing there hands and kicking lips

Is this your behaviour when you go in a swingers club? ???locking lips))"

Dont worry OP not all single men are like this.

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By *oreverHorny69Man
over a year ago

Milnrow

In life I am a respectful gentleman anyway and this also applies when I’m in clubs. I am often to be found chatting to people and having a good time and going with the flow. As I have only been to a club on a couple of occasions I have yet to play but hopefully in the near future. I hope ladies don’t want the “treat them mean and keep them keen” approach. If that’s the case I will end up having no fun because this guy ain’t for changing

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It don't matter where you go there will be loads of single blokes rubbing there hands and kicking lips

Is this your behaviour when you go in a swingers club? ???locking lips))

Dont worry OP not all single men are like this."

Any men acting like that get kicked out of decent clubs, so it tends not to even happen in the first place.

If you want single guys, go to a well run club (look in the 'club' section or ask for advice) if not, go on couples nights.

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By *artshell1Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I would go to Partners at bury

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By *oreverHorny69Man
over a year ago

Milnrow

What I object to is men paying £50 “ “membership fee” then £10 per visit. It should be either one or another a yearly fee or a price per visit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expensive...

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"What I object to is men paying £50 “ “membership fee” then £10 per visit. It should be either one or another a yearly fee or a price per visit. "

Are you being forced to pay?? £10 a visit seriously? Thats a cheap night out for single men even taking the £50 membership into account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I object to is men paying £50 “ “membership fee” then £10 per visit. It should be either one or another a yearly fee or a price per visit. "

Don't go then.

We find Cupids is a greay place and where we had our first visit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BLACKPOOL IS CHEAP AS CHIPS

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"What I object to is men paying £50 “ “membership fee” then £10 per visit. It should be either one or another a yearly fee or a price per visit.

Don't go then.

We find Cupids is a greay place and where we had our first visit. "

Exactly..plus jacuzzi, sauna, bring your own drinks bar. What do people actualy want?

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By *ddyandmandyCouple
over a year ago

BOLTON

Cupids is a very modern club ,

Upon entry you get a locker key couples have there own changing rooms.

Amour is a good club with lockers and wet area on 1st floor rooms upstairs .

Some clubs don't even have lockers.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Op as your looking for couples and single women then I would say maybe give either amours on a Sunday a go if your new to the scene, or cupids on a couples only night.

Also my advice for the future and to others would be that also don’t rule out not going to a single guy night. The reason is that often there are single women at these nights that will play with couples as well. I know a number of singlenmowmen whilst they are looking for males will play with couples as well.

For those that say men rub their hands and lick lips, I know a number or couples where we been chatting, an attractive couple have walked in, and all three of us have agreed that they look very nice, and virtually done the same.

I think a club is what you make it. Don’t get me wrong some nights are quiet, but these can be th most playful

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By *imply pleasureMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"i would go to cupids

go on a wednesday night which is for couples

its fun you will enjoy !!!"

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By *imply pleasureMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"It don't matter where you go there will be loads of single blokes rubbing there hands and kicking lips "

Not at Cupids' couples/ladies only night on Wednesday!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cupid's......they explain the rules, help everyone feel relaxed and there is no pressure to play;-)

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By *inderellaRockerfellazCouple
over a year ago

warrington


"Expensive..."

Still not bought your az yet ??

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By *inderellaRockerfellazCouple
over a year ago

warrington


"BLACKPOOL IS CHEAP AS CHIPS "

Thread about clubs - not chips !!!

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By *r an Mrs xMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Clubs what you make it ..... all clubs have rubbish nights and great nights. ..... try them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BLACKPOOL IS CHEAP AS CHIPS

Thread about clubs - not chips !!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs what you make it ..... all clubs have rubbish nights and great nights. ..... try them all. "
yep exactly!!!

Pay ya dues and let's see what happens lol it may end up a duvet day lol

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By *inderellaRockerfellazCouple
over a year ago

warrington


"Clubs what you make it ..... all clubs have rubbish nights and great nights. ..... try them all. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amours always a place to go the wet area always splashing....

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"What I object to is men paying £50 “ “membership fee” then £10 per visit. It should be either one or another a yearly fee or a price per visit.

Don't go then.

We find Cupids is a greay place and where we had our first visit. "

Nice attitude. He is only saying it's costly.

I do agree Cupids is awesome. I haven't been to any other clubs to compare but I really enjoyed my visit.

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By *J swingCouple
over a year ago

North

There are many Manchester clubs but I would say cupids is the most modern out there new spa fitted this year a huge sauna and decent new lockers ...

Partners has a huge wet area on ground floor amazing again has a good size sauna , lockers are a bit dated but over all a good club

Amour has a spa but only get 4 in at anyone time thats IF its been fixed last time we went it were far to hot to get in ,nice sauna

New to him lockers over all a good club good staff as well.

My views are try both clubs only you can decide .

Not been to Decadance so can't say what it's like .

Some clubs have limits on single males so don't they just see ££££ signs .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

I would highly recommend Cupid's over amour.

Cupid's is like a super club in my eyes. My favourite club.

Amours in ok is not a bad place but as where Cupid's is like a sex maze amours is one corridor with rooms shooting our either side x

I would suggest ultimately trying both, both are recommendable places to visit x

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"It don't matter where you go there will be loads of single blokes rubbing there hands and kicking lips "

What a load of twaddle!

I'd recommend cupids I love the place...

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"What I object to is men paying £50 “ “membership fee” then £10 per visit. It should be either one or another a yearly fee or a price per visit. "

£50 divided by 52 weeks is 0.96p is your price per visit from your membership plus £10 if you go once a month your talking less than £14 cheaper than a gym membership exercise and a lot more fun... Winner

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We haven’t been to Amour but can recommend Cupids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I object to is men paying £50 “ “membership fee” then £10 per visit. It should be either one or another a yearly fee or a price per visit.

£50 divided by 52 weeks is 0.96p is your price per visit from your membership plus £10 if you go once a month your talking less than £14 cheaper than a gym membership exercise and a lot more fun... Winner "
haha cheaper then a season ticket for the footy

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By *inderellaRockerfellazCouple
over a year ago

warrington


"What I object to is men paying £50 “ “membership fee” then £10 per visit. It should be either one or another a yearly fee or a price per visit.

£50 divided by 52 weeks is 0.96p is your price per visit from your membership plus £10 if you go once a month your talking less than £14 cheaper than a gym membership exercise and a lot more fun... Winner haha cheaper then a season ticket for the footy "

& no expensive kit every season !!!

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"What I object to is men paying £50 “ “membership fee” then £10 per visit. It should be either one or another a yearly fee or a price per visit.

£50 divided by 52 weeks is 0.96p is your price per visit from your membership plus £10 if you go once a month your talking less than £14 cheaper than a gym membership exercise and a lot more fun... Winner "

And still cheaper than the lingerie we spend fortunes on!!! I might start just wearing a pair of boxers & a towel too!!

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