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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there any stigma attached to single guys at swingers clubs such as Chams etc ?

How do 'regulars' and couples at the clubs view single guys who become members ?

Thinking of joining so any feedback/comments much appreciated

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By *he WickedsCouple
over a year ago

Swingtown

Swingers clubs couldn't survive without single guys. That's where they make their money. There are plenty of couples and single girls looking for single guys. There is nothing wrong in becoming a member... it's definitely more cost effective. You'd be extremely fortunate to gain a single guy membership for Chams. They are very restrictive on the number of single guy members. I've heard you have to wait for someone to die to get membership!

Good luck wherever you go. Just remember the golden rules. Then talk and be friendly because you never know when someone is in need of a wingman.

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By *-Little-Mz-Minx-xWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Swingers clubs couldn't survive without single guys. That's where they make their money. There are plenty of couples and single girls looking for single guys. There is nothing wrong in becoming a member... it's definitely more cost effective. You'd be extremely fortunate to gain a single guy membership for Chams. They are very restrictive on the number of single guy members. I've heard you have to wait for someone to die to get membership!

Good luck wherever you go. Just remember the golden rules. Then talk and be friendly because you never know when someone is in need of a wingman. "

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

Nikki has played with lots of single guys in clubs. But not one who acts weird or stalks her.

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I've been to Chams as a single guy and I was fine. Did go with a friend but once settled I made more friends and everything else fell into place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love single guys at clubs. We only look for and play with single guys. Just behave normally and you will get on great

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for comments and advice

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

I like single men at clubs... it's rare I play with anyone other than men.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

We meet single guys at clubs.

It's a great place to meet and cuts out any problems of arranging meets and being let down.

Get yourself along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one here that looks for guys at clubs, most single girls are. Polite respectful guys who are happy to mingle and chill out are always very welcome guys that race around furiously wanking and asking every lady if they want to suck their cock aren't! Theres plenty of clubs that welcome singke fellas thst dont have the waiting list of chams - try jaydees, VA and eurekas x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been attending clubs for a while now. Firstly as a single guy then as a couple now single guy again so can see both sides to be fair. It’s definitely about respect for single guys in clubs. Take your time to be friendly and chat to the couples and single females in there. Don’t ever think that your going have sex in the club. Treat it as going to the pub or nightclub. Good luck if you join Chams. I go to Pandora regular and love the club scene made so many great friends there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

From replies, think my Christmas present to self is sorted

Being fairly new to this, any recommended 'no pressure' clubs also welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Being fairly new to this, any recommended 'no pressure' clubs also welcome.

"

No clubs should be "pressured" - nobody has to do anything they don't want to and everyone should be able to enjoy the club how they see fit - whether it's just a social evening and some dancing, or having a massive orgy Most clubs have a bar/social area to relax and talk in. Have a look at the club reviews and go try one that takes your fancy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Being fairly new to this, any recommended 'no pressure' clubs also welcome.

No clubs should be "pressured" - nobody has to do anything they don't want to and everyone should be able to enjoy the club how they see fit - whether it's just a social evening and some dancing, or having a massive orgy Most clubs have a bar/social area to relax and talk in. Have a look at the club reviews and go try one that takes your fancy!"

Places like Kestrel Hydro that have hot tubs/jacuzzis are good as it’s an easy place to chat in and to get to know people.

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By *rs Butterfly.Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

There are lots of single guys who go to Chams. If you are polite and chat to both the man and woman of a couple you will be fine.

Its the guys who just follow you from room to room and never talk who piss me off.

I know a few single guys who do really well at clubs. Just be polite and respectful and you will do well.

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By *oolcouple400Couple
over a year ago

kingston

We prefer meeting single guys at clubs

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

Only go for the single blokes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looks like clubs could be way forward. Sleepy Shropshire not got any so best get doing some checks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big wanga will also have an influence

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I go to clubs to meet single guys. Thats why i go to swingles by The Playgrounds as its especially for people who want to meet single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big diced always make an impact

So come on

Show your cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love single men.You can add them or subtract them and have them in many permutations. They are like the lubricant of the swinging world. It would be a tragic loss if single men were not allowed in clubs. You you can borrow them like a book and put them right back. No commitment. No falling out. Just a simple transaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love single men.You can add them or subtract them and have them in many permutations. They are like the lubricant of the swinging world. It would be a tragic loss if single men were not allowed in clubs. You you can borrow them like a book and put them right back. No commitment. No falling out. Just a simple transaction."

Don’t worry, clubs wouldn’t survive without them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve met some very nice ‘single ‘ guys at clubs but if you meet couples make sure you talk to both of them and not just the lady

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We go to clubs to meet single guys mainly, some good advice on this thread for you

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

Like many posts here just to reassure you. I have been attending clubs for quite a long time. If you well-manered, polite and make an effort to socialise you are going to have a great time !!!

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

GUYS NUMBER ONE TIP...don't wear joggers trainers and gym gear....always smart attire and smell nice and be polite ...gives u a better chance ...honest

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"GUYS NUMBER ONE TIP...don't wear joggers trainers and gym gear....always smart attire and smell nice and be polite ...gives u a better chance ...honest"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"GUYS NUMBER ONE TIP...don't wear joggers trainers and gym gear....always smart attire and smell nice and be polite ...gives u a better chance ...honest"

A rule of thumb!!

Basics!!

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By *eallyTDHMan
over a year ago

London


"Swingers clubs couldn't survive without single guys. That's where they make their money. There are plenty of couples and single girls looking for single guys. There is nothing wrong in becoming a member... it's definitely more cost effective. You'd be extremely fortunate to gain a single guy membership for Chams. They are very restrictive on the number of single guy members. I've heard you have to wait for someone to die to get membership!

Good luck wherever you go. Just remember the golden rules. Then talk and be friendly because you never know when someone is in need of a wingman. "

What are the golden rules?

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Swingers clubs couldn't survive without single guys. That's where they make their money. There are plenty of couples and single girls looking for single guys. There is nothing wrong in becoming a member... it's definitely more cost effective. You'd be extremely fortunate to gain a single guy membership for Chams. They are very restrictive on the number of single guy members. I've heard you have to wait for someone to die to get membership!

Good luck wherever you go. Just remember the golden rules. Then talk and be friendly because you never know when someone is in need of a wingman.

What are the golden rules? "

No means no.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Swingers clubs couldn't survive without single guys. That's where they make their money. There are plenty of couples and single girls looking for single guys. There is nothing wrong in becoming a member... it's definitely more cost effective. You'd be extremely fortunate to gain a single guy membership for Chams. They are very restrictive on the number of single guy members. I've heard you have to wait for someone to die to get membership!

Good luck wherever you go. Just remember the golden rules. Then talk and be friendly because you never know when someone is in need of a wingman.

What are the golden rules? "

The penitent man is humble before the swingers club

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I used to be a regular at chams, not so much now, but I wouldn't have a clue who was a new member and who wasn't, unless I saw them have a tour but I would forget the next time I saw them.

It's always nice to have new faces, no matter which club it is, you get out of it what you put in.

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By *ricksydemonMan
over a year ago

llandudno


"Love single men.You can add them or subtract them and have them in many permutations. They are like the lubricant of the swinging world. It would be a tragic loss if single men were not allowed in clubs. You you can borrow them like a book and put them right back. No commitment. No falling out. Just a simple transaction."

Deposits and withdrawals?

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By *ricksydemonMan
over a year ago

llandudno

Have visited clubs as couple and single man, I always try and get single men involved if they're respectful and also struggling, I usually share my toys but my advice as single is don't go expecting action that's where lots go wrong they treat it like an all you can eat brothel just because they have paid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been as a single on quite a few occasions, always enjoyed myself.

I think some blokes turn up with unreal expectations. Put simply if you are the kind of bloke who’d stand out in a bar eg. You’re either one of or a combination of good looking, charming, funny, then you’ll be alright in a club. You’ll find ladies and couples keen to play.

If you’re none of these things then join the wanking zombies stumbling from playroom to playroom begging for some attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been as a single on quite a few occasions, always enjoyed myself.

I think some blokes turn up with unreal expectations. Put simply if you are the kind of bloke who’d stand out in a bar eg. You’re either one of or a combination of good looking, charming, funny, then you’ll be alright in a club. You’ll find ladies and couples keen to play.

If you’re none of these things then join the wanking zombies stumbling from playroom to playroom begging for some attention! "
really anoying the zombies.....I say just they are rude people and not not in a fab way and thry should be avoided..

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Here's one persons thoughts on the matter

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=McGaEJ6HMjM

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Here's one persons thoughts on the matter

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=McGaEJ6HMjM

"

Yep, sums it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's one persons thoughts on the matter

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=McGaEJ6HMjM

that's snorting and annoying when you paste stuff

Yep, sums it up "

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