FabSwingers.com forum: D*unk in clubs.

By *uckslut and M OP Couple
over a year ago

Poole

If you were in a club and the other potentul (sp) play partner was d*unk what would you do?

I'm not talking one drink, I'm talking out of 100, zero being sober 50 being very tipsy 100 passed out.

We won't and don't play with any one who is around 40. We walked away from a lady Sat night as she was clearly d*unk. She approched us. We just think how can they be concenting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would never play with anyone who had clearly d*unk too much alcohol for various reasons, incl consensual issues.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Voiced my opinion on this before after several experiences.

It’s not sexy. It can’t be consensual and I think that clubs should have a moral responsibility to make sure their patrons are safe. In an environment like a swingers club, a d*unk is both vulnerable and a liability. Worst I’ve seen is a female half of a couple falling down d*unk in one midlands club. As we left she was propping up the bar.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I get my pleasure out of playing and not being d*unk. I want to know what I am doing and want the other person to know what they are doing as well. I think its very risky and simply no fun if anyone is not completely with it...

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Agree with above a few to settle the nerves is fine d*unk isnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do it with a d*unk person in a club XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never drink in a club, party or at a meet and wouldn't play with anyone under the influence

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By *irimusMan
over a year ago

Burnley

"any one who is around 40... how can they be consenting? "

Are you serious?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"If you were in a club and the other potentul (sp) play partner was d*unk what would you do?

I'm not talking one drink, I'm talking out of 100, zero being sober 50 being very tipsy 100 passed out.

We won't and don't play with any one who is around 40. We walked away from a lady Sat night as she was clearly d*unk. She approched us. We just think how can they be concenting? "

Definitely avoid!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Avoid.

But I would question what the staff were (or were not) doing.

As licensees, they are not allowed to serve alcohol to someone that intoxicated. Additionaly, a woman that d*unk would be very vulnerable; why weren't they looking after her??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Avoid.

But I would question what the staff were (or were not) doing.

As licensees, they are not allowed to serve alcohol to someone that intoxicated. Additionaly, a woman that d*unk would be very vulnerable; why weren't they looking after her??

I've seen women like that and their husbands just let them carry on. If they need to be pissed almost to the point of unconsciousness surely they shouldn't be swinging!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Playing with someone d*unk is pointless

Who wants to play with someone that potentially can’t even remember what they are doing and/or might throw up on you lol

Having a drink to relax is great but some people don’t seem to know their limit

I have seen nervous newbies get steaming d*unk on a first visit to a club and they just become annoyingly loud and off putting

You did right OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid totally but I've seen it a few times women as part of a couple and single women in a club there's a difference between being merry and pissed,it's scary really in that environment you need to have your bearings with you at all times especially being female.I have one or none and i drive and i don't need drink to enjoy myself

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

I prefer to play with people who haven't d*unk at all, but will play with people who have had a drink and show absolutely no signs of being d*unk at all.

If someone needs to d*unk for 'courage' then I don't want to play with them.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I very rarely drink.

And never when I'm playing.

Control, capacity, consent, and a better ability to get out of an undesirable situation.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

XX doesn't drink at all when we go to clubs, XY will only take a couple of ciders in - Not for courage - just because he enjoys sitting and socialising in the bar area for a bit.

We've been put off by d*unk people in clubs before. In fact we nearly called time on them altogether after being pestered by a d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one and only time I was going to be "Lucky", as it were...She turned out to be more then tipsy....I walked away,yes with a tear in my eye..but feeling kinda good about myself...Huh..!!

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"If you were in a club and the other potentul (sp) play partner was d*unk what would you do?

I'm not talking one drink, I'm talking out of 100, zero being sober 50 being very tipsy 100 passed out.

We won't and don't play with any one who is around 40. We walked away from a lady Sat night as she was clearly d*unk. She approched us. We just think how can they be concenting? "
i would take her number and try and convince her to have a Early night the walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D*unk people in clubs is not a nice look and no we wouldn't play with them.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We walk away from any potential play mate who is d*unk, that was a lesson we learnt on one of our very first meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D*unk is not a great look is it walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will not play with d*unk people....way too much drama

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

if they to d*unk but got cans of cider left have a drink with em .and have a wank in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"D*unk people in clubs is not a nice look and no we wouldn't play with them."

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

It's not sexy to see either female or male d*unk xx no go for us

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Every one likes a drink ,no one likes a d*unk lol

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By *ngel clawsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

It's a big turn off for me wether club or party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a big turn off for me wether club or party"

Getting d*unk is a turn off at any time!

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

"It's a big turn off for me wether club or party

Getting d*unk is a turn off at any time!"

Agreed!

Alcohol is great for cleaning, burning and turning nice people into arseholes

Doing a d*unk is asking for a sexual offence charge, more so nowadays, just walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a big turn off for me wether club or party

Getting d*unk is a turn off at any time!

Agreed!

Alcohol is great for cleaning, burning and turning nice people into arseholes

Doing a d*unk is asking for a sexual offence charge, more so nowadays, just walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind happy d*unk people at clubs but I would not play with them whilst they were d*unk. Instead if I loked them I would be social, have a laugh and get their contact information in the hope that next time we meet things will be better.

I cant stand people that get d*unk for courage or partners that encourage it because it might help them realise their own fantasies.

The clubs I have been to have all kept an eye out for this behavior and have acted when tbey felt it necesary.

I understand the nerves involved for newbies but the ability to make well informed responsible decisions should their primary concern for themselves and their partners.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

We always have a good drink at clubs. Its our choice and as we are a no drama couple, we enjoy ourselves

We have seen others get d*unk and ruin their night through doing such. So we completely understand other peoples opinions of such.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"If you were in a club and the other potentul (sp) play partner was d*unk what would you do?

I'm not talking one drink, I'm talking out of 100, zero being sober 50 being very tipsy 100 passed out.

We won't and don't play with any one who is around 40. We walked away from a lady Sat night as she was clearly d*unk. She approched us. We just think how can they be concenting? "

I confronted a man who touched me in playroom whos mrs was slumped - he said shes fine and tried to sit her up, when he let go she just flopped barely concious - made him take her out and told him how disgusting. Disgraceful behaviour

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I always take a 4 pack in a club. This is not enough to make me d*unk at all, and also I would normally drink that in a couple of hours in football world if not a lot quicker

For me i definitely keep of the spirits in a club as it makes me sleepy zzzzzzz, and with post orgasam sleepyhead not a good look

I definitely keep off if I have had medication

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If someone has had a drink or two to relax, that would be fine. However I'd never play with anyone who was intoxicated. I hope my play partners are fully participating and enjoying themselves. I am also very big on consent and communication. Someone who is intoxicated might not be fit to give (or deny) consent or to effectively communicate about what we might get up to.

Many years ago at a party I was asked by the hostess to keep. An eye on a d*unk girl, to ensure she was actively participating in everything. That was difficult but I did get her email address and followed up the next day to ensure she was ok with what happened. Thankfully she was and became a sober party regular.

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