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Your first swingers club experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've not been to any yet and want to know your first time experiences and also which clubs you recommend.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We went to the nocturnal social as our first clubs visit.

We made some very good friends that night.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I carnt say as iv never been to 1 eather as Thar is no clubs for miles wear i live

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Did you come across any people you knew there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to the townhouse once, for a single guy it wasn’t very welcoming, all the regulars had their circle of playmates, some were rude, others looked you up and down like a piece of shite, nope, not for me. Others will say they’ve had different experiences though and far more positive than mine, maybe it was the night I chose, dunno, but for a club that everyone in the area shouts about, I was very disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are alot in the north west, I've been meaning to go but just havnt been confident enough to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's what I initially had thought that it was more of a social gathering for locals and newbies won't be welcomed as such

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're you nervous? I've been wanting to go for a while now, but I've heard it's hard for a single male to fit in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're so so, ok for a night out I guess but nowt special...

Your limited to the clientele there, limited to the areas they have to play, often have to wait for rooms or equipment to be free, then there's travel, somewhere to stay if you want a drink etc etc..

They're good for a giggle but I've never found them to be particularly sexy places.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"They're so so, ok for a night out I guess but nowt special...

Your limited to the clientele there, limited to the areas they have to play, often have to wait for rooms or equipment to be free, then there's travel, somewhere to stay if you want a drink etc etc..

They're good for a giggle but I've never found them to be particularly sexy places. "

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which ones did you go to? I think it's easier if you go as a couple, single male also costs more....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sooo I had planned to attend my first club feeling rather nervious and not knowing what to expect I jumped in the deep end and arrived at kestrels/abfabs. Now after exploring the luxuries they had to offer Iwent to the dungeon to see what the fuss was about. I had spotted a couple sitting st what looked like the head table I.E. the king and queens chair. Being a newbie to swinging but confident in person I approached the couple and engaged in conversation explaining it to have been my first time and what there experiences had been like and so on. To add the female counter part had a tantalising Irish accent which gave me an instance smile. After conversing for a while I headed back over to my friends. I had sat down one leg on a higher stand, causing the towel to loosen. I could see them giggling between each other which did intrigue me. She looked over smiled and starting to strut towards me. With no one word said at this point she got down and unwrapped my towel I tucking my cock. She the held it in front of her smiled again as she licked from the bottom to the tip before putting it in her mouth. As you can imagine i was blown away as it was my first event and the fact I hadn't been there long. I then picked her up bent her over gave her husband the nods and started powering away from behide. As I looked behide I was surprised to find 15 20 singles and couples watching playing with them selfs one passing comment on the fact I hadn't cummed yet. It had come to that time were I couldn't hold it in anymore so I realeased everything I had to give. As she went to walk back over to her husband she looked at me and start you always remember your first, she wasn't lying ?? The moral of the story is I would have loved for the husband to have cleaned up the mess left and was wanting to hear any couples that are in to this stuff whether they clean up or not. Fire away with any questions and get in contact I think I found my niche ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to Partners in Bury at Easter a couple of years ago, nervous but walked in confidently and no one could tell we’d never been before the staff were friendly and introduced us to people. We had a great night and have since been to numerous clubs in the uk and even a few abroad. We mainly limit our meets to clubs these days as if we get let down and the other people don’t turn up we still have a good night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had my first visit to Cupid’s on motd event. Was nervous but put myself out there and just went p to people and said hi. Everyone was so friendly and a really good club too. I had loads of fun and would of had more but had to leave by 2pm. Will be going back again tho. Can highly recommend

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

My first experience in a club has taught me always to do some homework before you visit.

I wish I'd had an experience like one of the posters but I ended up paying £20 to have a drink with one other guy and listen to stories about how busy it was the same night the week before.Unfortunately this club is renowned for using staff to put up their status giving the impression that they are visiting the club.

I've since moved on and done home work and have friends at most of the clubs I visit(only the good ones).I still go expecting nothing but on most ocasions have ended up having lots of fun aswell as making new friends.Surely swinging is about social interaction and adventure not sending messages to dreamers and timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My one and only visit to a club was awful. Can't fault the club, staff were great and the facilities were awesome.

The guy I went with got very d*unk, played very rough with 2 ladies and I had to pour him in the car for the trip home

I think if I did it again I'd go with someone that wanted to fuck me and play with me. Show each other off kind of thing.

I didn't know how to approach people as the majority of the clientele were model like. Or in an involved group.

Maybe arrange to meet people there.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

My first time club experience could be likened to a Sunday afternoon in a working men's club, rather than a Friday night in a swingers' club, and my second experience could be summed up as an afternoon drinking tea

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By *oreverHorny69Man
over a year ago

Milnrow

Decadence is fantastic and my initial fears disappeared in an instant as I was made so welcome and had a fantastic naughty few hours. Would totally recommend this club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to xtasia in West Bromwich as its close to us and attended a ffff night. It was great very freindly no pressure to play and inside its just like a nightclub but has other play rooms which you can go in off the main room.

Would highly recommend as first timers. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to Vanilla Alternative on a Saturday night. Was amazing once I got over my panic attack in the reception! Lol. Dreamcatcher Xx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I was like a child in a sweetie shop as had not had sex for far too long. I wasnt nervous just excited and it was everything i had hoped it would be.

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By *LT22Man
over a year ago

Teddington

My first swingers club visit a few year's ago was Abfabs, a great and fun night i met some sexy people.

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By *onderlustagainMan
over a year ago

Repton

You're right Angel the most important person in the club is the one you're with.. I love the club's..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were so nervous as it was our first time doing anything like this! Plus my husband was the only man I had ever slept with and we had been together 17 years!!

I didnt really like the silent guys following us around wanking under their towels but lots of men were very friendly and I caught the eye of a guy I really fancied, the rest of the night was incredible!

I do think it depends on the club you go to....we visited another club about a year later and if that had been our first experience we would of been put off!

Each club appeals to different people...we2ve now been to a couple of clubs but our favourite is the one we went to first and the biggest appeal to us is that it does feel very sexy even just being at the bar! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely loved it before we was on fab many firsts ticked off that night

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By *hris and SamCouple
over a year ago

at the end of the rainbow

I was very nervous the first time we went a club, i think the whole experience was pretty good but it just didn't push my buttons. We tried another club and it was so much better, though to be honest i would never say it was because of the club it was how I was feeling. Clubs are just like nights out sometimes you have a blast and other times you think i wish I'd stayed home.

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Nervous but loved it, never looked back

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By *arried1999aCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

After much discussion we nervously arrived one Saturday night at Chams in Newport...felt a little red faced when we realised Saturdays were chap only nights. After a quick drive down the M4 to Angels we were introduced to the delightful decadence of club life!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you guys say it's best to go as a couple and try different clubs? I better start looking for someone to go with then...lol

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Dont go worrying if theres anyone you will know. They are there too.

It is easier to go as a twosome but even taking a same sex friend (i took my sister) is an option.

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