FabSwingers.com forum: bareback in clubs

By *etsome OP Man
over a year ago

birmingham

someone is advertising a bareback meeting in a club. she wants to be filled up.

would the club be aware of this and would they be ok with it?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Why should the club stop it? They can promote safe sex and they do but at the end of the day adults are adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how would clubs police it exactly? Can't have staff members approaching people playing and making them put a condom on.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

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If it's being advertised then I'm guessing there's a high chance of the club knowing about it. As for if they are ok with it? Not sure why they would care either way. As far as I know it's still legal to have bareback sex with someone. There are at least a couple of instances where it 'may' be illegal but I'm sure you can work that out for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the club?

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.

It could work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do bare back in clubs. Never been stopped yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Cock/condom police!! We are all responsible adults I think!! People are aware of the dangers involved!! So if people wanna play bareback let them. The club is not gonna be blamed for any problems that might happen from it. It's between the people involved.

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By *heblackmacMan
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"We do bare back in clubs. Never been stopped yet

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Several years ago I got chewed out by the hostess at a local club for having BB sex with 2 guys. Later on turned on that one of the blokes was her lover and she flipped out. Stopped going to clubs after that I only go to house parties. I am told things have changed but clubs WERE dumping their sense of morality on others. Reality is consenting adults should do what they want at sex clubs it's no body's business (as long as legal)

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By *etsome OP Man
over a year ago

birmingham

"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.

It could work?

I'm not complaining about it. I intend to help fill her up

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.

It could work?

I'm not complaining about it. I intend to help fill her up"

Thanks for helping to advertise the event...oh...wait a minute...

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.

It could work?

I'm not complaining about it. I intend to help fill her up

Thanks for helping to advertise the event...oh...wait a minute..."

Thank heavens for the local clap clinic is all i can say.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens a lot in clubs. A few years ago we were in a couoles room on a couples night and everyone in there was playing bare. We assumed they all knew each other and just played with each other and watched.

After we talked and they had all met for the first time that night...

So it does happen.. And like grown adults you decide if you want to partake or pass it by x

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By *ilthy fun bareCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

"We do bare back in clubs. Never been stopped yet

Same for us.

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

We always bareback with each other in clubs no one has ever asked if we are a couple and nor are they likely to at any club ?

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

I would only BB my long term partner... Never anybody else ....I value my health and life too much too many STI's out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always bareback with each other in clubs no one has ever asked if we are a couple and nor are they likely to at any club ? "

Im sure most couples dont use condoms together.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"We always bareback with each other in clubs no one has ever asked if we are a couple and nor are they likely to at any club ?

Im sure most couples dont use condoms together. "

Omg, I thought everyone missed that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe clubs have a responsibility to promote safe sex and they do so by ensuring condoms are available (well every club I have been in). Some even have nights where sexual health testing is available. Beyond this it is up to the individual to choose. How can clubs police bareback activity, it would be impossible and also intrusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swing Clubs promote safe sex, I think it in licence, sex clubs are very rigid about it, certain times certain rooms tho lol

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Casual Unprotected sex is rampant amongst young strangers at the weekends in the vanilla world, me an the wife were both young and single once and we can testify to this first hand lol

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

The clubs can promote safe sex but they can't enforce it.

We can though.

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By *ixen FireCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It would be very hard to force we are a self-confessed bareback couple we don't like condoms as my partner is allergic however we try to be as careful as we can normally we select guys that we have been chatting to for days or weeks to meet us at clubs or we go for guys that carry condoms with them but we feel they would be the guys that we feel safe to get carried away with, We have adopted a process where we get tested every month as which most people I know in this scene who play bareback at clubs do also

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"It would be very hard to force we are a self-confessed bareback couple we don't like condoms as my partner is allergic however we try to be as careful as we can normally we select guys that we have been chatting to for days or weeks to meet us at clubs or we go for guys that carry condoms with them but we feel they would be the guys that we feel safe to get carried away with, We have adopted a process where we get tested every month as which most people I know in this scene who play bareback at clubs do also"

Latex free condoms tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swing Clubs promote safe sex, I think it in licence, sex clubs are very rigid about it, certain times certain rooms tho lol"
above providing condoms that's and some having clinics available.. never been to a club thays rigid about it.

I'm allergic to condoms and a lot of lube used in them. So just take my own latex free and ones we know im okay with. Does make it awkward at a party as I need everyone too use latex free as just having worn one can affect me

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

OP never been at a club that did anything other than recommend safe sex.

Your health is important to them but they can't reasonably tell consenting adults what to do in the context of a adult members club.

Lots of people play bareback in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once got yelled at by a club owner because he THOUGHT I had played B.B. I hadn’t and don’t. But what the hell had it to do with him .....never set foot in the place again....

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

"I once got yelled at by a club owner because he THOUGHT I had played B.B. I hadn’t and don’t. But what the hell had it to do with him .....never set foot in the place again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't do bareback in a club, especially when you look at the state of many of the women you see in them

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Not for me in clubs and I would consider not playing with someone if they were playing bb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.

It could work?

If your doing this cani come watch

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Not for me in clubs and I would consider not playing with someone if they were playing bb"

You see bareback a lot in clubs, but much will be between couples rather than with meets.

Not all want to do full swap, so just because there are several people, it doesn't mean they are having unprotected sex with a stranger... Even if they are, that's their business not mine.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.

It could work?

Hilarious

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.

It could work?

Do you make house calls too?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"Not for me in clubs and I would consider not playing with someone if they were playing bb

You see bareback a lot in clubs, but much will be between couples rather than with meets.

Not all want to do full swap, so just because there are several people, it doesn't mean they are having unprotected sex with a stranger... Even if they are, that's their business not mine.

Nita"

Sorry I mean swapping bb just to clarify

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By *oulman1966Man
over a year ago

London

"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.

It could work?

I'm not complaining about it. I intend to help fill her up

Thanks for helping to advertise the event...oh...wait a minute...

Thank heavens for the local clap clinic is all i can say......."
if it was only clap we had to worry about that would be bad and not too bad, why would anyone play Russian roulette with their lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"someone is advertising a bareback meeting in a club. she wants to be filled up.

would the club be aware of this and would they be ok with it?"

If the people involved consent to it then let them. If you don't consent to it then wear a condom. Simple.

The club has absolutely zero say in the activities between consenting adults. Their duty of care is covered as long as there are condoms provided.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"if it was only clap we had to worry about that would be bad and not too bad, why would anyone play Russian roulette with their lives

That must be something of a record.

I've never seen a bb thread last this long without some 'sense of perspective' challenged person mentioning russian roulette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is quite common in clubs.... I have had quite a few bareback meets with both guys and girls....only way to play for me

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By *azandjazCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"We do bare back in clubs. Never been stopped yet

Same for us. "

Nothing feels better, especially with strangers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do bare back in clubs. Never been stopped yet

Naughty

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"It is quite common in clubs.... I have had quite a few bareback meets with both guys and girls....only way to play for me

Not for us but I salute anyone prepared to be honest about this and let others choose if they want to play with you

I am however wondering what your secret is - it sounds a bit creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is quite common in clubs.... I have had quite a few bareback meets with both guys and girls....only way to play for me

Not for us but I salute anyone prepared to be honest about this and let others choose if they want to play with you

I am however wondering what your secret is - it sounds a bit creepy

Creepy? It is something I share if a meet is on the cards

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"It is quite common in clubs.... I have had quite a few bareback meets with both guys and girls....only way to play for me

Not for us but I salute anyone prepared to be honest about this and let others choose if they want to play with you

I am however wondering what your secret is - it sounds a bit creepy

Creepy? It is something I share if a meet is on the cards"

Yes bordering on sinister. Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is quite common in clubs.... I have had quite a few bareback meets with both guys and girls....only way to play for me

Not for us but I salute anyone prepared to be honest about this and let others choose if they want to play with you

I am however wondering what your secret is - it sounds a bit creepy

Creepy? It is something I share if a meet is on the cards

Yes bordering on sinister. Just my opinion

Yes, opinions are just that.....

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

don't be daft don't be silly ware a condom on your Willy ....

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"if it was only clap we had to worry about that would be bad and not too bad, why would anyone play Russian roulette with their lives

That must be something of a record.

I've never seen a bb thread last this long without some 'sense of perspective' challenged person mentioning russiarn roulette."

As someone else has pointed out, the Russian roulette is an incredibly bad analogy. That gives you a one in six chance of certain death.

If you are a man and have vaginal sex with someone who is hiv positive your chances of infection are 0.04%. If you are a woman having vaginal sex with an infected man it's 0.08. The number of adults in the UK with hiv is 0.16%.

Thus, in theory. Your chances of getting hiv in a random bareback encounter are around 0.01%.

Obviously, it's also the case that your odds will significantly increase if you keep doing bareback, but the risks of getting hiv will still be very low.

A better analogy would be crossing a deserted road in the Scottish Highlands without looking both ways. It's possible a car may come speeding round the corner and hit you, but it's very unlikely. The more times you do it, the more likely it becomes, but it remains unlikely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.

It could work?

I'm not complaining about it. I intend to help fill her up

Thanks for helping to advertise the event...oh...wait a minute...

Thank heavens for the local clap clinic is all i can say.......if it was only clap we had to worry about that would be bad and not too bad, why would anyone play Russian roulette with their lives

Ah the classic line of russian roulette! Cannot have a BB post without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone wants to have BB in a club thats up to them and their decision.

I cant see a club policing it as we are all "adults" and consenting and lets be honest it goes on not like it doesnt

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"don't be daft don't be silly ware a condom on your Willy ...."

What? I’ve been taking taking 2 condoms with a glass of water 15-20 minutes before sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"don't be daft don't be silly ware a condom on your Willy ....

What? I’ve been taking taking 2 condoms with a glass of water 15-20 minutes before sex! "

make it 3 glasses

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"don't be daft don't be silly ware a condom on your Willy ....

What? I’ve been taking taking 2 condoms with a glass of water 15-20 minutes before sex!

make it 3 glasses

Then I'm protected from everything? I mean come on, think people. Why would they make them flavoured if you're meant to put them on your Willy?

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By *ixen FireCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It’s a hard thing to police for any club we have never been stopped or questioned and we reg play bare with guys we know at various clubs

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By *addysdadCouple
over a year ago

southern Cumbria

"We do bare back in clubs. Never been stopped yet

Same for us.

Nothing feels better, especially with strangers...."

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By *r an Mrs xMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Biggest spreader of gonnareah is a blow job. Don’t see many condom bjs in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not likely to end up at a club any time soon but if we did could only see us wanting to play bareback

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

"Biggest spreader of gonnareah is a blow job. Don’t see many condom bjs in clubs. "

What about going down on a woman without protection? Just a thought, take it us guys can catch some std's with such acts also.

Does anyone know stats etc on this?

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By *urboTongue21Man
over a year ago

Walsall

One thing confuses me...if clubs promote safe sex why charge people for condoms as many do now?

Surely the profit motive shouldn't enter into a sexual health debate?

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By *ilfyboobsandfanCouple
over a year ago

Bath

Which tend to be the pro bareback clubs?

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By *oulman1966Man
over a year ago

London

"Biggest spreader of gonnareah is a blow job. Don’t see many condom bjs in clubs.

What about going down on a woman without protection? Just a thought, take it us guys can catch some std's with such acts also.

Does anyone know stats etc on this? "
just read up on the stats it doesn't say what the percentage are but the common ones you are likely to get are syphilis, gonorrhoea and genital herpes, that's all it said not saying you cannot catch anything else but those are the most common .

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By *oulman1966Man
over a year ago

London

"don't be daft don't be silly ware a condom on your Willy ...."

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

What a reckless and inept attitude

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By *ixen FireCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Well well carry on with our reckless attitide in our own way we like bb sex and will fuck at club for ever more

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

"One thing confuses me...if clubs promote safe sex why charge people for condoms as many do now?

Surely the profit motive shouldn't enter into a sexual health debate?"

Because they were being supplied by nhs free of charge to some clubs and now they are no longer so the club can no longer offer them free of charge. Take responsibility for your own sex-life I say and bring your own!

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By *aughtynice23Couple
over a year ago

South West

It's not feasible for clubs to police this. We do play with others at clubs (always protected), but we also play with each other in playrooms, and obviously we don't need protection then. But how would a casual observer know this?

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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

All clubs promote safe sex. Stupid not to. But they can’t enforce it as it’s personal choice. I prefer bare. But I’d never force anyone to go bare with me. I respect their wishes just as much as I expect mine if I don’t want fisting or something.

But. If you dare to bare, at least get tested regularly. For your own peace of mind at least.

We used to be regular club goers. No one asked us to go bare. They just assumed condoms were expected. And I liked that. No pressure. Most people are responsible and respectful. It’s just personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not feasible for clubs to police this. We do play with others at clubs (always protected), but we also play with each other in playrooms, and obviously we don't need protection then. But how would a casual observer know this?"

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Can catch STD with condom on. TRICHONOMYS for one.. Spelt it wrong

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Several years ago I got chewed out by the hostess at a local club for having BB sex with 2 guys. Later on turned on that one of the blokes was her lover and she flipped out. Stopped going to clubs after that I only go to house parties. I am told things have changed but clubs WERE dumping their sense of morality on others. Reality is consenting adults should do what they want at sex clubs it's no body's business (as long as legal)"

Her problem not yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Madness, sheer madness. Some people just seem to be hell bent on self destruction. Is the thrill of having bare back sex worth the possibility of contracting an STI or HIV , surely not ? Don't people think or care for that matter of the fallout ie death , pain of bereavement and financial hardship to loved ones including children omfg unbelievable. This is EXACTLY why we would NEVER take anyone's word that the are still or HIV free.

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By *jjj2Couple
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Should couples who wish to play in clubs with others use a condom when playing with each other prior to other contact. Just wondering what everyone prefers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is that relevant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are talking safe sex here so regardless of whether they use condoms or not together then they will be using condoms with swinging partners so why on earth does it matter whether they do or don't use condoms when having sex as a couple? ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stunning photos you two...good to hear you enjoy bareback...which clubs do you go to please?

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

"Should couples who wish to play in clubs with others use a condom when playing with each other prior to other contact. Just wondering what everyone prefers."

I don't really want to play with women who have played bare with men earlier that evening, including their partners. I don't want someone else's jizz on me really. Out of politeness my partner and I always use condoms at clubs, even if we don't at home. Plus it's just less messy afterwards and keeps he club more hygienic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should couples who wish to play in clubs with others use a condom when playing with each other prior to other contact. Just wondering what everyone prefers.

We have never( nor would we ) used condoms together in a club and never once had anyone have an issue... but then we mostly play with like minded people and that for us means other women that love to get facials or swap cum with our mouths. We tend to not finish each other off till we are ready to leave though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What people do in a club is amongst consenting adults and not breaking any club rules.

Bareback goes on have seen it plenty of times at clubs where people have swapped partners and barebacked each other.

What people do is their personal preference not for anyone to criticise.

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By *roticaCouple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

We go bareback as a couple but never with anyone else. Only been to a club a couple of times and on my first visit a chap tried to shove his unprotected willy inside me while my back was turned. What was interesting was the reaction of the other single chaps. They were cross with the chap and pulled him off saying it was not right! They checked i was ok and alienated the chap for the rest of the night. So maybe there are unwritten rules and morals in clubs!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"someone is advertising a bareback meeting in a club. she wants to be filled up.

would the club be aware of this and would they be ok with it?"

So back to the original post.. I'm sure the club is aware of it, all they can do is promote safe sex they can't enforce it between consenting adults. So all the Russian Roulette type posts on here are totally unnecessary, it comes down to personal choice between the people involved. It's not for us to judge as this is going off topic.

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By *oup dragonMan
over a year ago

newport

Love the idea of my gf being fucked and filled with cum but it's not safe so condom it is........

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