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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,

We are interested in going to a club for the first time but not really sure how it all works! Plus kind of feel having someone to show us around would be good. I mean is it really full on? What does one wear? Etc etc? Do you drink there ? I have no idea but looking to expand our swinging horizon lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

We are interested in going to a club for the first time but not really sure how it all works! Plus kind of feel having someone to show us around would be good. I mean is it really full on? What does one wear? Etc etc? Do you drink there ? I have no idea but looking to expand our swinging horizon lol x"

The clubs website will give you an idea of the dress code and whether you can buy or take alcoholic drinks or not.

Each club I have been to I have found welcoming and very friendly. No pressure and only as “full on” as you want it to be.

Hope that helps

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By *andrewMan
over a year ago

GUILDFORD

Hello In most clubs there are people to show you around and there should be no pressure to play as you should feel comfortable in whatever you wish to do or not as is the case. Maybe look up Pleasures which is in North Kent.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Hi,

We are interested in going to a club for the first time but not really sure how it all works! Plus kind of feel having someone to show us around would be good. I mean is it really full on? What does one wear? Etc etc? Do you drink there ? I have no idea but looking to expand our swinging horizon lol x"

Just take a look at their website for dress code as clubs all have their own.

We prefer sauna based so everyone is on an equal footing (i.e men in shorts or just a towel, ladies in lingerie, dress up or a towel.

Just be yourself and you will be fine.

First time can be a little daunting but after a few visits you will love it.

Check the clubs sites for the night on which you plan to attend as they tend to have a calendar (Mondays Bi-night etc).

Most importantly, enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are going to our first club on Saturday it's a newbie night so that will help I hope I've looked at a few and most will give you ideas on what to wear and if they have a bar or bring your own drinks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with what the others have said. Do some research first. You would probably benefit from reading people's reviews about the club you wish to try. That way you will get a feel ifs the right sort of club you are looking for.

Most clubs will have staff to show you around.

My advice is go at your own pace too, don't feel pressured into anything you are not comfortable with. Go a couple of times get the feel of the surroundings before playing.

Wish you luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same boat here...never been to a club, would ideally like a hot tub and sauna environment to help relax...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm guessing no one wants to show us around

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By *heRealHousewivesofEurekaCouple
over a year ago

dartford

Hey if you fancy trying Eureka ask for me Kels when you arrive and I’ll happily show you around and introduce you to others. Eureka is a relaxed atmosphere, ladies in Club wear or lingerie, gents smart casual. Bring own drinks too x you’ll need ID on first visit x

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By *eepSatisfactionMan
over a year ago

milton keynes

You’re quite far south lol

However more than happy to show you london and midlands

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha xx might have to take you up on that offer x

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