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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone,

We really really really want to go to a club near us but it’s our first time and we are a little shy...... can you help us calm our curiosities and help get us even more excited? Can we ask if you could give yourself one piece of advice the first you went to a club what would it be?

Much love to you all ??

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Don't have to much to drink!

Chat to people and relax

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Chameleons becoming our favourite highly recommend for first visit. Staff are so friendly and we find the vibe and people just great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't have to much to drink!

Chat to people and relax "

spot on advice.try and chat to any random person as soon as you can and it will help you relax very quickly.would reccomend chams as its such a friendly club but if the niteclub feel is more to your liking then try xtasia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found chatting to people who are going on here before you go seemed to work really well. And just relax and enjoybthe fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't have to much to drink!

Chat to people and relax

spot on advice.try and chat to any random person as soon as you can and it will help you relax very quickly.would reccomend chams as its such a friendly club but if the niteclub feel is more to your liking then try xtasia"

+1 for Xtasia, great place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with Fipeter definitely Chameleons for your first club visit. It's friendly clean and has a relaxed atmosphere.

Don't go with expectations, just treat it like a normal club evening. Relax and mingle and just enjoy the experience. Don't do anything that you are uncomfortable with.

Have fun

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By *lub Rouge ManchesterCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Before you decide which club to visit, do your research first. Have a look at the club reviews section. Not just the actual reviews but at the people that put them on. Are they the sort of people you are interested in meeting, their age, sexual preference and their kinks. This will give you a slight idea of the people that visit.

Then just follow your own boundaries and do as little or as much as you want.

Mostly though, relax, chat to people and enjoy yourself x

Hope you have a great time xx

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By *havenpussycatsCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

We used to love the butterflies from going to a Club for the first time, like everything - they fade with experience. Just remember you are doing something amazing that most people wouldn’t have the courage to do! We chose a classy club, and couples only night to begin (Vanilla Alternative) as we wanted first experience to be a very positive one. Most of the time at clubs we just play with each other and enjoy the energy and sights around us. If you do it right it should be both a rush and make you feel more confident. Every club visit has been different. Happy swinging

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We are quite a way away from you but if you ever find the time our club is well worth the visit. Especially for our massive new hot tub

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury


"We used to love the butterflies from going to a Club for the first time, like everything - they fade with experience. Just remember you are doing something amazing that most people wouldn’t have the courage to do! We chose a classy club, and couples only night to begin (Vanilla Alternative) as we wanted first experience to be a very positive one. Most of the time at clubs we just play with each other and enjoy the energy and sights around us. If you do it right it should be both a rush and make you feel more confident. Every club visit has been different. Happy swinging "

Couldn't agree more. We had our first club visit on Saturday night at the Vanilla Alternative. Couldn't have been a better night. We've already booked a return visit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most important thing is to make the effort to say hello and chat to people. Everyone will be friendly I'm sure

The amount of times that you hear people saying that they felt a bit left out etc, was because they chose to sit in a corner quietly and kept themselves to themselves. As people are generally very respectful and non-pushy, they tend to give such people a wide berth because they think they want to be on their own.

Just treat it like any other night together, have s fun social evening and if anything else happens it's a bonus!

Have a great night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

We really really really want to go to a club near us but it’s our first time and we are a little shy...... can you help us calm our curiosities and help get us even more excited? Can we ask if you could give yourself one piece of advice the first you went to a club what would it be?

Much love to you all ??

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We were just about to post a very similar question....then found this

We are happy to travel (although it means it will need planning in advance) and we thought it would be nice to chat to people on here who would also be going once we've decided on a club. Chameleons sounds good

Let us know once you've decided/been xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found people difficult to talk to when we went to chameleon s a couple of months ago for our first club visit

Most in groups already and not friendly to newbies!!

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By *arkDesiresPartiesCouple
over a year ago

London

Obviously I'm biased, but I think Liberty elite on a Dark Desires night! Friendly crowd, great music and food. Just feels like a good party!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is liberty elite please?

We are in Cardiff

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By *lackitncoCouple
over a year ago

brownhills

Try a newbie night

We r going to our second on the 4th at jaydees and if it’s as great as townhouse was should be awesome for New starters

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By *arkDesiresPartiesCouple
over a year ago

London


"Where is liberty elite please?

We are in Cardiff "

Liberty elite is Lutterworth.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Where is liberty elite please?

We are in Cardiff

Liberty elite is Lutterworth. Love Libs xx "

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

My advice would be to mingle as much as possible. Most people will be friendly and approachable. Good luck to you both

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By *haredMan
over a year ago

Southminster

The first club we ever visited was Vanilla Alternative about a year ago now. We were certainly apprehensive but it was fine. Most people are frenzy and the staff put you at ease, do not forget you do not have to do anything, just have a social drink comminicate and relax. Every night is different it's just another social event but with a bit more fun.

Enjoy

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By *haredMan
over a year ago

Southminster

Friendly not frenzy. Sorry should have read it first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone ??

Great advice from all of you..... just need to organise a babysitter now hehehe xx

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By *osmicplusMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Go and relax, drop any preconceived ideas you may have...enjoy the butterflies when you're getting changed and don't forget to smile

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By *VK_RugbyCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Try Liberty Elite, very friendly, sociable and great for a first time club visit.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

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