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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've recently sampled a club (Atlantis Stoke) and it was a great night. I will go back but I want to sample a few other places too.

Now when I was in Atlantis I was told about a couple other clubs and their etiquette (namely you strip off and walk around). Now this is different to my last visit to a clue and for someone relatively new to the scene can be quite daunting.

Any tips or general advice? Where do you prefer to go?

I've learnt the best thing is to try and not be shy and mi glen and that put me in good stead bit I was in the comfort of my own clothes before!

Thank all

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I prefer dress down clubs, as I find some clubs where you can be fully clothed in the playrooms a bit seedy when you see guys just drop their pants. Women tend to dress sexier anyway even in clothes so I feel dress down puts everyone on an even keel.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Love Atlantis it's a great club just saying lol

But I guess if you want to keep your clothes on Xtasia would be your best bet If you don't want to travel to far, this is also a great club but don't be put off with the no clothes thing there are all kinds of body types in there so nothing to be scared of.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer dress down clubs, as I find some clubs where you can be fully clothed in the playrooms a bit seedy when you see guys just drop their pants. Women tend to dress sexier anyway even in clothes so I feel dress down puts everyone on an even keel."

That's interesting to know! I've only seen it from the other side and I found it comfortable to sit at the bar and mingle downstairs with my normal clothes. I see your point though I could imagine it would feel seedy for a lady to be dressed up and chatting to a guy like that.

I suppose it's out of the norm for me. I just need do it and not worry about being judged.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Xtasia is on my list! I just need to go for it I think. It can be daunting as a single bloke though let alone expensive.

Paying for the experience and not being comfortable on your own could be off putting.

Have to agree I really enjoyed Atlantis!

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Xtasia is on my list! I just need to go for it I think. It can be daunting as a single bloke though let alone expensive.

Paying for the experience and not being comfortable on your own could be off putting.

Have to agree I really enjoyed Atlantis!"

Find another single guy who is uncomfortable to go on his own to go with.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"So I've recently sampled a club (Atlantis Stoke) and it was a great night. I will go back but I want to sample a few other places too.

Now when I was in Atlantis I was told about a couple other clubs and their etiquette (namely you strip off and walk around). Now this is different to my last visit to a clue and for someone relatively new to the scene can be quite daunting.

Any tips or general advice? Where do you prefer to go?

I've learnt the best thing is to try and not be shy and mi glen and that put me in good stead bit I was in the comfort of my own clothes before!

Thank all"

We went to Cupids several years ago. It was our first club as a couple (Gavin had been to dress-up clubs with a previous partner before we met) and we were terrified!

Once we got there and changed into a towel, we relaxed straight away. It puts everyone in an even footing and it’s easier to tell if you find someone sexually attractive if you’re already all naked

A few hours later Stacey was having her first girl/girl experience...

We’d say go for it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all! I'm going g try find myself a buddy to go along with. Just need to decide where is first on my hit list!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chameleons is a good dress down club and so is Cupids we’ve been to both, Atlantis is a good club small enough for people to mingle and get chatting and big enough for playing. At a dress down club everyone is on the same level in dress sense so help everyone to relax you some of the lady wear sexy underwear and look stunning but most wear a towel. We’ve been in the old adventures club and a guy just stripped naked he couldn’t get why people wanted to be dressed which was funny has he was the only one naked but guess he got plenty of attention. Go with what you want to be a dress down club is well worth a visit and then you can decide which you like the most. Xx

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Been to one club. Cupids. Walking round in just a towel was the most liberating feeling of my life.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

To clarify, you don't strip off at a dress down club. Men wear a towel or boxers. Ladies wear skimpy / sexy outfits.

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