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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been invited to go to quest with a friend of mine but she wants to go as singles as she would like to go off with her other 'friends' she has haha. Would a single lad get much attention/action? I'm definitely looking forward as it's my first time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are sociable and can hold a conversation about the usual topics (weather, holidays, clubs you have visited, swinging preferences and experiences) with appropriate eye contact and a sense of humour then you stand a good chance chance of finding some like-minded people to play with. Quest is a friendly club with a sexy atmosphere, we have met some lovely people there

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Been invited to go to quest with a friend of mine but she wants to go as singles as she would like to go off with her other 'friends' she has haha. Would a single lad get much attention/action? I'm definitely looking forward as it's my first time! "

So long as you can hold a conversation and it's not always about sex you should be fine. I'd advise against the walking around the rooms to wank, few find that attractive. Be ready for rejection, not all want to play with men and some will but not you. For example we went to a club last week and chatted to several couples we were not to all their tastes and not all of them were to ours, but chatting for a bit to each of them was interesting and far more desirable than sitting around quietly on our own waiting for something to happen.

You will have an advantage over most single men in that you know someone already so it may help open up conversations with others.

We go with expectations that it could be a night were nothing happens, but hope something will.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers guys

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By *r n mrs swingCouple
over a year ago

pontefract

We only look for single guys but they rarely approach us at quest x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We only look for single guys but they rarely approach us at quest x"

Well if I go, I'll let you know. Would love to get to know some couples

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By *r n mrs swingCouple
over a year ago

pontefract

We are going tonight after Mrs finished work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play with single guys at club,if a guy will have a laugh and talk then il play.i hate blokes that just stand there wanking giving a stare....or never speak at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I play with single guys at club,if a guy will have a laugh and talk then il play.i hate blokes that just stand there wanking giving a stare....or never speak at all."

That's a terrible trait that some guys have. Even worse when it's the window cleaner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi guys do you have to be invited to go to quest

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Hi guys do you have to be invited to go to quest

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No but but it's worth checking before you go as a few months back as a guy had turned up on the night and they had stopped taking new single guy members as they were at maximum.

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By *r n mrs swingCouple
over a year ago

pontefract

No u just go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *r n mrs swingCouple
over a year ago

pontefract

Any single guys going tonight X

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Anyone going this coming week, during the day, now that the schools are going back?

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We are going tonight.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60Quid for a single man to visit.....so it's a no on this occasion I won't be taking an adventure .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just come back from quest,was fun.its not 60 pound lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am off on tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

I'm a single male and had plenty of fun, as mentioned by someone else, don't just expect something to happen.

There's some great people there and sometimes things just take time to develop

Good luck on your quest at quest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've invited single guys to join us in Quest before.

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By *amesYork17Man
over a year ago

York

Anyone going next Tuesday afternoon? Would be great to meet some new people, if only for a chat.

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By *maxMan
over a year ago

bolton

Is quest open sunday daytimes

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By *oDaveQuestSwingCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Quest is open every Sunday from 2pm to midnight.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is quest open sunday daytimes "

Yes. New Sunday opening times 2pm to midnight.

Sally

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By *maxMan
over a year ago

bolton

Thanks guys .do you need to be a member if your coming along for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I play with single guys at club,if a guy will have a laugh and talk then il play.i hate blokes that just stand there wanking giving a stare....or never speak at all.

That's a terrible trait that some guys have. Even worse when it's the window cleaner "

Haha.. "wanking zombies"

I have never been to a swinger's club before. Gonna give quest a try as it is local. Not even fussed about getting any action for my first visit. May do a normal couples and singles night.

I am sociable and chatty.. if anyone sees a slim guy, five foot 7 ish with short, dark blonde hair, wearing the suit and shirt in my profile pic, please come and say hi. I would love to chat and maybe get a few verifications to say we have met and I am real xxx

Oh and I won't be wearing stockings or panties under my suit. Will save that for a more appropriate night.

Nick xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quest is a great club,i went yesterday afternoon...and going on sunday at 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was there last Sunday from 3 pm. Very great friendly club. The best in the north east I would say. I travel a hour to get there very worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Geographically it's YORKSHIRE!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Op, Quest does alternate Saturdays for couples and mixed.

If you go on a couples night and end up as a single guy, I think it would be 'awkward'. I think the club would insist on a couple membership too.

If it's a mixed night, you'll be fine and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only look for single guys but they rarely approach us at quest x"
we find this also

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

To be fair it's probably a lot hard for single guys to approach a couple rather than visa versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority are couples seeking couples or the ultimate unicorn ...

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By *amesYork17Man
over a year ago

York


"To be fair it's probably a lot hard for single guys to approach a couple rather than visa versa.

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This!!

It's often hard to tell which couples are open to approaches. A simple bit of eye contact and a smile and I'll come and say hi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair it's probably a lot hard for single guys to approach a couple rather than visa versa.

This!!

It's often hard to tell which couples are open to approaches. A simple bit of eye contact and a smile and I'll come and say hi! "
will keep that tip in mind we are relatively new to this so we're also a little too shy in our approach sometimes

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"To be fair it's probably a lot hard for single guys to approach a couple rather than visa versa.

This!!

It's often hard to tell which couples are open to approaches. A simple bit of eye contact and a smile and I'll come and say hi! will keep that tip in mind we are relatively new to this so we're also a little too shy in our approach sometimes "

I think lots of people couples and singles tend to be shy or nervous about rejection. We always tend to be the ones who try to engage, but it's not easy.

On reflection though we've never had an experience when someone has been rude or annoyed that we made an approach, even if we didn't end up playing together.

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