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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone

I'm single and was wondering what your thoughts were on whether I should visit a club. Would I feel welcome or do people not like single guys attending?

What should I expect from the visit and does anyone have any advice?

I think this is the best way for me to get some verifications and so that people know I'm genuine. I really want to have fun here but need to get things moving.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

There is a York social Friday 8th September. Why not go along to that and get some verifications?

Sally

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There are now two clubs in Leeds; Quest and Pandora. They both have nights where single men are welcome, and nights where single men are not welcome. If you check out their websites you'll see which nights to avoid. Also, I believe Quest are turning single men away on busier nights if they don't have memberships. Ring them up before committing yourself.

As for your question, IF you can get into the club, single men are more than welcome. I only play with single men, in meets or at clubs, and if I was still meeting, you would be just the kind of guy I would be attracted to.

I do recommend you attend a social, and there is a York one soon, but I also recommend you go to a club, as they are excellent fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for the advice. I think I will attend a social so that I can get to know people and take it from there.

Very flattered by your comment about me being the kind of guy you'd meet, that's awesome!

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Hi everyone

I'm single and was wondering what your thoughts were on whether I should visit a club. Would I feel welcome or do people not like single guys attending?

What should I expect from the visit and does anyone have any advice?

I think this is the best way for me to get some verifications and so that people know I'm genuine. I really want to have fun here but need to get things moving. "

For obvious reasons price wise most clubs aren't that single men friendly.

But in most other ways they are just like any normal clubs, just behave as you do there and you'll be fine.

If all your after is verifications then as others have suggested go to a social organised on this site.

As there's no guarantee that the people you meet at the club are likely to be on here, unless you go to one of the organised events from here.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am a single guy that goes to clubs often

First things they are great places to meet people and chat

Last night I was chatting with a couple about football. Then I was in the jacuzzi when the lady was getting fingered by her partner when chatting about how she likes women to be women and men to be men

I would say as advice if you are lucky to watch or play with anyone say thank you and that you enjoyed watching - it goes a long way

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By *itreMan
over a year ago

killarney

What are the views regarding more mature guy, I am in my late fifties. Love cupids, and have always felt welcome.. Not so in a couple of other clubs I went to. May i add, I would know the etiquette and am never pushy. I realize it is a privileged place for a single guy.

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